Friday, August 5, 2016

Marriage: A Reply To Pastor Adeboye By Charlyboy

Must you Marry?

For the past few days, pastor Adeboye's advice to youths on marriage have been trending all over the place. I suspect that the good pastors yarns tells me that he is a man suspended in time, between old and new school. Don't get it twisted, in as much as I flow with his definition of a good woman, from his statement I see that the obvious way to his heart is through his stomach and of cause through prayers. Good, No wahala.

However our amiable pastor rubs it in when he starts to yarn Akpata, " Marry a warrior, if a girl cannot pray for one hour, don't marry her. Don't marry a girl who is lazy, who cannot cook. She needs to know how to do chores and cook because you cannot afford to eat out at all times" Hummm na wa! Really? Seriously?

So if my wife to be can't rant, chant, shout and generally carry on as a prayer warrior, praying for a whole hour, the woman doesn't deserve a wife status. Abi?


Oga pastor, that one na missyarn. Over praying does not make one a better husband or wife, because the world especially Naija is filled with Fake people and "Fakest" pastors. Does a man having a job guarantee that he will make a good husband? Does a woman knowing how to cook guarantee she will make a good wife? Haba.

Ok I get it, The Nigerian god has an ear infection, so we must shout and pray for hours because that's the only way he may listen to our prayers, right? I know that a man is suppose to marry a helper and not a cook or a house girl. By the way, is anything wrong with encouraging your young male congregation to learn how to cook and do chores too.

"Do not marry a worldly lady" what the heck does that mean? Is it about being materialistic or just being fashionable, looking nice. I guess in your book we can't be a good Christian if we got swagg and we are trendy. Judge not pastor. We must all not look like Deeper Life people to have a personal relationship with God. By the way, if you want to start writing your own commandment you may as well write your own version of the bible for your congregation. Na una way.

Being married should never define a man or a woman. Marriage in a few years anyways, will be out of fashion. Being married is only nice if we are lucky to pick a partner who will be our friend, if not, that maybe hell on earth. All of us must not get married if our threshold for nonsense and garbage is low. The world is obviously changing and we are no longer in the 60s. Who wants to be suffering and smiling. Most importantly marriage should not be a milestone for anyone. Yes o.

 Like I always say, it will take two to tango. Marriage only works when partners are determined to make it work. It can never be a merit badge, or a status for happiness. Many of us are enslaved in our myopic mindset that makes a mess out of what should really be a good friendship. So Oga pastor Adeboye, watch your yarns because a lot of people lookup to you, Biko. I don talk my own.

7 comments:

  1. PASTOR ADEBOYE IS AN ORACLE OF GOD AND HE SPOKE IN THE SPIRIT AND NOT IN THE FLESH,CIVILIZATION WILL KILL MARRIAGE AS YOU HAVE CLAIMED BUT THE WORD OF GOD STAND FOREVER AND CANNOT BE DESTROY,SO CHARLYBOY YOU NEED TO WATCH YOUR WORDS BEFORE GROUND WILL SWALLOW YOU UP ,REMEMBER THE REBELLIOUS SPIRIT OF KORAH,ABIRAM AND DOTHAN AGAINST MOSES AND THE REPERCUSSION,THE GROUND OPENED AND SWALLOWED THEM UP BURIED ALIVE,REPENT SO THAT YOUR OWN CASE WILL NOT BE LIKE THAT CHARLYBOY.

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    1. Which Oracle, y'all need to stop deceiving yourself. Adeboye is a mere human being like u and i. How did u know he is an oracle of God? No be only Oracle na SQL. #rubbish

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    2. I pity you and your trash talk

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  2. Things of the spiritual are different from physical o

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  3. Mr Charles, Pastor Adeboye was speaking to hi children and whoever cares and has ears to hear. Definitely, not you or your ilks.

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