Wednesday, October 16, 2013

True Life Story: How I Left Lagos For Benin And Got Raped Repeatedly By A Trusted Male Friend

A friend of mine (names removed by me) reached me and invited me to come to Benin City for an event. I have known him since 2011 so I tot nothing of it. Like no harm can be done after all we go way back and stuff. So I booked my ticket from Lagos and I flew to Benin. On the 13th that was a Sunday, and it was the day of the event. After the event we went to chill at a hotel in GrA Benin. He had a Suite there.  We were with other friends, we all talked, laughed, gisted and all until about 10pm. Everyone started leaving gradually, I wanted to call a cab to take me to my own hotel, but he kept on insisting on dropping me. I was like it is even better, I would save my cab fare.

So I had to wait for everybody to leave before he could drop me. Every body finally left and I was about to stand up to leave but he kept on insisting that I should stay and I kept on saying it was late that I have to travel back to Lagos the following day because of work.


Then when I stood up angrily to go and get a cab, he pulled me and slapped me and asked me 2 sit. I thought it was a joke at first because I just couldn't believe it. Then I took my phone to call out and he seized them saying I am not going anywhere. He tied me up in his hotel, stuffed my mouth so I couldn't scream. He raped me over and over. He said his baba said I was the perfect candidate for his rituals and for his upcoming elections to take place properly next year. I was shocked, I couldn't even believe it.

I have heard stories never thought I would have seen it first hand. Every 2 hours of everyday I was raped, mishandled and rough handled. I was helpless. I wept and cried all to no avail because no one could hear me. Then on Tuesday evening he went out and came back and rubbed something on his manhood and said that it was what his baba gave him to use on me when sleeping with me. That I would loose my womb and my good fortune.

I begged, I cried, I did all I could but he refused. At night when he tried to rape me with what th baba gave him, his manhood wasn't functioning, he tried and tried but it just wasn't getting up then he started to hit me and tried again but nothing and he left in annoyance to go and meet the baba. He was so much in a hurry he left the door open. He didn't lock it with the key. I was there waiting for him to get back.

Around 9am this morning an hotel staff came, they knocked no one answered and then they went down to get the other key only for them to find out the door was even opened from the beginning. And there I was. They helped me out and all. The names he used in filling the hotel forms are all fake. He is still at large. The police are on a hunt for him. His wife is in police custody.

So I want to use this medium to reach anyone that knows anything about him. He calls himself honourable .... (removed and other details too). I just really thank God for life because this is sumone I thought I knew and I was certain. God saw me through, it's not because I am too fine or too holy. This shold be a warning to everybody. "You can only be sure of yourself, no one else.

For those who would say Ladun this story was made up, sit down there and keep saying it was made up. She gave all the man's details, because she wants people here to help her find him. But you see, I am not an FBI agent or a police officer, and since the case is already at a Police Station, the Police should do their job. More so, I only put this up for ladies to learn. Trust no one especially the opposite s*x. They don;t love you more than your family, if they give you a thousand naira they are expecting you to give them something worth ten thousand naira in return. We thank God for her life.

62 comments:

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    1. i dont know why pple keep judgin others......

      My own 2cents is,,,,,,a frnd that u have nt seen for close to a year,,,pls,,never trust the frnd again.....even a frnd that u have nt seen for 6mths sef,,,dont trust him/her anymore

      Ppls turn into beast @ d slightest opportunity

      Dear blog visitor,,,the good Lord uphold you


      Thanks for sharing

      @Galore

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  2. Ths man is ur friend? From where? Ur old aristo or whot? Cos he is married! Y will u go out of town with a man that is married n is not related to u. With all the things going on in ths country. Am happy for ur escape o, I hope they catch the man.

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    1. Did he send the flight ticket and foot your hotel bills?? He automatically would haave assumed that he had right over your stay in Benin. Terrible experience!!!



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  3. Be careful peeps, its crazy world. Check out this interesting link http://tinyurl.com/API-Employ/?id=capital chase

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  4. Jesuuu christi oluwawa. May God help uss ooo. There but by the grace of God go a lot of people. Before you start calling her names We have all done stupid things n got away with it. Yeah she shldntve gone to benin but no one deserves this.

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  5. Oh my Christ! What nonesense? Thank God for sparing the life of the lady involved. She needs spiritual and medical check up ASAP.

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    1. Ladun, and why didn't you share the motherfucker's name?

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  6. let her go to Redeemed church for serious prayers for any other thing he might have done without her knowing. God will help her.

