But if you continue spoiling him, you are doing yourself, READ MY LIPS (well in this case, my fingers) HE WILL NEVER CHANGE. You will forever be his ATM, and at the end, you will hate you lived your life taking care of him. Your kids will grow up blaming you. They would say, mom, you ought to have let dad out. Continue...
If it’s because of s3x with another woman, damn it, let him go and have it. Don’t spoil him, just because you don’t want him to look at another woman, please don’t. Even if you try to stop him and monitor him, my sister, he will still cheat, he will still cheat on you with your money. Remember he is IDLE, d3mn he is still going to CHEAT. So if it’s cheating fine let him go. All you need is for him to man up and get a JOB. No matter how small the salary is, bring some cash home MAN. You get? Seriously, if you are doing this just stop. Help the man, by not FEEDING him 100%. At the end, you are helping yourself and your kids.
So this lady FED him 100% and she got DEATH at the end of the day. May her gentle soul rest in peace and may her good works speak for her.
N.B we have been in church all day. Sure you went to church too? How was yours? Mine was awesome?