Thursday, January 10, 2013

Can One Have S*x 2 Weeks After an Abortion?

Good morning Ladun, pls post this on your  blog so I can get advice from your readers, am so  scared of what I got myself into (abortion).

I  had unprotected s*x with a girl, 3 weeks after she claimed to miss her period (she claimed she was on ovulation the time we had s*x) and demanded some money for abortion and the money was paid to her account, the next day she claimed the abortion has been done, a week after, she claimed that she has seen her period. Pls my question is this: 1) is it possible to see your monthly period a week after abortion?


2) Could she be telling the truth or she was out to get money from me (which am not bothered about) because am still trying to get my head around this.

Pls advice me first on what you think about my story, pls its a real story. I tried to be nice to her and was telling her that I don't believe her story, but she insisted it happened, but I still sense lies in her, then one day I accused her she was a lair that she was never pregnant, I told her she lied to get money from me and her reaction showed I may be right..... I stopped calling her and she kept calling me ( I sense guilty mind) and to my surprise she asked that she wants to visit me again so we have s*x again. Pls who does abortion and have s*x with same person barely two weeks after the abortion?

72 comments:

NEKS said...

Who gives dough 2 a gal 2 commit an abortion which is a morally and spiritually wrong act,and still has d effrontery 2 seek our opinion if he shld 'rebang' d chick.

Ladun,giv yaself brain o.stop posting crap here.

Omotola said...

1:her menstration can come immediately after d abortion,it depends on her mentral circle
2:YES she can get preggy in 3weeks after sex,provided she had sex during ovulation which is not her safe period and YES she can hv sex 2weeks after abortion!

Anonymous said...

Its even very possible to have an abortion and still have sex the same day and yes, you have have your mensuration immediately or three days after which could just be tiny flow. The only BUT is that having sex almost immediately could lead to serious bleeding that may last days or weeks. Another challenge is that both of you could contact infection from immediate sex after abortion which may be unknown to her. Ask her of the pills she was given by the doctor after the abortion and if she's been taking them regularly so as to guide against infection and irregularities in her menstrual cycle. One of the pills she would have been given is flagyl.


Nneka said...

Oya! All the people that have done abortions over to you. Na anonymous go full here today. By their comments you shall know them!

Ugo Boss™ said...

Me donno #eyerolling

Pakistani Beauty said...

She has obviously had an abrotion before so she knows how it works.
1) yes ur period can start right after an evacuation
2) yes u can resume sex but the dr's will always tell u to give ur body time to heal like say 4 weeks.
3) yes I believe she used the abortion tale to extort money from u

Anonymous said...

I had sex second day of abortion,tank God am saved now.I knw christ,he has accepted me nd am celibate.

Note: she can even see her period d next day.it depends on her body system.

Anonymous said...


The answer to all your questions is yes. Still, she might have lied but there's no way you can prove it. If you were so sensitive about the matter, you would have followed her/or threatened to follow her to the abortion Clinic

A girl can have sex 2 weeks after abortion but most girls won't. You'd want to forget about sex for a while. Now this girl calls you up for sex, she comes across as a whore and I'm tempted to believe she lied all through.

Guy, stop having unprotected sex. What if she was fucking 20 other guys and has given you HIV?

comfort said...

Mtcheeewwwww! God go purnish u! U can have abortion n even sleep with d man d same day! N with d same guy!!

Anonymous said...

All the scenario painted is possible

I however think she lied.

1. If I just had an abortion for you and you turn around, accusing me of being a liar. I'd get angry and not take your calls. I certainly won't be the one calling and begging you

2. She had an abortion, a week later, her period started. So immediately after the period, she asked you for sex again. Even if she was telling the truth, she's sick.

Flee from her, abeg.

Anonymous said...

Is your dick that sweet?

Anonymous said...

hehehehehehe! akpako!

Anonymous said...

Ladun why exactly did you post this? You can't be that desperate to attract traffic Haba! Where's your sense of discretion?
Ok, so what exactly are we supposed to learn from this, that one is allowed to have abortion and still have sex on the same day? That's the message you are willing to pass across abi? If nah homosexuals now, we'll be quick to judge and castigate them, yet people are here discussing abortion like its a routine check-up...
Nobody holy pass o, but dirty linens are better washed in private abeg, somethings are just uncalled for!

BonkoINC said...

Fool....yes u can kill ur self....very foolish question deserves a very foolish answer

Anonymous said...

wtf are u talkin about???*confused look*

annonymous said...

