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Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Woman Battered By Own Husband


Wonders they say never ends. Someone sent in this pic to a blogger and said the woman was wheeled this afternoon into Ikeja General Hospital, after she was beaten up by her husband. But when will the law rise to defend women? When will these laws be carried out and not just written in black and white. Just like most husbands, her husband might likely get away with this. If only these men are sent to jail after their inhuman acts, won’t they think twice before laying a finger on their wives another time? We are still far behind in this country.


48 comments:

  1. At the viewers discretion! This is so terrible!!

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  2. *sighs* Rape and domestic violence... why r some Nigerian men animals for goodness sake.. o ti sun mi mehn

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  3. heard she is now in a coma.....and they have 1 child

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  4. Why can't Nigerian women DIVORCE their husbands?

    You don't have to be fucking married.

    Nigerian women need to stop acting as if Marriage is the Elixir of Life or something.

    Fucking divorce a man that beats you.

    Divorce a man that cheats on you.

    You DO NOT NEED to be married.

    You just WANT to be married.

    Your life is ALWAYS MORE IMPORTANT than any man, any church, any mosque, any religion, or any bloody Nigerian society.

    So now that this woman's face has been destroyed is her title of "MRS" coming to perform plastic surgery to restore her face?

    I didn't think so.

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  5. the man is crazy no matter what she most have done please will this man let another man do this to his sister

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  6. Have u asked what really transpired? She might did what was worse dan what we're seen...anyway dis is unfair 2 human kind..

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  7. Paents have a lot of roles to play in the way they nurture their male children into adult.
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    There's something wrong with the way boys r being trained in Nigeria.
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    Violence against women have become endemic in Nigeria. Cuts across ethnic, religious & social barriers.
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    Nigerian men are becoming increasingly 'Bestial', so much that the women are becoming endangered species.
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    It has become an EMERGENCY. Some needs to be done as a matter of URGENCY to protect our women

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  8. The wives never report the case to the authorities

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  9. eh ya thank u for giving us hope again cos seriously am so scared.am happy for you all(d ones dat av nt bn beaten) so happy.they wnt beat u in Jesus name.I grew up with it,ma dad used to batter my mum n he stopped d day i told him i will never marry so no man will beat me like dis.dis woman's face reminds me of my mom's face then.ma dad stopped yea but ma aunty's husband continued from where ma dad stopped.it was so bad dat every month i will see one or two ladies beaten by their husbands so i started dating a guy we av bn dating for 6yrs and he proposed on val's day dis year and we picked a wedding date for may 18 and 19 dis year.hmmmm just last week dis guy slapped me 2ce for d 1st time in 6years.pls ask me if i killed his mum or cut his willy.i was pinging actually chatting with a customer and he told me to see kim kardashian's dress.i was engrossed describing a shoe dat i didnt hear and the scene was changed so i didnt see d dress.shikena he slapped me 2ce.i swear to God d wedding is called off,pple r saying bla bla bla bt omo me av made up my mind.just slap and i saw stars of different colours,if he shld treat me like dis woman.i will definitely die now tell me why i shld go on with this marriage.hell to the no.he hasnt evn apologised.after slapping me,he broke my phone.God will help all of us.I hope to find another man if God wants and if not toh make i still dey rock ma life.after all no be only marriage i come to dis life to do.this is just for ladies pls once beaten(in dis case) run run run he will do it again

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    1. My dear sister, thank GOD for your life that you havent signed the dotted lines. He would have done more than that.

      Pls, dnt go ahead with the wedding even if his entire lineage come to beg you. A broken relationship is better than a being in a marriage where you are emotional and physical abused.


      I think the guy's foundation that is his upbringing and the people he moves with has a lot to do with his perspective to life, relationship etc.

      From your narration, I can tell you engage in chatting a lot and maybe this guy is someone who likes to have attention to himself. So your pinging at that time kind of irritated him and his own way of getting your attention and letting you know his annoyance was to hit you across the cheeks and destroy your phone, which was very bad.

      Since you said he hasn't apologised, I think this guy is one guy who thinks he his doing you a 'huge favour' by marrying you and feels you will be the one to beg him afterall not minding what he has done.

      PS: what is your family's take on this issue?

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  10. not dis aftn Ladun.a friend of mine had dis pic on her dp throughout yestd n said d woman is her neighbour.i told her to give me d details cos ma dad is an human right activist but she said nooo dat its nt her business.i will try to find out d details sha.d guy is a beast and shld be castrated.i swear down.

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  11. Poor woman....
    You don't need to be a martyr for a man....When a misplaced blow to your head or solar plexus kills you, enough women are waiting to take your place. So don't die/kill yourself over anybody!

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  12. This is really sad..... Her brothers or cousins shd beat this bastard ENOUGH!!!!

