Thursday, November 22, 2012

I Want This Mystery Man - Married Woman


I hate to judge. But hey ladies, let us send mails that will make our marriages strong, i am not married o, but some mails just scare you away you just don’t wanna try marriage. I wouldn’t have posted this mail, but hey i wanna hear what ladies have to say to this. I want to see how many ladies that will support this. Click to read.

Hi ladun, my name is chizoba (not real name) i am married, been married for over three years now, am like every other married woman who is not so fulfilled with her marital life, i have never cheated on my husband before, i have tried to live my the book but it hasn't paid me well, i decided to turn around and taste what the other side of life is like, i haven't dated many men, i have always been the #goodytwoshoes#. 

My husband cheated on me just a few moths into our wedding, i forgave him, we moved on, he did it again and again, i am tried of hearing pray for him and let him be that he will turn a new leaf, i cannot be sharing my man with everyone, you claim to love someone yet you screw around. Maybe i need to get some action myself as well. 

I hit the gym, toned my body (not like am fat)i  am very much to behold, i am tall, beautiful, and i turn heads but i cannot dull, if he cant keep his thing down and derives pleasure in toiling with my emotions, na to look else where oh. along the line at a social function i went, i met this awesome guy, he actually helped me out with my car because i had a flat tire, from there we exchanged complimentary cards, the first time i saw him, i just knew he was the one i wanted to explore with, he is sweet to a fault. 

I gave him a few weeks, he did not call or keep in touch, so i found him on facebook and added him, we exchanged pins and started chatting constantly, he knew i was married, we chatted all through the day, he told me all about himself, his failed marriage, how he has been separated from the mother of his 6 year old son for 4 years, we talked about his business, he is fully loaded (RICH) he got so used to calling me that i had to warn him to stop cos am married that he should ping me first and find out if the environment is okay for a call, he told me so much things in a few days we started talking, i dint blame him, am a very warm person, understanding and ready to listen, i also told him about my predicament as well, and he said he was sorry about it and gave me this option, if the seat is too hot for you, walk out. the thing is i am not ready to leave my husband because i still love him.

Back to the main gist, we got so inseparable, so close, we talked all the time, i paid him a visit to his house and it was magical, i felt like a baby all over again, he had not had sex in a while, he ripped all my clothes off, gave me d head of life, licked me all over, turned me around and we had the most amazing and rewarding sex ever, it was fantastic, we skpyed all the time, had fone, sex, sent unclad pics to each other, we looked forward to seeing each other again, but the problem is, ever sine he got inside me, he stopped communicating with me like before, i have him on bbm but he wont update, he just treats me like i don't exist.

Ladun please help me what do i do, i want more of him, i got so fond of him, how can i start this all over again with him, how do i confront him, when i am having sex with my husband, i close my eyes and all i can see is him, all i can feel is him, all i can smell is him, i desire only him, he has a girl friend abroad and i understand, i do not want to have a relationship with him, i just want to continue the steamy awkward relationship with him. his name is........ if you want his facebook ID you can mail be back and i will get it across to you.

108 comments:

  1. ashewo.... make u quit your marriage and move to his house... olojukokoro

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    1. He probably broke up, because you can't speak correctly or you don't know how to fcuk!

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  2. Madam is this a joke? Why would we want his name or his FB Id? Anyways u said u love ur husband so forget about this other guy, as he has forgotten about u. I empathise with u sha, ur description of ur first time together got me all horny and sh*t so I can just imagine how u feel. Anyways all I can say is he's just not that into you so move on. (I have no other advice as I'm not married and have never been in ur shoes)
    Valerie.

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  3. Buhahahahaha you have been used and dumped like the piece of rag that you are. He sees you for what you are. An adulterous ho bag. I'm sick of these good for nothing readers' mail about cheating married women. They're spoiling market for us single ones. Shut up and cheat if you want to cheat. Stop sending your stupid dirty sob stories to blogs. Adulterous hags looking for cheap ways to make yourselves feel better about your nonsense. Just shut up. Shut up. And Ladun stop enabling these expired idiots abeg.

