Monday, January 22, 2018

Nursing Mom Takes To Facebook To Explain How Hubby Cheats On Her With His Babymama

A mom of three who goes by the name Ruth Brownie on Facebook has taken to the social media platform to explain how her hubby as been cheating on her with his babymama. Currently, Ruth is nursing One month and two weeks baby and she says all she feels at the moment is pain. Read her rant..

''My first rant..I recently found out hubby still having an affair wt baby mama..he sleeps in her house whenever he goes to to visit his son..complain about me to baby mama how I always hide my pregnancy from him until it's four months before letting him know about it..every little thing I do baby mama has to know..wen I was pregnant n admitted in hospital he told her...I was actually admitted thrice cos I was really so sick..baby mama used this to insult me ..she told me how am too dirty ..that probably it's becos of my dirtyness dats y I keep going to de hospital..how I should keep my kids clean just de way she's keeping her son clean.. Continue...


She told me if she wasn't a clean n beautiful prostitute my hubby won't be running after her...she said people get pregnant in Europe and dey tell dier husbands in a few weeks but mine had to take months..she said I de worst part is that I don't even Kno whow to cook dat God should help me.. I showed hubby all these insults..guys de man bone con ter me dat I shuu not dare say a word to baby mama..I have never been humiliated in my whole life like this..hubby says am de woman of de house I should not fight dos outside..I told him with all dis sickness weey fuul everywhere..he said he doesn't sleep with a woman who has sickness..we have three kids..buh he doesn't even care if am hurt.. am so hurting like never before..my mother said I should try not to cry as it will ruin de baby's breast milk..dear ranters..my heart is heavy....I still have after birth pains..lately he told me to go get a job dat I have to contribute to de hse rent..how do I start with a one month two weeks old baby and a two year old..my first son is not with me..am just tayad..can't think straight anymore..baby mama has two teenage girls...wen I gave birth ..just three weeks.. hubby left dat he's going to visit his son..I asked him wats de urgency dat it's three weeks I have dis baby he should know I need a helping hand..I wonder what he n baby mama are teaching dos her teenage girls when they do at night.....hubby will even come back and boast about his sex life with baby mama..asking me wats wrong if he sleeps with her ...as in he has dated her before so there nothing wrong if he goes back sleeping with her..to him it's not cheating.....it's freedom..how can he be cheating and boasting about it....dear ranters are u thinking wat am thinking????dis is my rant...#feelingsohurtandhumiliated

14 comments:

  1. And you are still in that marriage?

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  2. This thing called marriage sef

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  3. I feel your pain dear but unfortunately some men are so heartless and selfish. Please listen to your mum and try not to cry too much as it may affect you as your homones is all over the place. Face your children and after about 6 months get yourself a part term job to keep your mind occupied. May God see you through. All the best.

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  4. Whatever that is happening to you now is a wake up call for you.

    Straighten yourself up.

    Get up your ass.

    Get a career, or quickly go back to your career that you dumped to become a housewife, and start working and earning money.

    Then start taking care of yourself again and start looking young, fresh, clean, and good.

    The dude will then wake up.

    Your dependence on him is what is emboldening him to be treating like trash.

    The moment you are financially self reliant, the dude will wake up and start treating you with respect.

    Trust me, he will.

    -olu@atlanta-

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    1. This will be the third time Olu will win my heart with his comments. Every other comment are bad. And I mean very bad. Thank you for the good advice

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  5. Wht goes around comes around, the babymama should expect the same too

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  6. Pray and fast you have alost lost him

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  7. It is always nice for women to be financially okay. Kick his ass off the curb asap

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  8. Dear poster I feel your pain . I have been through it and worse my own child was even pre mature and had a 50 50 percent chance and with all of this barely 2 months after C S operation I was physically beaten cos of baby mama. I know it's not easy with 2 young kids to cater for . Let me tell u what I think you should do . Hold your peace ignore him and the baby mama focus on your kids and start planning ur exit mentally. Start looking for a job once baby is 3 months old put your child in a creche stop sleeping with him without protection . Give your self a year to move out and be self sufficient. Don't let him suspect any of your moves continue being a dutiful wife ! But start planning your exit . Don't argue with him don't complain about baby mama tell him you have taught about it and you have accepted her as a wife . Play the fool play the fool play the fool you will laugh last. I did it it took me a year to move out and be self sufficient and by the grace of God I am now I won my business i employ people. Most of all pray pray pray the baby mama will surely go diabolical. Any woman that has the mind to drag another woman's husband can kill. Pretend to accept her. But once you have moved out continue your prayers give your hubby 2 years he will come begging success is the best

    And please start programming your mind to fall out of love with him . So even if you catch him sleeping with Another woman you will offer to put on the A.c. for them ! If you get to this point you have won the battle ! All the best. You can do it

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  9. Dear poster I feel your pain . I have been through it and worse my own child was even pre mature and had a 50 50 percent chance and with all of this barely 2 months after C S operation I was physically beaten cos of baby mama. I know it's not easy with 2 young kids to cater for . Let me tell u what I think you should do . Hold your peace ignore him and the baby mama focus on your kids and start planning ur exit mentally. Start looking for a job once baby is 3 months old put your child in a creche stop sleeping with him without protection . Give your self a year to move out and be self sufficient. Don't let him suspect any of your moves continue being a dutiful wife ! But start planning your exit . Don't argue with him don't complain about baby mama tell him you have taught about it and you have accepted her as a wife . Play the fool play the fool play the fool you will laugh last. I did it it took me a year to move out and be self sufficient and by the grace of God I am now I won my business i employ people. Most of all pray pray pray the baby mama will surely go diabolical. Any woman that has the mind to drag another woman's husband can kill. Pretend to accept her. But once you have moved out continue your prayers give your hubby 2 years he will come begging success is the best

    And please start programming your mind to fall out of love with him . So even if you catch him sleeping with Another woman you will offer to put on the A.c. for them ! If you get to this point you have won the battle ! All the best. You can do it

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