Saturday, August 24, 2013

What I Learnt From Tuface & Annie's Relationship- Blogger Writes

Below is what the blogger wrote about what she learnt from their relationship before they got married.

These two have been dating since the beginning of time itself. Before he became the legend he is today. They have been inseparable, even though, life happened inform of blessings in disguise (if you know what I mean , with baby mama's everywhere). Seeing this two together at last, is just a breath of fresh air.

They dated... he cheated.... they kept it on and off... he cheated again but you  know, when a woman loves my dear, SHE LOVES. Women gave birth for him, (the ones we know off), some couldn't give birth for him, some aborted (could have happened you never know). While all these happened, he had his sights on one particular woman, Anne. Every man has a particular girl he thinks about even though he might have groupies here and there... there is always that one woman who has got his heart.


What I Have Learnt From Them;

If a man is meant for you, he is yours no matter what. Allow time play out, allow him rise above it all (frivolity) .

Just because you gave birth for him doesn't mean he will marry you. Except you are involved with someone who doesn't know what he wants.

Giving birth to a boy doesn't make your mark stronger. If you like born girl, boy, hermaphrodite, dat one concern you. If the guy wants you he wants you, if not well... (...to the left to the left...).

In love, give your all and don't hold anything back. Love is patient, love is kind. When in love, don't love to expect any thing in return. Love because you truly, deeply, sincerely care for that person.

Be independent. Don't be the lady he sees as a burden. Be the type of woman who can hold her own no matter what and you will see that that guy will respect you (even tho it didnt work for the other ladies, at least it did for Annie)

Forget what people might say, think or do. Do what you think is right and whatever you deserve shall come to you.

Always be supportive of your man, no matter how overwhelming it can get. (Look at Calabar girls, they are the true definition of support, patient and forgiveness).

After you have suffered through thick and thin for that guy and he finally proposes, demand from him the wedding of your dreams. Hopefully he is/will be a successful person. You cannot have passed through all that trauma to settle for a bottle of coke?! NEVER!  Annie had has in Dubai.

Finally, I DON'T THINK I HAVE THE STOMACH FOR ALL THESE ROMEO AND JULIET LOVE. I might just get ill or something, or my heart might fail me. Then again, love has a mind of its own, doesn't it?!

92 comments:

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    1. Annie jazz tubabab! Cant u see hw dry hez bcom since his engagemnt to her? She was truly inluv wt him buh d guy probably no send her so she had to do d jazz tinz in oda nt to loz out compltly!..

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    2. Jazz ke? Ask them what they smoke e jor.

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    3. nice couple...happy family
      CLICK to Get more Gist

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  2. This Blogger needs to sue her English teacher!!!

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  3. Well waiting for a man till you turn to old cargo no dey always work u hear. Love is kind and patient but no mumu when menopause don dey kick in. You never can tell for real in all cases when a man truly loves you to be that patient to wait.

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  4. SO, WHATS THE BASELINE? THIS STORY SITS ON THE FENCE A BIT, THOUGH WITH ONE OR TWO GOOD TIPS

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  5. Pls correct dis shit, Anne had her's in dubai...........,not had has in dubai.........KOJE

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    1. Point of correction. It's hers not her's.

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    2. Heheheheehe no be small English lesson we dey here

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  6. Errmmmm..first of all how old are you? You made some valid points in your write up but most of it oozes of naivety and silliness. Demand from him the wedding of your dream? After the wedding nko? What about the marriage? While I commend annie for being 'patient' I would never encourage any of my female friends, daughters or sisters to ever allow any man do that to her no matter who he is. Cheating on your girlfriend is disrespect enough but having not 1 but how many baby mamas is a spit on the face and disregard of the highest order! I had to ask myself if tu face wasn't tu face would annie still marry him? Women please give yourself respect, you can't change a man.. If he is messing up and isnt ready to behave,let him go, money isnt everything. In the end, your hapiness and peace of mind matters most! Good luck to the couple. I wish you well.

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    1. triple gbam for you

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    2. May u be blessed

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    3. As in eeeh..Na cos say na Tubaba..If not i know Annie wouldn't have had ЪŦ sweet gal for him talk more of marrying him..With different baby mamas on her face.,i wonder how she sleeps at night..

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    4. Wish thr was a like button.....u too make sense jare!!!!!

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    5. Excellent!

      I do not know why the writer wrote this nonsense unless she was paid Annie like most blogger have been. This write up will pull women down instead of build them up.

      Lara

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  7. Lol.
    1000 likes.

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  8. What do you want us to do with this crap? Who is Annie? Who is Tuface? Why should they be your headache or anyones problem.Mchswww. Enjoying my saturday in Texas.

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    1. Who is Tuface? *raised brow* - Haters gon hate!

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  9. What do you want us to do with this crap? Who is Annie? Who is Tuface? Why should they be your headache or anyones problem.Mchswww. Enjoying my saturday in Texas.

