Sunday, April 28, 2013

Why I Am Still Single- Empress Njamah

The actress recently spoke to The Nation's Mercy Michael, where she told her the reason why she is still single and being a car freak with 5 cars.

Here is an excerpt from the interview:

As one who is brilliant, beautiful and curvy, why are you still single?

I’m gonna say this alright; I don’t care how people take it, the days when marriages were sweet and all beautiful are no more. If you listen to how your parents got married and how those days it was sweet, it’s not like that anymore. I’ve escorted a lot of people into marriages, I won’t say I’ve escorted them out but I’ve witnessed them come out of it. Click to continue.


So psychologically it’s not good for people and then being what we are, a lot of people think because she’s this, because she has that I don’t think I will be able to handle them. A lot of people can’t stand an industrious woman especially if she’s doing well. It’s the mentality of the people. If a man looks at me, I’m a car freak alright. I have five cars and I’m not doing it because I’m trying to show off, a lot of people don’t even know that they are my cars.

But I’m trying to be honest with you and I’m always trying to say it the way it is, not minding whatever. If a man comes and says because of blablabla, he cannot handle me, then he shouldn’t bother. Every woman’s dream is to get married but it’s not just to get married but to get married to your friend. I want to marry my friend.

And have you met your friend?

I’m yet to meet my friend. If I meet my friend and I know that he is my friend, I don’t think that question should actually pop up because what am I doing if I’ve met my friend? If I’ve met my friend I will get married. And then, I’m this type of person that even if I meet my friend; I don’t want to have a fairy tale wedding.

  

92 comments:

  1. I am jealous. 5 luxury cars. I want

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    1. She has a various boyfriends in Abuja, I know she was dating an ex senator son, who has a supermarket in abuja

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    2. 'She has a various boyfriends in Abuja' Una no go kill person.

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    3. We know is senator araraume son. I can't remember his name, I know is the first son that has tribal marks on his face

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    4. And you will never remember his name. Aproko don't go and work for your own range. Sit down there dey gossip. What a life

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    5. Empress u want me to expose u abi? If you make me vex. I go open fire for here, but let me release small, so you will know I know you very well

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    6. If she makes you vex with your gbagaun smh

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    7. Empress, awwww, ko ni ori oko, pele jare, sha ma gba adura...

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    8. Ladun you are an idiot. You are now on the ex-Senators payroll that you can't publish his son's name. They will use your star and eat you alive keep taking their blood money. Oponu rada rada.

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    9. empy!!!!!!!!!! enuf of ur story telling, i know u guys, ur house, brothers and mum in festac, gosh!!!! friggn wannabe, that's u and infact ur brothers have that complex problem, have u stopped attending that ur strange place u call a Church, Jehovah sharp sharp ministries.... mehn it really worked for u, where they told u to go and bring sand from timaya's village? u used to be very zealous there and close to the prophet, i also remember how u used to wear whites during d conventions... funny enuf, ur prophet used to be very famous for giving ppl spouses, my neighbour at over 45 got married d minute she joined u guys, wetin come happen to u?

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    10. wow..Its amazing how bad pipl are at sayn wat dey know about u

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    11. @sue,you are one hell of a demented bitch,gosh ur life must be so miserable,sue the wasted whore who always have something negative to say about others,I guess all the insults you received on LIB drove you away and made you take a break for a while,stupid bitter bitch don't go and get a life and look for ur own husband stay there dey follow another man story.weak ass bitch

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    12. Truth is,with friends like "SUE"one doesn't need enemies,by just reading her comments on this blog I can tell exactly the kind of girl she is,the kind of friend that will cast you the minute she realize things are working well for you,babes pls be careful cos bitches can't be trusted.

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    13. @15:03 More like the kind of girl that will steal her friends bf's number and start sending text to the guy telling him all sort of rubbish about the girl,and hiding under anonymous,claiming that she just wants to warn the guy about the girl b4 he makes a mistake with her,sue sue I know ur type may God never bring ur type my way as a friend.AMEN

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    14. Lol,AMEN 2 dat sista.

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  2. 5cars? Now dats over indulgence.

    http://justporsh.blogspot.com

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  3. No time on your side madam empress be warned

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  4. I really love empress! My name sake

    Amazing nigerian hair transformation here on my style blog ft linda ikeji www.soladunn.blogspot.com

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    1. Your name sake. Soladunn hope you are okay

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    2. Your namesake? Efia how are you?

