Friday, May 10, 2013

What Would You Say About My Case! Gay Guy Writes

After the Homos*xual post, a gay guy wrote a letter he wants me to share with you. I feel for him sha, my prayer is that God will heal them all.

Hi,

My name is Jason. I am Lagos born, I'm 33 years old, a christian and I love God. But I'm gay.


I didn't grow up with any uncle or neighbour that molested me. I didnt even go to a boarding school. As a matter of fact, I was 20 when I had my first gay experience but I had known since I was 7 that i liked boys.


What I did at 20, i did because i was tired of fighting it and pretending, I just had to let loose.

Don't get me wrong, I've been with women countless times, my friends even consider me a womaniser but i don't enjoy being with girls. I even have a girl friend.

For the past 3 years, i've been dating a guy. We're happy and planning to spend our lives together. My girl friend knows him as my best friend.

I'm a successful man, I work in oil and gas, I've come out to my family, although they don't like it but they're dealing with it.


I'm just writing you because of all the condemnation that goes on here. We talking like being gay is strange and Nigerians can't be gay. We keep saying God should kill them and they should be stoned. I didn't ask to be gay. I grew up different. I have approached even famous pastors. I have swallowed my shame and told them my problem. Its not been solved.

As a matter of fact, I don't know any gay person who has gotten "cured". There are many of us that try to seek help, just incase we're really demon possesed.

I've recently moved to PH with my boy friend, he's 28, we're both successful and living our lives.

I really don't know why I'm writing but I just want to express myself.

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    1. ****Mufasa Said10 May, 2013 21:01

      Visit Mountain of FIRE and MIRACLES ministries, emphasis on fire and miracles! They will schedule a deliverance session 4 u, friday to sunday, (dry fasting will b included as the appetizer) all free of charge! By the time u r thru wt u, u will c d evil spirit running away from u and ur life will neva remain d same!
      For ur information u were nt born dis way, d devil planted this seed in u and u let it germinate.

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    2. How come MFM didn't cure my husband's laziness and severe dishonesty? He spent a few nights there fasting and praying and vigyling

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    3. Anon 22:50 LOL....ur husband needs special deliverance

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    4. LMAO!!! HAHAHAHAHHHAHAHA

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    5. AMAZON,



      SCREAMING WIT LAUGHTER!!!!!!

      dry fasting........lol


      germinating seeds.....I cant laugh!!!!

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    6. Anon 22;50- u got me in stitches..xxzDesTo

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    7. Am sorry no church can deliver u nor ur husband from laziness. He really need to deliver him self by looking for what to do or where to work. Looking for laziness deliverance is as good as looking for a deliverance for not like to eat food too much. Besides that God won't come down and get him a job, he needs to make a move. But this gay guy seriously need to go to MFM for real.

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    8. @anon 22:50. How does one go to MFM for deliverance for laziness and dishonesty? It's not like he is "possessed" with these traits. It's his personality.

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    9. Ladies, you have heard it, its not just the girly men that are gay..Start suspecting your Bf with his male friends instead of always suspecting him with any girl you see him with...smh
      www.ameriestyle.com

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    10. Anon 22:50, your husband does not need deliverance to 'cure' his laziness. He needs to go out there and work to provide for his family! If he is dishonest, then the problem is his nature! He needs to get born again, again!!!!!

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    11. Mufasa I will pray for you. Someone that was born that way is possessed? It's because of people like you that judge that they have to camouflage and hurt others feelings just to blend in kmt

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    12. Just shut up already ok?possesed my foot.(Ola baby)

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    13. everything dry fasting and deliverance. una no even ask whether the person don accept Christ as him Lord and Saviour. una think say fasting and deliverance na magic portion?

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    14. Anno 20 50: Are you sure your hubby really went for 7 days deliverance in a church or 7 days in a sex rump in a hotel/guest house with his male lover? hehehehehe! you be coming up here to say laziness and dishonesty.... my sexy bloody ass! Do people actually go for deliverance for being lazy or they are to be advised to get their silly asses up and be useful to society at large. You need deliverance for being gullible!

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    15. amazon/ivory chi keep showing your ignorance. heathen!

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    16. Anon 22:50 says, I agree with y'all. I even suggested he attended business seminars not church vigyls. The man is just a lazy ass and much like our gay bros here he says that's just the way he is. I tire so I don vacate.

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    17. Anon 22:50 says, I agree with y'all. I even suggested he attended business seminars not church vigyls. The man is just a lazy ass and much like our gay bros here he says that's just the way he is. I tire so I don vacate.

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    18. ahah must u guys criticize him.u dunt ve d ryte 2 judge ,some of u ve done fins worst dan dis nd morova bein gay isnt d worst tin so shut d 4k up mehn

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  2. This is someone's boyfriend o. Someone who's probably going around talking about how much her boyfriend loves her. Someone who will probably comment on this post and insult him. Buhahahahahahahaha.

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    1. I dey tell you

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    2. The unfortunate irony of the matter is that it's bcos of the same reason of ppl (even someone like his own girlfriend) abusing, assaulting, and wishing death on him and ppl like him, that forces them to camouflage and have a girlfriend as a front

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    3. as in!!!!!

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    4. hes probably your husband too

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  3. Oho,its demonic simple do not try to butter it.

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    1. Pls Shut up. U're the kinda bigots that he's trying to express himself to. Carry your demons and GO

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    2. Are Nigerians this ignorant? Demonic? No one can cure gay, its a brain condition, they can teach u to live in the closet that's all.