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  10. What do you want us to do with this crap? Who is Annie? Who is Tuface? Why should they be your headache or anyones problem.Mchswww. Enjoying my saturday in Texas.

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    1. Delete multiple comments. Thanks.

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  11. What do you want us to do with this crap? Who is Annie? Who is Tuface? Why should they be your headache or anyones problem.Mchswww. Enjoying my saturday in Texas.

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    1. Idiot,is dat why u have to post it 4 times?

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  12. One sense the blogger no fit make, just they talk like child, baseless write up, nothing here is factual..using the life of one as a yardstick #Ewu gambia things..

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    1. Isnt it just so sad???? i just shook my head after reading it. This will just misguide some females who dont know better. Like i said before maybe she was paid by aniie or....she's herself is in a sad, desperate and lonely place where she is holdong on to an ex.

      Lara

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  13. annie had "hers" in dubai honey..not "has"!..bt i agree..its a love story dat depicts love. I pray he maintains his vows b4 God nd let d marriage work..that girl has suffered. she cried SO MUCH. im jst hapi for her!

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  14. If a guy has one girl in his heart,why does he bother with other girls? If three girls are dating a guy and all are "giving it their best,and loving and supporting the man",at d end he stil marries d one in his heart. Why be in a long sexual relationship with someone Ʊ know Ʊ won't marry?

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  15. It doesn't work like dat for every body! Annie is one lucky woman n it was meant to be! I wish I can be dat patience but am not d type!

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  16. If it urs, no Jupiter can take it away from u! But if not, if u like dey patiently till da kingdom come! Oyo lo wa ni ye o!

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  17. Yeah, interesting piece...real cool...thanks for sharing @Ladun

    Check out: wwww.ngozikanwiro.blogspot.com you will sure love what you will see there! See ya all.....

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  18. Okies.....But in some cases,a lady mite get pregnant for a man and force him to marry her.....coz dat wat most ladies do now...Am happy for Annie coz God said 2face is her man

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  19. Cool story indeed

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  20. u'v said it all, wat worked 4 Annie might nt work 4 other girls. So y d headache? Leave dem abeg, she i just been lucky das all i can say

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  21. u'v said it all 'wat worked 4 Annie might nt work 4 other girls' so y d headache? Abeg leave dem jare, she is just been lucky das all i can say.

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  22. Ladun wat happuns to a lady who lost after all d hurdles to a random new babe in his life! #NotAllMenDecidesLike 2face

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  23. Yea..really cool and reasonable..

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  24. Shut up abeg!!! i reject this kind of long story in my life, My GOD will not allow me suffer like dat b4 i marry my missing rib...

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    1. Amen!!!... hissing at the write-up

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    2. Amen! Blessings dear.... dont mind the hoodrat mentality! it is not your portion, glad you know better.


      Lara

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  25. Wat makes u think annie didn't cheat on him too!!!u never can tell

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    1. She actually did! Several times and with different people. Those who know, tried to tell 2face to leave her but Annie knows his weakeness and one of them is drink. So when he gets drunk, he's totally useless. He can easily be taken advantage of. Which is what she did along with her juju and her mum. Annie has even slept with some one in a room of people she thought were sleeping. I know too much dirt on this girl!!!

      Lara

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  26. Worst write up I've ever wasted my time reading!

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  27. You are too sexist, inexperienced, boyish, immature, irresponsible and certainly a male chauvinistic pig. You have glorified and justified infidelity on the part of men while urging women to be 100 percent docile in the face of all the cheating from their partners. You disgust me.

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    1. Lol..I feel you sha..It just hurts to see people justify stuffs like this..

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  28. Ure right dear,im sort of engaged to my baby father but my heart still beats for my ex & i think the feeling is still from all indications. Well, im letting time take its toil.. God knows best.

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  29. The blogger nor get name

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  30. WHO GAVE THIS OLODO INTERNET ABEG?
    FUCKING STUPID TALE OF THE WEST. FAILED TO SEE YOUR POINT. AND COMPARING ANNIE TO THE OTHER BABY MAMAS DPESNT HELP SOLIDIFY ANY POINT U WERE TRYING TO DRIVE HOME. NOONE KNOWS WHY HE MARRIED HER. It could have been any of the other baby mamas. And that calabar shit bs. AND NOT EVERYMAN THAT TREATS U THE WAY 2FACE TREATED HER WILL COME BACK FOR U AT THE END. IF U LIKE DEY DERE DEY PATIENTLY WAIT.

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  31. Lmao!!! @christabel Nice one

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  32. Nonsense......meaningless theories

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  33. Ladun.....next time u wanna post someone elses' write-up, read through to correct errors. 'Of' not 'off', 'Hers' not 'Has'. RME

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    1. Lady, you've got to be careful with the words you consider "wise" 'cos these words are certainly not wise! Don't be fooled!

