Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Mistress Writes House Wife

We don't intentionally go hunting for ur husbands, we meet them like you meet people everyday, through friends, at the supermarket, at work functions hell even on the side of the road. We don't always know from the get go the man is married because a lot of these brothers don't wear rings or come with a stamp saying "taken". Half the time he's alone, there's no trace of you, even in his car! It takes a well trained eye to spot traces of another woman, e.g seatbelt perfume, weave strands, hair oil on the headrest, etc.

My job in your relationship is to give him a break from reality, yes you and the kids are real but so are the bills and school fees and work stress. I'm where he de-stresses. I know my place trust me I do, I know to keep quiet when you call while we together. Click to continue reading.


I know not to spend on his credit card but to ask for cash, all this is to protect you, yes you, from pain, humiliation and suffering, I get a tired frustrated man and send you a well rested happy man, thank me don't disrespect me for it!Calling me won't change the fact that my clothes are expensive and my car is paid off, it won't change the fact that my university fees are paid and I get to go to the weekend conferences or boy's nites out, swearing at me won't change the fact that he grips my headboard when he rocks my world and screams like a girl, something u probably don't even know about the man u married.
U don't know the effort we put behind our little rendezvous jus to keep ur pudgy ass happy, and feeling secure.

Trust me the more u come after me the more he wants me, the more money he spends on me, the more intense our sessions get.
A true nyatsi will never ask him to leave u, instead she encourages him to stay with you even if you have messed up badly.

We never consider getting pregnant out of fear of having to deal with your sour face for the rest of our lives. So relax, your kids are priority numero uno, even to us, we pick out the toys and clothes he shows up with, we encourage bonding time.

Consider yourself lucky if u find my number, at least u know he's taken care of when u tired, and he's gonna come right back once we done re-furbishing my apartment. Oh and trust me, I do the fighting for us, its my job to make sure its just us two, any others will be dealt with severely by me, so don't ruin ur manicure, I get a weekly one so its okay, let me do it.

I respect you, hence I stay away from family functions and make sure I take all my stuff out of the car when I was there,
I don't call after he's left the office because I know its your turn.
I have my own things, the rest is just a bonus for having a kind and sharing attitude, I'm a professional with a great job
and earn enough, I don't have time to tend to a fulltime relationship hence I don't mind when he goes home to you.

My advice to you "mama'se khaya" stay in your home, and don't pack your stuff and go tell your mom how u failed at being a wife, it just makes u look stupid and weak and our man needs strong women around him. Look after your kids, tend to your home, cook those hearty meals you so famous for, I can't cook with these nails. Don't ask about me, he's just going to lie and toss and turn in bed thinking about me in my victoria secret set he bought me for valentines day. Let me be, I will leave on my own accord one day.

If u don't we might jus trade places and you going to be saying "witchdoctors" or I consult babalawos, I don't, I would rather spend that money on expensive holidays with our man. Truth is, I make him feel good, I'm a reminder of when he was young and I do all the things you are afraid to do, or just won't do because you believe you are past that, I'm forever young and I compliment him, u suit him, trust me honey there is a huge difference.

I respect marriage and all it stands for, that's why I'm doing my part to help yours stay together, so don't think I don't, I respect the nice thing you have done and I love your kids too much to hurt them. Don't cry over me, or what we do, let it be, play your part and I will do what I'm supposed to do.

Yours (and your mans)

Nyatsi

138 comments:

  1. karma will still catch up with em bitches one day.

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    1. Lol,karma wouldn't even recognise this psychotic piece of trash..it will just gargle and spit on her...karma too is a bitch lol

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  2. IFE NA EME!

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  3. One Day you too wil become house wife and all this too wil be urs.

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  4. Don't worry dear another girl will take care of your husband to when u marry. its called karma bitch.

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  5. Na wa my sister its true oh !!!!! I like my married men oh. I dont want to interfere with ur marital bliss but i must enjoy my juicy baby

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    1. Continue my dear. But remember that when u are going through your own and it hurts like hell and God refuses to answer, know that the married woman's prayers have finally been answered and u too must endure.