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    3. Anonymous11 May, 2013 11:37 that has to be one of the most stupid things i have read online.

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    4. Brain condition? Now that is high ignorance.

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  4. Laughing in pigin english/isoko/any lang.

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    1. Pls what exactly do homosexuals do?I mean, how do they actually have sex?Isn't anal dangerous and painful for them too?

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    2. Bucky ask Google. all the answers are there.

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  5. U ar an idiot

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    1. Pls don't condemn any body rather pray that our all mighty father will deliver them cos they can't do it on their own..... it takes the grace of God.

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    2. Deliver them from what? You idiots they were born that way. Get over it

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  6. I feel for you. I really don't know what to believe anymore

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    1. The devil is very cunning so don't be fooled. The Bible speaks in many places in very clear words that gays will not see the kingdom of God. The desolate one has taken control of the world including the legal system.
      This young man speaking says he has liked boys since he was 7. That's only natural. I liked girls at 7. That does not any way make me a homosexual. And whatever he ended up doing at 20 that finally made him accept his evil desires was satan winning the battle for his soul.
      We all have overwhelming desires - hate, jealously, lack of self control, impatience- succumbing to them is pretty easy but very wrong.
      If you want to even argue it, there is no place in nature for homosexuality. It makes no sense.

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    2. You idiot anon 23:01 it also speaks about lying, judging and forbication. How about you face your own life and let him face his. They were born that way. Better strt accepting it. So he should go the rest of his life single? And unhappy because he is trying to fight this so called demon?

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    3. Or he should keep seeing this woman and lyin that he loves her? Isn't that still deceit and lying in the eyes of God? Abg there is no winning with you people. Live and let live is all.

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    4. all of you saying they were born that way, may your sons be born that way too.

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    5. Anon. 23:01 is sooooooo. Right...gay is a taboo before God. Bible says 'A man shall leave His Father and MOTHER,marry a GIRL and two shall become ONE'...don't add and don't remove...homosexual is EVIL...pray urself auta it bruv...go to. Synagogue Church of all nation and d devil will dissapear imediately u enter the main gate...God bless you as you do so!

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    6. Rom 1:25-27, because they exchanged the truth of God for a lie and worshipped and served the creature rather than the creator who is blessed forever; for this reason God gave them over to their vile affections and degrading passions; ......and the men also turned from natural relations with women and were set ablaze with lust for one another.........
      My brother how do u interpret this oooo......
      the bible calls whatever u are feeling vile and degrading, even though the fault isnt entirely yours, cos some people (the church) av exchanged the truth of God for lie......but even at that it does not change the fact that you have bin given over to your reprobate mind
      Bros on that path, u are far from righteousness oooo...i dont know how else to tell u

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  7. may you be cured

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  8. Satan's slave! Ure just a hot goat and the point of this write up is? If you really pursue a solution,u will find but ur write up shows ure comfy being gay. Since uve come out 2 ur fam,y u still holding ur 'gf' captive? Useless world pollutant!

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    1. Idiot. He has a gf cos of ppl like U. It's wrong but for U not to understand why he wrote this shows how close minded your ignorant ass is. Live and let live. How is he affecting your small life

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      ROTFL!!!!!!!!!!!!


      Wot the F****** is a "hot Goat"

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    3. It's a pity fools like u wil always exist amongst us

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    4. @Anon 22:10,I can bet u are gay if not u won't be so sensitive.This gays need good lashing,their acts shld not b tolerated,if ur parents were gay u wldnt hav been born. We are talking about a bad habit here&nt a 'nature's' problem as they make pple belive. You are most ignorant,foolish,despicable&a ram head! Anon 20:11 spoke d truth,however bitter it Is,deal wit it faggot!

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    5. Anonymous 11:18 you are a fool an idiot and you should go commit sucide so humanity can have peace....ewu

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    6. Anon 11:18', I'm not anon 22:10 btw. But so anyone who defends homosexuality is gay? Clearly your Brain isn't fully developed. You probably need God more that anyone else. You idiots be coming here talking abt homosexuals and judging them. What Is the one thing Jesus teaches us all? DO NOT JUDGE. So how about you get on with your pathetic life and let Jesus deal with the rest? How about that?

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    7. Why the sucide talk? That's cyber bully n it shuld not be tolerated. Watch what you say, sucide is not an option.

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  9. Have you been to MFM? Try it and your life will change. Check your family line to see if there are any gays there. That may explain it.

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    1. Lmao @ MFM

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    2. dont fool yourself, it is not hereditary.

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    3. LoL. Joker

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    4. Anonymous10 May, 2013 21:36 yes it can be hereditary. i have some cases i can refer to but this isn't the time to spill.

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    5. Everything mfm mfm...yet people gather and make fun of the church.

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    6. people making fun of the church are heathen.

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  10. Homosexuals come and say shit about how different they are 2 gain pity. So they were singled out&created that way? Please! This Is a matter of wrong experimentation& addiction. Its a matter of choice!

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  11. D world is definitely coming to an end. U r even proud to said u ve move from lagos to PH with ur partner.sorry is ur name. Well jst b praying u won't b caught in such act cos if u do,is either 6ft below or 15yrs jail.ode

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  12. And how does throwing insults at honesty make any of you better

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  13. U̶̲̥̅̊ rilly r a bold man, cumin out to ur family. I dunno wat to say bro, wot I jst kno abt life is eida U̶̲̥̅̊ r pretendin to be wot U̶̲̥̅̊ r not or U̶̲̥̅̊ r actually doin or involved in wot U̶̲̥̅̊ r it wil all end up in d same place. Eida U̶̲̥̅̊ r pretendin U̶̲̥̅̊ r servin God n U̶̲̥̅̊ r deprivin ursef of all d gudies in life n U̶̲̥̅̊ can't jst tk ur mind off it, U̶̲̥̅̊ r nt diff from n wil end up with dos who enjoyed life to d fullest. N for dos who dnt tink b4 dy comment, its beta U̶̲̥̅̊ kip shut instead of spitin out rubbish. Dnt commit murder wit ur words.

