Monday, September 18, 2017

Pictured! Nigerian Lady Abandoned By BF & His Family After Giving Birth Wants Others To Be Careful

A distraught 23 years old single from Okene Local Government Area of Kogi State, North Central, Nigeria, Miss Ajarat Adams has warned her colleagues who are still single to be careful and prayerful before entering into a relationship with any man to avoid falling in to the hand of a wicked man like her estranged lover (Name withheld ) who impregnated and abandoned her at the hospital where she gave birth the baby who died same day due to lack of money.

She said that she decided to speak out so that other innocent singles would learn from her bitter experience before they foolishly got pregnant for their so called lovers, saying men are “lairs,deceitful and wicked.”

Narrating her ordeal she passed through recently in the hands of her estranged lover to Pm News in Lagos, Adams said that she entered into a relationship with a supposed loving and caring young man from Ikorodu, Lagos in 2016 and that along the line he lured and pampered her till she became pregnant which he accepted and begged her to keep the pregnancy with a promise to marry her.

She said that the young man even took her to his parents at their family house in Ikorodu , Lagos to introduce her to them as his wife to be, while she also took him before her parents in Ikorodu to introduce him to them as her husband to be, not knowing that he was a deceiver.

Adams added that her estranged lover started manifesting his true picture when she fell into labour in May, 2017 and was rushed to a health centre in Ikorodu town, Lagos where she successfully gave birth to a baby boy.

She stated that after she regained consciousness, she discovered that her baby had a big hole on the right side of his head and that doctors on duty advised her to call her people so that they could issue a medical report for her to transfer her baby to a specialist hospital to save his life.

She said that to her utter surprise, when her estranged lover came to the hospital with his parents to see her baby with a hole on his head , instead of them consoling her, they started calling her all sorts of names and abusing her, saying that they “don’t need a child with a hole in the head in their family and they left the hospital without dropping any kobo for the upkeep of her child and the hospital bills.”

She said what pained her most was that her baby died same day when help did not come from anywhere to give her the needed medical attentions.

Adams said that she is advising singles to learn from her bitter experience to scrutinise  their lovers to be if they would be supportive and show love if temptations occurred in their relationship;

She appealed to Non-Governmental Organisations, NGOs to come to her aid and fight for her.


  1. Why will you open your yansh for a man you were not married to? You are just 23 now

  2. A hole in the head, and the healthy Nigerian newborn was left to die. Just like that (in Fela Kuti’ voice). What a world in Africa.

    But, why the need for seeing her relatives before the doctors could give her a referral transferring the newborn to a place where he could be better managed?

    How big was this hole and where in the head was this hole located?
    Could it have been one of the fontanelles that was just bigger than normal?

    How come the baby quickly die like that just because of a hole in the head?
    Were the baby’s brain tissues outside of this hole, or there were other serious health issues with the baby that nailed the baby?

    I doubt the medical doctors were asking for money(egunje) before writing the referral so as to enable the mother/family members transfer the newborn to a much more better and highly equipped hospital.

    So, what really happened?

    This case should be taken seriously.

    Is it not better for this lady to petition the Lagos state health management board, as to why her baby should be allowed to die just because of a hole in the head than wasting her time complaining about a family she never married into?

    What about this lady’s own people?

    How come they were not there when she was about to give birth? What help did they render to her while pregnant?

    How come she is not complaining about her own people/family that abandoned her to a family that never paid her dowry.

    So many questions going through my head.

    A family that abandon a family member in her hours of need is not a good family.
    Thus this lady herself is not from a good and ideal family either.