Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Nikki Laoye Talks About Why She Married @30 As A Virgin! Also Says She Stands By Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo On His Ese Walter Allegations

Here is what she told Vine Magazine when she was asked if it was true she married as a virgin at age 30. Do also find her tweet on the Pastor below.

This issue caused a lot of noise on the internet because a lot of people carried it with sarcasm. Some people were like I was trying to feel holier than thou. The truth is it was part of my project. If I was really going to be a model to people, I had to let it show from my life. I can boldly stand to tell someone now that you can wait till you are married. I’m
not telling them that you will not have temptations, you will have, we are human beings, we have feelings, you will want to be kissed and touched but the truth is we can control it, we are not animals.


S*x is a huge responsibility, especially for the woman. Understand that you are a s*xual being, you have passion, it’s good, it’s great but keep it. Ever since I was young I had always told God that I was going to keep myself till my marriage. It’s just a good thing and It’s a good thing to give your husband. He will know that you are just for him.


80 comments:

  1. Who be dis one?

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    1. u no fit read!! at least go google d name...LOL!!

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  2. Keep your virginity for your husband.I hope he does same for you cos its painful saving yourself for a man who would eventually cheat.

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    1. I agree wit u oooo am stil regretting keeping my self for my husband that stil cheat on me...

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    2. please dont regret keeping ur virg for ur hubby,men will alwys be men but u re a very very virtuous woman nd God will glorify u.....

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    3. she kept herself for God FIRST dont get that wrong , then her husband SECOND!!!!!!!! God comanded it!!! if the man cheats it cant affect her cos she did it for the lord!!!!!!!!! from a proud virgin befor marriage

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  3. Good for her. Even if she still sounds a little self righteous.
    As for the Pastor thingy, if she wants to stand for something, she shld stand for the truth and not a human being. Besides just because he was good to her does not mean he wasn't a tyrant to others. We are human after all.
    Remember there will be men of God that will countless souls to God and they themselves will not smell heaven. God sees all oooo

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  4. Nikky's case is quite exceptional and her story is captivating. Let's call a spade a spade,it is not easy for a woman to maintain her virginity till marriage.That's just the harsh reality. Visit http://www.olusolaoso.blogspot.com/ for captivating stories on entertainment,politics,sports and love.

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    1. I tire oh, when a lady shows bad morales, dem go talk, now dis one upholds hers strongly dey ar still wagging their tongues. Thank God say God no be man, smh

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  5. Who knows maybe he's sharing her with her husband now. Brainwashed church goer.

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    1. like seriously? u must be very silly to have made such a dirty remark....can't u guys read without insulting people? Kilode??
      it's this kind of behaviour that's making the country the way it is...we all looking for ways to step on one another...na wa o!!

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  6. U must be high on some crack for u to support dat devilish man of a pastor biodun even wen some women ar accusing him of sleeping and attempting to sleep wit dem.brain wash member of coza church, ar u frm dis world or anoda planet.he is a mere mortal like u and I dumb bitch I no u will support ur yoruba pastor am not suprise, if he was innocent he would have come out and ans for him self yes or no wealther he did it or nt or sue dat ese girl, instead he said so many tins wit out saying any tin dat he will come out wit a robust replie and dat he ask God and he said he should be quiet, his ur God confuse or wat,and so many dumb bitch ar supporting him and his evil deeds,and church erupts into clapping for a evil pastor who is leading dem astray shut up if u dnt no wat to say and take several seats back cos u sound like a toddler who needs to wear a pampers.coza members ar money seekers dey can't see d truth even dou they no d pastor is a flirt dey wiL still back him up and insult dat poor girl ese. Pastor biodun is a manipulative evil genius,so stop saying wat u dnt no,instead of striping dat ur pastor his post so dat he will re examine himself and ask forgiveness frm God and d church apologise to ese, u ar here talking rubbish is like u reason thru ur anus jst like d pastor. U dnt wear d shoes so u won't no wear it pitches most.I pray dat God will strike dat ur pastor biodun in his fury dem he will wich he was neva been in dis world. Satanic pastor biodun agent of darkness bad fucker evil man.

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    1. Atimes u'l see a person get knocked down by a car n u wonder wat dey've done wrong,not knowin it's d stupid way dey tink n ao dey judge tins n dia stupidity wen commenting on a post.ppl like u deserve to just fall down n die.only dat God is merciful

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    2. Lmaooooooooo eje u hv killed mi with ur comment. Don't let us conclude pls I think d pastor prob slept with her or her mum n so more reasons y she's hurt.

