Wednesday, April 12, 2017

Readers Mail! His Pastor Wants Us To Revoke Our Oaths N3ked Despite I’m Now Married

Hi Ladun, You are doing a great job, keep it up. I am an ardent reader of your blog. I need your readers to please advice me on what to do because I am in a serious dillemma. I started dating this guy in 2009, no sex though.

On my 25th birthday, He begged me to have sex with him which could only show my love to him. I agreed because I truly loved him and I was not ready to lose him. I gave him the condition that I will have sex with him unless he swore an oath with the holy bible. We both swore the oath naked and promised never to leave one another.

After a year, we lost each other's contact and I moved on with my life. I got married and had a son. One day, I came across with my ex at a mall and he was very happy to see me. He screamed so loud and I was embarrassed. He told me he was married to but facing challenges.


His pastor told him that the only way to get out of the situation is for us to revoke the oath we took then naked, because he said he confided in him when he got married and the challenges began. He has been calling me to come and meet his pastor so that he can conduct whatever thing we have to do. I am now a Christian and I have been thinking  this is not right. He can’t see my nakedness again. Please is this right? I have not told my husband. I can’t even tell him, but I hate the present position my ex is.

Hmm, FREE THE SHEEPLE. I’m so borrowing Daddy Freeze’s words on this. My sister, if any pastor tells you as a married woman to come and revoke a oath naked with another married man, please run. They are not revoking any oath o, it is probably for something else. Any man who encourages such is NOT OF GOD.

13 comments:

  1. How could do you make an oaths with the Holy bible? That is too bad

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  2. @ladun well said. Pls she should not try it. Moreover, if she has surrender to Christ; I think the man should do the same so that he too can be free. Also, for the sake of any future circumstance, pls she should tell her husband.

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  3. You have said it all ladun. Sender watch your back

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  4. This is common sense. I bet it with you that he will make love to you again and it will break your home. You still have a thing for him if not you will not be asking a stupid question. Call the police on the pastor and your exlover

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  5. Pray to God for help not LLB readers

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  6. You are right Ladun, No pastor will ask a married woman to show her nakedness to a man she once dated. He would rather pray to avert the situation

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  7. This is serious, tell your husband about it

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  8. You are both at fault. Why make an oath you can't keep. Never use God's book or His words in vain. Call on him for forgiveness

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  9. How can you take a oath with the Bible, you don't even swear as a Christian James 5:12.
    GOD can forgive n break d oath from any distance you don't need to be naked... people Pls don't take oaths

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  10. @ poster, in my opinion, that oath is even of no effect, bcos the bible does not allow pre marital sex , all you need is go to your pastor and explain all that transpired and pray for forgiveness. Never you surrender yourself to that pastor.

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