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    2. Uhmmnnnn.... Yeah! Enjoy your juicy baby, until u get tired of it all(that's if you don't die in the process or get an acid bath), try to look for a good man despite ur past and then u find buh 3months after the marriage he begins to cheat on u and then u go thru what that "wify" went thru. And God help u, the "nyatsi" is not as civilised as this one that can even sit and write a letter... Then u'll know that when u sow a seed, u don't reap one seed, u reap hundreds and thousands of them. So continue! :)

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    3. U lyk married men shey? Agent of hell. U ll go down one day.ur typ won't even get a husband sef ashawo kobokobo mitchewww

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    4. Daughter of Belial..Highway to hell..destruction awaits u.

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    5. nice one,happy for u.....wen ur turn comes ur husbands mistress will move into ur matrimonial home while u sit and watch like the retard u are1

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    6. Oh shut up judgemental fools. Im lovin my life that im livin and im having fun? Ure business? I think not. Lets all bear our fun and pain. Im sure u have many things equal to my sins. Plus the way nigerian girls love money. Abeg i know ure sisters are doing the same things u r comdeming here. If not u urselves. My friends free urself and live ure life. No regrets thats my motto. Kissessss

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    7. My dear stop before its too late,once I had all the big boys married men and now I am married,and its been hell. E no pay

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  6. I love dis writer!!!dis is exactly how it goes down!we just want d goodies!keep ur old man wify!

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    1. Uhmmnnnn.... Yeah! Until u get tired of it all(that's if you don't die in the process or get an acid bath), try to look for a good man despite ur past and then u find buh 3months after the marriage he begins to cheat on u and then u go thru what that "wify" went thru. And God help u, the "nytasi" is not as civilised as this one that can even sit and write a letter... Then u'll know that when u sow a seed, u don't reap one seed, u reap hundreds and thousands of them. So continue! :)

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    2. and i hope u also keep the STDs.

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  7. Assistand Madam tins! However all of the above are no justification Lady pls findd your own man pls. Don't make another womans husband happy its not your job.

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  8. =)) =)) =)). I laffº°˚ ˚°º≈º°˚ ˚°º≈º°˚ ˚°º≈º°˚ ˚°ºº°˚ ˚°º≈=)) =)) =)). Ng o

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    1. NG owerri imanu ihe akuga!!! Onwe ihe mega,onye kuru ibe ya akuru. Nnem I see u.

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  9. its great sha until you settle down and its another womans turn to take over your husband..

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  10. Karma is def ur portion!

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  11. Its not fair u didn't have to rubb it in nemesis will catch up wt u soonest

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  12. This is so true. Any Nigerian woman who thinks her husband will remain faithful is a joker. So its best you just accept that fact and live with it, as long as he respects you, cares for you, provides for you and keeps his philandering very far from you. You'll be very lucky if your husband has a mistress such as this writer, and not the ones that intend to chase you out of the house. It's one or the other.

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    1. Dummy a cheating man has no respect for you ... And when caught should be crying and begging for forgiveness

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    2. Hey madam/mr speak for your husband/yourself!
      There are men out there who don't cheat on their wives whether you believe it or not. I wouldn't say a good number of them but there are.

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    3. @Anon 23:19 , gbam!

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    4. @Kanyinsola, the only reason they would not cheat is
      A) Big money never land
      b) Very good at pretending
      c) small willy
      d) lacks confidence
      e) nah you dey supply dough.
      f)You don was toto for am.

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  13. Mmmmmmm! Mistresses dey try sha. It's not easy to satisfy a husband alone. Women should learn to share their husbands because it helps keep marriages. Just saying n no harm meant.

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  14. Lovely write up.its sad but true.

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  15. Lmaooooo
    I can so relate wit this writer. She has said it all.lol

    Wifey no kill urself o. When I was ready I simply walked away and got married. So why u go wan leave ur man? For wetin? Me na chop clean mouth I dey. I too dey enjoy the man money then plus the bedmatics na die. And he treated me so well also. Anyways all that na past. This is new me o. Choi!

    Welldone writer! You surmised it all thoroughly. Everything na true yarns.

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    1. Lmaooo....yes o!!! Hope your dumbass is still laughing when you have a helper as well. Otondo!!!

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    2. Omo gidi! Ure now married shey? Good!

      Enu e lo wa yen! Mura si!