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  5. Whatever fits her

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  6. abeg leave d girl alone..abroad what they it is car collector and its a hubby. I am a married lady wiv kids and I LOOOOveee cars I love d way certain cars drive!!! so please she doesn't have a man so she has d right to over indulge. EMPRESSS you go Girl!!! I was actually telling my friend who is in America some seconds ago to please look for a good man and to steer clear of Nigerian men cause there are too many sob stories married ladies tell nowadays! So girl look for anyone who will be ur friend and love. Don't care if he is NIgerian southafrican European American . don't limit your love k God bless you really like your confidence!

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    1. Don't discourage ladies from getting married to our brothers biko lol

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    2. Like anon 20:20 said you go GIRL. Live your life babes

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    3. Naija men r sick, u can't trust them, unpredictable. If only I have my way

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    4. Chinco don finish for china town? If you no get money to travel visit china town and pick one there. Leave our Nigerian men.

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    5. Na real "hubby" madam english,adviser of sill talk..go siddon ya fat yansh for corner...u don see car collector dey live for rented property abroad??some even get special garage for their collection i.e chris evans olodo rabata...

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  7. Good on her,hope she lives in her own house cos it'll be weird having more cars than ur landlord

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    1. Shame on you. Your name explains who you are. Even though you are anonymous you still couldn't hide your character. what a shame.

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    2. Empress y are u insulting him, is you that is anonymous, we know is u

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    3. Hahaha dead egg it's not empress. Try an get a life and quit your job

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    4. The 'toto' part actually stands for 'the one & the only',get it now? 'Good on her' implies i'm actually quite impressed n d part about d landlord was intended as a joke.I guess have a gd week's in order :)

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    5. @Blogtoto ...why's that a joke?.you're actually giving good advice...why have 5cars and you're still renting?.that is if she is!..don't let any one pressure you out of your thoughts...most of them are retarded!

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    6. I totally agree

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  8. all these girls and their lousy tales.

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  9. Madam show off

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  10. Make she sha go marry no story

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  11. Good news for the boys. All you boys have to do is line up and take turns.
    I wish all women would have this "FOOT MAT" mentality and it would have been free pussies with no strings attached all over the place for men. Just do your own and leave, no-parking-on-the-dance-floor. No-parking-baby.
    But what will happen when bitches with this mentality gets old and wrinkled and the men are all long gone? Guess these bitches are not thinking about that now.
    What a sick and twisted world full with sick and twisted ideas.
    Olu.

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    1. Wt r u saying. U aint even making sense @ all. All I keep seeing is "bitches" "bitches"....Is dt all u knw. #dnt get me vexed tonight o

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    2. Wt r u saying. U aint even making sense @ all. All I keep seeing is "bitches" "bitches"....Is dt all u knw. #dnt get me vexed tonight o

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    3. Olugbenga as usual using dirty language. keep beefing.

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    4. From Olu to Anonymous 28 April, 2013 23:40.

      Go back and read what I wrote again. Read it 3 times and try and make sense out of what you read.
      Try and disregard the word 'bitches' if that is disturbing and distracting for you. That word was not used to belittle anyone. It was used as a form of 'expression'.
      If after reading my statement above 3 times and you still can't make sense out of what you have read, then just drop a message here for me and I will explain that statement to you in lay man' language.
      May be, u will benefit from it.
      Olu.

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  12. Abeg make we see road bad belle people

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  13. Hot Mama. only You 5 cars,wow! that's your husband needs like 10-15cars then.lol.All the best hun
    www.ameriestyle.com

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  14. kai bile no go wound some people sha
    Mpress well done
    i love cars too
    so enjoy ur life and when ur friend finally comes - marry him n a quiet way - its ur life!!!

    HYBunny

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  15. Abeg shey na same empress wey I know b this? wearing my jigi bola(glasses) 5cars? na so film get money for head reach? SMH!

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    1. Question mark

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    2. Me self go bcome an actress. Can count hw many movies dey av done. Smh for her..anywaz, me self I dnt mind 5 cars sha..##winks

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  16. Empress u sure do really have enuf free tym to reply almost all d comments here... well the world is yours for the taking!!!

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  17. Empress is irrelevant,y aint she acting anymore.......ohh I forgot,she was never good in acting,and for all ya shouting insults at nigeria men,make una try go embassy for una abroad visa o,WE nor want una for NIGERIA again.

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  18. She sells fake designers Gucci and Hermes shoes and bags

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    1. Liar Liar! U broke ass.... First buy the fake Hermes snap the pic put here wit receipt make we see say na fake she dey sale nau... Yeye dey smell

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    2. LMFAO @ fake gucci and hermes, why 5 cars, 5 Second hand 1998 model cars and u claim u love cars, well in dis era of Assistant madams the Alhaji's are doing well for these ladies. If u believe say na acting u are sleeping on Okada, oh I forgot the clepto gist that reigned the other time was she not in the middle of it?

