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Monday, December 10, 2012

Reader's mail update: I accepted his proposal

LL readers are making something happen, lol. Remember the last readers mail from Adaku E.? Read it HERE to remember. Well she just sent in an update. Read the mail below.


Hello my darling ladun

I sent you a post a few weeks back about my celestial boyfriend and I and u posted it. For that I say thank you. He proposed to me yesterday morning and I said YES. I am away on official assignment and I just got off the phone with him because he said he was going back to bed. He made me call the kitchen to order my breakfast up first because I am in the habit of skipping breakie.


So long story short they brought up my food and it was der for a while I kept thinking I should just leave it and get on with my day but the force was stronger so I turned back to the table; opened my plate & my ring was in d plate. I was screaming and I called his phone back; as it was ringing there was a knock on d door. My man was standing there.

I have turned my mind off the religious factors now. I'm taking one step at a time. He knows I want to get married in my church. I have visited his celestial church after the post here and the reception by his pastors and spiritual leaders was nice.

I thank you Ladun. I thank everyone that commented and adviced me on here.

God bless you all.

Ladun  I need to show you my gorgeous ring and when its all planned out I hope you grace my wedding with your presence.

God bless us all.

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  1. Awwwwwwwwwwwww!! Congrats my dear Adaku E.

    I don't wanan burst ya bubble at this time, but u need to go and read the comments On Bisi and her Melaye baby. CCC is OCCULTIC!! Of course his pastors will be nice to u, FOR NOW! Wait till u are one of them and they'll blame ya mama for tying ur womb and ask u to come pray by the waterside! THINK b4 u regret!

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    1. too correct.

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    2. CCC are best left alone to MARRY themselves..... Light and darkness cannot mixed. You figure out which is light and which is darkness . Run girl, dont get caught up in the ring moment , the man you marry can make or break you

      A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE

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    3. Exactly!
      Edaku pls if u pray 2 times a day b4 pls turn it 2 7times nd don't collect anytin 2 use frm dem.am talking frm experience o.May God be wif u

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    4. sweetie...i understand ur hapiness but it is only temporary....ur 1st assignment should be to find out why they have several divorce/seperation/adultery cases in their branches plus serious anti marriage yokes/spirits. their environment works against marriages, in america, the G.O has been married 3ce and still counting plus several others..... u should be grateful for all these advisers here, they r not jobless, pls wen ur excitement mellows think seriously about ds....plus they control ur life with their brainwashing untrue visions which they cant do without......i wish i could talk with u more.drop me a msg or leave ur mail addy

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  2. Congrats on ur engagement.
    I am just readin both stories. And i dint see u mention anything about praying and fasting.

    My dear, marriage is not an end, but the start of a journey and its only God that makes that journey enjoyable.

    I beg you, pls pray and if possible fast and ask God to point you in d right direction. U will find a kinda peace within (and dat wil let u know u made the right decision)

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    1. Thankyou for taking time out to read both posts. I have noted ur advice. I will pray and fast about it all. Thankyou very much
      Adaku.E

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    2. Wait a minute! Are you not supposed to fast and pray about it BEFORE accepting his proposal and not after? Lord, have mercy on you.

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  3. The force was stronger abi? Okay oh, may the force be with you oh.

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    1. Anakin Skywalker tinz!!!!

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  4. CCC things? Hmmmmmm!! Lord have mercy. I wish u all d best in ur marriage to him

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  5. Congratulations, honey! I'm sorry, I just can't get past 'celestial boyfriend'. LOL!! Where is that my hilarious Anon commenter that spoke about ringing bells?? E wa no O! O ti sele!:-D

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  6. "I have turned my mind off the religious fators for now".. Hmmm. First of all, congratulations Adaku. Next of all, please turn your mind back on. You cannot be going into a marriage with a turned off mind "for now". Marriage is not dating. And whether you like it or not, the religious thingie is a big deal. I wouldn't be bothered if you said, "I'm perfectly fine with his being cele and I've accepted the fact that I'm going to be cele too". But you said you've turned off your mind for now. Seriously? You sound like an innocent sweet child. Unfortunately, life isn't innocent and sweet all the way. Wake up. Good luck. And congratulations once again.