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    3. Don't ever think it is all over because your own hell has started and am assuring u ur husband will forever be a cheat u bitch because u can't go away with what u do, bloody prostitute

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    4. Don't ever think it is all over because your own hell has started and am assuring u ur husband will forever be a cheat u bitch because u can't go away with what u do, bloody prostitute

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  16. Dis single girls never cease to amaze me. Has it ever occurred to them that they will eventually settle down someday? How can you write such to a fellow woman? Bear in mind that your just warm up married men's bed. You are truly in denial if you feel a married man comes to you because you are better than the wife or the wife doesn't take care of her man. Theres absolutely no way you can prevent a man from cheating. Its just their blood selfish nature. Even your average boyfriend that you are yet to be mariried to constantly cheats so why would wedding vows stop a married man from cheating.
    FYI- later in future when you eventually settle down and dont find peace in your marriage you will realize karma is a bitch so enjoy it while it lasts...its only a matter of time

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  17. Lol! In all sincerity, nicely written. As for the content, all I can say is, thank you so much for your hard work, you will also be blessed with a helper as soon as you get the other role, lose the manicure and find a meal ur so famous for

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  18. Standard rule in Lagos now if you are married to a big boy! He has
    1) Madam
    2) Mistress
    3) Girlfriend
    Everyone has their role to play in big boys life! Heard this life from a guy. Nearly passed out.

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    1. Hmmm, i have heard that rubbish too. Quite common on the Island. Foolish people

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  19. Just imaging the nerve. How can this woman justify what she is doing like it's not a big deal. Na wa o

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  20. Haha. Lies nicely woven, just don't get caught up in the web of deception and get the venom.
    Every mistress, and mark my words, EVERY mistress wishes she was the wife with the family!
    And no they don't stay away or try to lay low, they want the wife to know so as to cause trouble in the marriage.

    They crave for the respect the wife gets from family and friends. They pray for the stability in life the wife has. They will die to be in the wife's skin.

    And they deceive themselves "assuming" to be the only girlfriend?! Trick puh-leez! Sluts and whores dey plenty, a wife is a precious rare gem. Go figure!

    And if the girlfriends are "using" him for wordly things, sorry their fathers were dead-beat losers to never provide for them, and their mothers irresponsible for raising them poorly.... You can keep the filthy change rolled your way.

    Wives were raised better. Thus their status ;) blessed with family! Hankali a kwanche!

    (Skanks be trippin'....)

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    1. bless your heart! you took the words right out of my mouth. couldn't have said it better myself. was fuming when i read the stupid letter.

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    2. GBAM GBAM !!!!!........ Double points

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    3. Olodo. But if ur denial makes u sleep well at night. Kudos.

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    4. ...As opposed to living in denial that I don't want a proper woman's life? *kanye shrug*

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  21. Lol....but honestly all men cheat *straight face*. Karma doesn't nid to wait 4 her.

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  22. I'm inlove with this piece. We do our part and we don't expect a rosy marriage too cos we've been there...

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    1. Wow!! God help nigerian women lik dis..God hav mercy!

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    2. U must b a bastard

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  23. As true as this is, these mistresses still suffer in the end. The one who fucked with my ex husband is childless till today after 6yrs of marriage. These hot assed girls need to be cAreful. I got tired of being cheated on and got a divorce

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    1. Na lie jo. So u be GOD wey hold her belle for 6years. Hold your bloody husband n stop blamming girls. I am married to a man who used to be a serial cheat but I prayed n worked hard till he changed. We are happy today with 2 lovely kids.7years n 3years respectively. I am a size8 n I eat only fruits n veggies n work out daily. I earn 5.2m monthly income. We r happy. So work hard chica. Funke.

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    2. *sigh* The life of the typical naija woman. "You prayed and worked hard till he changed". Madam, your husband changed because he wanted to and not because you prayed and worked hard. So the woman above did wrong by leaving her marriage? Some women have low tolerance for bullshit by the way, and would rather walk away than endure/pray.

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    3. @ funke so u think becus u r a size 8 and eat strictly fruits n veggies it prevents ur hubby from cheating..lol meaning u r still looking hot shey
      What happened to the likes of halle berry and gabrielle union ooh am thinkin u must be hotter than them shey cus their partners still cheat...ooooh pls
      Well prayers to sum extent can save you thats wat we african women belive sha. Bear in mind every woman prays.

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    4. Funky the liar. What job is that giving u 5m a month. Barawo

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  24. Mistress power has grown over wife these days

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  25. I ain't got time for that mess....playing second fiddle.