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  14. I don't believe anyone is gay gay.....I think dis whole media circulation of gay news is making people think dey are gay...just like how every girl is getting pregnant outside wedlock....

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    1. stop sounding clueless

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    2. And stupidly idiotic

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    3. exactly what ive been thinking, its all about the media, they are desensitising us towards these things take clothing for example the more they a hype a particular kind of clothing the more it seems appealing to you. Honestly when it comes to the case of homosexuality i really dont know what to say, i mean is it my fault that my religion frowns upon homosexuals, is it my fault that im not used to seeing two men kissing or two women kissing.i mean if you want to say you were born that way then shouldn't we be supporting pedophiles too because "apparently" they've been attracted to little children since they became sexually conscious. I on my own wont go out of my way to make a gay person feel bad about themselves but some gay people just have the attitude of trying to make other people feel bad for not understanding homosexuality,you have to understand that this is not something they are used to so dont just expect people to just accept you like that, it takes time....

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  15. In life we have cleptomaniaccs but dat did not make it right to steal, even someone with de tendency to steal stil have to fight de urge wen it comes. Dat u like boys naturally doesn't make it right to be gay, de Bible condemns it ,God frowns on it. But wat can one say, in a world where almost everything is acceptable; from premarital sex and adultery. No one has de moral right of judging de other, that's why almost anything goes. Being gay is same as adultery and fornication and stealing and lying etc. Sin is sin!

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    1. lagos is my Home11 May, 2013 06:59

      Best comment.....May God save us all

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    2. we should all take note of this. we are no better than he is. SIN IS SIN. we are in no position to judge or rain insults on him. i am in no way justifying his condition though. poster since u didn't come to ask for advice, then i have no right to give u one.

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    3. Amen! God bless

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    4. U̶̲̥̅̊ guys saying sin Ȋ̝̊̅ƨ̣̇ sin are d ones encouraging these gays. Ȋ̝̊̅f someone steals Ūя̲̅ 20naira, a̶̲̥̅̊m̶̲̥̅̊ sure U̶̲̥̅̊ ☺ulϑ readily forgive that person b̶̲̥̊u̶̲̥̅̊ђ Ȋ̝̊̅f someone fucks Ūя̲̅ brother's anus, ȋ̝̊̅ can bet U̶̲̥̅̊ ☺ulϑ cut off the psycho's dick. God hates gays period. Stop comparing stealing τ̅☺ being gay. Grab Ūя̲̅ bible Α̲̅πϑ read LEVITICUS 18 verse 22 Α̲̅πϑ then LEVITICUS 20 verse 13

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  16. What are you people on about. How many of you know what your husbands or boyfriends are up to? You can vouch for no one but yourself. Stop condemning children of God. Someone is reaching out for help and you people are crucifying him. Jesus did not teach us to condemn. Show love and understand that he did not plan to be this way. Pray for him.

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    1. happyhausabunny11 May, 2013 00:03

      Gbam! Tell them oh, Most of them are dating or are even married to gay men and don't know! Live and let live. Pretentious lot, like they are without sin, practicing selective morality,kmt.

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    2. Amen to you both

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  17. *sigh* he didn't choose to be gay... Must he be crucified for writing again, u dnt ve anything uplifting to add, just stfu! And am sure most of y'all commenting re gay but too chicken to admit it....it's not easy...wish u the best dear and I hope u find happiness with whom u are withh...bless x

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  18. *sigh* he didn't choose to be gay... Must he be crucified for writing again, u dnt ve anything uplifting to add, just stfu! And am sure most of y'all commenting re gay but too chicken to admit it....it's not easy...wish u the best dear and I hope u find happiness with whom u are withh...bless x

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  19. Nigerians sha, pls live and let odas live, being gay isn't the worst sin!!!

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    1. @ anon 21:13.My thoughts exactly. I've never seen anything wrong with people living their life the way they wish as long as they are not hurting anyone or committing a heinous crime. This guy has a consenting boyfriend. Who is anyone to say they shouldn't be together. I'm female, straight and I have no gay person around me that I know of but if anyone I know comes out to me it won't change my attitude towards them. Live and let live people. Just cos your sin is different from their sin doesn't make u a better person.

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    2. And then it turns out that gay dude here is your bf. You still open minded sweetie?

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  20. Luca pls prove us wrong and comment on this post

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    1. Hahahahaha...wetin u mean na? He gay ni?

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  21. Pls can you just stop there! You weren't born different, you psyched up yourself to think such. You need proper and deep psycho analysis to get rid of such belief you'v come to live with, Our God is not a wicked God.

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  22. I don't understand y I shud feel sorry 4yu .. U said u went 2 big men of God dey cudnt procure a solution ... I personally tink u don't need help coz if u do u won't be 2proud u will communicate with ur heavenly father ... Nd don't justify ur act @l its unholy

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  23. Liar. U can stop if u wish. I have a friend who was gay for most part of her life. Now she is normal and with a guy. Dy have two lovely daughters together. U can stop if u wish!

