Thursday, May 2, 2013

I Cut My Daughter With Razor Blade Because I Want Her To Show It To Her Grand Children That Disobedience Does Not Pay- Mother

Angry residents of Ono-Odan Street, Ijanikin, Lagos, nearly lynched a mother, Kudirat Abiola, for cutting her nine-year-old daughter, Precious, with razor blade.

Kudirat made deep cuts on Precious’s back, left leg and right arm with the blade to “teach her a lesson.”

Punch Metro leant that Kudirat decided to punish her daughter after she wasted N100 given to her by her father on junk food. Precious’ father, Dayo, is a customs officer.

It was learnt that Precious, a primary six student of Marvellous Nursery and Primary School, Sele, Ijanikin, had on Monday shown her wounds to a friend, Mosaki Rachel. Click to continue reading.


Rachel said, “Precious told me that her father gave her N100 on Sunday and she spent it. But she did not know that her mother had cooked rice at home. When Precious’s mother found out, she beat her first, then used blade to cut her body. When I saw the wounds, I took her to my uncle, Fasai, who has hydrogen peroxide, for treatment.”

Precious, however,  told our correspondent that her mummy was just training her.

She said, “I like my mummy, and she likes me too. She is just training me. My father saw the wounds on Monday and got angry. I told him not to fight with my mummy. My father said he would take me to hospital for treatment. But since then I have not seen him.”

Kudirat’s friend, Ramat Sunmonu, a teacher, said Kudirat believed in corporal punishment.

She said, “She often beats her children including the younger one, Daniel, who is four years old. We were closer before, but because of her aggression towards her children, I don’t often visit her anymore.

“I was informed of the incident while coming back from church yesterday (Monday) evening. I ran to her house and when I saw the wounds, I was perplexed.

“I was told that she had run away from home since Monday morning because she was scared that her mother would do more harm. Precious came home at 9pm.”

Segun Abogun, who resides in a room next to the Abiolas, said, “We have learnt to stay out of her (Kudirat) way.”

Kudirat, who spoke with our correspondent on the telephone, however, said she inflicted the injury on her daughter because she was fond of coming home late.

She said, “I cut her because she often comes home late at about 11 pm. She doesn’t stay at home and she is naughty.

“I did not punish her because of N100, but because of her bad behaviour. I want her to show the mark to her grand children to tell them that disobedience does not pay.”

Source: Punch

34 comments:

  1. This woman needs to have her brain checked. How can u draw blood from ur child all in the name of training a child.
    Totally unfair!
    There are so many ways to correct a child without been VIOLENT!
    Ewwwww

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  3. It's a lie. She must have done some incantations over those marks. Wicked woman.

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    1. There are no mothers on earth as wicked as Yoruba mothers. They can be very "witchy".

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    2. Besides being tribalistic, you are also daft and stupid! I guess you are not even educated to the level that will give you a sound sense of reasoning and judgement. Or perhaps, you are a stark illiterate who doesn't even know how to dot an 'i' let alone cross a 't'. Look around you and take a statistics of evil deeds in the country and see if you won't come up with a result that points directly to your god-forsaken tribe or wherever part of Nigeria you claim to come from. Word of advice - weigh your words before you write or speak them.

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    3. Anon 01:10, U̶̲̥̅̊ α̲̅я̩e just an idiot,foolish thing

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    4. Anon 1:10 υ̲̣̥
      α̲̅я̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ a fool!!!!!!! My moda is a yoruba married τ̲̅ȍ igbo and she is da best any child can ever have!!!! So gurl just put it on ya mum cos she might/may b d witch kα̲̅γ̲̣̣̥!!! Yoruba mums are da best!!!

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  4. Hmmmm, discipline your children by All means, punish them effectively, beat them on their backsides or hands with a flexible stick if you Must, but cutting her with a blade??? When will we Nigerians realise that there are other more effective and much less unnecessarily violent ways of training children? Take things away from them,deny them what they like for a period, make the older ones do extra hard work like sweeping,scrubbing,things that make them think,not just violent acts that scar them for life or make them afraid. Come on!

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  5. UR RIGHT MY DEAR BUT THE CUT IS TOO MUCH, THE BIBLE SAYS TEACH A CHILD THE WAY SHE SHOULD GO SO THAT SHE WILL NOT DEPART FROM IT, U HAVE DONE A VERY GOOD JOB BUT MY DEAR WHEN DOING NXT TIME TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE FACT THAT SHES STILL SMALL NO MATTER WHAT,, AND PARENT SHOULD STOP GIVEN THERE KIDS MONEY LET THEM EAT GOOD FOOD KEEP IT UP UR A REAL WOMAN INDEED!!