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    1. Word Prof!
      I'm with you on this one
      You nailed it.
      Ladun read the last line well
      "Stop enabling these expired idiots"

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    2. #Hi5# it's women like this silly woman that make men look at us anyhow, oniranu oshi! Mumuni! He stopped communicating with, and you wonder why? Kmt Go for couples therapy and sort out your mess!

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    3. LMAOOOOOOO!!! These women still fail to understand they will be nothing more than side pieces. Smh

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  4. I laughed out loud in the office reading the part*he stopped communicating*
    Babe wot were u expecting,abeg grow up. Go nd meet d man of God who joined u nd ur hubby nd tel him u wanna dissolve d marriage.
    C'mon communicate wit ur hubby

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  5. Hey babe he never broke up with his wife. Uve been had girl. Just move on

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  6. Lagos-is-my-Home22 November, 2012 15:45

    A married woman sending """ sent unclad pics to each other """"....
    smh . Do you knw where those pictures can end up in .

    Get a divorce woman , leave your husband if you cant stand his cheating and get some pride . Only a useless woman with no pride will be cheating on her husband . He is ignoring you blc he came to his senses , hopefully you will come to yours soon .

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  7. You are just a shameless married whore. What will you teach your kids? He's dumped ur sorry ass, go look for another man and keep fooling yourself.

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  8. My dear Chizoba you're playing with fire.... While i agree it can be most painful to have a cheating spouse especially in your very young marriage, your action is definitely not the way out. Two wrongs dont make it right..... Please while you still can go to God in prayers in sincerity of heart and ask for forgiveness and mercy. Look inward and see whether you've done anything to make him cheat etc... If yes, pls make conscious efforts to turn a new leaf else I'll tell you what you don't want to or tired of hearing. Go back to God and ask for his will not yours and I believe things will ease up. Please let Mr Rich go if you still want to feel your marriage...

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  9. Oga ooo!this institution called Marriage*lipssealed*

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  10. hmmmmmm wonders shall never end, i am married as well, those who are single want to get in, those who are in want to get out, i cant shout, men will be men, i have someone i relate with, strictly coded runce, he is a divorcee as well, and we just ave the most of eachoda, guess wat, i am happier, i relate better wit my husband, i dnt snoop thru his fone, i dont minitor his activities i just look else were for hot passion, he is even getting uncomfortable with my attitude of not nsgging or snooping around, it is too good to be true, go girllll ave fun and get ready for the consequences wen ur caugfht, u gota be super smart to play dis game, delete all call records, clear all chats, do not send nude pictures, get off bbm for safety or padlopck ur fone

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    1. Pray to God for forgiveness....u will be expose one day repent sharp sharp

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    2. WONU: Hmmmm! GNS 101 ma'am gettin scared already cos I neva marry o.

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    3. WONU: Hmmmm! GNS 101 ma'am gettin scared already cos I neva marry o.

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    4. Honestly all these confession from married women is making me scared! I am planning on proposing to my woman but Everytime I read married women confessing I keep changing my mind and procrastinating!

      Pls women are you all the same?i am confused bcos I have never cheated on my gf.

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    5. Kerry,every man is different and so is every woman...don't use the story of one to judge all,we all go through different situations in life.
      Uve never cheated on ur gf means u inlove with her,people hardly marry for love this days hence all this nonsense.
      Follow ur heart,and hope for the best.

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    6. Unbelievable!
      Smile#

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  11. KEEP AWAY FROM HIM IF YOU WAN YOUR MARRIAGE TO STILL EXIST,IF YOU REALLY LOVE YOUR FAMILY,DESIST FROM SUCH ACT,YOU WILL NEVER GAIN ANY GOOD THING FROM IT RATHER YOU WILL LOOSE YOUR HUSBAND AND MARRIAGE AS WELL...YOU NEED DELIVERANCE.

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  12. Ok lemmi sit n wait 4 d comments

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  13. Oh what a wonderful world! Madam Chizoba, u are playing with fire. Hawt fire.

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  14. Dis person is a Yoruba Woman!! Yoruba women can never be Satisfied with one man!

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    1. Olodo ... C ur mouth

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    2. WONU: here we go again we dnt need tribal bullshit here luv.