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  7. GOD WILL PUNISH THE MAN! HIS GENERATIONS TO COME..ALL OF THEM... ALL HE TOUCHES WILL ROT! HIS RITUALIST WILL BE PUNISHED BY GOD! OUR NIGERIAN MEN ARE SO HEARTLESS TODAY! NONE CAN BE TRUSTED. GOD WILL PUNISH HIM. HE WILL LIV TO SUFFER. HE WONT DIE IMMEDIATELY. BUT WILL SUFFER IN DIS WORLD B4 GOD FINALLY PUTS HIM WER HE BELONGS. HOW WICKED!

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  8. I believe this story, made up or not, never trust an old male friend or female friend you never know what they have become. Take care of yourselves.

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  9. God Have MERCY!!!! Ladun U shud defntly giv a bit about the man, the personmay be sounding familiar oh! Since he is married, im guessin u dint have intentions of havin anythn with him, since u said u wanted to go to ur own hotel room. God Will defntly PUNISH HIM! He will not go free! so sorry to hear this. go for Serious Prayers and Deliverance in a Bible believin church. God Must Arrest That Man. amen. so sorry! May God help us all to BE Wise!

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  10. My dear am happy 4 u oooooooo.

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  11. Ladun give the mans name abeg!!!!!!!!! atlist some sort of information oda dan wat u have about him, dat will really help!

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  12. Wow! I guess the moral of this story is "trust no one". Bob Marley don talk am say "your best friend could be your worst enemy..".

    Thank God she didnt die in the process.

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  13. The Gud Lord will be your strength ok... I'm so so touched by ur true Story... Please don't hate others (men) because of one man act of foolishness.... www.enyinnayaemma.blogspot.com

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  14. Ladun u r stupid for saying u arent FBI , this man is dangerous , if you bloggers dont post this kind of news whats is the use of social media and blogs? Kmt! Lady if ladun posta my comment and u can see this better sens linda this email or stella dimoko.

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  15. watin worth 1ok for babe body whn u gv her 1k

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  16. Madam ladun, if the story is true, then why are u hiding the name? The police is already looking for him, so u should help out to help other girls, not only to be careful of other pple, but of him in particular. I just don't understand why u r protecting his identity, unless u don't belive it's true yourself!

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  17. Taaa! Wetin she find go dere? Event kor? Event nii...

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    1. Are you saying you have never done such before? Liar

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    2. cudnt she have gone jst to have fun nd meet new frends?? what sort of stpid question r u asking anon 22:33?? do u read at all?? she evn had HER OWN hotel room, and insisted on GOIN back to her OWN hotel..jst shot up abeg!

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  18. Mtcheeww,Ladun,why are u hidin d mans name nau?that's why I like SDK,she dosent send anyone.

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  19. That is why I love stella dimoko korkus

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    1. SDK has deleted the story oooo. She said the girl lied.

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  20. @anon22:33 u r very stupid and insensitive person mayb smtn lik dz shld happen 2 u so u wld STFU!Ode!

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  21. Ladun, u re wicked! Give out the guy's name cox he could do it to someone else which one be withheld. Why withold it when he is at large. If I had known that u didn't staate the name I no for read am at all. What kinda blog is this. Mtcheeeeeeeeeew. Help the police and the poor girl. Crap!

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  22. Ladun abeg state the name! Help the police pple. The info u gave is crap nau. Y are u trying to save someone who almost ruined someone's lyf. The girl should go for prayers and do proper test

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  23. Ladun she sent u this mail,if u can't give out the details send it to Stella's blog,stella will help this Lady faster than the police

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    1. LADUN I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THIS PERSON. LINDA, STELLA AND OTHERS HELP CATCH THIEVES FASTER. DO SAME AND HELP UR COUNTRY! WHAT IS WRONG WITH U!

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    2. Stella has already deleted the story from her blog! She says there are some inconsistences in the girl's story.

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  24. Aw cn u leave ur house to visit someone you dnt really knw even tho u said he's ur friend and never mentioned aw you met him na wetin you find you see just tnk ur head and ur God dis a lesson to those doing Internet love and social love or watever life is to short value ur life....i will never blame the guy cuz he didn't drag u or tie you to his house ole(thief) post my comment ladun

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  25. @sarah na u be the biggest Ode y support rubbish did the guy jaz or drag her na wetin she find she see lesson to those desperate girls out ther

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  26. This story should teach all a lesson, first of all where Ɣ☺u hanging out in a hotel room? This man stays in Benin and instead of hanging out in an open door space but inside a hotel room. Others were going and you still stayed for him to drop you still in the hotel room. I love some peiple comments but it is good to follow your instinct because am sure a wrong signal might have triggered in you that Ɣ☺u ignored. Pls next time be careful of where you hang out and with whom. Cus right now you are only sure of yourself and what Ɣ☺u can do. And always listen to that small inaudible voice inside of Ɣ☺u.take care.

