Below is what the blogger wrote about what she learnt from their relationship before they got married.
These two have been dating since the beginning of time itself. Before he became the legend he is today. They have been inseparable, even though, life happened inform of blessings in disguise (if you know what I mean , with baby mama’s everywhere). Seeing this two together at last, is just a breath of fresh air.
They dated… he cheated…. they kept it on and off… he cheated again but you know, when a woman loves my dear, SHE LOVES. Women gave birth for him, (the ones we know off), some couldn’t give birth for him, some aborted (could have happened you never know). While all these happened, he had his sights on one particular woman, Anne. Every man has a particular girl he thinks about even though he might have groupies here and there… there is always that one woman who has got his heart.
What I Have Learnt From Them;
If a man is meant for you, he is yours no matter what. Allow time play out, allow him rise above it all (frivolity) .
Just because you gave birth for him doesn’t mean he will marry you. Except you are involved with someone who doesn’t know what he wants.
Giving birth to a boy doesn’t make your mark stronger. If you like born girl, boy, hermaphrodite, dat one concern you. If the guy wants you he wants you, if not well… (…to the left to the left…).
In love, give your all and don’t hold anything back. Love is patient, love is kind. When in love, don’t love to expect any thing in return. Love because you truly, deeply, sincerely care for that person.
Be independent. Don’t be the lady he sees as a burden. Be the type of woman who can hold her own no matter what and you will see that that guy will respect you (even tho it didnt work for the other ladies, at least it did for Annie)
Forget what people might say, think or do. Do what you think is right and whatever you deserve shall come to you.
Always be supportive of your man, no matter how overwhelming it can get. (Look at Calabar girls, they are the true definition of support, patient and forgiveness).
After you have suffered through thick and thin for that guy and he finally proposes, demand from him the wedding of your dreams. Hopefully he is/will be a successful person. You cannot have passed through all that trauma to settle for a bottle of coke?! NEVER! Annie had has in Dubai.
Finally, I DON’T THINK I HAVE THE STOMACH FOR ALL THESE ROMEO AND JULIET LOVE. I might just get ill or something, or my heart might fail me. Then again, love has a mind of its own, doesn’t it?!