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    1. "She's right, she's done a very good job, she's a real woman" For cutting up her child???!

      You are in the same evil cult with the woman obviously

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    2. Birds of the same feather flock together! They are probably in the same league. Hence, you can't really blame her for hailing a fellow witch like herself.

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    3. Fellow ayamatanga! Later ur child will beat u up n u'll be asking God where u went wrong! Winch

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  6. this woman sha na wa o,cos of 100 naira she seriously needs 2 be arressted.

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  7. she must not go unpurnish,am 1st to comment yey lol.

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  8. so sad ...dis is just abject poverty, nothing more than frustration

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  9. som mothers are jst heartless, hw can she cut a litle girl like dis bcus of #100 seems she hs 4gotn d pain she went through during the birth of the child. wicket mother.let dem shower her with 50yrs inprisonment.

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  10. Rubbish! Nothing but abuse..pure physical abuse and God will punish her same way she did..no mercy. What mother does this??? Is that a way to discipline or correct a child??? She really should be jailed. Such mothers can kill their children in anger.

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  11. Hmmmmm, this is sad as my mother cut my right leg with a razor in my teens. Apparently its a type of punishment. Some even add pepper to it. Most times i think of it and see the mark i think of not forgiving her. But now im grown i cant wear short dresses or even go swimming without trying to hide it. Its been 10 years since it happened and the scar is very visible. I cant tell people it was my mum thst did it to me. I always have to lie. Anyone knows what can be done to take the mark away. Mine was never treated or sewn back

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    1. Put put vitamin e oil on it daily. With time it will fade.

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    2. Why dont you try visiting a dermatologist at any of the govt hospitals. They would give the best advise. The scar will never diminish the beauty of your heart. Stay blessed.
      The good nigerian

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  12. Kudi, mad woman.

    And her mouth is still sharp. Its not her fault. If it were in saner climes, she'd be in jail and the child removed from her wicked hands.

    Shameless woman. Your 9 year old comes home at 11pm when her mates have been in bed for 4 hours, check youself. You don't deserve the poor girl who's so used to the maltreatment she's still defending her witch of a mother

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  14. Another Kudirat Abiola. Yinka Florens is this you who lives in Ajangbadi or Ijanikin? Pueh

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  15. so lynching her would have helped the daughter abi? stupid jungle justice moves. That being said, for the woman, someone needs to also use razor on her let her see what it feels like. Thinking again, this could have been gbere for spiritual things. All in all, stupid mentalities combined.

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  16. I certainly believe there is more to this gist cos I can't get a hold on why someone will lynch another over N100. Beats my imagination.

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  17. Most times its only a witch dat does such she needs deliverance o!

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  18. ok so she has scared her for life, did the girl stop coming home late or has the 100 naira been properly spent, i dont think so.at the rate she is going, the poor child may not even see a husband to marry and have children, talkless of grandchildren. Wicked witch of a mother!

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  19. this isn't right at all.that isn't how to train a child woman.....so if she does something and you see your neighbor cutting her flesh what would you tell them.

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  20. Am not defending this woman for what she has done,but truthfully,it's just her level of understanding. Am very sure she grew up in such environment & unfortunately, her level of socialization must be low if not she will know you don't melt such treatment to train children again. I am 39 yrs now,when I was like 7-8 yrs,I stole money from my mothers work bag,she caught me & she decided to flog me naked with koboko( horse whip) after the thorough beating,she rubbed pepper on all the mark & cut me with razor blade(@ d back of my palm) & also put pepper into the cut......then am to be flogged morning & evening for 3 days. Imagine!!! Thankfully my father came to my rescue
    Her point...when I remember all these,I'll never think or attempt to steal in my life,no child or hers will steal. Did she achieve her aim? YES. Does that mean it's a good way to train a child/will I train my own children the same way(NEVER)*smile*
    Till today,my mother still thinks what she did I s good,bcos that's how much she knows,she'll proudly tell anybody to ask me how she dealt with me when I stole***that's how much she knows***
    I won't say my mother hated me then(yeah I thought like that then)I understood she wanted me to come out well/good,but her method / understanding of discipline WACKED.
    My advise: The woman who has done this to this baby needs to be orientate,she needs a renewal of mind.
    I went to school,I watch movies,I've been opportune to travel outside my country a couple of times so I know better.
    I will never and ever treat my children the same way. Everyone that has the opportunity should grow in all area of life.
    I will say such mother's need to be helped.

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  21. I concured wit u.we have same history n i'm 36 yrs old.i do feel bitter wen i remember
    My own case too.i was like,dis woman cant b my real mum.its God is in control.

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