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  15. Ladun u don come again abi? Where is the completion of MM story Abeg leave us out of this hissssss

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  16. Hi pls I want his facebook id let's c him but then lemme check if ur husbands cheating, get intouch with me

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  17. U are loss infact u don turn to ashewo already the guy is tellin u he's done with u can't u understand??? Haaaaa fuck menhhh

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  18. I am all for trying hard to make a marriage work but I won't stay with a constantly cheating husband. I wonder how you can love a man who disrespects you so, again and again. AIDS is very real and you will be cheating yourself and your children if a philandering husband gives you HIV or other STDS

    Your eyes have seen what adulterous women see. Now that the guy has had you, he's moved on. What do you want Ladun to do? Beg him to take you back? He's probably thinking he doesn't want to have anything to do with a cheap whore like you. Move on, forget him. Stop ridiculing yourself further.

    Talk seriously with your husband. Since you love him, you can make him change. There might be something you are not doing right on the matrimonial bed. If all these fail and he still cheats, get out of the marriage.

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  19. 1st of all u r a disgrace to womanhood,2 wrongs don't make a right.2ndly,d foolish man dt slept wit u has put a curse on himself and u.(The bible says woe to a man that sleeps wit anoda mans wife).instead of feeling remorseful ur looking 4 more,3rdly wit all d cases of nude pics ending up on social sites u still send nude pics..disgust

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    1. Na una know. Cast d first stone if u r without sin. Sin is sin!!!!

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    2. Shattap Idiot.. She's a disgrace.. Cast stone kill you dir

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  20. With all these comments I am reading from women, I am getting afraid of my wife! Na wa o! make una take am easy with all these cheating. If una tire make una leave the marriage! Abi you want the title, the money, the perks of being MRS, at the same time getting the XXX on the side!

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    1. It is enough to be AFRAID...so many of my married girl friends are having some quietly by the side , especially d yourba ones. It is so common ehn, SHAMELESS LOTS.

      Never satisfied kmt, there is no perfect marriage. Focus on what u have and make it better instead of bringing HIV into ur home

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  21. Iranu in d highest order..................mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwww

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  22. You have lost all sense of decency. Absolutely shameless. If you loved your husband, you wouldn't cheat on him. Its bad enough that you had sex with your partner in crime. Now you want to tie him to a bed and have your way with him continuously. It was same you that made the first move on him via FB, you went to his house for sex and now you want to ruin his relationship by stalking him.

    Leave the guy alone. Continue with fantasizing about him while fucking your husband, nothing wrong with that. Work things out with your shitty husband or get a divorce. This might be the kind of foolish behaviour that got him cheating on your arse in the first place.

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  23. wow, dis is serious, aniway......

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  24. Iranu in d highest order..................mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwww

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  25. Next time, pocket that your intro, Ladun. If you like, don't marry because of the crazy mails you post. There are a lot of happy marriages out there, but there's no reason to send the stories to you and brag. You see them around definitely.

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  26. Men, women are becoming expert at your games. To some people who think being over weight is a criteria to cheat on ur spouse, I hope u have seen it. Men are insatiable. I am unmarried. 23 to be precise and still serving. I happen to have older friends. My best friend is 30 years old. 80% of them are married. Guess what, they all cheat. As their husband dey do their own, den dey do their own too. I ask them why, they said they don't like it but they'd rather have fun than die of deppression at home. That is d attitude many women have this days. A lot of married women cheat, don't be deceived o! I don't want to judge them cus na dem no where shoe dey pinch them!

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    1. GBAMEST! God bless you jare. I am married,never cheated on my husband but I know how painfull. It. Is to be cheated on. Me are filthy and will kill you with their. Callousness if given the chance. Nontheless I don't think cheating is right. But I don't judge anybody

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  27. You have lost all sense of decency. Absolutely shameless. If you loved your husband, you wouldn't cheat on him. Its bad enough that you had sex with your partner in crime. Now you want to tie him to a bed and have your way with him continuously. It was same you that made the first move on him via FB, you went to his house for sex and now you want to ruin his relationship by stalking him.

    Leave the guy alone. Continue with fantasizing about him while fucking your husband, nothing wrong with that. Work things out with your shitty husband or get a divorce. This might be the kind of foolish behaviour that got him cheating on your arse in the first place.