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    3. Buh seriously must upple abuse dem..if shez doin assistant mada m to alahaji u sef go do ure own...and if ure a guy tank God say gay don dey sell well well for naija market sef!!!u sit in ure confort zone to talk rubbish abt pple....abeg u don chop todae...leave dem alone biko!!!

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    4. 07:59,Shut up that ur dirty mouth wey be like old mama pant,you don get bicycle tire not to take of full keke,abeg close dat ur envious mouth and take several seat wayyyyyy back where nobody go fit see that ur ugly face,na so una go dey run una gutter mouth like pussy wey dey menstrual period,retard just say all ur own fuck about nor bring out anything but recharge card for you,and we go know how we all go join hand help you.ewure

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  19. See beef o.... I luv MP Jor.... Live ur life gal... Na me ur friend o...Holla

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  20. Una want make her ogas @ d top vex,it's not time 4 her 2 retire yet.her hips don't lie tho,I guess dat's her selling point

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  21. If u are sure she sells fack stuffs why didn't u put ur name???Y anonymous???bad belle abegi go get a life mumu of d day•as if u can buy d real ones(original)Mpress baby oku carry go jare+how is george London?dnt be suprised he is my bro*big smile*

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  22. Keep having the cars till you reach Meno pause,dont go and get married,as for me i have seen it all,i once once into life and am changed now,i have decided to say yes to a man,he is a nice person,this life is just vanity,if u artent married as a girl,you are a nobody

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    1. if you aren't married as a girl you are a nobody ke? such stone age and native thinking. pueh

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    2. You will marry and have 10 children and still die as a NOBODY with this your marriage-is-all-i-have-to-achieve-as-a-woman mentality! Mtshweew!!!

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    3. All the single ladies...all the single ladies .....oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh.(sing along).Eyaaahhhhhh.

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  23. Empress was living with my friend here in Lagos before reloction to Abuja,i learnt she wqas really into Voodoo,keep it up Empress,aty least you used it to acquire five cars,let me see what happens in five years from Today,some ladies dont think about the future

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    1. She is beginning to look like Voodoo itself.Oloshi ten cars.Mstcheeeeeeeewwwww

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    2. Am sure your friend too was heavily into the voodoo thing since they lived together,am sure she is only casting the girl cos hers did not work out.

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  24. U mean in all ur life so far u havnt met sm one u cn call a friend?! Na wa Oo°˚˚˚°! Try be †ђε right person n stop lookin for a mr right or perfect whom u hv termed friend. Der r G̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡D̶̲̥̅ men in naija. All can't be bad. Seek n u will find. But u cnt say u r seeking if u r dating all n sundry + married men, seen in questionable places or living a lie. G̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡D̶̲̥̅ luck!

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    1. @ ur age u r still doing ds...pls grow up. Am sure u jst got ur bb, dtz y u r writing lyk ds

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  25. Opinion is a general gift, how about the ones that are flourishing? Remember a bad egg will always make a bad omelette Learn how to restrict unauthorized copy, cut and paste on your system here

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  26. It annoys me when people say they love cars and they are buying Tokunbo. You can never get the true experience of a ca if it is second hand. It is the person who used it and sold it to you that loves cars, because when the envy best thing comes out, they discard the old and get with the latest. I hope the car timaya bought is not among sha, because that one should go the scrap yard.

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    1. Gbam. Wise.

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    2. Is ur life that sad that you had to come and make another comment here?wasting space that others with active brain cells would have used,how are you sure that her cars are fairly used?bad belle united get a life quick cos envy isn't going to get you anywhere.

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  27. Singlesexyandsuccesful29 April, 2013 11:09

    I can relate to Miss Njamah and am sure a lot of ladies can. am also a hardworking woman who appreciates marriage but dont get nigerian men and how they treat women. .. so far these are the kind of men I meet:

    The ones who have insecurities because I take good care of myself with my earnings.They say I should leave my job and close my business so i can be wife material.

    The ones who are using the magic word 'marriage' to try and get me to give them substantial amounts of money to start one business or the other. I put them on voicemail as love can see now.

    The ones who are looking for how to run away from their responsibilities and think because they say marriage I will not investigate and see they are either married but living single or have 3 babies by 3 different women.

