Wednesday, October 23, 2013

True Life Story: How I Was Brutally Raped By A Friend While Trying To Get A Job

                                            I had to shade off her name to protect her identity
Well this one is true, because after some people said the last one wasn't real, I got another 'rape mail', but told her to send a police medical report or another evidence and that was the last time i heard from her. May be she wasn't bold enough, who knows. In this girl's case, i didn't even ask her before she sent them all in. The police report, their conversations on BBM, his pin and number.  Funny enough the phone number is still on, i called it severally but no one picked up. Please find her story after below.



I am a rape victim and I want to tell my story to the world cos I want justice on the man that defiled me. I met him at airforce junction after I wrote a dragnet test at stadium road PH. He went on about how he was an aide to the governor of rivers state and that his name is (removed by me), a yoruba man and that he could help me with a job since I was from rivers state. we discussed about the recent happenings in the state. we exchanged pins and parted ways. I went back to lagos for business. A month later, he calls me up that his oga wants to see me, smhow, his oga found out about me and would want to see me. I told him I wasn't around now and that I will call him when I came back to town (port-harcourt). I came back to PH on the 15th of October and called him, he said ok. On the 17th of October, he sent me a bbm chat saying hope I dnt mind seeing the oga this weekend, I replied that I don't, since I was free and besides I was job hunting so I saw this as a good opportunity to get a good job. Didn't hear from him that day. He sends me anoda bbm msg that they went for a function in abuja and he wl cal me when dy get back. On the 21st of Oct by 7:05pm, he sent me a msg that the oga wants to see me tonight and I shld get dressed b4 9pm. I tld him that was impossible and how come his oga wants to see me at night and he replied that this is when he's free cos dy jst came back frm a function. I replied that I can't come out cos its late. he went on about how the oga will be angry with him, I was confused and wondered why will the oga be angry at you because he cldnt see me (me d one dat needs a job) so why the emotions?. I suspected nothing at all. On the 22nd of Oct at 7:55:48am, he sent me an sms( can you see oga by 9am.bcos he's goin for a journey dis afternoon).

I called immediatly I got the sms, I received no response and later he called saying he was driving oga smwhr n dt he wl cal me. later he sent me msgs that I shld come quickly to elekahia so I cld meet oga before he travels and that my life will change cos he(oga) helps people. I quickly got dressed told my brothers I want to go and see sm1 that wants to help me get a job. I boarded a cab straight to elekahia and called him, he asked me to stp after the anglican church elekahia. when I alighted, he came out to meet me some minutes later that oga is in a meeting and that I will go upstairs and wait for him. on getting to the builidng, it was a hotel, I asked him y here and he said this is one of his lodge where he holds his meetings and he is the one that manages the places so I shldnt be scared. we got to the reception and he collected a key n we went upstairs, on getting there, it was room 129, it was like an office(never knew the next door was a room) he asked me to order something and I ordered for water.