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  28. I am all for trying hard to make a marriage work but I won't stay with a constantly cheating husband. I wonder how you can love a man who disrespects you so, again and again. AIDS is very real and you will be cheating yourself and your children if a philandering husband gives you HIV or other STDS

    Your eyes have seen what adulterous women see. Now that the guy has had you, he's moved on. What do you want Ladun to do? Beg him to take you back? He's probably thinking he doesn't want to have anything to do with a cheap whore like you. Move on, forget him. Stop ridiculing yourself further.

    Talk seriously with your husband. Since you love him, you can make him change. There might be something you are not doing right on the matrimonial bed. If all these fail and he still cheats, get out of the marriage.

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  29. U don enter one chance! Next!

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  30. TBH i don't know what to say, it feels like u are getting revenge on ur husband, tbh my dear, the only person u are hurting is urself.

    If ur husband cheats, and u cheat as well, it does not make u a better person. I wish nigerian pple believed in marriage therapy. You and ur husband should talk things through, or get a divorce if things are not working out. Life is too short, don't waste ur life being in a marriage u don't want to be in.

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  31. Yet another unhappy marriage tale. This should be the umpteenth one... This is getting old. Very old.

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  32. Asewo kobo kobo. Leave the man alone. At this day and age, you are still sending nude pictures up and down. The man has chopped and cleaned mouth. Maybe you were terribly disappointing when he had sex with you sef, hence he's avoiding you on BB. My advice to him is to leak your messages and nude pictures if you don't stop disturbing him.

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  33. I was just expecting to see if I could read d part where she will say d guy stopped calling after they both had sex. My dear what where u expecting? Such things don't last,he got u where he wanted,ofcus he knows u are still married,he can't nd won't ever marry u. U will only hurt urself tinking that u don't want any relationship from him cos he already has one. And pleease women should be wise wen men tell Dem DAT de have galfrnds but she's abroad,does DAT line still exist again?? See my candid advice is pray for forgveness from God nd move on wth ur husband.dis man won't take u serious,u both had a nice time so let it go nd live wth d guilt for d rest of ur life except u want to tell ur hubby which we all knw how it will turn out to be.. So ask for forgveness frm God nd live ur life. But really ur husbands infidelity isn't an avenue for urs my dear. For DAT man he has gotten wat he wanted so don't push it,u both enjoyed it while it. Lasted so forget it cos DAT ship don seal longggggg ago.. Move on nd focus on ur marriage since u say u still love ur hubby but really as u knw u don't hurt who u love. Its in mens nature to cheat but one thing u should know evryone has a conscience. U tink ur hubby doesn't knw he's doing d wrong thing to u? My dear concentrate on how to make ur man love u nd forget DAT oda man.. Bin dia don DAT BUT as a single lady am not yet married..

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  34. I was just expecting to see if I could read d part where she will say d guy stopped calling after they both had sex. My dear what where u expecting? Such things don't last,he got u where he wanted,ofcus he knows u are still married,he can't nd won't ever marry u. U will only hurt urself tinking that u don't want any relationship from him cos he already has one. And pleease women should be wise wen men tell Dem DAT de have galfrnds but she's abroad,does DAT line still exist again?? See my candid advice is pray for forgveness from God nd move on wth ur husband.dis man won't take u serious,u both had a nice time so let it go nd live wth d guilt for d rest of ur life except u want to tell ur hubby which we all knw how it will turn out to be.. So ask for forgveness frm God nd live ur life. But really ur husbands infidelity isn't an avenue for urs my dear. For DAT man he has gotten wat he wanted so don't push it,u both enjoyed it while it. Lasted so forget it cos DAT ship don seal longggggg ago.. Move on nd focus on ur marriage since u say u still love ur hubby but really as u knw u don't hurt who u love. Its in mens nature to cheat but one thing u should know evryone has a conscience. U tink ur hubby doesn't knw he's doing d wrong thing to u? My dear concentrate on how to make ur man love u nd forget DAT oda man.. Bin dia don DAT BUT as a single lady am not yet married..

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  35. Nne, idi stupid, okay? He stopped calling u bcos u are a fucking trashy hoe , are u surprised? I think I know u- u are very tall,very black, wit a 'skanky' odour n please don't ever call urself beautiful again! Anu Mpama,Osho-Free Ashawo! I hope he used a condom on u!