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    3. @eje, n u telling anon dat she deserves to fall down n die is also as stupid as d anon herself. Now ђã† makes ur comment diffrent from her's?

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    4. and u "anonymous" must be high on crack yourself...talking this way...wetin come be your own? what a very stupid comment indeed. and u can't even spell and swearing all ova the place... tanks eje
      People must comment sha!!

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    5. Anonymous 14:52 - U dey there ni? abi how u come know say na so the story really be? make everybody free this pastor joor!! all this blog things sef...me too i fit go write blog o and accuse u sef....LOL!
      its true now!! nobody know how true dis tin be na...make we all cool down for the man jare...

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    6. you are mad for this your stupid comment. you are a lunatic. motherfucking asshole. dont talk about people you know nothing about simply cos you read stories on the internet. pastor biodun is a very honorable man of God. all of you condemnin him, if you sit down with him for 5mins, your life would never remain the same cos he impacts positivity into lives. you guys pls cut him some slack. you dont know which pastor is real or not. its on the last day we would know that. God sees all so leaving the judging to him but Pastor Biodun is a good man.

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  7. I second Nikki! am a beautiful 28 year old lady and still a virgin, its not easy but totally worth it.

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    1. Hahahahhaahaha
      I pity ur future
      If u're keeping it, it beta be cos its w@ God wants
      Nd not cos of one being d@ would cheat on u and crush ur hrt+spirit.
      Men stink
      JANTA

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    2. JANTA,
      Well said! I believe if you want to keep your virginity, do so to honour GOD and not because of your future husband.

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    3. Why else would you want to keep your virginity. The bible is against fornication so if you are a born again christian, you will keep your virginity until you get married.As per cheating husbands, you just have to pray for a God fearing man, i am not saying being God fearing means they won't be tempted but if he has the grace of God in his life,then he can overcome anything.

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    4. why are stupid people always against gals dat kips virginity?is it bcos dey re so loosed and goat-natured and cant do witout sex?if a gal can keep hasef till marriage dats d best tin ever,ur reward is not on earth

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  8. LADUN WHO IS SHE? U WROTE HER NAME LIKE WE ARE SUPPOSED TO KNOW HER

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  9. Is dat his wife?
    Tot they said d wife was hawt?
    *bbm confused face*







    Is dat his wife?
    Tot they said his wife was hawt?
    *bbm confused smiley*




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    1. Hmmmn no wonder, dey say it takes one to know one. U called her a bitch that makes you........

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  11. I believe you my dear... I am in your konda situation now but soon i will be getting married..Its not all about sex. There are better ways to express love other than sex.. But just know it that temptations will come....

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  12. so what if she married as a virgin at 30?
    so has that made her mother theresa or mary magdalene?

    it was commendable but at the end of the day,apart from being a role model for younger girls the joy and honour is mainly for herself,her family and husband so why is she using it as a shield as if anything she says must be taken as sacrosanct,na real wa for these celebrities and the instant gratification mentality o.

    a lady like her came out to unburden herself and the best she can do is to publicly support an unrepentant perpetuator who has not even admitted to wrong doing.i hope Nigerian women who blame men for everything can see they are their own worst enemies

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    1. U missed it luca! This is one of the robust replies from COZA! Its in phases

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    2. Luca, her support for Pastor B is so so anti-married as a 30yr old virgin.

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    3. @2012 bride
      true,thats why i get so pissed off when women are the first to go against other women instead of banding together.how will the men acknowledge when women will sabotage each other.
      look at the rubbish she is spouting out in public

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    4. @anon
      then this phase has already backfired for them o

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  13. Ladun! you should have use the picture of her singing the national anthem, all her boobs outs! what the point of marrying as a virgin if you dont dress decently #misplaced priorties

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  14. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone, so u r a virgin. Ve u ever lied, or gossiped, or engaged in idle conversation, stolen, cheated, if uve. U r as much a sinner as myself who started ving sex at 23.
    Bin a virgin is not a measurement of righteousness, after all t was the woman at d well who had been married so many times nd had a live in lover that jesus choose to talk to.
    U mayb a virgin but be a liar, gossip, hypocrite, fraudster or even engage in masturbation.
    So sweet heart save your virginity story for the dogs.

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    1. For the dogs like you, abi? looking for the next babe to devour?? honestly, na silly people dey read blogs at times...get the message in the story and stop misyarning...she just dey encourage ladies..how many people are bold enuff to say things like this in recent times?
      Nikki, well done! proud to see women like you still exist.