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    1. Hello prof.
      Thankyou :)
      Maybe I didn't write it right; I actually meant at that moment religion was not on my mind and was not a factor. We will be revisiting it in the near future. Its prayers all the way for me now.
      Thankyou once again.
      Adaku.E

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    2. Lmao! This adaku babe sef! U have already made up ur mind. Afi revist in near future eh? Ok oh..goodluck! :)

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  7. Dis proposal brought tears 2 my eyes!
    Such a romantic man!
    Enjoy ur marriage lady!
    *sniff*sniff*
    Billie jean

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    1. To mine aswel lol! Thankyou almighty mean Billie jean. Nice comment from you means a lot. Thanks dear
      Adaku.E

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  8. so sweet but sounds more lk a script.

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  9. oh.......how nice!wish u all d best

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  10. Aww happy for you
    remember , the holy spirit dwells in you
    when you have "that feeling" or you're uncomfortable don't take it for granted
    Ask the holy spirit to help you at all times
    congrats and all the best

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    1. Excuse me, which Holy Spirit is that? Please sorry, there is no fellowship BW darkness and light, and God cannot lead any true believer to marry someone that worships water spirits. Thanks!

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    2. I'll remember this. Thankyou :)
      Adaku.E

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  11. Wishing you the best in your marriage, congrats dear, ur guy is sure a romantic.

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    1. Hello Anny;
      He sure is. Thankyou for your well wishes.
      Adaku.E

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  12. A n'eme nu. This post has just convinced me that this entire drama na wash. Good luck to you and your candle-loving fiance.

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  13. omo mehn! cele no be church o!

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  14. Hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

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  15. Congrats. But ladun where is the final part of m&m ? Hmmmmm I'm suspecting something.

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  16. Awww... So sweet! Congrats to her! Ladun better attend d wedding o!

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    1. Hey Ayo. Thankyou for your message. Please if you know ladun and you can get her to attend it will be highly appreciated. I would also like to get her email please if you have it so I can email her privatly. Thanks
      Adaku.E

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  17. Awww this is so cute. Am so happy 4 u. May God bless ur union and don't only show ladun ur ring, we too want to
    Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ it joor. Lol

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    1. Thankyou Oreka. AMEN!!!
      Please if you have laduns email please write it out. I have pictures I'm dying to show you lot. :D
      Adaku.E

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  18. Good u turned ur mind off d religious factor,(tho u dont strike as a devoted christian, u jst d sunday sunday medicine kind) i pray it doesnt affect ur marriage cos those little things we feel doesnt count, count on d long run. May dat love continue to wax stRONger o.

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  19. Congrats dear, thank God u made the best decision.. u shall have a fruitful marriage in Jesus Name..Welcome to our church..lol

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  20. happy yoruba bunny10 December, 2012 10:15

    so romantic
    religion shd not be a barrier
    only God knows who worship HIM wt all heart
    i wish u well
    send us pictures ooo

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  21. YAY!! Happy for u dear. at the end of the day when u follow ur heart it doesnt go wrong, church and tribe have nothing to do with love. since he loves u n vice veser get ready to live a blissful married life!!

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  22. Congratulations Adaku. As someone mentioned in your initial post it's all about your husband to be's attitude. Not his tribe. As long as he is God fearing, he treats you right, he's respectful and you pray together them God is on your side. Remain prayerful, marriage isn't a piece of cake, but with God it can be a walk in the park. God bless. X

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  23. awwwww God will direct your steps.

    Congratulations.

    Alobu S

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  24. lagos is my home10 December, 2012 11:18

    Congrats and Best of luck , but please know that marriage is a decision you make for a life time . Marriage is one thing , wedding is another thing ....