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  36. Instead of you to chop small and move on, use the experience to ginger your marriage like some smart women do, you want to turn Mario and die on top of the man.

    You better stop that rubbish, free the guy and work on your own marriage.

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  37. 'Hit and Run' baby

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  38. All these married sob stories. Ladun...you make me laugh. You and linda ikeji have a lot in common. You try to justify your being single by posting sob stories of married women which I know you must have made up sixty five percent of the time to console yourself. Can't you look around and find marriages that are happy and post it therby encouraging single girls like us. I know those tactics that you are using. I use it too to console myself that why should I marry when most married people are unhappy but that's not all true. When you seek positivity,you will find positivity around you. You may not be married but program yourself for positivity and good report if not what you constantly read will influence you greatly. You may get married tomorrow and just bcos of all you have read,you start thinking your husband is cheating when he is not and that may drive you into what you didn't bargain for. Long epistle shaa but iv made my point. #rockbabe#

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    1. @anon17.43 Wetin ladun do na?she dey post mails wey she dey receive & even her blog commentators dey always say dsame tin dey happen 2 dem.ladun dey only show d tins wey dey happen 4 naija society. Wich bad tin ladun com do now eh?Ladun welldone 4 all ur work o

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    2. @ rock babe correct talk!

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  39. You were just a booty call period

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  40. I totally co-sign that comment Professor X! My sentiments exactly! Silly, dirty, sad, miserable, adulterous expired hags seeking relevance. Nonsense!

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  41. i even know the woman sef!!
    funny enough i have suspected she was up to this kind thing for a while.

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    1. and so?don't arrange your home stay there and be suspecting

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  42. This is super storyyyyyyyyyyyyy

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  43. Hahahahaha
    Girl, u just got served big time!
    Guess what? The girlfriend he has
    abroad is actually his WIFE. He's
    prolly one of those "I live in naija
    while my wife and kids live abroad"
    These kinds of men ALWAYS lie and
    NEVER come clean about the family
    they have. Men will tell any lie humanly
    possible just to get some pussy. And that's
    exactly wat the mutt did to u. Lmao!
    #HoHoHo

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  44. O ma wa ga o.me too if I see any loose man hanging I no mind to date o.now I see why men cheat.they can't just be having one meal everyday even though they love their wife and can't stand to loose their family.i think d tabe too is now been turned around and women too can't eat just one meal for the rest of their lives. Hence d reason for cheating

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  45. O ma wa ga o.me too if I see any loose man hanging I no mind to date o.now I see why men cheat.they can't just be having one meal everyday even though they love their wife and can't stand to loose their family.i think d tabe too is now been turned around and women too can't eat just one meal for the rest of their lives. Hence d reason for cheating

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    1. yes women are also now tired of one kondo.they are getting bolder and men are becoming afraid.the answer is for everyone to zip up or accept an open marriage

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  46. Hmmm... The things women do (•ِ̑•̅)! Why are u washing ur dirty lines outside? U expect us to advice u to go to his house again and have mind blowing sex? U sure not feeling okay! U got it all wrong and I just pray u hubby doesn't find out.. Men cheat and still love their wives.. Its just in them to cheat,but its not lady like for a married woman to sleep around.. And anyone who tells u what u did was good is a damn whore too

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  47. The constant cheating is so annoying,how can u luv a man who does that. If u find smone on the d same wave length (discreet) wit u, why not have a relationship at least u'll be happy while it lasts. Doesn't make it rite though. Guys what do u advice smone whose husband has not touched her for over 2yrs, only the grace of God is holdin me back.

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    1. powerful vibrator and dildo.take ya pleasure into ya hands

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    2. A dildo will not hug or kiss u neither will it be emotionally there for you.

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  48. where is the final part of M&M story? ladun! ladun!! ladun!!!

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  49. Orisirisi. Please what is the aim of this your mail, Madam writer? We are supposed to sympathise with you and fish your lover boy out, abi? So because of all the stupid cheating wives' mails you read here, you think we are all the same. I blame Ladun for insulting us this way, by giving you an avenue to unleash this trash on the society. Imagine Ladun's condescending speech at the beginning sef. No be una fault o, una hear?

