Tuesday, August 23, 2016

Female LL Reader Says She Can’t Marry The Man She Is Dating Because He Is SHORT

I need advice from readers here. I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, he's a good man and takes good care of me. I love him but not enough to marry him as my husband. There are some traits in him I don't like. The both of us are not tall and I don't want to birth short children.

Unfortunately, he proposed to me at the Mall in the midst of his friends. I had no choice but to accept him to avoid embarrassment. I am 27 and I don't want to make the mistake my friend made by marrying a man she liked and not totally in love with because she is regretting her marriage.

Now I don't know what to do. I have his ring but i don;t want it. I need some advice please. Thank You.

15 comments:

  1. Why go out with him in the first place? Be prayerful and seek counsel, height, size, weight, complexion doesn't matter in love. The most handsome might be the devil in the home

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  2. Please don't if you know you can't marry him

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  3. Marriage is a life time commitment

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  4. You made up your mind, I don't know what else you want to hear. Your love for him is not enough to marry him, why did you choose to waste his time( if "your time" is not precious to you). You took his goodness and care for granted, abi?. Or did he turn short overnight?. Good luck in finding Mr. Giant...

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  5. But you are so daft
    why did you date him at him? was he not short then
    the truth is that you want to dump him after milking his pocket dry

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  6. I bet you will end up being single forever

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  7. Lol,you dated somebody for 2 years and didn't have plans to settle down with him.May I ask why?You have to tell him the truth but you sha aren't acting fair.On the other hand,there is nothing like settling down with somebody you are completely in love with.Goodluck

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  8. My dear marry this guy before u turn old mama for house. Pls i need mature minded friends both male and female my bbm pin is 7b7007b7 my what's app is 08092474096 ( no lesbians pls)

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  9. You are a thief. You can date him but can't marry him. Stop wasting his time and chopping his money. ole

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  10. Use your tongue to count your teeth. That is my advice to you.

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  11. Woman, you are wicked. So you didnt know he was short when he first asked you out. Or you didnt realize he was short when you dated. You had better say the truth that you dont love him and you have found another person. But no be person Marry Kevin Hart

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    1. Hahahaha... Kevin part made me lol

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  12. I also dated a short man. I didnt like short men but i still went ahead to marry him because i felt i was getting old and all my friends were married. He loves me. But up till now, i dont like going out with him. I cant wear heels which i love to wear. I dodge outings with him. Now i feel i shortchanged myself even though he gives me peace of mind in my marriage to him. I work in a place where we have lots of dinners and my colleagues bring their husbands. I have never asked him to go with me because Im ashamed of his height. Its not worth it mortgaging your happiness. Let him know you cant marry him. You may not necessarily tell him its because of his height. But please let him go. You wont be totally happy with him and this would affect your marriage.

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