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Tuesday, September 25, 2012

My best friend is about to make the biggest mistake of her life- Regina

This is a very long story but I'll try to make it short. Pls readers pardon me if I make any errors I'm not the best writer in the world. Ok this is the story, my best friend met an igbo man in Abuja named Emeka*not his real name though* cause I don't want to reveal his identity.

She's 28years old and he's 32years old. They started dating 4years ago. Initially she didn't want to date him because she was worried he was going to be stingy because he's igbo but when she got to know him better she realised that he was in fact the opposite of stingy. She's from Edo state but lives in Abuja with her cousin working as a cashier in her cousin's saloon. Emeka is an America citizen by birth and he's been in America all his life until he moved back to Nigeria 6years ago to start up his own company. Click to continue reading.


 Emeka's parents weren't rich in fact according to him he had to do all kinds of part time jobs to see himself through school likewise his siblings and fortunately for him after he graduated and did his masters he got a very good job immediately and because he's very intelligent and hard working his boss liked him a lot and promoted him to a high position within a few years of working in the company.

Most of his colleagues were so jealous of him but Emeka had bigger dreams he wanted to be his own boss so he saved a lot of money and came back to Nigeria to start his company and fortunately his company is doing excellently well. I mean Emeka is super rich, he has branches in 3 majors cities in Nigeria with the headquarters in Abuja where he's based. He has up to 700 employees he treats his employees like family I guess it has to do with how he had to struggle to be where he is today and in my opinion I think he pays them well too at least I know for sure he pays his drivers 60k a month that means he pays the ones working in the office more.

Well the main gist is that because Emeka believes so much in education and wants the best for my friend he decided to send her and her two only brothers to school in America, there's no kind of names his friends didn't call for making that decision but he didn't care all that matters to him is her. He loves and worships my friend like she's his god on earth. When she and her brothers finally went to America to school they had the best of everything people thought their dad is a politician or works in an oil company because Emeka has a very lovely house in America and provided them with everything they wanted, gives them money a lot and refused to let them have a part time job because according to Emeka he didn't want anything to distract them from their studies.

And despite the fact that he's a very busy man he still manages to travel to America twice every month to see her and most weekends he travels with her out of America I mean for someone that didn't even have an international passport before she met him and has now been to over 25 countries I'm not even exaggerating I mean that's a lot of travelling but Emeka loves travelling so that explains why they travel that much and they only seat in front of the plane and lodge in the best hotels wherever they travel to.

Most times I tease her that she's living a celebrity life, Emeka loves to lavish money on her. Most of her stuffs are designers I mean the cheapest wrist watch she has is Guess. He spends so much money on her parents, gives them monthly allowance. Last year her mom was seriously ill and Emeka had to send her to America for treatment and even took my friend's father too because he wanted him to be there when she goes for her surgery. He paid for everything from visa,tickets,hospital bills including feeding for the 2months they stayed in his house.

Emeka is a perfect man and what amazes me about him is his humble nature for someone that has so much money. And to be honest every day I pray for my own miracle to meet someone like Emeka not exactly like Emeka because that will be asking for too much there can only be one Emeka and my friend is the luckiest girl in the world to have him.

He proposed to her on her last year birthday in Milan that's where he took her to for her birthday but he told her they'll only get married after her graduation and remembered vividly that day because she sent me a photo of the ring on BBM with a message I said yes and I was very happy for her not only did she have a handsome and tall man she also has a beautiful diamond ring and I told her I could only imagine how much the ring would have cost since Emeka only goes for the best.

My friend told me in March that she's been having an affair since January with a white man but she couldn't tell me all this while because she was worried I might not support her I was very surprise and disappointed not just in her but her mom because she told me her mom is aware of it and supports her. The thing is the white man is married with three kids but she claims that he has promised her that he's going to divorce his wife because their marriage isn't working out. Anyway I travelled to America last month for the first time to visit my sister because she just delivered beautiful twins even though I get to see my best friend every xmas because Emeka always pays for her and her brothers to come to Nigeria every xmas to celebrate it with their family and friends.

 I was still excited to see her in America she was always coming to visit me in my sister's place so I asked my sister if it was ok for me to go and spend like a week with her in her house and she was ok with me so my friend came to pick me up since I'm a JJC in town. I got to finally meet the white man when he came to visit her or should I say have sex with her in Emeka's house, the truth is the white man doesn't even know that she's engaged because according to her she only wears the ring whenever Emeka is around and she told the white man that her uncle owns the house and that he comes to America every two weeks and that he's very strict and wouldn't want any man to come and visit her in his house, so the white man accepted not to come whenever the uncle is around. I hated the white man the very first time I set my eyes on him when he left his drink downstairs and they both went upstairs to do whatever they went to do I wished I could poison it because for some reason I blamed him for what was happening and I had this feeling that something is going to go wrong.

Well after a week I went back to my sister's house and Emeka came to visit my friend as usually he even bought cloths and gave my sister money for her babies the day he followed my friend to visit us and even took me out with them for dinner before he went back to Nigeria he usually stays for just 4days whenever he visits. My friend came to pick me up that she wasn't feeling too well and wants me to accompany to the hospital but my sister is a nurse so the first question she asked her was if she has seen her period and my friend and I just looked at each other and started laughing because in the past we've often thought she was pregnant because my friend usually has an irregular period sometimes she only sees her period twice a year and my sister asked her why she hasn't gone to the hospital to find out what the problem was she said that she has discussed it with Emeka and he has promised to take her to see a doctor after their wedding but my sister with her busy body wouldn't just give up she called her colleague if she could help her carry some tests for her sister's friend and that was how my friend went to do the test and it was confirmed that she's 4months pregnant even though I know she has always had an irregular period but being pregnant for 4months without knowing was a bit strange to me.