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  50. Hmmmmm. I'm cuRrently facing something similiar. Just that in this case, I'm a single lady and the guy in question is a married man. We had the craziestttttttttt sex after ... The best love making I have ever had !That's after several steamy conversations and chats. I know he's married with kids but we don't talk about his family and I don't even ask. Although, he asked about mine and I told him I'm single and searching ( its effing hard to get a single guy in europe).

    Anyway, after the first hookup, he didn't call or text me for days. I ignored him too. Daysss later, I sent him a line and he responded. I have kept my emotions in check. Cos I know I can not have him. We check up on each other often.

    However, he wants us to meet again cos he enjoyeeddddddddd the sex so much. I'm thinking I will meet him one last time and end it. Before the insults start pouring in, just know that we used a condom !

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    1. Dats gud berra do fast en leave persin husband for her. Am in UK en d boredom here is almost runnin me mad I need friends am also single buh decent. Am just fuckin bored here. #crying

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  51. Madam Chibuzor,
    You can't have your cake and eat it. Its either you make your marriage work or you get a divorce. However,since this maybe too huge for your myopic brain to comprehend,I'm gonna give you advice based on what I think you deserve. Your fling left you bcos he has gotten what he wants from you. Quit whinning about how good the sex was with him and go find another dude who will give you the same(if not better) experience. There are thousands of guys out there who are willing to indulge the sinful desires of such women as you. When you have been tossed and passed around from one guy to the next in the name of looking for good sex,then your eye go clear!
    Such ladies like you disgust me! You lost valuable points with me the moment you decided to sample the grass on the other side! Goodluck with your life!

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  52. Smtin av cm to realise dis days is dat most married women cheat!aint married yet bur wen I do n I catch my husband cheAt on mi den he's in 4 it..I dnt even need to get attached to whu I cheat wit..it will only give mi dat inner satisfaction gbam!

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  53. He told you he has had no sex for a while and you believed him....na was o.

    Anyway, go on with your bad self.

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  54. She wants advice on how to get her fuck buddie back, all of you anumanus dey judge her, did she beg you for advice? shior


    madam, visit him naked, take ice cubes and kyjelly along. take premium vodka and mirrors too.


    he go screw you like madt

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  55. Story for Tortoise! Kmt

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  56. thank you anon 17.43..Ladun is always trying to justify her being single by continuously posting this terrible stories..Guess what? there are happy and healthy marriages that exist in nigeria ..anyway i understand that ggod news isn't interesting nor traffic worthy....

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  57. i have observed that when a lady finds herself without a boyfriend or fiancé she takes up the ideology "marriage is not good ,its better to be single,i don't need a man"..immediately her status changes and she gets a guy..omo the story changes..hehehehe

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  58. Very cool story ni sha!!

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  59. Well I won't blame chizobar, I m newly married too,just two months in marriage, I snooped thru am hubby,s fone den i discovered he has not 2',3 but five bedmates, while i went to sleep over at his mothers place wif am baby, we have a girl together, my hubby and his bedmate where exchanging nude pics, I confronted he said it didn't happen, for the benefit of marriage i blanked the whole thing, buh he admitted to having fun wif gals, now he doesn't even keep his chat history anymore, so dat I won't have the cause to cry...so I just got to myself I won't dull at all, so I went back to the bobo I used chat with, so I have found solace in anode person until husband comes back to his senses, now I don't even care bat where he goes to now, as long as he provides for his daughter I m just fine.......

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    1. 5 fuckmates????jesus christ of nazareth!!!! Madam ur husband is a sex addict! And a serial cheat...am so sorry....

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    2. Are you not lucky he has only 5? Mine has dozens at his beck and call that he travels the world with and I can't do anything about it. Staying married to man that cheats is not easy especially when he has lots of money to throw around and is a politician. I laugh when other women envy me because they don't know how I cry myself to sleep everyday and fear for my life. I cannot even cheat if I wanted to cos of security details following me unless I want to turn into a lesbian or date drivers, cooks, gardeners etc. I would give anything to leave my marriage but I have to remain with him cos of political reasons. I fear what will happen to my life and that of my children if I decide to leave him. I would give all the money in the world to be happy.

