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Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Am I a Gay Guy Trapped in a Woman’s Body?


Hello Ladun,

I really need your opinion on this little issue i'm suddenly faced with. I'm a 28 years old woman living in Lagos, I’m married to a very good man and our marriage has been blessed with beautiful kids.

After listening to various homosexual related matters  and conversations on different gay issues and hearing most peoples opinions  I've come to realise that most people have a problem with male homosexual intercourse cause they penetrate the anus instead of a female's virginal, the question here is what about females that indulge in anal sex?


       Are Females that indulge in anal sex committing sin? I have anal sex with my husband all the time, in fact I enjoy it better than vaginal penetration and my husband enjoys it as well.
     
 The question now is 1) is my husband gay for enjoying anal sex with his wife?
           
2) Am I committing sin by indulging in anal sex?
           
3) For the fact that I enjoy anal sex am I a gay man trapped in a woman's body?        I'm truly confused I need answers ASAP

74 comments:

  1. Oya let d comment roll in...www.xmoentertainment.blogspot.com say so praaaa!!

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    1. Hmmm! Anal sex is d worst of all n dats y I detest bn gay. After eatin so much n less liquid,I find it hard to excrete cos of d pains n tears dat comes wt it talk more of allowin a di*k pass thru thr. So not cool dear. Slikky

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    2. Lagos is my Home09 January, 2013 12:14

      Silly girl doing Sodom and Gomorrah moves. You need to read about Anal Cancer. That way no one later goes accusing everyone in your village of killing you through Juju.

      That form of cancer is so painful, trust me you don’t want to go there. Since the rectum doesn't produce natural lubrication like the vagina does, anal sex risks tearing the rectal walls. It also has a high chance of potentially lethal peritonitis due to leakage of fecal bacteria into the abdomen. THE RISK IS HIGER FOR YOU THAN YOUR HUSBAND.
      Also if your husband moves from anal sex immediately to vaginal sex, that increase of infection due to bacteria in the anus.

      Then let say ur husband is occasionally stepping out , that is Popcorn story for another day . A word is enough for the wise.

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    3. Laduns House Boy09 January, 2013 14:17

      Madam let me summarize for you;
      1)The anus is for shitting so should not be fitted with a penis. Imagine stuffing the exhaust pipe of your car and driving it. Not good at all.
      2) The mouth is for eating and praising God(plus kissing your kids) so Oral sex is forbidden. Just Imagine that everytime you kiss your daughter, its your husband rubbing his dick on her cheeks!!! You will stop giving him BJ pronto!
      3)Vagina is multi purpose. For peeing(with a different outlet) and for fcuking and for giving birth. In the design, you will notice that the pee hole is positioned so as not to infect the do-hole.
      You see that anal sex is called sodomy which is an AB-USE of the body part. Meanwhile, next time your husband asks for anal sex, poop in a cup and tell him to stick his dick in it. He will get the message.

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  2. All of the above.

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  3. Doesn't it hurt though?

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    1. Initially, it does. But after years of practice, the place naturally widens.

      Some Porn stars take two dicks at once in their anus sef.

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    2. and u mr or ms i too know 4got to tell her how WIDE her anus gonna be after long. just watch some lesbian´s films and see some with HOLES at deir anus. pls stop it, d ealier d better.shikina.

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    3. @anon kilode!!!2 at once where is the garage entrance that will contain 2 lamborghinis at the same time

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    4. We should ask you Lucabree.

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  4. stop the anal sex, you are endanering your relationship, you are making the grounds of your marriage too soft for the devil to come in. The Bible condemnes that. God designed the human body in such that sex has to be done through the particular system and the world formed theirs. pls go for what God approved no matter the satisfaction you get, try nto please God first not man. hope this will help nyou.God bless your home.Jesus is Lord.

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    1. Holy nweje! Pls back up ur spiritual advice with Bible reference or STFU. Its all abt choice and spicing up ur sex life ok

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    2. Please show us God's approved manual on Sex.

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    3. Please show us God's approved manual on Sex.

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    4. AwesomeGod says-In Toun soetans voice ijoba orun kudede araye eyi pada onidajo aiye mbo ti yo bere lowore baba yo bere wipe bawo lose lo o i igbesi aiye re.If you are a great student of the bible and a good christian you will know where and what the bible manual on sex is. Biblically speaking the book of Romans chapter 1 to the end explain what the nature of sex ought to be and how people have deviated from the natural way of having sex to the sinful way. I picked from verse 22-27 of the book of Romans chapter 1 for your perusal please read below incase you cannot locate your bible.