But anyway I was happy for her and I told her Emeka would be so happy when he finds out and she just laughed like what I said was funny and she told me that the white man is the father of the baby and I asked her how come she's 100% sure about this and she told me that she stopped having sex with Emeka 5months ago because the white man promised her that as soon as he divorces his wife he'll marry her so she didn't want to cheat on the white man by sleeping with Emeka so she told Emeka that she wants to take a break from sex she said Emeka almost went mad with anger when she told him initially but since he always let her have her way in everything he has managed to be patient with her about it and I was surprised I mean how many guys would understand but then Emeka wasn't just like any other guy he was different. Sometimes I wonder if his a human being or an angel that God sent on a mission on earth. I mean how many guys would make such sacrifices Emeka has made for my friend without being married to her first, I don't know any guy that would take that risk especially not an igbo guy.

Well I asked her what she plans to do with the pregnancy and hope she's aware that this pregnancy is going to ruin her relationship with Emeka and she shocked me by saying she has always wanted to have mixed race children because they're fair and beautiful and that she would rather marry the white man because if she marries Emeka and he dies in the future that his family members will come and drag his money and properties with her but that will never happen if she marries the white man when he dies everything he has will be hers that God has answered her prayer. Well I asked her when she's going to tell the white man and she said he'll be coming over to visit her in 2days time and she would want me to be there when she tells him because he's going to pop champagne so I said ok I'll be there and she followed me back to my sister's house to spend the night there and the following day I followed her to her house in the evening and the white man came the next afternoon.

When he came inside the house she didn't even waste any time she told him she's carrying his baby and that she can't wait for him to hurry up with his divorce and marry her so they'll have a perfect family. The look on his face was out of this world, it was as if he saw the devil he was silent for a while and he finally spoke and told her that he doesn't want to have any more kids and that he can't force her to have an abortion but if she decides to keep the baby then he'll end the affair and will only pay for child support after he gets the DNA result of the child but he'll never for one day come to see her or the child. And the first word that came out of her silly mouth was that so white men do tell lies I thought they don't lie and she asked him why he told her he was going to marry her and he said because I never thought you will be so stupid to believe that I would divorce my wife to marry a black woman do u expect me to lose my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours and everything I've worked for all my life for sex don't u think that's too much of a sacrifice to make and he said I'll call u tomorrow to know what your decision is and he left.

She cried all day and called her mom to tell her everything that happened and her mom told her to keep the baby because this might be the only chance she has to have a baby and that she'll make sure that the white man changes his mind and that was how my friend managed to sleep that night and the next day the white man called her and she told him she has decided to keep the baby and he hanged up on her. It’s been a week since she told him about it and she hasn't seen or heard from him he doesn't pick her calls. And the annoying thing is that she doesn't even know where he lives.

Well Emeka is coming back soon and I'm leaving America next week but I've given her the only advice I can think of and that's she and brothers should start looking for a part time job so they can pay for their school fees and rent a small apartment to live because even though Emeka is an angel he will so throw them out of his house when he eventually finds out about her pregnancy. What still surprises me is that she has never talked about how Emeka will feel when he finds out. It’s like she doesn't even care about him. But I know she has made the biggest mistake of her life may God forgive her. But I really wish she'll change her mind and abort the pregnancy but on a second thought is it not going to be too risky for her to abort a 4month old pregnancy.

I really wish I was brave enough to tell Emeka about the white man just maybe he would have talked some sense into her he always have a way of having solutions to every problem but then I would have betrayed my best friend. I wish her brothers had told him about the white man because they knew about it from day one. I wish she never met the white man. I wish her mom advised her against dating the white man. Emeka doesn't deserve this betrayal. He even promised to give me a job in his company next year after my youth service but with the way things are right now I don't think I can face him every day knowing what my best friend did to him that's if he's even going to agree to employ me again after he finds out the truth. I'm sure he'll hate me too. He'll think we all planned it. Well I can't blame him I deserve it I should have damned the consequences and told him everything. Now it’s too late. What can he do to change what has happened.

I asked myself if it’s worth it her going to lose Emeka because of the baby it wasn't as if the white man was giving her money just gifts. Somehow I don't think she and her brothers will be able to continue with their education because the school fees for the 3 of them is just too expensive. And to think she has learnt her lesson hell no her plan right now is to find a small apartment to move out to before Emeka finds out and throws them out and after she delivers she'll start hustling for another white man that will continue from where Emeka stopped. I strongly believe that sooner or later she'll regret what she has done to Emeka and I pray God gives him a good wife that will truly love and cherish him like he deserves because he deserves to be happy and I also pray he gets over this heart break he's about to experience. Thank you if you decide to publish this story and also thanks to your readers for their precious time and I hope someone somewhere wouldn't make this kind of mistake my friend has made. All because she wants to marry a white man she wants to lose a good man like Emeka.

132 comments:

  1. o gini di ife a?...too long abeg!

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    1. The story is too long and there is no moral lesson to it.You just came here to run your stupid story...stupid bush geh in Orile.A university student abi??
      Go and marry Emeka na..jealous friend like you.

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  2. WTH......WTF....somebori wake me up.

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  3. The only fing I picked from dis pile of gibberish, is the writers stupidity, as she "wonders if Emeka is an angel on earth"............ In ur drunkeness, please don't insult the Angels (they won't be out here having pre-marital sex), except u are referring to the fallen ones.

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  4. ladun or correction fluid please edit this the story is tooooo long my eyes hurt...my opinion is that you seem to be attracted to this man cos of the material things your friend was getting..you might want to stay out of their business..cheers

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  5. Please introduce me to Emeka

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    1. U know? That kain thing! I will treat him sooo well

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  6. ehn so what is the point of the story!nawa o!people have time on their hands.