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    1. May you have a gay child. Amen. Being Gay is not a disease nor is it a curse.

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    2. Your friend may still be secretly gay. The fact she is married does not mean she stopped.

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    3. Ode! Ur friend is still gay but forced to marry . She can even carry bible 247 but still be into women . Na today ?

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    4. It's easier for a girl who is a lesbian to change than a guy that is a fag..please just tell your GF you are gay and stop wasting her precious time..You and your man friend can live happily every after
      www.ameriestyle.com

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    5. @Ameries, you are absolutely right. Girl on girl pornos turn me on, however i couldn't be a straight lesbian cuz i like men. Though balls ain't that sexy to look at but i love the way a penis make me feel.

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    6. You be proper mumu..... So because she is married she has changed? Lol.... It is only a deep knowledge of CHRIST that can change that....and if she is not born again then her marriage is just camouflage... I had lesbian experiences in sec sch but that was the end.....am married 8 yrs now and I have no desire for that anymore..

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    7. 10:11 I do agree..that's cos there is always a time and place to experiment one's sexuality.usually in boarding school or college. After that............ na to move on to bigger dicks and sweeter pussies. Why gays and lesbians stay put in that mind set beats the hell outta me. soon transgenders will be clamoring for rights and acceptance as well. smh

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    8. pealie the bisexual. pornstar is what you are.

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  24. this is sad.may God help you find peace in Him alone

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  25. Don't worry by the time God sends you a severe punishment ur brain wud start functioning well, that's if you lucky to be alive self. Abeg Ladun stop givin dem d chance to get dia satanic ideas out pls. MEN 4 WOMEN n WOMEN 4 MEN d sweetest thing eva \=D/

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    1. Smiley you are an idiot.....you commit worse sins and u come here to vomit rubbish...bloody hypocrite

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    2. U̶̲̥̅̊ are d idiot here, W̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅̊e̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ God created human, h̶̲̥̅̊e created Adam Α̲̅πϑ Eve not Adam Α̲̅πϑ Steve. Surely U̶̲̥̅̊ are gay n̶̲̥̅̊ being gay Α̲̅πϑ commiting murder are the worst sins ever. ȋ̝̊̅ †̥ђȊ̝̊̅n̶̲̥̅̊k all U̶̲̥̅̊ gays s̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅̊o̶̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊l̶̲̥̅̊d̶̲̥̅̊ b̶̲̥̅̊ s̶̲̥̅̊e̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊t̶̲̥̅̊ into d bush n̶̲̥̅̊ pls D̶̲̥̅̊☺Ω̴̩̩̩̥'t go corrupt the animals i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ d bush o cos animals hav never ever practiced such abomination b̶̲̥̊u̶̲̥̅̊ђ U̶̲̥̅̊ humans. Solution Ȋ̝̊̅ƨ̣̇ U̶̲̥̅̊ gays all need brain transplant.

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  26. Dear writer,one thing I knw is this,that whatsoever God does is Forever,God created Adam n Eve and that's an example of how sexual relationships ought to be.I'm not gonna condemn U,cus its not in my place to judge.but if u focused on God n less on ur sexuality,God would speak n u would hear.what have men of God got to do wiv anythn?Seek God,not men who probably sin worse dan u.what u think is normal is part of the reason Sodom n Gommorah was destroyed.how can u say u love God n ignore his will.wether ure sleepn wiv a man or woman ure fornicating,that aint God's will.Seek his face in a time when he may be found n do his will...this is the whole duty of man.U will be free from sexual perversion.

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    1. You deserve an award for this comment Anonymous 22:17. You have given advice based on love.
      My dear brother, who says you are Gay? It's like people calling themselves disabled or mentally retarded; less than the blueprint of their maker. See the thing with Faith is this, and I am going the faith route with you because you stated here that you love God, you speak those things that are not as though they were/are. Your "reality" or current orientation tells you one thing, however if you accept it, then that will be your identity/reality. The sad sad truth is that what I feel, what you feel doesn't matter one cent. God is not a democracy. There is no human rights activism in operation here. Only God has the final say and if His word says this is WRONG, there is nothing you or I can do to influence/change that.
      My brother what will it profit a man to gain this world and lose his soul. You are flaunting yours and your boyfriend's success. I am happy that God has blessed you both. Have you even asked to what purpose this success is to serve? But I digress. The success you are enjoying on earth is fleeting. It will come to an end. Then you have to face reality - Judgment. We all have to face it. We do not know the day nor the time, but we do know that there are steps to take to prepare us for the day we meet our Maker. My prayer is that you and I will be ready for that day and that ours will be a testimony of Joy in Jesus name, and not a tale of woe. God bless you

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    2. God bless u anon 22:17 .

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  27. LOL die pls,if he knows within him it isn't demonic,why the hell is he fronting with his GF.smelly tlk,its not only bigots wht of yogurt.

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  28. Black people taking the white man's way if living, Lord have mercy

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  29. Abeg abeg take ur story else where. You have no excuse to be gay. U looked for it and found it. Mschew!

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  30. Kids bond more with people of the same sex, some even try to experiment with these friends along the line they move on to what's considered natural, while others get stuck in the mud . U couldn't have liked boys as a kid......like here suggests ....a sexual nature...and u still say no-one ever touched u? Homosexuality isn't a sickness, it's a lifestyle,habit and a way of life. It can be learned or unlearned. Same thing for the sexually active straight person, u choose to do or not to do. So it's your choice, If it bothers you that much like you make it look, quit doing and abstain. It's your choice.