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  35. What the hell are you talking about , is happiness reliant on a destination wedding or money , the real question is " are you happy Annie / even a fool can answer the question , she is a loser for marrying him and she will never be happy . he is a cheat a flit and how about protected secs , he just doesn't get it . Annie i hope you don't catch the deadly HIV before you realise that he is not good for you

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  36. I'm sorry o...but if a guy cheats on me, kan add baby on top... multiple times! *movingonthings*

    Aint nobody gat time for bullsh*t

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  37. Cool write up but d writer. Spoilt it with "its only Calabar girls that ve d definition of support,patience n forgiveness",cos it worked for Anne who is Calabar doesn't mean it will work. For. All Calabar girls.pls correct ur notion.Brown sucre

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  38. Yes it does girl. I like .

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  39. Thank God you Learnt Some things,Good you have learn Now is over to you when are you getting married Ngozi? CLICK ON MY NAME TO LAUGH AND LAUGH UNTIL YOU FORGET YOUR NAME.

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  40. All these commendation for Annie and tuface,I've still not heard anybody talk about stds..instead all we hear is be patient,hold steadfast and bla bla...abegi aids is real don't mislead young men and women...ladun and other bloggers should always think and screen stories before uploading them as young and impressionable people read these writeups...if una no get news just come up with the usual story of "I've been on admission in the hospital" we will understand!

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  41. what a load of bollocks and claptrap.
    first the man indulges in marathon affairs and unprotected sexual liaisons ,you dont know if he has contacted an STI yet continue to indulge and enable his excesses.after sampling his fill,he finally comes back to get married.
    if this is an average NIG woman's ideal husband,then it shows they have a long way to go.no wonder that one on the other thread is still waiting for love

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    1. Dont mind the ignorant girl. it is a shame she has access to a platform to mislead people who dont know any better.

      Does she think if Tuface was not Tuface Annie would have stuck around all this time??? And point of correction to the yeye "writer", she was not waiting patiently whilst he had nothing from the beginning, she has never been faithful. it was just that tuface was the biggest catch of them all. If you know annie you will know she likes money pass anything. She comes from a very hungry background!

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  42. Dear composer of dis mesage that Ladun copied, dnt worry i assure u dat after all i have gone through at your hands u are definitly giviNg me d wedding of my dreams. Yes you have been successfull and will continue to be like i always teLl you. But u kno not al calabar girls are as patient plus annie is akwa ibom,eket, not calabar. And yes you hav been doing quite well lately with the romeo and juliet love. How long you can sustain it, i wonder. As for your philanderin and whether you'd finally come bak to me,that has ceased to matter, i have keyed into higher values of life! If u want to come along, ur welcome. And no again i am not Calabar for the umpteenth time!

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  43. I wasn't going to comment b4 but then,I just want to quickly sate a few point..

    Nobody,except 2face sincerely knows why he choose Annie.. What if he married her cause he feels she's d only one that can take bulshit from him.. Remember she held on to him even when he was clearly dating other women and they weren't really officially together?

    Are u telling all the young ladies here to stick to a guy regardless if he respects her or not?

    Annie is a different case,her case isn't even d ideal situation.. I see a lot of young people on this post gladly acknowleding the write up claiming it 'wise words' 'inspiring' even thanking u... Hmmmm,let me state here that, a man doesn't have to know after having 5 kids with one than one woman that u are the one.. 2face and Annie Marriage isn't a model and u don't have to go through all what Annie went through to be happy in life.. What works for someone might definitely not work for you..

    Although,I believe when a man is ment for you,he will be back but things might not be the way they are ment to be, but then its your choice to take it they way it is or ask God for what u deserve..

    What worked for someone will most likely not work for you..

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  44. If Tuface is Baba Abeke eleran, wu has nothing, will Annie hang on such a man for a long time? Lets always be realistic please, dis is not a gud piece of advice and i dont see such Marriage or couple as a Role model to young people out dia, A man has an eye for one woman yet keep warming the bed of other women, he no do, he no dey, Pero has 3luvly kids for him,,, he no do, he no do, Sumbo has 2luvly Boys for him?

    Sincerely, am not happy wit dis post!

    For Annie's Heart dat Tuface won, a thousand heart was broken out dia,,, wat do u want the other Mother of his kids to do? kneel & pray for him right? I still stand on one point, wat Tuface did, is an act of irresponsibility.

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    1. Thank you!

      Lara

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    2. This is the most ridiculous thing i have ever read. It is actually quite sad. Hope no one falls for this and wastes their life. It is not the ideal, or a good advice at all. Annie is NOT a role model.


      Lara

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  45. Likey @mama ijebu. Gbam! No comment

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  46. If this guy wasn't a star believe me we won't even remember her name she would be gone like olden days.Nigerian should stop being hypocrites...
    IMO though....

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  47. Abegi make we hear word. Do u think annie would ve settled 4 2baba if he's a church rat after all he'd put her thru. Puhleeeeeeze

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  48. Madam abeg is it Flit as in insecticide abi na flirt, anoda blunder secs as in seconds abi na sex. Biko una go kill person wit bomb here 1day

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