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    2. You are consoling urself wit ol des cos we both lost ours early .... Pls dnt crucify her its a pride wit reward 4 any woman to do dat

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  15. How won't she marry as a virgin. She aint attractive so she wasn't toasted till her husband came and dats after she released her album and became semi popular so maybe that was the attraction. Btw this is a photoshoped picture. How won't she support the pastor afteral he invites her to sing in his church and pays her wella so what do you expect.

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    1. Hahahahahahahahahahahaha @ Onyinye.

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    2. Oyinye I swear u don mad finish lmaoooooo

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    3. Oyinye abeg TAKE

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    4. u dey craze o!! onyinye abi wetin u call urself....the girl is pretty..if u no like am, keep quiet and dont insult ppl...why are u nigerians so insultive and ever critical of people? read a story and move along if u ave nothing good to say..

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  16. wot is wrong with some ladies??
    So wot if u were a virgin! WTH! who wants to know.. let it be between U, ur husband, female kids and God.
    Stop publicizing it!
    Its seeking attention and soo annoying!

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    1. and that's the problem...people like u who belive being a virgin is something not to be talked about in the public....and that's why loads of young people follow the trend that its ok to have sex and then face the consequences of pregnancy or diseases they cant even spell yet...abeg move over!!
      its good to know and good to hear that people still abstain from sex before marriage..it encourages me and it would do so for many others...

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    2. Hmmm! but the truth is no one really knows if the allegations against the pastor are even true...Human beings like to believe the worst about people...so what happens if they all turn out to be lies?
      Only God knows.
      it's nice to see people standing by the guy sha!! One out of a 1000 voices shouting the man down!! e fit be you 2mrw ooo..hope ur friends wont turn against u wen ur time comes..its well with us all...

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  17. laoye u ar brain wash member of coza church! After all u are nt fine and d pastor won't look at u, we no u ar ugly so dnt show us ur photoshop pic,virginity girl shut up and stop pulishing ur virginity stuff here hw am I sure u were a virgin,d pastor and his wife must have paid u well to do damage control cos u must be sick in d head, go and kiss ur pastor's shit or better still go and sleep in d gutter cos u reason thru ur anus jst like ur devilish pastor.dats y u ar supporting pastor biodun dat unrepentant sinner, as for dat idiot anonymous fool wishing me death nt knowing she is wishing herself death for supporting dat pastor biodun u and ur pastor biodun will be d first to be crush by a trailer and go to hell fire were u will enjoy wit d devil and d demons in hell asshole dumb bitch.as for u pastor biodun God is still giving u time to confess ur sins to d world and be save frm d bondage of sexual immorality if not ur death is near and d devil is preparing a special place for u pastor biodun in hell fire be warned.

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    1. It's like d pastor also fucked ur mother too abi?

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  18. Hmmm can she move on from this virginity matter! It's getting boring now

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  19. Stupid people showcasing their virginity to support their evil pastor am sure d pastor and his wife and supporters paid u well for u to come out and be photoshop so dat we can't see hw ugly u ar silly brain wash members ass holes. Pls stop talking rubbish cos u and ur pastor stinks dis pastor biodun is guilty his jst using dis stupid people his leading astray to do damage control foolish people dat can't say d truth even wen dey no dere pastor is a flirt. As for dat pastor biodun is a satanic manipulating agent of darkness who is leading his members to darkness. Idiot fowl yansh don blow we don see hw u dey use ur female member, d name of dis church is so irritating coza members ar all liars fake of immoral behaviours and money seeks.pastor biodun is fake and a criminal

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  20. laoye u ar brain wash member of coza church! After all u are nt fine and d pastor won't look at u, we no u ar ugly so dnt show us ur photoshop pic,virginity girl shut up and stop pulishing ur virginity stuff here hw am I sure u were a virgin,d pastor and his wife must have paid u well to do damage control cos u must be sick in d head, go and kiss ur pastor's shit or better still go and sleep in d gutter cos u reason thru ur anus jst like ur devilish pastor.dats y u ar supporting pastor biodun dat unrepentant sinner, as for dat idiot anonymous fool wishing me death nt knowing she is wishing herself death for supporting dat pastor biodun u and ur pastor biodun will be d first to be crush by a trailer and go to hell fire were u will enjoy wit d devil and d demons in hell asshole dumb bitch.as for u pastor biodun God is still giving u time to confess ur sins to d world and be save frm d bondage of sexual immorality if not ur death is near and d devil is preparing a special place for u pastor biodun in hell fire be warned.

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  21. Mrs Nikki laoye, pls Rep God alone. Its him we worship n its His word dat matters. Sentiments won't take you to heaven, but practical christianity.

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    1. PRECISELY AND SUCCINCTLY PUT!!