      ROMANS 1:22-27. 22 Professing themselves to bewise, they became fools , 23 And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.24 Wherefore God also gave them upto uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshippedand served the creature more than the Creator , who is blessed for ever. Amen.26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another ; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
      Special and careful attention to verse 26 and 27 and if you read the whole chapter you will futher detect God's wrath on such behaviour. Please let not our thinking ruin our heavenly goal. Have a good and Godly day remember God loves you and so do I. Remain blessed.

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  5. why!is vaginal penetration not sweet enuff? why indulging in such act? disgustin! ahhhhhh am about to throw up! Cant imagine my self indulging in it.I havent had enuff my lovely wife V.... Please advise ur husband stop d act,it's a sin!

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  6. Abeg go & see a psychiatrist or just stop doin anal if ur conscience is bugging u this much.

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  7. Abeg go & see a psychiatrist or just stop doin anal if ur conscience is bugging u this much.

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  8. Abeg go & see a psychiatrist or stop doin anal if ur conscience is bugging u this much

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  9. Amebo is my hobby09 January, 2013 11:06

    Most unconfortable position in sex if you ask me. Very painful. Well if you enjoy it, guess you are on your own! Besides when married men love anal sex, ask these questions
    1) Does your husband frequent Abuja or Northern states? Nah those girls dey teach our husband bad things
    2) Has your husband come into unexplained wealth? Nah him b say Senator or Governor for Abuja don dey fuck am. They say once you taste that side, you can never go back to the front
    3) Does your husband have bad mouth odor or protruding belle? Result of homo things

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    1. No.3 above is just stupid and should be ignored.

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    2. No.3 above is just stupid and should be ignored.

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    3. Wetin be ya own now you get d bad mouth odor? Abi you be Abuja runs gay without mouth odor?

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    4. Why should it be ignored? Or do you have such symptoms hmmm. I have heard it before. Even Lesbians too exhibits such symptoms. So we refuse to ignore

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    5. Trust me I know a Couple of good looking guys to d bone who av noone of dose syptoms nd r gay.no be by dat

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    6. @amebo is my hobby
      i hail you and comot cap you r too much loool i ll watch out when next I'm in naija lol

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    7. @Amebo i am sure you are a runz girl..... CONFIRMED. i hail o

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  10. Ur a mumu............ANAL SEX IS NOT NATURAL!!....thats the fastest way to get disease/infected....have you not heard of people that do too much and their bum starts leaking? or the skin inside drops?.....na wa ...thank God you enjoy it because the day you stop your husband your doomed.....but i promise you one thing it wont be long before you get the consequence....................see what too much porn does.....why not do the doggy style instead of ANAL?.....what people fail to understand is that porn stars are miserable people in life, tehy have the highest suicide rate amongst them......they do all this because the more risky things you do the more attention and money.........were you into it before you met your guy?...how come your guy is not receiving/ why are you not giving him anal as well?....so you want to suffer the consequence alaon after giving him your back?....its we women that allow men to do/think they can do shit......any guy that wants anal from me should get ready because i wont or he must get anal from me as well even it means using sex toy....what is good for teh goose is good for the gander....mumu

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    1. u said it right bc my hubby tried talking me into doing dat and refused it. he said wat some girls like most dat i´m refusing. u see i´ll say we women are d cause of problems in dis earth.

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    2. Lmfao. Plssss u v killed me o

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  11. DEAR AMEBO, PLZ WHAT IS THE CONNECTION BTW HOMOSEXUAL, PROTRUDING BELLE AND BAD MOUTH ODOUR. I REALLY WANT TO KW. THANKS

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    1. them nor get any connection at all. get more gist daily at http://gossippme.com

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    2. Amebo is my hobby09 January, 2013 11:47

      The semen that is pumped into them from the anus, gives them a protuding tummy. Note not the beer or pounded yam tummy ,or good living ala naija stlye o, but the tummy that starts from the chest. Also the bad mouth odor from licking ass and swallowing semen, got it. Someone gave me these things to watch out for and we caught two so called Lagos big boys gbam in Dubai with their partners,who are always in Abuja. And all answers matched correctly.