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  13. Some men are cowards

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  14. What might have brought about this. Devilish man

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  15. I heard they have a child already. This man must not walk freely on the streets. He is an animal. He Goat, Ewu

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  16. I don't want to make any conclusion, I wasn't there when they started fighting. So I will just wait till I hear the story.

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    1. You are definitely a future wife beater if you need to hear the full story to know this is a FUCKING monster!! No matter what she said or did, nothing makes this ok... When you keep pummeling the woman you love, that shows there is something dark inside this man...

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  17. The man must be a boxer

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  18. I live in England and wish this donkey comes here and treats a woman this way

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  19. I live in England and wish this donkey comes here and treats a woman this way

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  20. Thank God she still made it to be alive

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  21. There are no laws guiding the woman, its only words of mouth

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  22. His intention was to damage her beauty

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  23. He must not go scot free, this is too much

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  24. All we hear every now and then is wife battering

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  25. Whatever the story, a man shouldn't do this to a woman. Pathetic!

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  26. Ladun's biggest fan29 March, 2012 10:41

    Anon 28 March, 2012 15:48; i left my ex because of the same thing. We were planning marriage and i walked out. My Dad never ever hit my Mum though so why should i be with a man who does.

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  27. Please Our young men should be given a proper training which hinges on God fearing,respect,love, humility.Things should not be by force. "EMPATHY" should be their watch word

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  28. He is not her husband. he just proved it

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  29. He must have planned it, the beating is outta this world. wtf

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  30. Anons am raising ma legs and arms and rolling on d floor contratulating u on dat big decision, AH thats how t starts now from 1 slap to 2, from 1 push to pushes and then BANG - u'll think na trailr jam u, pls let him go and find his match, i hope he finds a woman who wl return his 2 slaps wt 10 slaps and then he'll know how far, can u imagine - wl kardashian shoes pay ur bills? he needs to examine his medula oblongata (dont even know f d spelling s correct self) i dont vex

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  31. And tomorrow pple will wonder why single women dey fear marriage.

    TO MARRY NO BE THE END ALL BE ALL oh....

    Focus on improving yourself, your confidence, your self worth that way you will see clearly when a man comes your way. you will not only see what will speed up your race to the altar

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  32. He sliced her finger too,linda is getting it wrong its still the same person that was hit project alert is taking this up

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  33. He sliced her finger too,linda is getting it wrong its still the same person that was hit project alert is taking this up

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  34. He sliced her finger too,linda is getting it wrong its still the same person that was hit project alert is taking this up

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  35. He sliced her finger too,linda is getting it wrong its still the same person that was hit project alert is taking this up

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  36. He sliced her finger too,linda is getting it wrong its still the same person that was hit project alert is taking this up

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  37. He sliced her finger too,linda is getting it wrong its still the same person that was hit project alert is taking this up

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  38. Oh the same person whose finger was sliced. Someone said she slept with her husband's biz partner. Even then why go this far. Just throw her out.

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  39. He sliced her finger too,linda is getting it wrong its still the same person that was hit project alert is taking this up

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  40. We have heard o. Linda got it wrong.

    I was talking to a guy about this story and he was supporting the guy. He said the woman will never cheat on her husband again. I could not believe what an Oxford trained economist was saying. I asked what if the woman died. He just shrugged and said she should have left the marriage if she wanted to sleep with someone else rather than annoying the husband.

    Where do guys pick up such ideologies?

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  41. Pls guys, there's breaking news on this picure oh. Heard its a Honduran woman murdered in 2009 oh.

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  42. @anon 30 March, 2012 02:40 hmmm let me tell you they are the worst ones, that is the intelligent well trained exposed, best school going guys, because what they can do will be worse than kevin, the way they will kill you with emotional/mental abusive, manipulate you.

    it is all about how these guys have been brought up and their conscience, how much they fear GOD. they are insecure somewhere in their life and lack control somewhere and they will use their intelligence to gain that control no matter how. infact they can be so charming especially to the outside world. these human guys are known as psychopaths.

    i know what i am saying i have been a victim , and i know i will never be again as long as i have GOD and i have been through it once.

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  43. wooooooooooww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! somebody needs to teach dat bloke a lesson

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  44. na wa oooo,this is rili terrible....men beat women up n d chics even give excuses for the torture....a friend of mine has dis problem,shez only 20....i av said evrytin bt she still wont leave d boy dat she feeds,clothes and even houses in skl....i tire 4 d matter so i av given dem both space.....d boy wears special rings 2 slap her,who does dat??he even used a plank to hit ha back....she had puss comin out of ha ear.....i gave my bf serious warnin abt bin friends wit dis beast....av bin wit my baby for 7yrs n he has neva laid hez hands on mi....if he tries it,e don die b dat....

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