Then he started saying he wanted to discuss something with me so that I will know how to answer oga's questions when he comes. then he goes about what if oga wants s*x frm me, I replied that I dnt knw cos that isn't the reason am here. And he says he wants to tell me how it goes, I replied that I wasn't intrested and wanted to go home. He asked me to stand up, I did n he said I shld move to d room, I replied that I wanted to leave n he forcefully pushed me to the room. I sat on d bed there n asked him"why are you doin this? I trusted you that's why I came here and now u wana force urslf on me. please let me go I wl give you anithing you want apart frm s*x and he said 5m. and piked up the glass cup and was like if I dnt co-operate, he's goin to smash ma face and he hits the glasscup on me(it didn't break). then he threatnd that he was goin to call his boys to come and have turns with me and they will make videos and pictures, he went on bragging about all d videos he has done with his phone. then he made a call and asked dem to come upstairs. He is above 6ft and well built and m jst 5"3. I was so scared, when he pulled all his clothes and wore a condom and that's when we startd struggling with my clothes,den he held ma throat and pulled my jeans he hit me so hard that I started gasping for air and passed out, woke up n he was still raping me brutally. I cldnt breathe, I was crying and begging him and he held me down saying"I will kill you and nobdy will question me" when he was done, he pulled me up to the bathroom and poured water on me,when he noticed I was still gaspin for air, he gave me E.R(mouth to mouth). I was in pains and I was shaking, I cldnt utter a word n he askd me to get dressed so he cld call a cab for me. I managed to get dressed and he held me so dt I wouldn't fall cos I had difficulty walking. He put me in a cab n dts when I asked for a police station around and reported the case. We went back to the hotel and he wasn't dere animore and we gt reports that I wasn't the first this is happening to(the other lady destryd the door handle of room 129 when she was tryna escape) and that anoda lady was also waiting for him. So now I knw m nt his only victim and I want justice,I want him punished and I also want other ladies in port-harcourt to beware of dis dude. I also munched our bbm conversation as evidence.I want him punished for what he did to me and many other ladies suffering in silence. This is his phone number ( Removed by me, I called it severally to confirmed this, but no one picked).






73 comments:

  1. Sad story. Young people should be wary of people and less trusting. A good rule would be never go by yourself when meeting someone for the first to tenth time, there is safety in numbers.

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    1. My dear girl, can't believe that after Cynthia, ppl are still did daft! How can u tell a total stranger " I trusted u"? Is he ur father? Even ur father sef, and follow him anywhere? Una no dey fear oh, all these rituals, u read about, una think say na make believe, thank God u came out alive. There's no shortcut to success, any reputable company will give u a public and official interview. See wat back door man no man has earned u. In naija, no man gives woman any free thing except he's ur father, even ur father's friend will corner u, put it behind u, try and get justice but leave it to God. Seek pyschological &Biblical counselling, it is well

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    2. For some reason.experience while dealing with rape victims,i don't believe this girl.she was raped yeah but she wasn't looking for job as in job.the guy promised to hook her up with the governor for runs.read well people don't be fooled.If she was looking for job truly,why didn't she tell her mum about it,how come no one knows she is trying to get a job through a so called gov's aide.See i have handled cases similar to hers and i always know when the girls are lying.its so unfortunate that he did that to you but why not come out straight so we know how to help.why lie anyway job na job.why did the guy say "i will face problem this night from oga plsssss" why beg someone you want to do favour for.the guy acted the pimp's for the governor.and she gocked it all through,she acted like a freak all through the drama.he said he was in abuja,her eyes shined and she sai "whats happening in abuja again" that simply means anything for me in abuja or for the guy to say abi u go come meet us for abuja.smh
      we ladies should learn to be useful and stop this runs of a thing.its crazy.how do you do it?damn a beast i don't feel shit for fucks me and i pretend to enjoy it and then after he gives me money.so irritating.anyway whatever rocks you people's boat.

      Ladun pls announce on twitter when you remove this shit bottle so i can come back.its difficult doing meaningful thing on your blog.can't deal.

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    3. well said Omobola.well well said.I thought about it but was waiting for someone to raise it first.

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    4. My thoughts exactly! You were raped yes! But you went for runs this should teach you a lesson! Quit runs life! Job indeed! Sorry abt the rape case buh u n d other ladies got served. You lot be careful money isn't everything. If no job try business small small you go make am!

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  2. LADUN ALWAYS ENSURE U PUT THE FULL DETAILS ABEG, LIKE D GUYS FONE NUMBER ETC... I SAW D RAPE COMING ANYWAZE WEN I STARTED READN D MUNCH. ITS SO SAD BUT I TINK SHE WAS GONNA HAVE SEX WITH D GUYS FAKE OGA ANYWAZE!!!!

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    1. What is "Anywayze" ode.

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    2. Were you in her mind?

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    3. I blamed Ladun when she didn't reveal the identity of the man in her previous post not knowing the girl lied in her mail. I wont blame her for this.