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    1. Asin ehn my thoughts exactly! No point whatsoever -_- Unless you know Emeka reads ths blog and would know the story is about him. Well, if the story is true you should know by now that people are ingrates!

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  7. Person wey get Elephant for hand no suppose to dey use leg dey find ant. How person go come get that kain man come dey misbehave on top all because of one married onyibo that probably has brown teeth and smells like a wet dog? Her greed has killed her. Serves her right! Errrrmmm....my sister, you fit give me Emeka's numbers? No vex o! Na this kain pple I don dey go mountain go pray to find.

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    1. Believe it or not, these things do happen. Just like my 1st cousin that a man sent to the Uk for school and she came here and started dating one london riff raff. A very nice and wealthy widower that put her thru bsc, masters and phD in imperial college London, bought a house and a car for her and put her 2 sisters thru masters in UK unis. The london guy was just using her like an ATM machine and for sex. Thank God she finally came back to her senses. Women sha

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  8. Nollywood movie, the home of African entertainment!
    Seriously sweetie, your story sounds so fake, I am cracking up here. But then, the best dilemmas in life are movie like. you sound like you want to fill her shoes. Start to seduce Emeka o.

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    1. Thot so too oh,very very fake!!!!!

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  9. Ladun, please tell the writer that there is something called SUMMARY ...

    will come back later when jobless to read this epistle

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  10. Is this a joke?

    http://africansweetheart.blogspot.co.uk/

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  11. Wetin consign me with ya friend abeg you fit send me Emeka's contact information.... na beg i dey beg... no shakara

    I will even make sure you still get that job after ya youth service... no shaking!!!!!

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  12. Regina regina regina i take Gid beg u jus drop emekas numba to my inbox singlechick@yahoo.com

    God bless you as you do this x

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  13. Well tell your friend to keep the child Jare , she is a very dumb Igbo girl, she just waltzed through America , America did not pass through her at al , she is still functioning from her village in Abia state , hunger never start with dem make emeka finish with dem .
    Though the story is long pls send us the return of Emeka we need it Biko nne it's going to be worth turning to .

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    1. I think you shld go back to the story n see that she is actually an Edo girl. My opinion...I ws shaking as I read this, for the love of God I hope this is a made up story...when correct single ladies are looking for correct guys like Emeka.kmt

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  14. Too annoying and freaking long , I didn't even read d nonsense . Looks made up . Rubbish

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  15. E be like say d girl mama don offend person,or dem dey follow her from her village..

    Well,on the other hand,e be like say one girl don go mountain go pray say make God just give am Emeka cuz if not so,your friend no go dey behave like this. She dey behave like person wey dem dey do..smh..

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  16. Wao. Shocking. If this is true then your friend has lost it,I believe she knos wat she's doing sha but y leave certainty for uncertainty. Pple sha

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  17. Person wey get head no get cap

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  18. I'm not in support of what she did but I have to admit it that u are a horrible friend. With all the full details given, guess Emeka knows now cos he will definitely have family or friends that visits the blog. You are more concerned about the freebies you receive and the job you have been dreaming about; if not I really don't see how LI readers are going to solve the problem at hand. Thanks for exposing your friend

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  19. wooow wat a parthetic story i feel so bad haba why u see some ladies jst miss use opportunity hw can she be so mean wat more do u need from a man again oooooooooooo..am short of words my dear jst wondering how emeka is gonna take it..well as for ur frd no wors for her hope she knows wat she is doing..with this now emeka will find it hard to trust anoda lady or falll inlove...

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  20. Stories like this happen everyday it just baffles me some women hv Neva bn loved or known this kind of love while some pple hv it and abuse it. I also hv a friend she had a man that loved her to pieces did his best to make her happy still wasn't snuff. She met anoda guy an expatriate with loads of cash to burn, first class all the way she contemplated leaving her guy for the new guy cos the money was too sweet to give up. Long story short she left her guy and her a whirlwind romance with the new guy, when the recession hit the nigerian company cld no longer afford to keep him around so they let him go. He didn't say a word he just took his briefcase like he was going to work n left d country n d company gave her a week to move out. She went back to beg d former guy he took her back, she is married with child n d happiest I had ever seen her. Moral of d story some women hv that which they search for right in front of them but go searching for what they dnt need. I have Neva bn in a loving relationship cos of my fear n in violent relatnsp n Neva quite recovered from it. So ladies know what u want and stick to it if its not working then move on.

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  21. God bless u ladun for posting my story hopefully your readers will be able to give some meaningful advice to my friend. Maybe if she gets other peoples opinion she'll have a rethink about her decision. Maybe she feels I'm envying her that's y she doesn't want 2 listen 2 my advice but God knows I only want the best for her.

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    1. Bt pls can I av Emeka's contact cuz trust me babe, my head is very corect for such guys! Abeg, no waste time jus email me....chizziekares@yahoo.com or evn any of Emeka's frnds dat r as nice as Emeka. Tnz

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  22. OH WOW.

    she is so stupid. she will regret it for sure.

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  23. and how does this concern us???

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  24. U can never satify a woman! Dats my belief! Imagine the rubbish nd yet her conscience didn't preak her of wat she did!

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  25. Wow...This sounds just like a friend of mine. Similar story but the 'white man' was the 'mugu' and the douche bag of a Nigerian guy she's mad about has a wife and 2children in naija and she refuses to believe anyone. Crazy world. But then,to each his own.

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  26. They sell Guess watches in America for $10-$35 in ROSS so ehm she just isn't balling as you think my dear you just don't know about balling and designers,I am sure Emeka's house is in Atl and houses are $25k and up for mansions,its not that serious.if the girl wants to leave emeka for who has all those things,its not as serious as you are telling,she is not living the life you think.its her life,the end. Will deal with her,how about you break the girlfriend code and take. Emeka for yourself and the easiest way is by telling him what she did lol

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  27. sounds like a movie scipt.