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  26. Having Sex with a Married man carries a curse! I pity you all!

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    1. it's both ways. mega curses.

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  27. Most of u did it b4 u got married... un4tunatly,e dey bibble. solomon and all, una dey 4k single/married men 2. marriage is over-rated, children re all that matters, if u have them take care of them

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  28. Shup up wives, and take learning. Be a bitch for ur man for once and watch him adore you and show you off to the world.

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    1. you shut your stupid idiotic mouth first.......show who off to the world? no matter how you carry your self a cheating husband will cheat....so if you cant stand the cheating anymore divorce his randy arse, and if you will have alot to loose get your own fun on the side.....trust me no one in the male gender is worth crying over...lying stupid randy he goats.....sadly the bitchy mistress always sings a different tune when the tables turn and she becomes the wife.....

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  29. Stupidity is not a veture

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  30. When ur vee jay jay finally wears out, and u get older and u cnt refresh him again, u will be dumped, u will never know peace(u fink u are @ peace), but truly, u will neva knw peace, u will eventually get married, then u wld have lost ur spark in bed, and ur bedmatics go don disappear tey tey, thats wen ur hubby will now meet her in d park, on d road, etc....... U kuku knw where it will end. Na dat time u go realise say, na u use ya hand cause ya misery.... May GOD FORGIVE YA SHALLOW MIN iJN.. SAY AMEN.. smh

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    1. What makes you think men don't lose their mojo? As they age? Does that mean the wife should sneak around with a more able guy?
      Where's the maturity? The appreciation? The humanity!

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  31. Some hypocrites wil comment as if dey don't do dis....ahhhhhhh, till I get d man to marry me, loving u so much my manfriend. And to tell u here, I was so hurt last weeknd seeing girls arnd u, but tank u so much for showing me to all.

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  32. Na wa Ooº°˚ ˚°ºoo
    Y don't u just channel all these energy of urs into a single man's life?
    Ehn?

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    1. Abi o! Shikenan fa.

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    2. Angel oyefunke abi? Shut da fuck up. Please. One advise to you all. If you like fuck married man or single man all na SIN so quit fucking dear.

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  33. lagos is my home02 May, 2013 08:26

    Smh, I will never understand why a self respecting woman will accept to be "second best " . Isn't it better to be loved and cared for in an open way instead of 5mins moments of secret moves.

    Goodluck to all mistresses and their self delusions. When d man dies ooo well, at best u be known as his secret bitch/ whore

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  34. RUBBISH! Her type are never faithful in marriages, the promiscuous nature never really leave them so they continue with extra marital affair. EWU

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  35. Ouch! Forgive me, but this is hilarious!!! This lady is so blunt, honest and bold... Rather than judge her, I advise wives to make efforts to study their husbands and give them a lot more attention... I understand that there is no excuse for a man to cheat, trust me i do! But it does take two to tango. Wives, do your part, move with the changing tides of time and DO THOSE THINGS THAT GET HIM ATTRACTED TO OTHER LADIES... Dear Hubbies, please remember the grass is NEVER really greener on the other side! Ain't no place like "HOME"! Xoxo!!!

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  36. http://christabelaghorowei.blogspot.com

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  37. Thank you dear mistress. Most women are no longer worrying themselves because of your likes. They have sugar boys and tom tom men who equally take care of them. So go on with your runs work but be rest assured that what goes up, must come down and what goes around comes around . Lest i forget, always wear condom, just like many women do when they are with their boy friends or husbands. Hiv is real. Life has no duplicate.

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    1. Haha. Exactly. They make it seem as if a wife is a docile, dependent, helpless woman. Wives make their own money and apparently have their own emotional and physical affairs. Sad, but the husbands shld be paying attention to them.

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  38. This kind of people never settle down, don't u guys get the point? They are content as mistresses/kept women. U only hv to follow @assistantmadam to know that.
    I'm not saying I support it but married women shud stop saying someone else will do the same to them, its almost always not true. Then, chances are that if they eventually get married, they'll know what to look out for cos they've been side chicks before.
    The disheartening thing is that they're getting bolder no thanks to the anonymity that social media provides. Sigh

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    1. Man eater you are so right. The one who fucked with my marriage was so bold she put all their love and text messages on twitter and facebook. She put several pictures on facebook of them in many places and the most painful part is my husbands friends and their bastard mistresses were all in these pictures too. The babe obviously is not planning on getting married and my husband is not the 1st married man she fucked with the wife and her fight was all on social media. Crazy bitch., I just know kama has got to be around the corner for her

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  39. Oloshi (ola baby)

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  40. And d useless husbands,is it not about time someone cuts their dicks off?

