Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Being A Single Mom Is Sweet, Not That I’m Encouraging Other Women- Waje

Waje in a new interview with NETng has said being a single mom is sweet. She says though some people think she is trying to encourage younger ones, but she is only stating a fact, her own personal experience. She also spoke about finding a companion one day.

You have always said you are single, why is that?

I don`t know why, but I just feel God has a way of doing things. I have so much on my hands now, let that matter rest now, let me not go and marry now before my husband will say he wants pounded yam, cooked by his wife, not by a maid. Then I will leave everything I am doing and I will be pounding yam. But when somebody who understand my kind of person and my job comes along, then it will be easier for me. After all the troubles of the day, the traffic, somebody getting you angry, there should be that one person who can calm you. Everybody would love to have somebody as a companion, so do I.


How is life as a single mother?

It is beautiful, something a lot of people won`t understand when I say it. They think I’m encouraging people to do it. It is beautiful, there are so many things that kid has done for me. I appreciate everything that God has given me.



52 comments:

  1. Ok, what ever that makes you happy rid on with it. DERA MI

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    1. Your choice waje

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    2. It depend on how it influence you...

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  2. Na so..she is not saying the truth. Who does not want to married legally and have kids thereafter?

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    1. NOT EVERYBODY AHNAHN. ABEG YALL SHOULD STOP IMPOSING YOUR WARPED 1980'S MINDSET ON OTHERS ABEG.

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  3. Okei.......although I'm sure a lot of single mothers won't agree with you....

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    1. I'm a single mom and I totally understand her. Its actually beautiful. You don't go through the stress that comes with marriage and yet you have a child who makes you very happy. My friends all secretly feel sorry for me but I just laugh and shake my head. I'm an extremely happy woman.

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  4. You are frustrated Waje....I used to love your person but with this comment, hmmmmmm

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  5. Single mum is fun now that she has money and her child is grown or when she is still nursing her alone. Just thank God for turning ur life around and stop spilling bull*****

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    1. Gbammest! When there is money to spend people view things differently.

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  6. Public deceit while night sulking and praying for a husband in private.

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  7. Waje please just shut up....because you and Omawumi have kids n god change ur life with music does nt mean u come out hear saying shit!

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    1. Your English is terrible

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  8. And she reads the bible everyday! Holy sister!

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  9. Ladun I hear her and Omawumi are lesbians?

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    1. Fear God o Lesbian hunter

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  10. Hahahaha ona can yab,they are to ugly to be kissing! Waje find husband

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  11. All what she wanted was a man she can control around not a husband

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  12. Ladun pls if you know what is gud for you and if you still want to maintain your blog visitor's pls delete this vague and nonsense talk from Waje.

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    1. You are not a serious person in life. Go and delete it urself. If she didn't post the story na complaint. I beg go and take a seat. Think about it if you were her would you come out in public and start crying that life is so hard that u feel suicidal so that your child will see it at some point and feel sad?

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  13. Being a single mum is the best. I am enjoying it as well

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  14. Lmfaooooo these comments are killing me.

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  15. Nice one Waje

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  16. So waje is this foolish

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    1. Hil the wise one show me your wisdom

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  17. Y all d cursing? She is entitled to her opinion. Haba. We've just got to take it slow on this our "U must marry Mentality". Everyone wth his own life. Married or single, what matters is the happiness. Go Waje!!!

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    1. as in god bless you. I REALY DO NOT GET IT. HOW CAN A MAN BE THE BANE OF YOUR EXISTENCE? ARE NIGERIAN WOMEN MENTALLY ILL? CAN YOU NOT EXIST OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE? GADDEMN! WOW! THIS IS SHOCKING. AND TO THINK A LOT OF YOU WENT TO SCHOOL BUT LACK COMMON SENSE. NA-FUCKING-WA

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    2. If yu don't marry, hw will you av kids??
      Or wats d joy in carrying bastards up nd down???
      If d fada of ur child is Man enoff to put yu in d family way, y can't he marry you??
      Yu will be nursing his child nd he will go ahead to marry anoda woman? Dats d real stupidity!
      Say no to fornication. Let ur kids enjoy dia rights.

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  18. Hold on a second. Why are people crying like their heads just got chopped off here? Most of you must be living miserable lives. There’s nothing bad being a single mom. You men worshippers can all jump into a lagoon if you so wish nonsense.

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    1. Loooool I agree with you on this one. There are probably more single mothers out there than married ones. Don't deny ur situation make the best of it people. There's no greater love than the love a child gives

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    2. anonymous y do u keep defending waje? any comment against waje u reply,abi u r waje ni? abeg leave pple alone dey jst voiced out their opinions too like waje did.

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    3. anon 14:222. arent we all anon? SO who are you referring to? damn illiterate.

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  19. Everyone has a different experience when it comes to parenting. I think Waje's point is that all she gets is love, no stress. It's undeniable that a partner will cause you stress at one point or another in a relationship. I do agree that she can only say this because she has money but that is her life now and therefore she can only comment on what she is experiencing

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  20. Nice one Waje

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  21. There is nothing wrong with what she has said. Even though I am married, I believe that its better for a woman to have a child than to be alone in the long run. For me, having a child is more important than having a husband. Not every woman is meant to get married. Children bring so much joy into one's life. They are blessings from God. This doesn't mean that I am advocating promiscuity but if it happens, it happens. No need to crucify single mothers.

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    1. GOD BLESS YOU. A CHILD'S LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL. THE END. IF THATS WHAT WORKS FOR HER. THEN SO BE IT. HALF OF YALL SCREAMING SHE SHOULD GO GET MARRIED ARE MARRIED AND BITTER. WILL A CHILD CHEAT ON YOU? NOPE! I REST MY CASE.

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  22. Hit your heads on brick walls idiots

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    1. Waje! Na you type this comment oooooo.... Area!!!! I see you!!!! ☺šŸ˜Š☺šŸ˜ŠšŸ˜œšŸ˜ŠšŸ˜œšŸ˜Š☺šŸ˜ŠšŸ˜

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    2. u are mad oo

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  23. Single mum is not fun. Her first answer was 'everyone loves a companion'

    She should not mix being a mum with being a single mum. Her kid brings her joy (thats the joy of being a mum)

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  24. My brother is available

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  25. I am enjoying it as well. Haters hug transformer

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  26. Take a sit jor

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  27. in U.S being a single mom is a regular thing over 50% children are raised in single family home i hope that trend don't spread to Nigeria.

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  28. Waje u a Lair and a very lazy woman. Next time pls close ur mouth n take a seat at d bk when women are talking ok.

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  29. WHAT EVER ROCKS YOUR BOAT

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  30. Nigerian women always acting like the most important thing in life is to have a husband, major reason why men treat you as shit because they know your existence is bound to their sorry asses. dummies. i'll rather be rich than have a useless husband.

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