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    3. Ruth, a boko ku09 January, 2013 11:54

      Continue giving your husband your yansh you hear. When he tears up the place and you have to stitch up like a former beauty queen, your eye go come down. Besides, when it gets slack from frequent banging, guess what? he's going to leave your sorry ass for another tighter one. And you would be pooing all over the place and you would have to get yourself some DEPEND pampers.

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    4. Ye, you wan kill me die. And na true you talk ooh. So many Island girls dey nurse dat pain. Their skirts or pants is forever stained. I know give anyone yansh o. If e no like, make e take a walk. Looking out for the Abuja runzs boys. I talk am. Every idiot dey drive G wagon any how. But you know go see any better work for their hand.

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    5. @sister caro
      i hope you are a yellow sis too lol

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    6. Lucas u go like omo pupa lol!*wink*

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  12. Sex between married people in whatever form is NOT sin! @ d churchy folk here..Don't go preachy on me, I'm very christian too, the only issues here are:
    1. The anus is NOT the natural place where a penis shld fit in.

    2. I'm afraid the use of the anus may have negative health consequences(Doctors in the house we need help on this one) plus like someone said....its basically a deviant practise which has its roots in watching lots of Porn, since ur uncomfortable u probably shld quit soon.

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  13. i think anal sex is crazy!!! But i have Australian and white South African friends who think its normal and do it all the time with their boyfriends. My St Lousian girl friend and i just couldnt get our heads around it. I mean whats wrong with ur vjay jay??? its just not normal to me, call me a prude or sexually unadventurous but aint nobody penetrating my butt hole man, thats just cray.

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  14. Looool...I wonder oooo@anon 11:16

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  15. You are wrong. A lot of people have problems with gay sex because they find same sex intercourse unnatural and offensive. It's not limited to just Anal penetration. Afterall, lesbian intercourse is also frowned at.

    I don't think there's anything wrong with you. Why go far to the "gay man trapped in a woman's body" analysis?

    Anal sex is also a form of heterosexual sex and since you are doing it with your husband, you are not gay. You have kids so I assume you also do vaginal sex, maybe only when you want kids though.

    Apart from the risk of constantly infecting the vagina with bacteria from your Anus, and the fact that most people see anal sex as dirty, I don't think there's anything wrong with the two of you. You are both quirky sha.

    Some people have argued that its easier for a guy that engages in Anal sex with women to also do it with a guy, if pushed to the wall. E.g if he finds himself in prison.

    I'll leave the sin part to the Spiritual heads. Ask your pastor, Imam or Hindu Head

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  16. You are wrong. A lot of people have problems with gay sex because they find same sex intercourse unnatural and offensive. It's not limited to just Anal penetration. Afterall, lesbian intercourse is also frowned at.

    I don't think there's anything wrong with you. Why go far to the "gay man trapped in a woman's body" analysis?

    Anal sex is also a form of heterosexual sex and since you are doing it with your husband, you are not gay. You have kids so I assume you also do vaginal sex, maybe only when you want kids though.

    Apart from the risk of constantly infecting the vagina with bacteria from your Anus, and the fact that most people see anal sex as dirty, I don't think there's anything wrong with the two of you. You are both quirky sha.

    Some people have argued that its easier for a guy that engages in Anal sex with women to also do it with a guy, if pushed to the wall. E.g if he finds himself in prison.

    I'll leave the sin part to the Spiritual heads. Ask your pastor, Imam or Hindu Head

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    1. "Hindu head" just cracked me up! Still lmao!

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  17. My question is: the first time you had anal sex with your husband, who initiated it? If he did be very worried!!!

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    1. author of reader's mail09 January, 2013 14:47

      I initiated it he was reluctant, this was when we were dating he got around to it after marriage

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    2. You're right with ur question of who initiated it. I once dated a guy for 3yrs and he kept asking for anal sex each time we made love. I always rejected it until I realised after breaking up with him that all d while we were dating, he always went to abuja and each time he got back, he

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    3. You're right with ur question of who initiated it. I once dated a guy for 3yrs and he kept asking for anal sex each time we made love. I always rejected it until I realised after breaking up with him that all d while we were dating, he always went to abuja and each time he got back, he spent so much money. It later dawned on me that he was doing abuja runs with Men and women alike. So sad!

