Thursday, October 13, 2016

Teacher’s Note Complaining About Oil In A Student’s Hair Sparks Outrage

It seems we can’t go too long without hearing another story of someone complaining about a black child’s hair. Whether it’s in an Afro, braided, or loc’d, there seems to sometimes be an issue if it isn’t styled or cared for in a way that does not conform to Eurocentric ideals of what hair looks like and how it should be treated. And the same issue arose again on Monday when Tionna Norris, a Chicago parent, shared on Facebook that she got a note from her daughter Amia’s teacher, asking her to stop using as much coconut oil in her daughter’s hair.

“I understand the necessary of coconut oil on Amia’s hair, but please do not use as much. The children were complaining that her hair “stinks.” If you have to apply this daily — please do so lightly, so the kids don’t tease her. Thank you for understanding.”

Norris’s daughter has kinky-curly hair, which needs lots of moisture to be healthy. If hair with that particular texture is not moisturized regularly, it can cause breakage.

Norris posted an image of the letter side-by-side with a snap of her daughter’s (admittedly fresh-looking) hairstyle, which included a side braid and a crown of seriously gorgeous curls. And her caption for the photo confirmed that she had no intention of taking the teacher’s advice. “*applies the same amount of coconut oil* y’all gone feel that black girl magic. Sincerely, unapologetically black mom. P.s. Coconut oil has no stinky smell.”

Norris says her child is the only black student her class at the Raggedy Anne Learning Center, which adds another layer to the issue.

“This is why I make it a point to keep her hair natural and tell her yes she’s different and it’s magical,” she wrote on Facebook. The photo, which has been shared more than 3,000 times on Facebook, has a few people wondering why Norris and her daughter should make any changes to what they’re doing, when the teacher should instead be telling kids not to bully others.

“Why is the ill manner of another child your responsibility? It’s absurd,” one commenter said.

“I hope the teacher wrote the other kids parents about being bullies since she’s so damn concerned,” another echoed. Others pointed out the fact that coconut oil in general doesn’t have that strong a scent.

Norris wrote that she and her fiancé went for a sit-down with the school’s director to talk about the issue. They apparently learned that her daughter wasn’t getting bullied for her hair in the first place.

“In the conversation she explained the letter was never supposed to be offensive in any way shape or form, no one ever said anything to my daughter, and Amia’s teacher is just a complainer (she’s Russian). We had an adult conversation, and my daughter has many friends, so no I will not be removing her from the school. The teacher is also being disciplined,” she wrote in an update to Facebook.

Yahoo News.

7 comments:

  1. Coconut oil smells like vomit. I for one use it and can attest to that

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  2. I like how her mother stood up for her daughter

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  3. It's not racist
    Coconut oil smells really bad
    So the mom is overreacting

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  4. It's not racist
    Coconut oil smells really bad
    So the mom is overreacting

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  5. Plus if your read it well its the kids that are complaining not the teacher

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  6. Honestly, I don't like coconut smell too(there are some oils that smell awful). My girls and I use it after hair wash day, but I make sure I use olive oil nourishing spray or Cantu nourishing cream or any cream that doesn't smell offensive before going out of the house.

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