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  41. Na waoooooo,dis girl gat liver oooo.

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  42. No long tin Nyatsi...One good turn,deserves another.

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  43. Modern day party look.Pictures

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  44. U wud get married some day, and anoda forever young wud held u take care of ur man. Its as simple as dat

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  45. Why all these whores think its ok to date a married man I will never understand.you are wicked.you are simply making another woman live in agony and she will always know and in most cases she keeps quiet and just lives with d pain.i pity the girl that will attempt to date my husband and I find out just pray u don't go 6 feet under that ur pussy I will help u destroy it.. If u wanna fuck my boyfriend feel free love but d minute he becomes my husband I fucking dare u! And to all u culprits reading this...continue to fuck people's husbands until u meet a crazy bitch like me trust me that day that very day when u see a Man U will run for ur life talkless of a married man.infact I fucking dare ur whoring ass! Wicked ass bitch! Out of d millions of men u choose one another female like u walked up d isle with? Why? U are a blood sucking witch and nothing but bad things will happen to u! One day u will b on the other side of the table and I promise u that ur husband will fuck from ur house help to ur gateman first daughter to last and he won't even hide that shit from u.ashawoo kobo kobo if u need money use ur fucking head and invest something...ur a fool if pussy is all u have to offer a man.

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    1. Lwkmd.And u wonder y u r still single??? U need to wash ur mouth wit soap. Such languge shouldn't be used by a lady.

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    2. say ur name so that we stay off ur man! all u stupid wives complaining bitterly, u probably fucked some other married man in your single days hence the reason why your man cheats, yes its still the same karma floating around slapping you bitches back in ur own coin.
      I dey my own jeje, a man toasts me and begin spend on me, u wan make I say no, hell nooooooooooo

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    3. Ode! U want to kill for a man, sorry u'll be killed as well. Who wil even date ur ugli man, shior. I'm fucking enjoyin my married man cos I'm in Love with him. And if u must knw Love is at wia u find it......tongue out

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    4. Anon 13:19 nd 16:12....u girls won't kil me laugh...I'm seriously laughing my ass out.. U re damn funny nd nt far 4rm d truth. Bitter truth tho. Dnt kn y pple hate hearing d truth,especially 9ja married woman. Dey re so so bitter dat dey hate 2 hear d truth. Dey must b frustrated in dir home. So dey come here 2 unleach dir anger. Ahahahaha! For d record I'm a married woman wit kids "7yrs of marriage". I concentrate on my hubby nt on any mistress out der.dats if der is any, anyways. 9ja married women stp making excuses,luv ur husband like a brother,caress is ego like a bf,nd f**k him like a porn star....its wkd 4 me 4 d past 7yrs. Even wit som funny phone calls,I tease him nd tel him jokingly 2 stay out of trouble.

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    5. @anon, what is 7yrs of marriage? You have not started. Wait till you have hit 15yrs to 20yrs, then come back and tell us how you did the magic. Is it not this men.................

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    6. U right anon 22:41,no long thin. I kn I won't waste my time prayin 4 1 foolish man 2 change his ways. I wil rather channel dat strength on my kids. No time. I've limited tolerance mahnnn! Marriage nor b by force ohhh abeg.

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  46. world of bitches.

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  47. Why all these whores think its ok to date a married man I will never understand.you are wicked.you are simply making another woman live in agony and she will always know and in most cases she keeps quiet and just lives with d pain.i pity the girl that will attempt to date my husband and I find out just pray u don't go 6 feet under , that ur pussy I will help u destroy it.. If u wanna fuck my boyfriend feel free love but d minute he becomes my husband I fucking dare u! And to all u culprits reading this...continue to fuck people's husband until u meet a crazy bitch like me trust me that day , that very day and after when u see a Man U will run for ur life talkless of a married man.infact I fucking dare ur whoring ass! Wicked ass bitch! Out of d millions of men u choose one another female like u walked up d isle with? Why? U are a blood sucking witch and nothing but bad things will happen to u! One day u will b on the other side of the table and I promise u that ur husband will fuck from ur house help to ur gateman's first daughter to last and he won't even hide that shit from u.ashawoo kobo kobo if u need money use ur fucking head and invent something...ur a fool if pussy is all u have to offer a man.