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  28. ******streches and yawns. No plywood or Hollywood. But anyway ur friend is stupid. The law of karma will catch up with her and her family. SMH.
    Kmt.

    Bee

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  29. MsT: To long a story mehn.. Kilode? Hian! Deed hz bn done... Let her kp d baby & move on cos I'll def advice emeka if he wz my frnd to throw dem out. As 4her mom... Smh* ..

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  30. Nollywoood. I don't believe any Nigerian woman is this stupid. Someone is testing their movie writing skills.

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    1. LOL...I like your faith in Nigerian women. Come and hang with me for a month, you will be shocked beyond words. Shit is real out here.

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  31. Abeg please send us Emeka's details so we can comfort him while your friend drowns in her own stupidity.
    PS
    Your friend is not about to make a HUGE mistake SHE HAS DUG A BIG HOLE AND MADE THE MISTAKE ALREADY. Too late to save her.

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  32. #1sentence::::Dear bestie I'm sure u'v got Emeka's nos kindly drop it sincerely #Emeka's next gf**winkz

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  33. Some girls head hate better thing o!if all that u've said about Emeka is true then that girl and her mother is cursed! bad mother o,God forbid!

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  34. 1. You're in love with Emeka hope u know
    2. I agree ur friend is a dunce and irreversibly senseless for all u hv accused her of!
    3. Stay out of it uv already done enough damage as is by giving ladun this story. Anyone who knows emeka and ur friend would know this about them
    4. I believe For your selfish interest, u hope he sees this! that's why you sent it
    5. You're still a bad friend whether u like it or not

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    1. ladun's lesbian lover26 September, 2012 09:43

      GBAM! Ori e pe jare anonymous! Dis shld be d summary of LLB reader's advice to d madam storyteller.

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  35. If everything u wrote u here is true, then my friend I would like to congratulate u on ur new found husband (Emeka) that's if ur smart enuf to take advantage of this wonderful opportunity.

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  36. na wa for this story oh. maybe your friend is a victim of asasi but how can they sasi daughter and also sasi mother.
    look, i wont be surprised if the mother sef used something to hook emeka with her daughter in the first place.
    your own is to just dey look abeg.

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  37. Lmao! So she 1td children wit "human hair" ur frnd has ostrich brain! Lyk mother lyk daughter, gold diggers! I pray Emeka finds out n throws her out of d house! I'm sure she'll blame her stupid act on d devil! Nonsense kmt. Ladun gudnyt!

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  38. Story story, story!
    What girl, would leave sme1 lyk d emeka u described?
    She shud go and wash her head in the river of 12 colours. There's smething wrong smewer

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  39. First off, all you mentioned about Emeka's show of love was money, money and more money. Second of all, the reason mentioned for her preferenceof the white guy over Emeka was because in the event of Emeka's death his relatives will take all his money. Lastly, looks like you really want Emeka to yourself all because of money.

    I'll say this for the umpteenth time, women should empower themselves and build a career or business. A man is not your ATM card.

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  40. If this story is tru Ladun, den dem dey chase her n her mum from village! I piry her sha. She shd beta abort the bastard baby da nu danu n get serz wit emeka. Some babes dumb sha n greedy!

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  41. Wow! Just WOW! I'm short of words! Like, do we still have such dummies on this earth??????? Awwwww.. I really feel for Emeka, dude will Never trust any lady again! As for your friend, God always has His way of paying such people in their own currency! How cud u abandon such good man for a Married Man?????? Mehn, words fails me! May God grant Emeka strength to go thru the heartbreak sha.. :(

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  42. i think you are in love with emeka sef. the amount emeka i read in this write up has now reduced my vocab to one word - EMEKA.
    I think you should tell him and give him a shoulder to cry on and you can have him to urself, as it is clear you love emeka more than ur friend does.
    goodnight

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    1. My dear just shut up and marry the emeka. U r obviously in love with him

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  43. Waoh! Just all I can say is waoh!

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  44. Ladun, Ladun, Ladun. how many times did i call you? how stupid do you think we are ehen? Please take this poorly written crap down, no be only he employs over 700 people, even if he is otedola

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    1. Tell us who really hurt you... We are listening.

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    2. Anon 13:13: She doesn't need someone to hurt her in order to make a reasonable comment. The s̶t̶o̶r̶y̶ crap is poorly scripted, & a company with 700 employees is quite massive. (Just so u know, as 'big' as Interswitch Nig. Ltd is, they can boast of just over 200 employees; So u can imagine how big the writer of this stupid story wants us to believe Emeka's company is)...
      I'm almost certain u're the one who's really hurt.

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  45. annoying so it is true that no matter how you bath a pig it would still go and play in the mud. Pls leave her to suffer, she is just a stupid and greedy fellow. On a lighter note I won't mind Emekas no so I can hook up with him. Trust me I wud be his faithful wife. That chci is d defination of ODE

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  46. Your friend is ungreatful, selfish and wicked. All because of a mixed raced baby? Whatever will be the outcome serves her right. Plz lets us know of the koko of emeka decision.

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  47. very stupid story. Awon ole. Dont even believe this rubbish....next

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  48. Haba! Dis story too long abeg.
    Madam frend, I guess ur prayer point shd be 4 emeka 2 dump d bitch and date u? I guess emeka is nt perfect afterall, if nt why wld she cheat? Maybe he has a small willy sef? I'm nt supporting d guttergal o! *smh

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  49. Fake but I will comment on the ground that it's a sweet story .
    What women want from a man is EVERYTHING AND NOTHING.