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  31. Do you know the funny thing? This man might make heaven and all this idiots sleeping with women before marriage forming all straight and all will be d ones wailing and dancing in hell. Or better still dey shall share same hell room with him. Homosexuality isn't as different as stealing(even tho its 5naira) or having pre-marital sex or even telling the smallest lie(be it white lie or whatever you deceive yourself to call it)

    So my advice! IF YOU CAN'T HELP HIM FIX HIS PROBLEM, SHUT UP AND FIX YOURS! Shikena!

    Nigerians and deir closed-circuit brains! Chai! Even your so called pastors may be seen in hell too. Yes! Cos the tiniest of sin takes one to hell.

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    1. Do u know the funniest thing? You are a Gorrilla! At least we accept that what we are doing is wrong which is the first step to repentance. You and the writer's lot don't accept it is wrong and that's why we do holier than thou attitude cos we acknowledge that we are sinners. If he doesn't acknowledge he is wrong and seek God's forgiveness both of you will be bending for each other in Hell where u both belong to the entertainment of the devil. Anumpam!

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  32. lol......how many carton of pampers do u buy in a month?? I want u to be buying frm me to boost ma bizness biko.....all other gays take note

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  33. Even if you didn't ask to be gay, you can choose not to engage in homosexual activities.

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  34. Ladun pls post. I want to say sometimes in the past I always wondered if I'm a lesbian cos I seems to want to have sex with women and I almost did. But the good thing is that I had been able to stop myself from doing it eventhough, I have two friends who would have shouted for joy if I said yes to them. One of them still calls me regularly but I avoided seeing her for a long time. Point is, homosexuality is something you experimented with and it becomes an habit and couple with weakness you end up making up excuses that u were born that way. I repeat no one was born gay. Homosexuality is a mindset and to the writer, he should know,he can't have known he was gay at 7.

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  35. Nigerians are in denial about just how terrible their situation is, they are in denial that their's so-called men of god are fake and duping them, they are in denial that they are the giant of Africa (probably the giant of poverty and backwardness), and now they are denying that many Nigerians are born with some sort of attraction to the same sex. Just a stupid lot, you all are.

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    1. U r d stupid 1...hw can u say we nigerians r stupid. Even if u wnt to pass a msg across, u dnt av to b abusive nd rude

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    2. U r d stupid 1...hw can u say we nigerians r stupid. Even if u wnt to pass a msg across, u dnt av to b abusive nd rude

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    3. Anonymous11 May, 2013 03:30 fuck off jealous Nigerian wannabe. Where are you from? Ghana, Kenya or some HIV infested country?

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  36. Just dont bring kids into d picture, bear ur cross & its consquences urself

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  37. Leviticus 20:13

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  38. I am really moved to write this! The lie from d pit of hell is that u where born dat way. Let all men be liars and let God be d true Go. U where not born dat way! Do u want to tell me that prostitutes, kleptomaniacs, sex addicts, etc are born dat way. God destroyed sodom and gomorrah becos he detest homosexuality. What keeps us going dat makes us take God for granted is Jesus. So work on ur mind, telling us u met men of God and ur still gay is telling us God did not deliver u. There is nothing my God cannot do

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  39. Young man! Don't justify ur reason for being gay! Morally, spiritually, naturally it is wrong. Let me ask u, what would u say to a man who only wants to make love to animals? Was he born dat way? God cannot be mocked. He does not make mistake. The bible says man and woman, or u think he would not have created another Adam but no he created eve out of Adam. So was ur 28yr old gay partner created from ur rib? My dear, I fear God and I must obey him.

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  40. Just one question! Can u stand before God and justify why ur gay? Fear God and thank God for d grace and death of Christ. If it was n d days of nebudcadnezzar and Noah, d days of old where God carry's his judgement immediately. Hymmmm

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  41. Dumb guy! Wondering why we never had mad cow disease here in Nigeria? The fulanis flogged the damn MCD out of dem cows! You need the same treatment and that would be the end of your mad gay disease!

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  42. There are disease that people were born with, yet it doesn't make it right. As usually said- Longevity doesn't mean accuracy! A Kleptomaniac for example has theft in his blood, yet does that endorse stealing? So, my advice to this chap is to first admit it is wrong. Also, if pastors haven't been able to help you, doesn't mean all Pastors can't help. I will advice you avoid titular Pastors and go for those who truly carry that power in pure holiness. Also, I will like you to take steps to 'help' the work of that Pastor- by avoiding such gay friends, materials and replace them with deep bible study and true spiritual company. Jesus, in the bible advised a man to avoid his past issues or else the demons will return. Even if Jesus prays for you and you still act careless, it doesn't help; how much more an imperfect pastor. I believe you'll get over it. People have overcome same and so will you...in Jesus name!

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  43. You made sense but what is titular pastor? Whatever u meant sha tithes are mandatory as s Christian .... What Ur pastor does with it is left for him to answer to God, that however doesn't mean you should not be wise when choosing a church and knowing who to submit to.....as for the gay man if you want to change cry earnestly to God for help, give Ur life to Christ. Read Ur bible daily, pray in tongues, cut off from gay friends and any environment that will make u fall and watch the progress you will make...... God bless you and don't give up on yourself cos Jesus loves you .....