Maybe d girl is lying about d abortion,on anoda hand if its a case of an evacuation for those who are married u can have sex immediately.Truthfully if there was an abortion ur period won't cum till ur next normal period and as for d sex y wld u want to go down dat rd afta d abortion u had?na wa

Atobatele said...

Let he who is without sin be the first to cast stone.

Atobatele said...

Let he who is without sin be the first to cast the stone.

Anonymous said...

i think you are more bothered about the money

Anonymous said...

Kenny:- lmaoooo nne u don craze finish

kofoworola said...

It's possible to have an abortion and still have sex the same day, depending on her body, but if she is asking for sex after 2weeks there is a possibility that she had the abortion, so quit bothering urself and let it go

Anonymous said...

first of all you are a mumu. You had unprotected sex, came inside her, paid money to her and still wanna bang her. Next time don't come in. Then if she claims she's preg take her for a test your self. If it is positive take her for an abortion yourself. Were.nt you the one that banged her yourself. Be a man you dunce

Anonymous said...

In this day n level of exposure! My friend condoms are cheaper than abortion, protect yourself.

Anonymous said...

So its possible to have an abortion and still hav sex 2weeks after?please who does that?the body should rest for atleast two months which should involve continous prayer and fasting,for crying out loud you just commited murder, sex should not even be on any of u mind for now

Anonymous said...

You're a fool,

Anonymous said...

Are u that broke that you want the money you gave her back?! Olodo man no shame even talking her she lied to get money off u, how much is this money cef?! Mumu guy, if u like DONT stick to her be asking us as if we are abortion specialist,,,,, YIMU

Anonymous said...

oya we need advize from all the abortionees

Laduns House Boy said...

Ogbeni fucknizer, If you were so bothered about the chic lying to get cash from you, you could have saved yourself the trauma by buying Gold Circle(which I believe is the Cheapest). Whether she lied or not is not important. you did the DO, so you pay the price. Meanwhile, the part 2 she is asking for will also result in preggy and you must pay for another abortion. Mumu!!!!

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FEMI said...

As a sharp guy, i think you are bothered about the money,just free your mind and let it go,just be sure that the same thing wont ever happen again and i also advise you flee from that lady,otherwise she might want to repeat the same thing knowing that you fell for it at first. so be wise my guy

Anonymous said...

Yh condom re cheaper,but sex without condom is sweeter#gbam#@anon 12:55

Anonymous said...

lol, nneka that wwas funny ....yeah i am anonymous too

Anonymous said...

Experience is talking. Hi 5

Anonymous said...

Second day after abortion? With the blood and all? Thank God for your life now.

Anonymous said...

13.02, Why so angry? Are you the girl that aborted?

Anonymous said...

Second day after abortion? With the blood and all? Thank God for your life now.

Anonymous said...

Experience is talking. Hi 5

Anonymous said...

Helo Mr. I think you should be ashamed of yourself. You should bow and hide your head in shame. You committed sexual immorality. On top, you committed murder. On top you need advise to know whether you have been extorted. You dont fear God. Please go to God with a broken heart, cry with all your heart for forgiveness because what you have sowed today , is exactly what you will reap tomorrow. Ladun please post this message. Dont withold it.

Anonymous said...

Oh shattap!!!! I hate sanctimonious ppl wats d praying for 2 months

Pealie said...

Hmmm abortion, no comment!!!

Anonymous said...

Periods can start days after abortion sef depending on the circle of the girl, yes u can have sex a day after abortion sef. but to be safer gold circle is 20 or 50 naira. hiv/std de real ooo.

Anonymous said...

We are learning

CHELSEA MADUEKE said...

an abortion is evil b4 God

CHELSEA MADUEKE said...

an abortion is a sin &evil b4 God

Anonymous said...

Anon 13.02,how is she a fool?

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Anonymous said...

Hmm... I'm speechless.
It is well o!

Anonymous said...

Hmm... I'm speechless.
It is well o!

Ziba said...

Nneka you crazy o... LOL

Anonymous said...

you should be more bothered about your relationship with GOD,ask for forgivness from God and flee from that your babe,you guys just murdered an unborn child and you are bothered about what's not necessary

Anonymous said...

The deed has been done already so y'all should quit blaming this peeps,i am sure that some of the ladies here have had more than 3 abortions and it was funded by their patners

Nosey said...

LOL...Sharp girl. @ Original poster: don't hate the player, hate the game.
*laughing in mandarin

Anonymous said...

yes you can, but you will be advised not to because the womb is still kinda open and you can get infection that can damage your womb or you can get pregnant again.

Anonymous said...