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    4. I really like this awareness. So no more hotels, closed door restaurants except it's an open place. Thank you, thank God.

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    5. Jacob Abiodun now!! Is in the BBM Conversation.

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  3. Nawah ooooo. Na so the thing they hungry the man? MUMU.

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  4. na wao o, see format. shebi u wanted to know oga outside working hours abi, when will u girls learn.thank God the goat used condom u r nt infected with anything, dont worry they will catch him, use your police report to go to his network provider they will give u his address and u can catch him like that and is that his real name.and since the hotel said that wasnt his first time what r dey doing about it.

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    1. Ode hw is it outside working hours...dint u read to undastand dat dey called her 9pm she declined...and dey called her d nxt day 9am nd she left...cant u see clearly huh?.olodo...ol u jus wanna do is run ur gutter u call a mouth..hiss....and ladun,no info ere hw ll justice prevail..ehhh

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    2. Outside working hours? Is 9am not a working hour?

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  5. what is the point putting this post with out the details of the rapist's name and number? how else can something be done? or you want people to contact you? I say full disclosure!!

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  6. Nigerian ladies need to learn that when hotel don dey enter the equation, run for ur life (especially all dis 2 star/3 star road side lodges)

    May God heal u my sister, even God will judge the jacob biodun guy!

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    1. U are right, but I really can't blame the girl. Reason is this, for those who are conversant with the corridors of power and its logistics, I mean either on the state or federal level, you'll know how these people operate when it comes to meeting with those who perhaps want their favors, or who perhaps have some unofficial dealings/appts that'll be of mutual benefits to both parties.

      Their modus operandi. What they do rarely is that they give u an appointment to meet them at ungodly hours. And it doesn't necessarily have to be meeting with the opposite sex o, its same with same gender or whatever. They usually hold meetings at the wee hours of the mornings when there is little or no disturbance from anywhere.

      Go to Bourdillon road in Ikoyi and see how many people are waiting to see Tinubu. Tinubu will never see u during work hours. Any appt with him is mostly at night from 8pm upwards. If u get there at 8, u may not see him until 1am. So if it is u who needs his favor, will u not wait to see him? Same with other govt officials, they hibernate in guest houses or their liaison qtrs, which is where they either meet their girlfriends or others who want to meet with them.

      So this is the reason I can't really blame the girl as such. However, the said appt she had here wasn't even with the oga, that is where she should have been alert. And the tone in his communication with her seemed desperate. That was another redflag she should have been weary of. Lastly, the hoteliers should be arrested if truly they confirmed that it isn't the man's first time.

      I'll also suggest that this young lady insists on meeting the oga, whoever he is. She should ensure that she constitutes a nuisance, break every protocol in that office until she gets the so called oga's attention. After which she should tender her case... the oga should be the one to fish this bastard out for using his name and the authority of the office he occupies to commit this gross act of rape.

      Go to the locat tv stations if need be, go on a road protest with a banner, scream and match around all the media houses until the oga hears that some lady is acting "mad"..then they'll ask what u want. Otherwise u will suffer in silence. My 2cent. Godspeed

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  7. ladun this is very touching but i am suprised u are hidding d guys details, den how do u want justice to prevail

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  8. Jacob abiodun if this is true, u will never know peace until u confess all ur rapes n hand ur self to d police. U have raped peace of mind in ur life.

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  9. ladies... am not blaming dis gal, but come on..... nobody gives jobs in a hotel she was ready to nack the oga but didn't expect rape... maybe she tot she was being pimped at a point.smh...may God serve him in his own coin

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  10. Ladun you re a fool why removing his name and number mtwwwwww justice and you re removing the name and number then what's the need of the story

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  11. My dear, what happened to you was traumatic but please let this be a lesson to other young girls. No job is found in a hotel room. Once someone asks you to meet them up somewhere and you realize its a hotel, TURN AND RUN AWAY!!! Learn from Cynthia, learn from other girls, stop going to hotel rooms with strange men!!! If you must meet, STAY IN THE LOBBY!!!