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  44. LMAO, are all of u in tis group normal? LWKM, special delivrancehahahahahahah, a hot goat by d way is a goat that was just brought out frm fire. Hahahahahahahahah hey Mr gay, please u n all ur clan shld just b movin to ph like that so God does destroy lag like he did sodom n Gomorah

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  45. My question for you is that must you have sex? Can't you live without it? There are old people who work in God's house that's never had sex in all thier entire life, and still living. You are a fool to think you must satisfy all your evil desires in life! In fact it shows how weak you are as a person. Apostle Paul said in bible that everything is lawful unto me, but everything is not profitable. Please go get a real life, this life you are living right now is not yours, it's the devil reincarnated life you are living!

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    1. lol. Funny enough someone once posted a mail... i think it was in linda Ikeji's blog. He said he had no desire for sex..... people still cursed the shit outta him and said he wasn't normal and needed deliverance. hehehe
      I think what people who are gay fail to understand is .... I really don't care who they be bending their asses to.... so why come to my face and tell me u like having sex with men? do we who r heterosexuals come out to be clamoring for heterosexual rights? fuck! i don't get these people. If what they be doing is right why keep we who really don't care miserable? soon it will be pedophile and rapist rights/ association demanding to be treated normally and accepted by society.
      They don't get it.... We just don't care!

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  46. fredre98@yahoo.com11 May, 2013 11:24

    Well, i really hope Ladun posts this. My name is Martins, 26 yo. I have always had feelings for guys since i was 8, starting from admiring my male folks briefs to peeping through the bathroom keyhole when they're in the shower. Dang! I was really really scared about what was happening to me and then i thought the world was going to come crashing over my head. It went on and on till i was 22, battling with this so called "Evil spirit"., prayed to God, did dry fasting, spoke to a few men of God to cast out this demon that has become a recurring decimal in my life; I didn't want it! Ive sat in the corner of my room, crying my eyes out, wondering why i have to be this way, prayed and rolled on the floor of my room in tears asking why i have to experience a thing like this. I thought it was said that "Ask God whatever it is you want and it shall be answered??" Well, i dont think that has ever applied to my case when it comes to casting out the "Spirit of homosexuality" in my life. Spoke to a friend and he suggested MFM just the was some people on here had., Few days later, i headed to MFM camp along Ibadan express way, had 7 days prayer session and dry fasting with the church's prominent men of God. I was more than happy when 7days was over, thinking it was the end of my "Predicaments"., i was so excited thinking i can now live a normal life, i can now drool over sexy ladies ' boobies and butt just like my other friends do. As i stepped out of the Camp's gate, turned to the direction that leads to Berger Bus-stop.Just as i was waiting patiently for a taxi to come, one of the pastors that prayed for me was just driving out as well then he offered me a lift, since he was going my way. Got into the car and fastened my sit belt. After few minutes of driving, he then started questioning my sexuality., at first i didnt want to talk about it because its past now, but yeah, i had to to talk to him about it because he obviously knows me inside out judging from the "Deliverance session". After talking about this for couple of minutes, he then started his own story about being homosexual which explains why he became a pastor thinking he got the "Virus" due to the fact that he wasnt closer to God enough. Then he confessed how he was always staring at my butt during my sessions. Startled! i said to myself, this could be another devil incarnate in my life, but then again..... Hurriedly, i told him i was going to drop at Kara Market to get some stuffs, i lied., just didnt want anything to do with this evil supposed man of God.
    Day went by and months passed only for me to discover i was doing nothing but deceiving my humble self. I even had a girlfriend, i was very nervous the first time we were going to have sex cos never have i ever had any sex encounter with a girl. Tried all i could to have sex with her after getting myself really drunk., then it went on and on and on for couple of months, i was always having sex with her getting really high on skunk and herbal mixtures. But for how long do i really wanna do this for??? Well, i had another girlfriend after we broke up and till date im still living a lie, trying to make the society accept me for what im not. It really hurts. Most times, i'll be at the Palms, Lekki, chilling with my friends., and instead of admiring the ladies just the way my friends are, i get caught up in the web of admiring the influx of cute guys that troops into the mall.
    My point is: Dear readers and most of you that comment harshly on blogs, judging people you don't know half of what they're going through, how about you just go about your businesses and let God be the judge??? We have tried our best too, its just not easy!

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    2. give urself to Gods word. read the word of God,think abt it,say the word of God to urself. Also speak in tongues always. i mean all the time. look up to jesus,he is the authour and finisher of our faith. less i forget u need to accept jesus as ur lord if u havent. if u do the above with all ur heart, thinking gay or being gay will be a thing of d past. God loves u and eants the best for u

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    3. First time commenting on this blog

      Your story aint any different from the rest of us. Responsible, well raised, and successfull men who has tried every means to get rid of this sexual preference. Prayers, fasting, recluse, suicide, just name it but at the end its back to ground zero. I guess when u re' most determined to give that life up, those cute boys (usually curious str8 guys with girlfriends) wont stop reaching, lol

      Stop paying mind to these faceless, clueless annonys with even bigger problem, they need more fasting & prayer than u ll' ever request for in your lifetime. Truth is live your life #phucktheiropinions #phucktheirsermons #phucktheirlives #mylifenotyours #saveyourlifefirst #IDGAF #GTFOH

      Now all you miserable trolls- "Don't come for me unless i send for you"

      DEZ!

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    4. You are not alone. Lots of us out there. Rich, successful players on the surface but hiding deep secrets. Lots of us get married and take the secret to our graves. Others make different choices. Just do what's best for you and your situation. Your desire is natural; it's not demonic and no amount of praying and fasting will get rid of it. Just learn to live your life the best way you can. Forget about what other people think of you.