    Any issue you have CANNOT be turned off, it can be turned off for the Wedding but cannot be turned off during the marriage. Instead it is more magnified in a marriage because then you are in each other space .

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  25. Congrats for making a wise decision. Most of he people who advised you on this page have never attended a celestial church and don't even know the difference between one white garment church and the other. Plus the lady who said her boyfriend's Mather and sister didn't want her to marry him, this could have happened irrespective of church. Just like tribe is not an issue, church isn't. Indeed what is important is conflict resolution. Do you think he is high handed? Does he listen to your opinion?all your dating years, how did you resolve your conflicts? I am a proud celestian and know many successful celestial marriages even to people of other denomination and churches. Look inwards and see what's going on in your heart, pray about it and God will lead you right. Celestians I must say we do not worship idols. I reiterate that some of the people who have spoken are those that go to patronise fake prophets and therefore see what they set out to see,true celestians are wonderful people.

    BTW, Raji Fasola is a Muslim and his wife a Christian, they don't appear to be doing bad. We judge others when our own cupboard has the worst skeletons. Who ever said marriage to a non-celestial has a higher success rate? Whoever said success of a marriage depended on church? After all. Pastor Benny
    Hinn and his wife separated after much, pastor Okojie has married 2ce and still counting.... Lets be careful, as judgement day will be whoa...

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    1. Muslim and Christian marriages are fine. Cele and Cele are fine. Cele and C&S are fine. Cele and others, not fine in any way.

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    2. LOL! Anonymous 14:04 biko tell am! CELE is on ANOTHER level! That church is NOTHING GOOD!!!
      I am shouting this thing out of experience! And it's not just one branch. From Naija to UK to USA! £ different branches engaing in occultic and idol worshipping by the waterside, and flooging people with broom! After 3 branches in 3 different countries, nobody can convince me Cele is good!
      Adaku RUNNNNNNN!!!!

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    3. @Anon 11:22 u are Cele and u marry Cele. That na different story. Una all believe in the same thing and understand una water ways! Deeper life and Cele na war! It is better to marry Muslim than Cele! At least Muslims believe in same things and no dey pray by waterside with coloured candles while dancing like possed human beings

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    4. dont use other people as example, its only who is in it that knows ....my friend Zainab a strong muslim married a christian. From afar they look like the perfect couple with 2 kids but she tells me inhouse that she regrets it daily. If she could do it again she would only marry a muslim .

      She is still in it but very unhappy due to many religious differences and carrying her cross quietly .

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    5. @anon 14:04...u get sense.lemme add.cele nd a nominal xtian frm other churches ar fine.
      Cele nd a devoted xtian frm a Living church can neva be.
      I broke up wif my ex wen I found out dat her cele friend takes her dere 4 Ise.

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  26. Congrats on ur engagement jare. I wish u all the best in ur marriage. Just have it at d back of ur mind dat u are gonna make it work cos marriage aint easy regardless of d tribe u marry.
    As 4 those dat will still post hate msgs. Na una sabi.

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  27. Wishing you the very best that life can offer and also praying that your joy will always be complete.

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  28. Beig Igbo or youruba is not the problem, your religions are.

    One of you will have to convert. You have to decide now. Taking one step at a time? One of you will convert one step at a time. Wait and see.

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  29. Girl your story is beginnining to sound more and more like a lie and forged by the day to entice ladun's readers. How can you tell me wey don attend deeper life Bible church say u wan wed celery man for their church and them go green when they practically feel holier than thou art. My dear adding deeper life to your story don make me disbelieve ur entire tori because I know they can never condone ur marriage to a cele man plus before deeper lifers get married, it is usually through will of God. They don't just get married to people from outside their church and finally, during their courtship, there is always somebody in their midst so they don't commit sin sexually. As for u, ur doing ur own thing outside the rules of the church so don't come here lying and using the name of the church in vain. Go and marry ur celery man cos no one is interested in ur cock and bull story.

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    1. very true. wash wash story and desperate to marry. welcome to the church of green water and coloured candles. you never jam yet.