    Economist says Human's want is UNLIMITED .

    Let her keep searching for that MR PERFECT until she meets God.

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  50. Some long stuff loool. With d brief reading I did I think u want emeka loll..... Well who Wudnt. Ur friend is a fool, what white man married wiv 3 kids wanna marry a freshie. Smh. She beta gt emeka bk or abort that baby. Abortion in America is different 2 Africa, set cn give her a tablet nd might nt affect her womb.

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  51. Am soooo speechless, bt one word,ur friend is a theif n an ingrate.

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  52. WONU: ladun u get time o dis story is f**kin too long jor anyway sha dat part of she alwys sit at d front on d plane had me in stitches can't stop laffin. Dat ur friend dos nt knw wat she wants en its like u sef like d Emeka guy.#YOLO

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  53. She is an ungrateful and silly woman and so is her mom for supporting her. What will be the gain? Words will be words until the action follows. Why doesn't the whiteman leave his wife immediately? A divorce can be handled in so many ways. Hasn't she met some beautiful light-skinned igbo women who look mixed race? Such a shallow mind can only utter bullshit.. May God reward Emeka and heal his heart. and may God as well show this girl the light for the route she is choosing now is only for the short term and she better realize it. After all the man has been through and done for her...smh

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  54. She is an ungrateful and silly woman and so is her mom for supporting her. What will be the gain? Words will be words until the action follows. Why doesn't the whiteman leave his wife immediately? A divorce can be handled in so many ways. Hasn't she met some beautiful light-skinned igbo women who look mixed race? Such a shallow mind can only utter bullshit.. May God reward Emeka and heal his heart. and may God as well show this girl the light for the route she is choosing now is only for the short term and she better realize it. After all the man has been through and done for her...smh

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  55. Ur friend s a big FOOL. If Emeka finds out he would neva trust women again beside I dnt understand y sum mothers behave d way dey do seriously, Its only God dat would reward Emeka

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  56. Haa!! I hope ur friend gets to read this piece and get good advice from it.. Yeah abortion is bad but mehnnn she was already cheating on Emeka before so what would one more sin of abortion do..just add to her sins..her mum didn't advice her well at all at all... Haba!! A man dat did all dat 4ur family??? All because u wan born half caste pikin..not worth it..if she likes she should kneel down from now till next year once emeka gets a wind of it ....fiammm she's outside with her load and dat of her 3brothers..oh girl shine ur eye..abeg if u don't want d emeka..sharply pass him on to many girls dying 4half dat opportunity while u de born ur oyinbo halfcaste childern

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  57. She is rlly cnfusd abt wot she wnts...hw sure is she dat she wil mak it ova thr...dnt bcus of sm nonsnc stuff and loos wot u alrdy hav...my dear tel emeka abt it...nt bcus u wnt hm..bt cos u r a frnd...dats all...

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  58. WTF! C'mmon stop toying with our minds. This can't be real BUT if it is, then your friend is a low life bitch with a poverty infested mind. Emeka should throw d bitch out of his home and as for her parents, we know your kind,low life beggers that worship money and would sell the truth at the sight of a $1 bill. #smh#

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  59. You wanted to test ur ability to write right? So bye with ur fake story

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  60. ONOME says.........
    Yawn

    I don't believe ur story;bite me!

    *yawn again*
    Would make a very good mills and boons story.U should be a fiction writer.

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  61. women are so stupid. God will surely punish that Idiot. Her mum is a very foolish wicked and senseless woman. GOD help that family.

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  62. This post is unnecessarily long......haba, kilode??? Anyway, I don't have any word for this lady cos I don't see any truth in this story!!!

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  63. your friend is an ungreatful person,all this one na all in the name of i wan born half cast,she should leave the pregnacy alone.

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  64. Since u wrote an unnecessarily long story I will write a similar comment.
    Your friend and her family,are an ungrateful, poverty striken bunch of people and will get their reward soon who lives a cool Nigerian dude for a white man?*God forbid* psychos †̥ђε̲̣̣̣̥ lot of them, ur friend should pray †̥ђε̲̣̣̣̥ man doesn't come looking for her with a gun one day,
    As for emeka, he is one of †̥ђε̲̣̣̣̥ dumbest on †̥ђε̲̣̣̣̥ planet, how can u take a girl and her brothers to America to school, what happpened to the good old schools back home? Mtscheew he over did †̥ђε̲̣̣̣̥ charity, there is always a limit to everything
    I always tell my brother that if he ever considers sponsoring a girls education he should make sure she delivers one or two kids first before she starts school so if she decides to date her class rep and other chalatans in school he will have †̥ђε̲̣̣̣̥ kids.
    As for u good samaritan stay out of it,u have no business telling Emeka allow ur ungrateful friend clean her own mess.

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  65. 'This story sounds too good to be true', was my first thought as i read, but changed my mind, when the white man told her if she thinks he will leave his family for a black woman!

    Your friend messed up BIG TIME! She suffers from inferiority complex! To have a half-caste is her goal!

    I really don't know where to start, because i am kind of angry right now how some gals will throw away a rare gem for a lousy stone!

    Her brothers and mother knew and they supported her? FOOLS! Let them wait and see if she can cater for their needs.

    Jobs here in America is not so easy as she thinks. She plans to catch another white man abi? PROSTITUTION is what she is planning to do! She will be used and dumped like a scum bag by the time they are through with her! SHE NEVER SEE ANYTHING!

    It was good you did not tell Emeka because the table will be turned against you. You might be accused of jealousy.

    Emeka pays the school fees, mortgage, utility bills, to live in comfort, and yet her brothers could not caution her! INGRATES!

    Let her go and find apartments in run-down seedy areas that are cheap, and get job as a waitress or cleaner, with pregnancy and see if it will be easy!