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    5. Why don't you do as the writer has done? come out to your parents. If they accept you for being a bender then society will also accept you. Continue fooling yourself.
      There is still hope for you in Jesus Christ. You can't fight this battle alone.
      By letting us know a supposed mfm pastor was somehow hitting on u and confessing to be gayish is to let us know that they(some mfm pastors) can't be trusted too. I know that... so I recommend u ask Jesus Christ the author and finisher of your faith to remould you the way he wants u to be as he is the potter and you are the clay. Being Gay is the lie of the devil.Simple and short. He is the father of all lies. God did not say we should be fruitful and multiply if he wanted ass benders roaming the world. That's why he made woman and gave us boobs and juicy pussy so u men won't say it feels like having sex with a man.
      Don't be fooled and deceived by what some people are doing. The lie you are believing is you have always liked boys....
      You are watching too much foreign media... stick to nollywood production movies and It's a super story.
      Ps. your deliverance could not be complete because the devil had infiltrated your mist. His agent was the pastor that did your deliverance. and since he knows u r not ready to rid your self of male lascivious thoughts it was very easy for him to attack u again.
      you don't go for deliverance cos someone recommended it to u... you go because deep down in your heart you r ready to accept Jesus as your lord and personal saviour.

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    6. @peali u are truly retarded. With ur ugly ass picture. Showing ur boobs to distract us fom ur ugly ass face. Low self esteem oshi. Anonymous 13:15 lol don't ome for me unless I send for u? Lol twirl twirl twirl

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  47. When I was a kid, as far back as 8 yrs or so; I was into girls and had my first lesbian sex and 3some bfor d age of 10 and have admired and fantasized havin sex wit fellow girls. Even as I grew up watching lesbian porn turned me on more than man/woman stuff. When I started havin boyfriends, I felt nothin for them but @ a tym bfor I turned 21, I sat myself down and counselled myself dat what I'm doin is wrong and unnatural. That was d beginning of d end of my lesbo love. I ended my relationship and moved on and since then things changed. I enjoy bein with and makin love with guys and even wondered why I fooled around with girls bfor. Mr poster, what I'm tryin to say is dat u were not born dat way. U alone have d power to break out of dis gay bondage. Ask God to help u do it and focus less on sex, it'll work. If u don't have d willpower, then go to SCOAN, I'm sure u'll be delivered.

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  48. If Ʊ all understand the ways of God Ʊ won't all talk like this. Gay,liars,cheats,thieves,gossips,fornicators. Ʊ sleeping with a girl when not married or the other way round and proudly calling urselves straight men a̶̲̥̅̊ñ̷̊D̶̲̥̅̊ women. Are all sinners I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ the sight of God. And all going t̲̣̣̥O̶̲̥̅̊ same hell. So stop analysing which sin is bigger than. The oda. Cos they α̲̅я̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ all same. Ʊ stone and discrimainate gays,ΨђåƮ happens t̲̣̣̥O̶̲̥̅̊ the fornicators and thieves. Nigerians are JƱڪτ̲̅ religous fanatics. Yall claim to know God bt dnt really. Take time I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ removing the dirt fЯ̩̥̊O̶̲̥̅̊M̶̲̥̅ ur eyes b4 helping the oda.

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  49. nobody can cum here and tell me He or she was born gay.... Never ! !
    Whether na evil spirit or sumfin else, i dnt know... The fact is dat if dis was right in d ist place, it wnt generate so much buzz like this... Telling us ur gay is one thing, and telling us to accept it by force is anoda thing.... God forbid, but if ma bro cums to me and say he's gay, i will not wish him death, but i will make it my life's missiin to 'ungay' him o... Being gay is not nature. Twas after wen adam and eve sinned, dat we had unnatural tins like sin, lying, killing, fornication, homosexuality, adultery, deceit, rape came into existence.. which means homosexuality aint rite and it aint natural

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  50. otapiapia is fifty naira, it will cure any gay of their madness fast.

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  51. Just one word!! Kill ur self thats my only advise!! Because If u carry this ur Gay thing a bit closer to me! By the time i beat the hell out of u!! The demon will surely disappear through ur dirty anus!! ODE!! The bottom line of ur story is to tell us to support gay i know, But sorry man its not gonna work!! Beware, If i catch u! ur dead!

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  52. I am going to write a long epistle here for whom it may concern.

    If you understand the way demons operate, then you will know why you are a homosexual being. There are different demons responsible for different actions pple exhibit. Some are born liars, with huge temper, some wicked..very wicked, some selfish etc. The bible said, in sin did my mother give birth to me..psalm 51:5. However, when you give ur life to Christ, old things are past away, and all things are become new. This means you have a new spirit, which carries the nature of God.

    Well, it is your spirit that got born again, not your mind, and your mind is where your senses reside, it's where your feelings live and your mind did not get born again, ur spirit did, for the real u is a spirit, you possess a soul(mind) and u live in a body.

    Your job is to renew ur mind with the Word of God, go to a good church, study n meditate on God's Word, speak to the Holy Ghost always. It is a gradual process but if u are consistent n persistent u will have a renewed mindset. The Word of God can give you a new mindset, but you must submit yourself to the Word.

    It is in your own interest to renew ur mind else the devil will hold you captive in the mind..The only way the devil can get a hold of you is thru your mind.DON'T LET HIM. LET GOD, LET JESUS!

    From what you wrote here, I don't know how much time you spend with God in prayer esp if you have been busy having sex, even known as a womanizer..having a boyfriend etc. You should know these things occupy your time..time to study God's Word, time to pray,etc. No pastor will cast out the demon u carry until you reject it. This is because they may cast it out,but if you don't fill yourself up with the Word of God, they will come back worse than before.