Am highly ashamed that what bothers you most is the money. How much sef? The girl may be foolish thou, but don't you have feelings, suppose something might have happened to her would you be here talking about being extorted. Guys some of you think with your bathroom slippers.

Anonymous said...

From your gist, You dont know this girl well enough, Yet u had unprotected sex..Onirase
I wonder why we mess ourselves up, Do you know how HIV/AIDS is spreading like wildfire...You werent even scared, What if she had HIV...thats how u wud just catch it....Dont be so foolish!
Pple like u wud get married some day and endanger ur wife's life practising unprotected sex with strangers...
U better use ur head and change....
My harsh 2cents...Thank you

Anonymous said...

It isn't safe to have sex after an abortion. Infact u're adviced in d clinic to abstain for 2-4 weeks. Mind u she starts ovulating again after 2weeks so it is not safe to have sex then.
U don't see your period until 4-6 weeks after. The bleeding u experience after is just the body flushing out the remants and not your actual period.
And who has sex immediately after an abortion? Gosh u're still in some pain then!
Please I am speaking from my own experience.
I thank God for his mercies!

Anonymous said...

LMAO!!!

Kay said...

lol Anon 13:27

****Mufasa Said said...

"...if she's preggy take her for the abortion urself"?? Heaven kws how many children u av killed! How can u encourage such?

Have u no fear of God? Young man, sometimes sit down and ask urself, wat if ur mum had aborted u or wat if obama's mum had aborted him. Pls tink of d consequences of each action u take. How can u sleep wt a woman hu is nt ur wife and hu u r nt willin 2 raise a child wt wtout a condom?? Dats wat pains me d most about 2face! My dear, may God nt hold this evil against u in future! Assume she was indeed preg,U sponsored d killing of a child? I no fear u but I fear God and I will run from people like u

****Mufasa Said

truthurts said...

your still a minor i don't expect an intelligent response!

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm!!!! Wow wow wow.........I'm speechless at how abortion has become a norm but some comments are hilarious tho. Reduce the insults please

dr van bay said...

Aunty gwe gwe gwe! Arabanko! That's an old timer toking mehn! Ekenem gi o!

dr van bay said...

Comfo!

Anonymous said...

Thank God for Jesus Christ ... for real!!!

Anonymous said...

oniranu guy, olopolo bi ti tanwiji ... don't you know that HIV/AIDS is real?

Anonymous said...

?????

Chioma Anozie said...

Oga, you did not say how long you have been dating her for. You did not say how old she is. You did not say if you are married or single. You did not say what your intentions for this girl are. You did not say why with all the STDs in circulation you still had a go without a condom. Money is not an issue for you cos you said you are not bothered. Don't you have a Doctor or a Nurse friend or relative you can ask this question for a professional advice. Why? why? Why? Why come here to ask blog visitors for their opinion. who told you people here encourage murder in form of abortion? If the girl was good enough for you to sleep with her without a condom why don't you present her to your family, see hers and marry her( I presume u to be single) but if you are married, has it occurred to you that perhaps your wife would need some attention and not the I'm tired sex you have after you have burnt off your energy with another girl.
Oga, Please, to avoid unnecessary drama in future always use a CONDOM especially with ladies you know you have no intentions of caring about their lives.
I know people abort babies everyday.Has it occured to you that she may have died (if she had the abortion) where will you be now? Sure not somewhere you'd have access to write this load of rubbish.
At your age you are still having flings and casual sex. You are only worried about her period and you have the f**ing effrontery to want to bang her again. are you even considering that? Anyways who knows the truth except you. If you really care that much, post her till you feel she has healed properly.
In case of next time, seek help from a family clinic, Medical practitioner or all these chemist always in a neighborhood near you!

Anonymous said...

Google dumbo!! Hissssss! If you really cared you would have followed her to the clinic.
-Swan

Anonymous said...

God forgive us all AMEN

Anonymous said...

Has it ever occurred to the you idiots in the previous replies that the person that posted the response you are commenting on might be a doctor? Mschew!

JANDED said...

May God forgive you

Anonymous said...

I have had D&C twice and I know ppl who had undergone such 2u. Not dt am proud of it buh am answering from experience. One can start seeing blood dt same day or few days after. Also d issue of sex after 3 weeks is not a problem cos u don't feel sore in any way. D only thing dt cld prevent u is d guilt of wot u've done. As for d girl calling, begging and asking for sex, I begin 2 doubt d sincerity of her story. Cos if she actually had an abortion 4 u, d fact dt u didn't follow her 2 d clinic and called her a liar n all is enough 2 make her hate u! Unless she is out 2 chop ya money! Kay