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    2. Lmao @ Celery! U wan fear vegetable and salad things na!

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    3. cook and bull.. Where is the ring self , make i see

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    4. The ring is in Spain. The annual Bull fight!!!!

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  30. Truth be spoken,I prefer to marry a muslim than marry a cele. Your mumu na intl 'I've turned my mind of d religion factor' I pity u. U didn't turn ur mind off d tribal factor na religion u turn ur mind off. U go tey for waiting room. Ode buruku

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  31. Mogbo Cele Mo Mere10 December, 2012 15:13

    Omo girl years than the line u go remember our advice oooo, Most Cele guys r bad news. Do u have a good job and source of income? If ur guy is not in the same financial stand as u please run because he will be the one to spend while you work hard. Also be ready to join Cele, if you dont want those bleached out, breast standing up, bling out, and kongo of make up ladies of cele to snatch ur husband or be sleeping with him. while at the same time using al sort of psalms passages, candles to mess u up. watch and pray...cele should marry cele, cos they both understood the cele doctrines.

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    1. @mogbo cele mo mere.........lorrrrrl over correct na ur name, pls tell her her future

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    2. lol mo gbo cele mo mere. I don laff die.

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  32. Good luck. Please let this be the last time you write to the LLB readers for advice regarding your relationship. Your life your decision don't involve us in the future.

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    1. Lol! Wetin u go do if e no be her last time? Flog am?

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  33. ma girl, are aware that the drink a water that is green.

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  34. Edaku,ua just a benchwarmer in deeperlife dats all I can say.but get prepared,u v a big task ahead.

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  35. Be ready to have rastafarians as kids, be sure that if u born a child with dreadlocks, they will say he's Jesus reincarnate, therefore u can't cut the hair, lo and behold he will become raskimono. BE WARNED.

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    1. Feeling highrey thing in a dirty shirt and raggedy pants!!!!

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  36. I feel sorry for this babe sha she no see NOTHING YET smfh. Babe you wan marry cele abi don't worri den go show u well that love that's shaking go vibrate your soul soon. My x was cele they are the ounces that will love like mad day the love you share with them can make someone crazy because its sooooo deep some ride or die type shit. You seem desperate for marriage n because u see ring u won latch on abi issok God is watching u n crying for u. To the babe wey talk say she fit marry Muslim dan cele omo leave that kind tin I fit marry boko haram leader than cele semi na physical bomb I fit run from the spiritual bomb wey cele pple dey deal with I no fucking fit Abel am the only shild. As much as I loved my cele x my eyes don open n I tank God am free from bondage. I feel for u baby girl I really do. This your stories go Neva end na series u no fit watch am finish.

    HTML indeed

    MBL

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  37. @Mogbo cele mo mere walahi wa gbayi


    MBL

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  38. Cele???? Na wa for some pple ooo..... If u no get ear, u no get eyes?

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  39. If your story is true...girlie you are on a long thing!..snap out of it b4 its too late...marriage is not an achievement unless you are both happy in it..its not too late to extricate yourself from this mess...what?!!!

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  40. I've never commented on here, but I feel the need to say this. I've dated a guy affiliated with cele and I can categorically tell you, that path leads to darkness. God luck with your engagement euphoria.

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  41. LL see how you waste our time with fake stories. She's obviously not Deeper Life anything. If you know DL people they even look down on nominal churches and white garment churches. This girl knew what she wanted. She had made up her mind already and brought this wash story here. There's a woli i know who has been widowed by the 3 men she had kids for. All the men are dead. Her favourite child is spiritually married to her. That one can't move forward. No woman is good enough for him. She does sara and gives him their water every time. The guy don jam olokun lady and they fit. Do whatever you like and don't come back here to insult our intelligence.