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  18. Let me tell you something, you had better stop this anal shit you are doing? What's wrong with some humans? Do you know the end result of getting fucked through your anal? Be enjoying it now o! (Don't even know how you enjoy it when it'll be very painful). Anyway let me tell you what you are doing to yourself. When the time comes, you won't be able to hold your shit!!!! It's be running out cos your anal is loose as you were busy using it for the wrong reasons!!!! And you will have to wear female disposable nappies for the rest of your life!!!!! I hope this will make you put a stop to the rubbish you are engaging in. If not I am sorry for you silly girl. Out of all the various sexual positions you can have sex in you are not contented

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  19. Anal sex is a sin and its crap. You are also easily prone to disease when you engage in such. The gain aint worth the pain.

    Meanwhile, since when did we start arresting and prosecuting goats in nigeria? Read how some goats were arrested cus of Environmental Sanitation here on GISTville

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  20. Both of you are sick and need deliverance.

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  21. There's a reason why God designed the penis for a vagina. Those are the major reproductive organs. The anus is NOT a reproductive organ however. Now though the Bible does not explicitly say you should not have anal sex, however the truth of the matter is that anything created by God that is used outside of its Godly designed function will always have serious consequences. Why do you think HIV/AIDS and all sorts of diseases is prevalent among homosexual men?
    So my advice is for you and your husband to somehow wean yourselves off this unnatural practice failing which you should just carry on and prepare to face the consequences, some of which have been accurately described by other commenters here. I'm pretty sure at that time, it will not be fun anymore!

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  22. Hisss, you can just tell all the closed minded, never been through customs Nigerians with their retarded comments!. Girl you're married, get it whichever way you want!!!

    To all you people saying it's a sin, please who made you judge and jury, you can all facking parachute jump straight to hell....rasclats!!!

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  23. I can see that most commenting here are pure illiterates and highly sentimental. According to research, there is nothing wrong with Anal sex. You are married and your free to do whatever you like with your husband. So many people like anal sex because the place tends to be tight, it doesn't mean they are gay. There is a big difference in having anal sex with a woman, shemale and gay guy. You simply need to lubricate it very well and start the penetration very gently and slowly till the place becomes free, also do it gently. Forget all these NONSENSE people are saying here. There is nothing wrong with you.

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    1. You are the one who needs to do research ooo. Continue doing it and enjoying it oo well done , let see how well you get on 10years from now....... yes we will pass you the diaper / nappy

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    2. Look at this mugu...I am a scientist and it is wrong! it is not natural!..if you want to do it its ur business....but dont come here and be claiming that others are illiterates.....do you know how often pornstars that do this go for checkup especially teh gay ones?

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    3. @anon
      you wrote that a lot of people like it because its tight,what happens when it becomes as loose as the front will they start doing it through the ear and then nose since these are the tightest holes remaining

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    4. hahhahaha lucabracee abeg go sitdown for one side oooo, before you kill me with laugh.
      You are a clown .

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  24. Pls how many of you women put dicks in ur mouth or allow ur hussy's go down down on u.pls how do u categorize this acts.don't bother replying

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  25. p.s she never asked you for health concerns, I am sure she is well aware of what happens with continuous anal sex over a period of time.

    Also, smh @ you looking for answers from some of the retarded people that comment on here. Turn to God for answers and live your life faithfully and in truth...SIMPLE!!!!

    urgh! Nigerians are so annoying with their sanctimonious self-righteousness. Hisss!!! we all know you are the worst sinners that's why you cling to religion like a crack whore!

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    1. you've never made more sense than this. we are all self-righteous when in reality religion means nothing to us. i wonder how many of these retarded commentators have helped the sick or love their neighbors.

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  26. nna na wah o!very soon you will have your self to blame!anumanuu

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  27. I think your hubby is more gay than u,you guys have to stop it,health wise is not good,Anus is made for shit not dick.

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  28. You just love anal sex, finish

    i survived paedophilia! http://efemenaoreoluwa.blogspot.com/2013/01/real-lives-real-talk-i-suffered-and.html

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  29. I hope u realize that is pervasion. How can u persistently practice anal sex. If at all That should b saved for only on ur wedding anniversary. Ones a year.

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    1. so what is your view/comments on this issue?lool

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    2. View ke? Once Luca doesn't comment, she would have nothing to say. Only to be hissing up and down like a snake.

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    3. WONU: lolzzzz at hissing up and down like a snake. U very funny

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  31. there are a lot of sick people on earth oh! so God that created penis vagina no sabi anything. God have mercy on earth. we need ur help.

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    1. the mercy we need is for God to help us from being judgemental. even the bible says so. who died and made u able to judge sick people? who died and made u God?

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