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    1. easy . . . . easy

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    2. And I suppose your darling husband is an innocent baby? Why not give your husband the hell you describe should he fuck another woman? Instead you plan on killing the mistress as tho she took vows to be faithful and loyal to you.
      You think you are the only one with craze? I'll advise you focus on you cheating husband and leave the mistresses alone.

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    3. Shut the fuck up he ain't innocent but if u were fucking decent you will give him a red card.your a whore simole

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  48. I have a friend like d̶̲̥̅̊α̲̅τ̲̅, young, handsome, rich, kind hearted and intelligent! His wifey gives him hell and i help revive him! He loves me, i get gives 4 his kids, i never interfer!
    I give him the full does that makes him keep coming back for more!
    Am so in love with him!
    I just help in making him happy!
    Na crime?

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    1. my sister no b crime o.................

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    2. lol.....its amazing foolish women like u still exist......so you believe all he tell you......let him leave his wife and marry u na if she is as bad as he paints her.....ode fool, don,t you know that a lot of men lie and paint their wives bad so the girl friend can think she is a messiah? fool, let him marry you then you will hear for the first time that you are a witch....leave another woman,s hubby alone and go look for your own, ole jati jati

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    3. Lol u r clearly a fool.. His wife gives him hell and he's still with her. They jus give u stupid reasons to make u sluts feel important and u easily fall for it... OK simple ask him to marry u afteral u give him peace that shouldn't be a problem. Moron

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    4. wat makes u think we are honestly interested in marrying ur whorish husbands abeggiiiiiiiii

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  49. lmao.. this lady is insane!!!

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  50. She should remember that one bad turn also deserves another.

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  51. ahhh what this writer is saying is a very big lie oo, I used to be that girl. yes I shamefully dated a married man, initially I thought I don't want to interfere in his marriage, all I want is his money and the pecks that come with it. so I thought. Not long after I started to want more, I tell you no matter how you girls do like you don't want more eventually u want more from the guy. why? why u ask? simply because you are a human being, u r a woman, every one wants somebody they can call their own, it gets to a point where being the hidden woman is not much.

    It dawned on me when I saw my married man and his wife together in public. The man loves his wife like mad, the way he looked at her, the way he adored her, the pride in his eyes watching her make her speech that day, he Never looked at me like that, there was no emotion between us, I was just a piece of ass to him that's all.

    I got jealous and told his wife about our affair. the strangest thing happened, the woman didn't curse me out, she didn't threaten to break my head, she just smiled and said I forgive you. that's all, I was shocked I was ready for a show down but she didn't even ans me, iv never felt so little and low in my life. Then my married man who I thought loved me, told me with so much anger and bitternes never to contact him again, that I was crazy to ever think he would leave his wife and kids for me.

    long story short, I learnt the lesson of my life. when u date a married man, at some point I promise you it is not enough to be hidden you always want more, and guess what the man will never leave his wife for you, you mean nothing to him.

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    1. thank you for this piece of advice i hope all these young girls are listening

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  52. Keep deceiving yourselves, cheap mistresses?

    Can Adenuga's mistress even peep into where Mrs Adenuga is lounging? You will continue to tiptoe around.

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    1. From what we've heard, Adenuga is into "masters" not mistresses. So it is alright.

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    2. He is into both oh.

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  53. Some of us would quickly judge this woman.. forgetting that the man is also involved... Why cant men stay faithful biko??? And in too sure twas the man that spotted this lady n started chasing after her.. Every woman loves attention n gifts... Let God be the judge of this one...

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  54. As much as I don't support this woman, I would like to encourage our women to read this carefully and learn whatever they can from it.
    No point bitching on your man, life is hard enough for him. Doing so can only chase him out of the house.

    That said, no man should have to make his woman go through the pain of coping with a mistress.
    We all should work hard at our relationships..

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  55. Tell me jor who wrote this? Some of them are here oh leema, babygee, paki beauty. where una dey? Frog eyes pealie are you saying you aren't like this?