    Am not blaming you for the rape dear, I just want other girls to learn from the mistake you made that led you to this horrible fate. But I am glad that you are not afraid to fight. Please fight and make sure they get this guy!

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  12. Everyone needs to be careful regarding who they go anywhere with, both men and women can be raped now. We live in a very dangerous world

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  13. ds rape case ds days...na wa oo

    When will women begin to rape men

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  14. Laden if u are going to help? D only way to do it is by letting pple know d full details of d criminal. If he is innocent, he shud prove it by coming out. LADUN stop hiding details.... it's annoying n u are not helping. please be useful abeg. N post my comment. So angry with u ladun

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  15. Hmmmmm nawa o how sad.. I pray nemesis catches up wt him. But y will a man rape a lady esp one he barely knows? Is dat d effect of prolonged conji or wot? Tufiakwa, som men can really b disgusting! Babe just take heart, d wicked would not go unpunished.

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  16. Ladun please don't bother publishing such if you keep hiding the rapist details. No point as it will not keep other girls at risk safe

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  17. Ladun is this guy your brother or cousin? Until he rapes you before you disclose the bastards identity? You better put his number and full name.

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  18. She wasn't smart. With deir munched convos i already smelt rape.

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  19. if hotel room 129 enter the quadratic equation, na biological anatomic studies be the only option. God go help us

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  20. LAdun i havent commented on your blog before but this time i have to. Please, put the guys phone number and name there. He has been doing this to so many girls and going free. This is truly unfair. He needs to be found out and punished. Please put his number online

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  21. i still blame the girl sha....hope u ve learnt ur lesson
    http://startmonthlyjob.com/?id=lola

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    1. Oh sharap! Stupid naija mentality, alwaz blaming d victim.

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  22. u guys telling Ladun to disclose d dog's name/phones are not right cos Ladun has no proof of d guy that raped her (name & no) BUT d big question is: since the hotel staff said she's not d first girl d dog has raped, then they are partners/accomplices with him - they know what he does in their challet/room yet they allow it. d hotel mgt should answer for it.

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    1. I totally agree with Mrs Samuel. The hotel staff should be arrested cos they are accomplices. They should have had the human dignity to assist the police since. The nerve of them! I'm so pissed

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    2. Thank you for this comment. She's not the first person to be raped there and another girl was waiting for him. This simply means they are accomplices and should be arrested immediately.

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  23. She's always hiding d guys details. How do well meaning Nigeria now help na? U no dey try Ladun

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  24. Ladun pls try to put d rapist bbn pin and phone number

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  25. Thank God he used a condom....

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    1. Ladun u r so annoying.pls reveal his identity.u annoy somtym.if u cnt reveal his 1D hw d hell cn d gurl get justice?u jus know hw 2gt on my damn nerves

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    2. body count nko?

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  26. I don't know in the life of me why girls should fall victims of unwanted sexcapades and rape.from the onset,d girl should have used her sixth sense to tell the guy was not sincere but rather suspicious.becos he mentioned d "president"or "airport"u now rly think he is what he says he is.girlls please be careful and don't be quick to trust a man.that u re desperate for a job doesn't make u an easy target for these scammers.if I were u,@d mention of d word"lodge or hotel",dat would ve been d end of d discussion.the evil ones re everywhere.may God help us.Amen.as for that bastard,he wil not run too far.karma is waitin for u.idiot.