    Hope she does not end up begging for quarters as the junkies and knuckle heads do! Does she have authorization papers to work? If not, she will be working in factories with ex-convicts for $8.00/hour. How can that pay her school fees, feeding, pay rent, utility bills, transportation and take care of her child?

    Mschewwwwwwwwww.

    Leave the matter and when emeka finds out, explain to him how you tried to see reasons with her,but her mind was made up and you don't want to be accused of breaking up their relationship. Finito!
    http://americajourney.blogspot.com/

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  66. Mscheew, no words for this nonsense

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  67. Dear writer!

    First of all am proud to be a yoruba girl but sorry to disappoint the ibo male frnds that I know aren't stingy so ur frnd or either of ur frnds shuld stop having miserable assumptions n ur story is sooo fucking long n senseless. Couldn't even finish the dead write up! Thought u said u wr going to cut the story short so if u hadn't cut the whole story nko? Nonsense upon nonsense. Next time if u don't have anythng reasonable to say pls go n play with ur sister's babies + ladun pls daft stories like this stop bringing them up. Thank u.... Arrant rubbish.... Mchewww!

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  68. Kai!!Ur laziness in posting comments reminds me of d rzn Y I stopped visiting ds blog 4 a long while

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  69. Observations:

    1. This kinda sound too good to be true

    2. You sound like you are jealous of your friend and will like to be in her shoes, i have this deep feelings you will want to go beg Emeka to be that woman that will make him hapi.(Nollywood Script ni)

    3. If the story is true, then your friend is very foolish, ungrateful and i wish she suffers for it. White man Ko, Afi man ni! Its a pity anyway cos NO WHITE MAN WILL DIVORCE HIS WHITE WIFE to marry her, few or none will. Emeka will also not take her back, am Igbo and i know our men are kinda proud. I pity her mum too cos she is a BAD PARENT, nemesis awaits her!

    4. As for Emeka's properties, a man that loved her that much will insure her future and leave a lot of things in her name. That am almost certain abt, abi she wan kill him inherit ni? how sure is she that he will die before her?

    5. Wetin ur friend dey find sef? We women tire me shaa o, its well.

    6. After they go say Igbo gals like moni, see Edo babe naa!!

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  70. My Dear there is only one solution, you should marry Emeka , and stop swallowing panadol for som1 else's headache.

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  71. Wooooooow!I don't even know wat to say???this is one helluva story.if I was this writer,I'd do everything I can to get this emeka dude for myself(including tellin d emeka)..I swear.we human beings are an ungrateful lot and we love to suffer.does ur friend know how many ladies would kill 4 emeka?
    Bia but sumtin dosent add up.maybe emeka has a very little dick,or can't get it up..might explain her attachment to d white man,sweeet sex.for her not to av sex with emeka 4 5months phhaps his dick isn't good enough?chai what sex would cause ehn,or maybe she's discovered a bad secret she can't disclose.No??then she's gota be crazyyyyyyy!!or maybe curse they follow the girl,but reason am,for her parents to support her that's weird,sumtin doesn't add up.

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  72. The most stupid story i have ever read in my life!! time wasting piece of crap!!

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  73. This is typical of Edo girls though. I am not surprised.
    Please write us back and let us know how her and her brothers manage in a studio.Dumb ass idiot!!!1

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    1. STFU stupid mo'fuck.......Its ur type datz a member of bokoharam....watz wiv d nonesense statement u made....I'm sure u r a drop out..stop hating on Edo pple...u wish u were from Edo right.....Ugly Shit!

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  74. Pleas give me Emekas contact details abeg abeg. Just please. LOL? What a wicked world we live in. I dont even know where to start...So I will keep quiet and wait for the comments to roll in. I am sure there will be many that will express the sentiments I have now. Tufiakwa.

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  75. I am chilled to the bones just reading ur story.does this really happen.I mean this story sounds very cooked up coz guys like Emeka do not exist in Nigeria,and girls like ur friend also do not exist.but I'd leave it to LLB readers to decide.

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  76. Nawa oh!!!!!!!!
    The girl is heartless...

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  77. First of all friendly friend how could u just describe ur friend's BF indetails una they stay togeda, and u promised to keep it short hmmnnn I wonder wat ur epistle will look like.again ur friend is just dump inshort am out I was just bored that's why am here. Mscheew..

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  78. Very fake...
    Not even a believable story...
    Try harder next time....
    Nwafada say so....

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  79. Omo which kind Company Emeka open? Lol

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  80. Wow what a story, i think your friend is the most foolish human being on earth, to think that she had a good man and wants to loose him for some selfish white man is beyond me, ''shame'' some people are so blind, is it by force to have a mixed race child? tell her this is just the beginning she will suffer,her mother is a hypocrite and greedy as well, as for you,sound to me like you r more inlove with Emeka than your friend is, word of advice,meet up with Emeka tell him what is going on that your not a part of it, explain to him how you felt when you knew what was happening, afterall he will find out him self sooner or later, a pregnant woman don't hide,except of course she aborts it, try to get close to Emeka during this trying times you never know he might just divert to you lol, men like that are hard to find this days, i don't care what anybody says here, but honestly that your friend don't deserve him, all the best.