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  27. Ladun,pls go and. Learn frm stella dimoko.at least u can give clues and then we decode.I no gbadun ur style jare.why are u covering up for the man

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  28. Thank God for her. Truly a lesson everyone should learn from. Aside, it seems it has been long they have close pal together and changes might have taken place in character and awareness. Click here for Secrets to writing a Winning YouWin business plan

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  29. Wicked world!no peace 4 d wicked.
    Anywayz,check out dz links peepz. http://tinyurl.com/workid/?id=ksteve .

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  30. Thank God for you life

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  31. It's sad d way our youth reasons somtyms...I shudder 4 our future.. so becos she travelled 2 Benin its 2 do Runs?? Dis re som of d reasons most victims of rape dnt report it.. cos instead of comfort nd justice dey will b victimize... Even if she went 4 Runs nobdy shld b taken advantage of nd treated like dat.....

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  32. This Ladun is the worst blogger ever! how can u say that you're not d FBI and d police shd do their job?
    Its our responsibility as responsible citizens to help d police in fishin out criminals. You can keep d man's details to ur selfish self. His next victim would be ur sister, cousin or friend! Mtcheeeeew!!!

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  33. All lies,wetin she find go there?Girls and their lie lie

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  34. The wife is in custody,wetin remain now?let the police do their job, girls dat re into runs should please take note,you might just be the next

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    1. when he was going to the hotel did he tell his wife i don't see why wife and kids should be in custody...abeg

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  35. Wow!!!!this is a very big lesson for every1 to learn from,guys are not out on this cus u also have sisters,warn them and i am also happy she got out alive

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  36. runz girl things,a married man is your friend and u didnt name the event u went for,just go and do thanksgiving in church before anything

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    1. I'm happy for ur life and this animal deserves to go to jail....but pls stay away from married men umm nwanyi what was the motive of you flying from lagos to benin to meet a married man..hope this story is complete sha

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  37. I am so happy you got out alive,all this useless men and their yeye rituals,u can just imagine oo,baba gave him somtin to rub on his dick,God will punish u and the baba and u will be apprehended soon

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  38. Its well the Lord is really ur strength on this,the heart of men is wicked,the bible already said it

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  39. Bad journalism at its best ..... Telling a story without the details

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  40. girls should be weary of all these married men life is worth more than money ..what if you had died ..ladun stella has retracted her own story o..cos it has k leg...some things don't just add up sha..like what type of relationship did you have with this man? what event where you invited for??

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  41. Wow......dis life is cruel ooo.....even without ladun giving details,I know d person ooo and the so called honourable,d geh is ma gf and as a mata of fact dat so called honourable bought her d 1st bb she ever used,I had always suspected dat so called honouraable,dou his married he spent money for ma gf oo in school up to her service year sef,infact he bought her 1st flight ticket wey back 2011,ahhhhh so sowi for her,FYI dis ma gf is a very decent geh as a mata of fact it was dat bloody honourable dat disvirgined her in benin,afta wich he bought her d bb,so so sowi for her,such a nice geh she was,if only we knew dat bloody honourable had some other motives(dis life sha)may God punish him,*picks fone fast to ring bestie of life)....(born again child says so)

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    1. we all knw its runs she went to do. typical naija gal. she shud thank her heavens that she didnt become another cynthia

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  42. D gal na liar,I dnt believe her story. Pals visit
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  43. Terrible,terrible experience! Thank God for her life.
    But make we girls still get sense small too.money nor b everytin,our eyes too dey shook and na dey put us for trouble.God help us all.

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  44. What a dull story..he slapped you outside.u no pick race.did he drug u to hotel room?asawo 10kobo..he invited u for a oneday event....i can't even keep typing..such a dull story

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  45. U ar a liar,one man cnt just seize ur hand u no even struggle d time I'm take the other hand de bring wetin I'm go stuff for ur mouth.biko girls leave ashawooing

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  46. ladun, if you couldnt reveal his name, then there was no point putting up this story because this same man is going to hurt another woman somewhere. the name would save a lot of people from so much. i feel bad for girls who do runs or feel so comfortable around certain men, somethings are not worth risking your life over. benin, abuja and port harcourt men are dangerous! infact nigerian men. most of them are married sef

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