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    2. Well said.... Its time we stopped worshipping pastors but GOD.

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    3. The Bible says do good to all men, ESPECIALLY those of the HOUSEHOLD of FAITH! If there's anyone to stand by, it's a fellow believer, nobody is infallible, but if you can only stand by your friend when they are right, and turn your back on them when they are 'fallen' or accused, then are repping Christ or the devil? The devil's ministry is condemnation, Jesus' is justification. If the pastor indeed fell, he doesn't need to confess to the world, it takes 2 seconds to receive forgiveness from Jesus! So long as he doesn't reject Christ, then he is as washed as someone who never fell, his sins are in the seas of forgetfulness! That is practical christianity, (Gal 6:1) not condemning people.

      Supporting him isn't hero worship, she is just standing by a fellow believer, which is what we are called to do, RESTORE, not CONDEMN (Gal 6:1)!

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  22. na wa for the comments of this page o...ladun..na wa for u too o..this story is stale na...haba! over 2 years ago sef,, abeg no let people insult my Nikki Laoye for nothing oooo...
    and for all the dumb people here...she was even encouraging people that its a good thing to keep urself ...if u like no listen to good advice, u hear...go carry belle, or carry HIV ..then u will be begging for nigerians to support and pay ur hospital bills...LMAO!!
    Ride on Nikki, we support you jare...post my comment o!!!

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  23. Nigerians are sadly obsessed with sex. You are a Virgin and so? Dem dey collect prize with that? Does it guarantee heaven? Biko take a long walk off a short bridge with that crap

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  24. So virginity is now a sign of righteousness abi! Oshisco

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  25. Too many jealous women.let the woman be. Nobody forcef any of you to sleep aroud

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  26. pls keep your views to yourself, no one knows you or care! Who do you think you are? Mother Theresa? With your average just above worwor face I would expect you to remain a virgin till you get married. pls shift jor! Attention seeker! If you were at the receiving end of his sexcapades I bet you wouldnt be 'standing by him'!

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  27. dats very commendable i luv you for dat pass d message to other women it helps to win ur husbands trust and respect congrats

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  28. Show me a lady who is drop dead gorgeous and is a virgin at twenty eight.

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    1. am a very pure an unadulterated one my dear,wat uv not seen uv not reachd d place it is

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  29. na wao..u people shld blame ladun na....dis Nikki's story is old na..Its over 2 years now sef...na wa o!! why she jst dey bring am out ....

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  30. LOL!!! its so obvious the people responding bitterly here have either lost their virginity or are involved in sexual madness daily. Guilty conscience dey worry all of una...LOL! Wetin the gal yarn wey bad now?
    God bless u Nikki jare...keep encouraging young women!!

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  31. my best friend kept her virginity till she got married. About 2 years later she found out he had slept with over 20 girls, with evidence (text messages and pictures) on his phone....it was so bad, she found out he was disturbing flat mates, neigbours and street babes to go to be with him. Its 4 years after her wedding now and he's left her. Now tell me, is it worth keeping yourself sha?

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    1. It is worth it, because, it is between you and God, and then you ask what kind of guy was he in the first place? Self-control is a virtue, if he couldn't keep himself all the while, he probably wouldn't keep himself after marriage, your walk with God is for personal salvation. You don't keep yourself, so he will keep himself, you keep yourself so you are right with your father God, if ur hubby doesn't, it's his loss.

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  32. Funny comments indeed,niki is not a member of COZA and am surprise why anyone will call her ugly,she is not. For those who didn't think guys where all over her, oo yes they were,her husband is just so lucky to be the last man standing if you doubt me ask some real members of HOTR lagos.... As for P. Biodun no comment.. God is sha watching

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  33. nice one dear...you could be making up to $250 and above monthly while making referrals to your own website....log on to www.ilivingapp.com/fitness4all and click join. registration fee is just 1500 naira

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  34. Wat an achievement Nikki! keep d flag flying. ....

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  35. how come christian men don't come out to say "I'm a virgin"

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    1. I am a christian man, and I never had sexual intercourse till I was married, yes I had kissed and made out with my girlfriends in the past, but I never had full-blown sex with any lady asides my wife and I am proud of it! So any recollection I have of sex is my darling wife, and I did have opportunities, but I kept my vow to God and I am glad I did! Selah

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  36. That is what Christianity is all about, it doesn't mean anyone is infallible, but u stand by those who are of the household of faith! Even if he fell, u stand by him, bcos a just man falls 7 times and rises back up again...understand the gospel, understand christianity

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  37. I think dis lady should talk less and pray more....marry as a Virgin...four years gone and nothing to show..pls pray okay..

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