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  81. That your friend has serious Ogbanje! Edo women! If I had thunder ehhhh,I would have sent it 2 her! I'm so so angry.
    Emeka needs someone like me . #gbam

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  82. To tell you the truth your friend is an ingrate, how would you do that to someone that gave you your "LIFE" I say your life because someone that can do all that can as well give you his life. May God forgive her amen, it's going to be hard for him he might forgive or he might not...hmmmmmmm I feel so sorry for him;
    Mothers: Train up your child in a way that he/she would never regret that you brought him/her to this world when him/her finally knows between wrong and right. I blame her mother for supporting her because she want white man to father her daughter's child or maybe the mother want her child to have green card..who no want good thing, good thing good but not this way, I also blame your friend too because it shows that she never loved the guy but his money. Money they say is the root of evil hmmmmm thief like her looking for only money to chop, girl this no be curse ohhh your friend will surely reap what she sow because she can never find a good guy like him (may be ex or not that's if he forgive her to want to take her back) any more same goes to guys like her, her lost not his...I also blame her brothers for keeping quite for not telling her guy aba girl tell your friend that she no try ohhhhhh but to look for something else to try because she no try at all.

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  83. hmmmmmm am short of words,irony of live.I pray to God to send my own Emeka to me oooo very soon.

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  84. HMMM IRONY OF LIFE.

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  85. The writer is not in love with emeka, she' sounds like the typical Nigerian gold-digging desperate girl who cannot try to build a career for herself

    The friend? The fact is love is a very confusing emotion and even more so when a woman is desperate for material things...she is just like her friend ....birds of a feather...going around seeking bigger fish to devour

    Emeka? Do you know how many Abuja girls he'll have been chopping and lying to because his wife to be is in America?

    The story...yawn....shit happens every day

    Life is crazy...deal with it

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  86. Friend of a Friend26 September, 2012 09:25

    "Emeka" has now found out what is going on because of this post.hope you are happy now?

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  87. ladun's lesbian lover26 September, 2012 09:57

    D moral of dis story is dat: My dear naija men, money can't buy love (sometimes anyway). Cos I bliv she neva loved dis emeka nd ws js with him for his money, even d madam storyteller couldn't stop emphasizing on how much money emeka ws spendin, meanin na d money dey enta her eye too! Therefore, spending mercilessly on a gal doesn't mean she won't fuck up @ d end of d day.

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  88. Well,if this story is true...help me ask d babe how she take know say the Men(Emeka & Whitey) go die first b4 her....d girl does not have an iota of love in her heart...she is jst material conscious and so is her Mother...God don do for Emeka ooo...its better he gets hurt now than marrying d wrong girl(ur friend)..I pray Emeka finds out soon..and to ur friend...tell her der is sometin called Nemesis....she wants a mixed breed child,ok,wen her mixed breed child begin pound akpu 4 village she go knw

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  89. is this for real!

    www.spynaija.blogspot.com

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  90. Wait a minute!!..Ladun,werz my comment on ds post?..u only posted d one wer I complained abt ya laziness..Gosh!!coming herez a waste

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  91. Friend of a friend ------- I thought you guys said his name is not emeka? Naaaaaaah waaaaaaaaaa oooooh why the lies , you guys are full of rubbish .

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  92. ladun ...shm for the quality of stuff you post ...

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  93. Am nt surprised na EDO GIRLS = PROSTITUE! So bcos she wants children wif brazillian hair! LMAO! Pls kip d baby ohh! I bet d child wld b as black as OBJ nd wldnt even hv any trace of white man! Kmt Odestina!

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  94. NA TODAY PARTING DEY NYASH? FIRST THIS STORY IS TOO LONG,2ND WHO TOLD U EMEKA IS NOT RUNNING OTHER SHOWS? 3RDLY PLEASE WHAT IS HIS FACEBOOK NAME /TWITTER HANDLE? ALL MY SIBLINGS HAVE LEFT SCHOOL RESPONSIBILITY NOGO PLENTY FOR AM!

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  95. Everyone writing on this llb blog are a bunch of hypocrites. Please whenever you take from a guy who likes you and has an intention to date you or marry you and you dont intend to date or marry the guy in question but to take financial advantage of the person, you are being reffered to here. Even as small as a 1500recharge card, you are guilty. So dont try to play innocent because the girl did hers on a large scale.
    To the writer, you have heard all the advice for you now, go and see if the bobo go fall for you even though im sure you are interested in the material things as well. But before you do ask yourself would i still want to. Be with this Guy if /when the cash stops flowing.good luck sha! Your friend definitely dosent deserve him.

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  96. This girl wants to work with hints magazine.
    story of your life.........
    too long!
    no patience to read abeg carry waka!

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  97. Sounds like a rejected movie script to me.

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  98. Sounds like a rejected movie script to me.

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  99. Even though I don't like abortion at dis point its beta she sees a very good doctor there n get rid of the baby. And beg Emekus to forgive her cos she don shit 4 church. How can anyone be so stupid to think white peeps don't lie. As if they aint human.
    Whether Emeka marries or not I DON'T pity ur friend cos what the white guy did serves her RIGHT.

    www.jollythought.blogspot.com

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  100. @ friend of a friend. For real? Emeka has found thanks to this blog? Meaning this story is real? Whoa this life.. Pls can I hv Emeka's number?

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  101. It is not easy for a young girl like that to be with an older man. My guess is Emeka is in his early 30's while this girls is either still a teenager to early 20's. Well, she probably got tired. And most people that lavish a lot like that have a shortcoming they compensate for. No amount of money can make me stay with a man with "shortcomings". I dont know why guys dont understand that if you buy a girl, you better keep buying till you die and be prepared to take and accept the worst. There are somethings money cannot solve or buy.

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  102. my dear, ur in luv wit emeka already. tell him nd keep him....yes i said so, ur frend doesnt even lik him one bit.

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  103. My observation is that this blogger lacks content and the only way to keep the blog going is by posting these made up stories! This is insulting to reader's intelligence, and with this I say farewell to this blog! I visit no more!!

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  104. to all of you saying guys like Emeka don't exist
    biko no think am!
    my husband is just like Emeka and even better just not as rich maybe a multimillionare but not a billionare yet!
    copy that
    I bless God for the day I met my husband

    as for the story
    she will get her own karma!
    she wants half-caste children abi
    ode buruku ni baby yen sha.