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    1. Hmmmm, I dont even know what to say because the first job i got after my service in 2009 in an outdoor advertising company my last interview was conducted in a hotel room.. After i was interviewed by the manager at the office, he told me i still need to see the CEO, but he is based in PH but will come to Lagos for a meeting that week..At first i was scared but the pay was good. So i decided to tell my elder brother who said he will drive me to the venue and wait for me. When we got to the venue (a hotel) i was told the man's room number, when i went in he was lying on the bed and i greeted him politely and sat down , he then asked for my CV, ( i had purposely asked my brother to hold on to it) so wen he asked for it i rummaged through my folder and was like'' Oh pls sir i must have left it with my elder brother at the reception'' So he then asked me, '' You came with your brother'?'' I said yes and he said ok.
      Anyways what am trying to say is that i was lucky, it could have gone wrong. I sympathize with her. Anyways my Boss turned out to be a very nice Man. But if it were to be now, i wouldn't even dare!!!!!
      Sorry for the Story jare.
      Am just trying to say that sometimes we are too desperate to make wise decisions.

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  27. why are ladies so gullible,someone u don't know want u to meet his boss in the hotel for a job u desperate want and u oblige to it, not taking precautions on what we read and hear about rape all the time, not that i support the man's action, just feel shes not intelligent, just wish you were someone i know,i wld have slapped you like 20x. should have gone with your brother or a male friend,ayway sorry,thats wat u want to here

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  28. so gullible sister, someone invited you to hotel for u to see his boss and u oblige all i the name of job,u should be flog 30 strokes of the cane, u ladies at times act like your brain is like that of a fish as it is popularly said. didn't your initiative tells your that since its in an hotel then d setting is informal and u need protection, so go with your brother or male friend. anyway sorry guess that wat u want to hear

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  29. Totali horrible... Stupid foolish gal.. Nd I'm a lawyer nd I so anti- rape nd believe dat he who rapes anoda is @ fault. But this girl is a foolish cow, wat did u expect wen u go nd see a man in his hotel room. U r puttin urself @ risk... Nd u dat is looking 4 a job dey r begging u to come nd see the Oga!! Ladies beware

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  30. I think it will be wrong for Ladun to mention d dog's name since she(Ladun) has no proof of d dog raping d lady but d big question is: since d hotel knows that d lady isn't d first victim of d dog, they are his accomplices/partners and must answer to it. I believe that if any hotel/chalet/brothel( as it may be) knows a shady deal of their client, they are expected to report to the appropriate authority.
    Also, we ladies must desist from being naive and/or gullible, always know d difference btw friend and acquaintance - they're two different words and MUST be treated so.A word is enough for d wise.

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  31. TRUTH IS DAT YOU SHOULD HAVE SUSPECTED THAT HE WAS A LIAR, NOBODY CAN TELL YOU TO MEET THEM IN THE HOTEL IF THEY DO NOT HAVE AN ULTERIOR MOTIVE OKAY, YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN A LITTLE BIT MORE SMARTER. GOD WILL DEFINITELY PUNISH THE BASTRD

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  32. So sry bout ds incident dear,God will judge dt bastard!he.will nt knw peace ijn!dis is a big lesson fr ladies oooo me sef don learn.

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  33. Ladies pls never get so despirate for a job that u will follow a stranger to a hotel room,except u are a runs girl and that is your usual way.

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  34. Ermmm am sorry he raped u ooo,but how culd u av accepted 2 mit a stranger in a hostel room, nd say 'I trusted u'. On d oda hand,dis is a lesson to learn from dis story,my dear pray nd get help, as for the rapist......my bible tells me 'what ever a man sows .....' So dnt wori,his duaghters are in doom

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    1. haba leave his daughters out of this o.please

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  35. I'm sick and tired of u dumb fucks and illiterates on this blog, how the hell was this her fault, u all act like u are holier than thou, my GOD! Such hypocrites, one can't gain any support from u nigerians. Idiots

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  36. you guys are very silly,what a low mentality. Even if you walked inside the room with him,you dont deserve to be raped.. so sorry hun

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  37. This is really sad. That is why in partnership with Project Alert, we are working to ensure this menace ends and deserved justice is meted. Our virtuous girls can't keep talking about getting raped. It is a terrible act and we need to put a stop to it NOW. Together we can end rape. Please join the fight and #StandtoEndRape.