    Please don't be a lazy Christian, don't be like that Christian who wants the pastor to do all the work..you say pastor pray for me and few days later u r committing fornication be it with boy or girl. You must let the Word of God rule your mind, resist sin, give yourself to the Holy Ghost...then your life will be a success every..

    God wants every part of you..spirit,soul,mind and body. It vBulletin is ur job to subdue ur feelings and mind with the Word of God.
    It's not enough to say I was born this way, we all were born in sin until Jesus entered into our lives. There's nothing God cannot change and oh YES, THERE ARE MANY GAYS THAT GAVE THEIR LIVES TO JESUS,AND ARE LIVING A NORMAL LIFE WITH THEIR WIVES N KIDS.
    GIVE NO PLACE TO THE DEVIL, RESIST THE DEVIL AND HE WILL FLEE FROM YOU!

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  53. OK o.
    I don't know why some govts are accepting homosexuality and tagging it with a good name like it is normal. They are as sick as the individual that indulge in it. See as their country be... confused and in disarray.
    Why don't they also allow rapist, murderers, armed robbers, pedophiles etc walk the streets freely? If they can disregard the religious text to suit the homosexual community saying it is a choice... no one can say who to have sex with.... they were born gay... blah blah blah.... I am sure in the same way rapist, pedophiles, murderers etc were born to do what they do.... With the feeling to molest, take someone's life or property etc So why frown upon it?
    Like someone said sin is sin.... so all countries imprisoning rapist and pedophile etc should let them go cos it is the same way gay people were born they were born also. They have to say on what moral grounds they condemn rapist, pedophiles, murderers and thieves cos if it is cos of any known religious text shame on all of them cos those same religious text also frowns upon homosexuality.
    @ the writer, u came out to your parents abi? Oya clap fo ya self. I just believe they must be white cos if they are properly groomed Nigerians u won't come here and be writing this rubbish. Make sure in your stupidity u and ur partner don't vacation in The Gambia.... their president is known as a mad man who loves his country. he wasn't joking when he said what he would do to your lot.
    I know some nincompoops will come here and say separate State from religion..... if we do, they will be chaos, anarchy and doom cos there will be no yardstick to what is moral. Because of religion we think the way we do consciously or unconsciously. Even atheist who keep fooling their self that there is no God will frown on rapist, murderers, robbers and pedophiles.. what is the yardstick for knowing what they did is wrong if somehow they are not subconsciously interwoven in the intricacies of religious morals....

    There is still hope for you in Jesus Christ.

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  54. All these bloody faggots are listening to too much Lady Gaga. Born that way my bloody ass! Rubbish! Lady Gaga is a business woman. She will sing devil is holy if it will sell her album. what she doesn't know is that there are odes like u who actually would believe the lyrics.... Born gay ni born a lesbian Ko! Better start reading the Power of Positive thinking and re orientate your demoralized brain. #Enddays.

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  55. Godbless you too Nenye and Anon 9:42.And Please all of u insulting pple,u do realise u would also give account of every idle word u speak?Let our words be seasoned and remember that God does not wish that any man should perish but come to the knowledge of truth in Christ Jesus.MR FRED98,u left a deliverance ground not wiv a grind for the most high on ur mind but about how u would drool over sexy ladies wiv big boobs n butts,and u say u spent 7days communicating wiv God?trust me,u didn't encounter the power that raised Jesus from the dead,cus if u did,ur life couldn't have remained the same.in the end it all boils down to this simple Explanation " its outside of God u find homos,fornicators,liars,rapists,kidnappers thieves and what not...God is Holy and in him is no darkness @ all.We all Need Jesus.We all need him.

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  56. Let the word of God be the standard for Ur life,if the word says homosexuality is a sin,then who or what has been telln u ure gay??? Whose report have u been listening to?Ur flesh?ure not indebted to ur Flesh..ur feelings for guys?Those feelings are fleeting...U can never know who or what u are if u are not fixated on the Word of God,that been said,my bible calls.

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  57. Am avirgin use to av urges for girls cos I felt wiv gurls I wld b happy n neva get preggie but afta re-evaluating my head cos am a medical std I got ova d whole shit.it is sumtin we tel our brain it carries out my dear u were not born dt way

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  58. Hey Writer,

    Just stopping by to let you know that I love you, and so does Jesus. My Savior (Jesus) wants you to come as you are, without pretense..no need for shame, His grace is sufficient. Please listen to Kirk Franklin's brokenhearted song and be blessed. I pray God hears your plea and responds.

    God bless! :)

    PS please free your girlfriend so she can go & find true love.

    www.reviewnaija.com

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  59. Homosexuality is no different to masturbation, formication etc.for the "judges" here,thank God u don't have terrible addictions like the fore-mentioned. Like any other habit it takes time,determination and most of all the grace of The Lord to weather such storms.the fact that he is trying to seek help is commendable,it only shows that the spirit of discernment is not dead in him.

    Pls continue to listen to that good voice in u because HE that is in u is greater than the world.i strongly believe that u have the power to overcome this because u r willing.just press and I'm sure The Lord will reward u.PLS DON'T GIVE UP.God bless ur heart.

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    2. Pple hve worse secrets under their belts.a lot of the pple judging u have done despeecable things they dare not bring to the open.its easier to castigate others.

      Can pple take it easy with the insults,it only depictes u as being uncouth and brash.pls show some decorum!

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  60. ASK PASTOR DONNIE MCCLURKIN HOW HE GOT "CURED"!!!

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