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  56. Anonymous02 May, 2013 00:50 I hail oooo

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  57. Okay mistressess dis is where u all get it wrong..the married men dnt cum into ur arms becus u av bedmatics skills.lol
    His wife also has bedmatics skills n take care of her husband but useless men see it as an adventure they dnt want to keep aving the same thing all d time. Yes that being said.. Ure probably not the only mistress..so big deal
    As for the money ure gettin frm him its enough to go round paupers like u need to survive..

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  58. Well I bet if u were my husbands mistress u will only get peanuts frm him cus d moment u start askin him for holiday trips n expensive bags n huge sum of money then girl he's on to the next one. This I av confirmed myself n then u will start calling n he wnt pick up...hahahaha very funny. Men r dogs he jus wants to be in ur pants
    Well d ones dat u can suck dry r probably ur fathers age mate ur sleeepin

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    1. Ah i think i dated ur husbamd ohhh. Very stingy

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    2. @ Anonymous 02 May, 19:01 though I don't quite agree with the mistress thing, I literally LOL'ed at your comment.

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    3. Anonymous 02 may, 19:01 you are a clown o! Ppl think I'm mad laughing with my I pad

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  59. Why is everybody crucifying d mistress, the beginning of this write up explains hw she meets a married man. A man who is married should nt be club hopping abt the place and a married man shuld nt be introduced to a single young girl at parties. The girls jst want what they want and that's money they dnt want your husband, if he isn't footing her bills she won't be with him, and she uses a man who needs a new breath of fresh air from his marriage.. Girls dnt jst come on to a man who isn't interested in them, its the married men that show their interest in them. If a married man is that irresponsible to toast or get involved with a young university girl its because that is the kinda he is and has always been, even marriage didn't change him, so the girls but only take advantage of it to get the simple luxuries they desire.


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    1. Shut up there, what do you know? These girls are stalkers! Once the guy has a bit of change, they tell mummy, sister, mama for village. Jazz things start. The girl go take concortion to wash the pussy n thats it. The foolish man is hooked! But at the end of the day, you know what they say about juju, it would fade and guess what hoe? He would go back and beg his wife. Meanwhile, you would have expired on the shelve, waiting for another maga. When you finally meet the guy that likes you, honey your womb would have been badly damaged from all sorts. To have a baby becomes a big headache. What next? You head to The Bridge Clinic and start attending Redeem. Fucking retard!

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    2. XY, oshe! Gbam you really get am. Owon expired drugs.heheheheheh

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  60. hehe side chics winning all over d world 0/

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  61. My dear nyatsi,a married man will never ever treat u like his 'wife' n trust me,if ur not one who will deceive herslf,am sure u hate where u re,,the mistress.He will soo fuck u like a horse fuckin a chicken,put u thru ridiculus styles and postures that he wnt even dare thnk of doin with his wife.And at the end of the day,u use his mony to nurse ur pussy wounds and ask urslf,is it really worth it?Call him in his house and even if u re dyin,he answers u as if u re his neigbour's dog,meanwhile even on top of u,wen he is cumin sef his wife calls him,everythng coms to a standstill and u go hom,slp alone and wet ur pillow with tears cos of loneliness.Sweethrt,the list is endless,mony cnt buy love,respct or evn the d emotional wreck he turns u to after yrs.They re time wasters!!!I'd rather date a single guy who'll marry me and be proud of me rather than date one fool who'll tell u not to breath cos his wife is calling!#pls pardon my typos..i dey vex#

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    1. Gbam.....God bless you dear, tell them. E bi like say dey don crase finish

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  62. I decide 2 read in betweem d lines and learn from the bitch as well as d madam.

    A little of both should keep the man at home. Well, when the time comes.

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  63. Experience is indeed the best teacher. Men like this only leave you high n dry. Even if you both end up together it would still be one n the same thing.
    Nothing good ever comes out of such...might be rosy with this sort of man for a bit then somewhere down the road he is going to desire more. Such men are NEVR satisfied

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  64. U married women are only talking bladerdash because u are being paid in the same coin. Am sure the mistress writing this will get married one day and turn to a saint she never was just like some of the women here. So u see, what goes around comes around till the end of the world. So women should stop fooling themselves by behaving saintly today while they were bitches yesterday (just like the writer). Your man will always cheat, it's natural and it's no fault of the side chick.