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  42. My dear Adaku, if you are reading this I can't imagine how troubled u must feel On one hand u are happy u just got engaged on the other, u are worried about ur future with the man. Nne I employ u to take out time and think about this. The Celestial Church of Christ and Cherubim & Seraphin churches are NOT something to joke with. I understand people will come up with all types of excuses that it is not all the branches that do evil, but when there is a majority of branches engaging in the things of darkness and occultic practices, then something is wrong somewhere. Except u are telling us u are happy with worshipping the devil, then fair enough, marry him.
    But my advice to u will be sit the man down and explain to this to him, breakup, go to ur church and cover urself with the blood of Jesus and God will send u ur life partner! This man u are with is not for u! As long as he is a CCC person.

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  43. I grew up around oshoffa's house in ketu loooong time ago and i can tell you that cele is a path to darkness. You are just a small child and if you go ahead with this marriage, you will find out that sleep is very very different from death.

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  44. I think half of the issue with the comments is the fact that readers cannot differentiate Celestial Church of Christ from others. They just call all white garment churches cele.

    Cele does NOT use coloured candles, i repeat, Cele does NOT use coloured candles. If you have ever been to a church that they said its Cele and you saw them using coloured candles, my dear, no be Cele you go.

    People just see what they act in yoruba movies and take them to be reality.

    Oh please!

    Adaku, if God has told you that he is your husband, please go ahead.

    No matter the religion or tribe, all marriages need work so be ready to work. Whoever said if you marry a deeper lifer, it automatically means the marriage will work?

    The most important as is even written in yesterday's RCCG Open Heavens is OBEDIENCE TO GOD. No matter the tribe, religion, whatever, have a personal relationship with God and be ready to obey him at all times.

    All these commenters don't even know their left from right and are advising you on marriage issues.

    Don't you even have a mum, sisters, aunt or the spirit of God in you to ask questions???

    I tire o.

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  45. at the person that said she will have raskimono kids as a result of the drealocks d kid will be having lmfao!!!U wan use laff finish me....nne, adaku abi kedu afa gi, please speak to God and ask for directions, never say church dosent matter when it comes to love, darkness is different frm light...befor u go ahead to marry him, consider how u want ur kids to grow up and what faith or doctrine wld u like for them to have and believe in... marriage is nt all abt u and d man only, there re kids involved..i was datin a nigerian guy who attends jewish church here in lagos, but my dear, i had to run for my life cos as u see it i dont kpikim, or nada abt what goes on the church, d fact dey ar sabbath anmd stl believe in old testament is what i dont undstnd,i av removed my hands off sumn i know notn abt, i av alwys been a sunday church goer n its gona remain same for me n evn my kids..my dear tnk twice n fast and pray hes d right man for u, let God show u d way, cos as it seems, u are only after gettn married and not aging, u dont wanto be single all ur life...my dear being single is not a disease, at the ryt tym u will find dt special somebody, jst be patient and pray abt it

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  46. There was a documentary on BBC TV in London some years ago on the Celestial Church. Some former members also discussed their doctrines and practices. I was shocked by what I saw. I had always felt that their religion was somehow sinister and the documentary confirmed it all. It is an occultic set up and there is nothing that will attract a deeply religious person to that "faith".

    Adaku, light and darkness cannot dwell together. Make a decision based on this fact. Marriage is not dating. It is a totally different ballgame. I have been married for 17 years so I am talking from experience. Let Celestial people marry from their own faith. They understand themselves!

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  47. I feel you are desperate to get married and no matter what anyone says, you can't be bothered. Anyway, you wear the shoes and know where they pinch. As an ex-cele member, I tell you this, just make sure you can carry the cross. Once you're in, you're in and if you try to flee, be ready to face the consequences. I left that church 5 years ago and till now, I'm still facing the consequences of my action. I regret the day my parents took me to that church. Enough said.

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  48. My dear may God b with u, I dated a cherubim and seraphim guy for 2 years and I loved him so much but guess what? I couldn't make up my mind abt marrying him bcos of his church, he was so nice and caring but I think dat there's something abt dat church, I had to leave him, it was not easy but I think it was for my own good and my future kids too.

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