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    1. How is Nigeria going to fight ds horrible nightmare ? By now that man should hve bn arrested nd locked up in jail forever. Yet his identity is bn protected! In most developed countries ds man is as gud as dead !

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  38. I think you thought you would sleep with the oga ... but when you saw the smelly guy, you was disapointed.. The messages from him is straight up scam in the first place.. Hope you get better soon.

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  39. If the story is true,too bad!How are we sure it turned to be a rape after the fact that there was no job as initially promised?

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  40. Please we need 2 note dis... There is no justification 4 rape wat so ever. Evn if d so calld sista met dis guy in a hotel, lodge, lounge, charlet, wat ever place, it doesn't justify rape, and jst becos she isn't our daughter, sista, cousin or niece isn't d reason y most people here say unfeeling tins. Never blame d victim. May d rapist be caught!

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  41. And these rapists will become sm1's husband and daddy someday?... May ma family, friends n I not share in d consequences of sin we know nothing about! God, may u pls protect us all

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  42. Hiding the identity of a sex offender ?! By now his nme should hve bn on the Nigerian national data system as most dangerous man! I gve up!

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  43. Young Lady u were too gullible and desperate! From the munched msg there was never any job coming from anywhere! U shudda gotten worried when he said he wud get into trouble with his Oga! Trouble how nau? Is the Oga ur father? Which kind trouble be that? There was no way in he'll this guy could gv anyone a job and you met him on the ROAD!!! How could u trust him!!! Girls need to be careful! It has been said several times that d best time these politicians can slot u in for a meeting is late at night, but I believe if a man wants to see a female late at night it's either for a huge biz deal or just sex, there's nothing in between! Girls need to be careful! This was a scam from the get-go!
    Number 2, every member of staff in that hotel must be arrested! That wasn't d 1st time?!! And u let him let another room??? With another female? The same room 129??? And we want a new Nigeria when we ourselves are nonchalant?!! They knew he was a rapist but he prolly settled them all! Cos they said themselves it wasn't the first time!!!
    Ladun must be a rapist also cos I don't see why u keep protecting these identities!!! Why r u protecting the guy!!! Why?!!! Next thing she'll say in her own defense is "I'm not the Police or FBI or CIA" bloody nuisance! But u have a platform (ur blog) which pple read!! And someone could know this fellpw and help catch him and bring him to justice! And if the story is untrue, he tells his own side that maybe the girl or someone is blackmailing him!!! But Ladun Pls stop protecting rapists and stop encouraging bad-behavior cos these rapist will start feeling invincible!

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    1. I STRONGLY AGREE WITH U! NOT HAPPY LADUN KEEPS HIDING THEIR IDENTITY...FOR WHAT NA???????? SOOO UNPROFESSIONAL!!!

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    2. Lol@Ladun is also a rapist.lmao
      this is a sad post,i shouldnt be laughing.#AsIwas
      oh shit this bottle again.sigh

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    3. So you're saying its completely the girl's fault. Wow.

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  44. Dear poster, I'm so sorry. May God heal u completely in and out. I can never say this enuf, girls/women pls stop going to meet guys in secluded places, hotel rooms and all. Meet in open places, most especially for pple u do not know. Friends can do d same thing too, so pls take urself out of harm's way. And for d silly hotel staff saying he had done it before, dy shd b arrested for conspiracy.

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  45. The rape cases are becoming way too much. How careful can one be?? God help us.

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  46. Why are people on this blog blaming the girl? I fail to see how rape, in any case, is the girl's fault! So girls aren't allowed to trust any guy they meet? WE are the ones to be reserved? If a rape happens, it is entirely the rapists's fault. We shouldn't be wondering why she didn't give out information, or why she trusted the man, but why HE raped her. It's bad enough that she has been violated, we have no right to judge her when this could have happened to any one of us.

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