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  65. Trust me, men are born cheaters that's why Islam allows them to marry four wives in order to check their tendencies. It's just that Christianity does not allow such that's why we are having such issues of so much infidelity. Let's let things be and keep doing good to one another because there is no marriage in heaven so why die for a man on earth.

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    1. O shut the hell up. Even the ones that have four wives still cheat! I am a moslem and i know. Nigerian men have ojukokoro(greedy) and the women too

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  66. I laugh,,smh
    Wen am busy makin money,u expect me 2 check my hubby,lol serzly????
    Funny enuf wives ar hotter than mistresses,,am 28,hot,rich wiv 3 kids,,,with enuf admirals,,,
    I found out yrs ago my hubby was cheatin,,,was depressed at first but now *winks* am enjoyin my life
    Hw much does my hubby give u dat is makin u happy,mtcheeeeew peanuts cos u ar poor
    Good wives ar d fustrated ones,,if u ar afraid of stds,just get a young guy dat can finger u very well,my dear all ur sorrows will vanish..
    Dats why I like americans life style

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    1. Dont let them catch you O!

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    2. Well i quite agree with u and just for the record young men rarelykeep mistress its mostly your fathers mates ur fucking that will keep u as their mistress..
      That being said if ure my hubbys mistresss u will definitely marvel wen u see me cus am so fucking hot and beautiful am only 28 with two beautiful kids i dnt even look like i av kids its jus that i av only one pussy and men are insatiable so he needs ur pussy as supplements and ofcos he wuld pay u for it but dnt expect it to cost him arm and leg. So how much can he possibly give u that will affect our finances? My hubby wnt buy u a car,house or even pay for ur ridiculous holiday trips n expensive bags but he can take u to the club n buy champagne probably give u like 30k which is ofcos plenty money to u paupers i bet 50k is d highest u can get from him. As the wife am my husbands investment and i alone have the right to spend his money as i wish.
      Also its men with low self esteem that give u mistresses all their earnings afterall u r also benefitting from the sex abi. Not all men give u their earnings becus dey want to fuck u. My hubby certainly doesnt fall inton he categories of men u just described in ur foolish letter. Yes all men are dogs but sum still av brains.
      Finally i know sum men can be unreasonable and senseless but why do u single girls consider urself better than the wives at home?

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    3. I so agree with you women!!! See these cheap cockroaches coming here and laughing when grown women are talking. Just like the roaches you are, you hide in the darkness and the rats of the husbands sneak over to yours and bash your brains in. He then compensates with the spare change I leave in his pockets and you are talking about mistress power. Bitch, I own you!!! The money he gives you is my leftovers! He will NEVER take you home to his mother. You are a filthy secret that remains in the dark. So please don't come here and act like you have power. Just continue being the slut for him while I take all the credit and please shut up!!!

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    4. Anon 02 May, 2013 21:59. Na lie. U r not 28,rich and have 3kids. And u not married sef. I know u wella so shut up.

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    5. Una bold put names n quit hiding. Under annos jo. 03 May, 2013 09:41 your hubby gives chics 50k abi? U n him must be broke asses. He. Will soon give u STD yeah. Enjoy bitches.

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  67. I wonder why people complain about cheating. You can love someone and still cheat,mother same way you claim to love God but sin every day.

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    1. VERY TRUE... NO ONE MAN IS PERFECT....BESIDES WE ALL KNOW CHEATING IS A PART OF MEN"S DNA....YOU MAY FOOL YOURSELF....BUT THATS THE TRUTH....IF MEN DIDN'T CHEAT, THERE WOULD BE NO MISTRESSES.....JUST LIKE IF MEN DIDN'T PAY FOR SEX, THERE WOULD BE NO PROSTITUTES...

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  68. All this comments has really got me rolling on the floor LMCAO,and this are the same whore's that come here to bash celeb,acting like they are all holy,now I know this blog is full of cheap ass sluts,keep been side chicks until old age catch up with you and the man dumps ur loosed cunt to get a younger sweetheart,that's when you will remember the is a God some where you need to cry and beg for a husband cos you are in ur late 30s and have expired and every guy knows you as a cheap runs girl and avoids you like a deadly disease,then you jump into blogs and try to down talk and bash and hate on other people who are happy,cos blogs are your only comfort and companion,wasted bunch of bitches.femi aka fisco.com

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