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  60. Kai.are u kidding me?u cheated on your husband all because he is doing the same thing.wow thou shall not judge but babe you got served,entered one chance,hit and run baby.move on already.facebook id?who needs it?do u want d guy to serve us too ni.Lol@head of life.

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  61. Why is that married women cheat. No matter the provocation from your husband, you dont have the right to cheat on him. May God help you.

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    1. She has a right to do anything she wants,right or wrong.Its her decision.
      It's either she suffers and smiles as usual or gets seperated from the dog till he decides to start respecting himself.
      Women have reached elastic limit and are now dominating the cheating arena.
      I'd rather prefer they seek other means to resolve the issue than cheating back but I guess it's better to be a mrs and continue cheating.
      Cunny man don jam cunny man.That's life

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    2. But he can cheat on you,isn't life funny?am single n it just scare's me when I read all kind of thing's about marriage..for instance what do u do when u av a constantly cheating husband? Are u meant to remain in d marriage n pretend as if all is fine?I am not 4 her n also not against her but one thing is this,think well b4 u leap n accept what ever comes after ur actions.good luck chidioba

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    3. But he can cheat on you,isn't life funny?am single n it just scare's me when I read all kind of thing's about marriage..for instance what do u do when u av a constantly cheating husband? Are u meant to remain in d marriage n pretend as if all is fine?I am not 4 her n also not against her but one thing is this,think well b4 u leap n accept what ever comes after ur actions.good luck chidioba

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    4. WONU: Mr Jamb, so d man as d right to cheat on his wife? answer o. KMT

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  62. STUPID KERRY

    BIKO X FROM HERE JOR...WHAT KIND OF WEAK MIND DO YOU HAVE.

    I FEEL SORRY FOR YOUR SOON TO BE WIFE...BECAUSE SHE WILL HAVE A FAIR WEATHER HUSBAND!

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  63. And why iseveryone judging just the woman?so the hubby isvery right 2 cheat huh?no one issaying wat she did was right,but wat abt the socalled husband who isbusy cheating without remorse?didnt they take the vow of marriage together?why must the stupid act of the man fallon the woman 2 address in the home?-----why do we have the mentality that its in the men's nature 2 cheat, pls where isit writen?NOTE:am nt supporting the woman bt if α̲̅ marriage must work it has 2 be α collective effort frm the husband and wife.

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  64. You guys keep advising divorce divorce divorce. Its not easy to just walk away! The next guy you meet might even be worst. All Nigerian men are polygamous, period. Guess most of you here are below 30years. Marriage these days are something else. It takes the grace of God to survive. Society accepts bad behavior because you are a MAN. But hey, we are stuck...... unfortunately. If you start sleeping around as in you the woman, you are labelled a whore! Its a difficult one!*sigh*

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  65. hope it was not Ben Jo you slept with?

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  66. Lol at some marriages

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  67. He probably broke up, because you can't speak correctly??? WTF

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  68. Who needs his FB Id. Hiss

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  69. Who needs his FB Id. Hiss

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  70. Thank you happyhausabunny

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  71. It has come to stay oh. Nigerian women are tired of being depressed in their marriages by their constantly cheating husbands. It's now a case of chop and clean mouth for both spouses but don't get caught. Is marriage really neccessary? I think we should start addressing that. Why do people think vows were made to be obeyed by only one spouse?

    Abeg make una park well jare!

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  72. I'm not in support of "an eye for an eye" but i think men should also respect their wives and stop toying with their emotions. They are human being too and i dont want to believe that it's only the women that has the responsibility of making the marriage work. Infact when they know that their wife cherish the institution called marriage so much that's when they take her for granted.

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  73. u are just a whore, its as simple as that. two wrongs neva make a right, cos ur husband cheated, u must cheat too right? please its just an excuse to explore the bitch in you. the dude has moved on, if he needs ur p....y again, he ll get in touch , dont worry, trust me, i ll do dsame. bitch, any advice for you is just a waste of time. go back home and make babies and stop trying to arrange ur pathetic life.

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  74. Anon 23 November, 2012 16:14 you sound like a First Lady. Welcome oh.

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