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  105. You started by saying that she did not want to date Emeka because she believed Igbos were stingy... Seems she's just a material girl and not in love with Emeka. She's even unrepentant about her betrayal of the man that lavished everything on her. My advise is for you to let her be. She has already stabbed Emeka too deep to be forgiven and the reason why you are even contemplating forgiveness is because the oyinbo man gave her isho and not because she had an epiphany. Make she carry her wahala go abeg and good on Emeka that it happened now rather than after getting married...

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  106. Nollywood..ur missing script has been found..

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  107. I could not read the story till d end because of anger. But the loophole in the story is the mother mother agreeing to be part of the evil plan

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  108. Very bizarre story; it all sounds very catastrophic. Your friend should keep the baby and start her life over! She should be honest with Emeka. All that happens after that is left to God! She can pray for forgiveness and a new start and ask God to grant her favour in Emeka's sight.

    As for you, you can support her with prayers and emotional support and when you see your friends taking wrong turns, intercede for the in the place of prayer and try to advice them.

    All the best dear!

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  109. Dear readers, congrats on all of you who picked up that this story is nothing but a "cooked up" one.

    "Regina" is actually "Emeka". My ex-boyfriend wrote this b'cos he may be hurting now that The good Sovereign Lord of Hosts who never sleeps and sees all has rather rewarded "Emeka" and given me my God fearing igbo man to marry in a few months to come.

    Regina-Emeka after 4years of dating and throughout the relationship treated me badly by cheating with several different women; hiding some of them and preventing me from coming to his house. This is because he had "married" one poor black girl for papers because I was too slow to do it for him. He always talks about "America" but has never been there.

    He rather is the one who now boasts that "white women" are better than black women and that he already has a "mixed race" child.
    The whole story emanating from 4 long years is horrible to tell all here.
    He has been monitoring and commenting positively on how "good Emeka" is.
    As a gentle wronged moral woman by "Emeka", I'll leave it to Jehovah Tsidkenu (God our righteousness) to judge "Regina-Emeka"

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  110. the lady is soliciting for advice concerning her friend's situation and some are here asking for emeka's contact details this is why some ritualists will continue to use some girls for rituals.
    you don't know the source of the guy's money or anything about him,but because of the brief story concerning his money and spending you have lost all sense of reasoning.

    concerning the article/story whaever i have always and consistently said it that
    1.i will never marry beneath my own class
    2.i can't marry a lay who has financial baggage because i simply am not ready to take up financial responsibility for another person's family.
    if my parents,bros and sisters will not come to my family for money or any financial help then its only fair that my significant other's family don't do so as well.

    what the emeka guy failed to do was to look deep into the family he was getting involved with.according to the friend,what helped her friend in the decision to date the white guy was that her mother was in full support and i am guessing her dad too or he would have told mr emeka and her brothers were in support as well,if you get involved with a family with marginal moral values then its only a matter of time even if it doesn't happen now with oyibo it might happen later with one of mr emeka's richer,more handsome friends

    apart from the poverty mentality which sort of beclouded their reasoning,it is obvious that she was bowled over and intimidated by the though of a white man actually dating and promising to marry her..i won't be quick to blame her on this because i see this same thing with mostly jamaican girls and a few nigerian ladies thank GOD
    they see dating a white man as a badge of honour and will try and show him off in public even when the guy is acting cool n unconcerned.

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  111. This story sounds too fantastic!

    http://loveconnectionnaija.com

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  112. The person that wrote this is a gossip/retard, because she went on and on about things that did not have anything to do with the outcome of her story:

    “Emeka is an America citizen by birth and he's been in America all his life until he moved back to Nigeria 6years ago to start up his own company”

    “60k a month that means he pays the ones working in the office more”.

    “She and her brothers finally went to America to school they had the best of everything people thought their dad is a politician or works in an oil company because Emeka has a very lovely house in America and provided them with everything they wanted”

    “Most of his colleagues were so jealous of him but Emeka had bigger dreams he wanted to be his own boss so he saved a lot of money and came back to Nigeria to start his company and fortunately his company is doing excellently well”

    “And to be honest every day I pray for my own miracle to meet someone like Emeka not exactly like Emeka because that will be asking for too much”

    “not only did she have a handsome and tall man she also has a beautiful diamond ring and I told her I could only imagine how much the ring would have cost since Emeka only goes for the best.”

    “Sometimes I wonder if his a human being or an angel that God sent on a mission on earth”

    “He even promised to give me a job in his company next year after my youth service “

    To list but a few.

    What a ridiculous way to tell a story.

    All this info, just so she can finally arrive at the kicker: the said friend is sleeping with a white man.
    Why couldn’t she just have arrived at the point, instead of providing a boring, materialistic, ridiculous and unpalatable read?

    It is clear from her story she is envious of this friend and is swayed by the money to a high extent.

    We get it; your friend is ungrateful, and it’s her loss… bad people don’t deserve good things. Blah blah blah. but I really don’t think you should have put all the information she put in, both the useless and the very obvious ones. It will only make it obvious for the Emeka guy to find out about it.

    That being said, your friend is screwed. Deal with it. Stop crying about her life, like it’s yours (because of the money).

    She went into it knowingly and without regret. Let her chop the resulting pain.
    Deuces

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  113. Na wa oooooo!! May God gimme my own Emeka!

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  114. Why do u people hate on Edo peeps?! Igbos are disgusting! I don't know any right thinking Edo persson that would date those ritualists! Ewwwww!

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  115. So funny,mrs writer you should be fast and sensible,make him your man and love him like a demi god. You are obviously in love with him,for sure money bring excess of love. But that your friend na monkwa.

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