    I can relate to Miss Njamah and am sure a lot of ladies can. I hope to meet a good man who can just be honest and truthful about himself but will rather stay single and content than succumb to a bitter unhappy married life

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    1. well na you knw.why do u think they are after your money.just because you are successfull doesnt mean u should rub it on thee faces.i will advice that u take a chance and stop relating to Miss.Njamah.you can go into a relationship and avoid the "u have money" stigma.for every man,there is a woman.For every money,there is a reason.BUMBUM

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    2. shut your stinking mouth.....do u not know that a alot of men now are out to feed off women?

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    3. i am a woman like u .a good Christian woman.And i was only advising her not to think all negative about men.There are some good ones out there.i tell u.forget about the few bad eggs.I have been married for 8years now and i knw wht and what they told me about my husband.some true ,some made up.He is and open person and we discuss all sorts of things.even discuss his friends.You dont knw what these men go through.and its hard to find a good men.we have had good times and bad times,buh we stay strong.`dont condemn them.people make mistakes.try again Singlesexyandsuccesful.Next might just be the last.BUMBUM.LIKE.US

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    4. My dear I feel you jare.
      Some men short of asking how much you make per year when you tell them what you do for a living.
      I tire for 21st century men o!!!!
      Its either that or you become 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife to a man that is not interested in your money.
      God dey.

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    5. My dear I feel you,most men of this days have no shame,always looking for girls who will feed them,a friend of mine recently told me how one imbecile,tried to get money of her,telling her to give him half a mill to roof his fathers house,just cos he knows she works with a good company and makes good money,she only laughed in his face and humiliated him by calling him a joker and deleted his number right in front of him,serves the lazy retard right.

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  28. this girl is useless and she knows it. keep replying comments. later u will be "delivered" by TB Joshua, then you will become a pastor like ur fellow actresses. go and ask liz benson, eucharia anunobi, gloria anozie young, tina amuziam, etc. they were once like u and ur fellow "actresses". all of them living useless and immoral lifestyle, juju, homosexuality, smoking,etc if u like buy 20 cars. nonsense woman. tomorrow they will look for someone's husband to marry because no normal man will marry them. money really is the root of all evil in this world.

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    1. idiot, who are you sef? idiots will be coming here to brand others as what they are not? you that your mother was probably a prostitute or even u yourself u will come here to insult others.....cant understand this mentality of africans that women cannot do what they want with their money....this is not empress and am replying on her behalf.....it is your mother and sisters that are useless.....ewu, ngbo piafu kwa gi isi.....stupid idiot...thats y people like you who think they are holy will end up with no husbands and even the one who pity u and marry u will be snatched by others...thunder fire u there ewu

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    2. empress well done oh.i knew u will come to reply me, and i am ready for u. u have successfully come to reply comments abi. useless bisexual like u. ashewo. God will punish u one day with ur useless brothers, no future ambition. idiot! why don't ur brothers have 5 cars? answer me! stay there and be driving cars that are gotten from ill wealth, when u have an accident, they will say it is from the village, and nobody will want to marry u after u have brought curse on urself with the useless money u think u have. ewu gambia. onye iberibe. useless thing! all u actresses one day u will meet ur doom. abi Stella's own is just beginning. nonsense people!

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    3. Oh my gosh!empress is dat u hun?

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    4. Osanobua!!.13.18 you must be Empress.Nobody asked you for an introduction you are already telling us you are not Empress.Go and warm a bench.U are frustrated.If you are not Empress,the you must be a ho.Shio

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    5. Lol,why do you people always have to think that is the people that you are insulting that are replying you back?"FANS" am sure that word rings a bell to most of you,I didn't want to comment on this post but I find myself forced to do so,a lot of you that come here judging others are no different from them,am sure if I go to ify's street and ask about her,my jaw will be left hanging for the rest of the day,so live that anon alone cos she spoke the truth.femi aka fisco.com

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  29. i dont know what she is like in real life but she gives off an aura of someone saucy,haughty and borderline unruly i might be wrong but the vibes a male/female gives off in public comes across when they meet people and it will determine to a large extent if they feel compatible..
    im not bothered about her past because everyone has a past but i believe if she really needs a strong dependable honest man they are more than enough in NIG the problem is that they might not be up to the financial cut off she is looking for a wealthy man with the qualities most of them want will have been snapped up a long time ago hence they tend to wait and wait and wait while people around them won't tell them the stark and hard truth

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  30. Empress or whatever you call yourself ,leave story and drive your cars okay.nobody wan marry you Shikena!

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  31. Only 5 cars and you are disturbing our peace.Ewu!

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