

Hello Uche,i have a few quick questions for you.I heard
your barely a year old marriage has crashed,is this true?
.. Well that may be
true but what isn't true is that it wasn't really marriage yet because it
wasn't fully formalised, we were still in the process of formalising it when
all hell broke loose, so I was merely Engaged to be married to Ato Ubby.
It was just an introduction?why didn’t you clear that
impression all this while?
…I just felt there was no need to do so because the wedding
plans was to follow shortly,unfortunately it didn’t because things didn’t work
out the way it should.i walked into a no-win situation.
What happened?
This is really a hard
question to answer, but all I can say Is that barely one month into the
Engagement and in the process of planning a formal wedding I realised I had
made the greatest mistake of my life.The Foundation of the Union was based On lies
and Deceit..shocking lies.we had been dating for a almost year and i thought i
knew it all but nothing prepared me for what unfolded.
Is he married already?
...No,he isnt married to anyone else
You got pregnant in the process?
On the verge of trying to salvage the situation I found out
I was expecting a child. I kept quiet to the Rumours Making the rounds because
I was left with the option of thinking for my child and trying to salvage a
dead situation but now I have finally made up my mind to break off the
Engagement and my Reasons are Irreconcilable...
Uche so you are saying you never got married and the
engagement is off?
I just want to be
left alone to take care of my Child. Stella I wasn't married I was engaged to
be married but as things stand now, the engagement is officially broken due to
irreconcilable differences and since I am having my baby soon, my Doctors has
advised me to rest as my health and that of my Baby is the most important thing
right now..
So you are the one walking away and not him?you want to go
into details?
..Yes i am the one walking out on the pack of lies,I am not
going to pretend because i want to be married,i am not desperate and i would
rather swallow my pride and accept i made a big mistake than forge ahead in
lies.I am sorry i cannot go into details because i do not want to trade words
or run my ex down because he is the father of the child i am carrying.
I am sorry if keeping quiet misled people into my status was
already married.
The excitement of looking forward to birthing my child kinda
numbs the shock and disappointment but i will be fine.
So,after the introduction,the planned marriage was dead on
arrival?
…exactly and all this while,we have been trying to settle
the issues, thats probably how you got hear of it.
Here's wishing you all the best Uche, we look forward to
hearing the good news. God bless you.
..Thank you Stella for calling to confirm.thanks to everyone
who has been understanding on this...for now,let me channel all my energy into
positivity for my baby.
May be she thought he was rich and discovered he was broke
ReplyDeleteAbi o, all this babes just looking for Olorunsogo!
DeleteArent u looking for olorunsogo urself? Like if alakija's son walks up to u and ask for ur hand in marriage u wont accept. Hypocrite
DeleteExactly
DeleteLobatan sorry o
ReplyDeleteThis lady can neva do wrong in my eye, luv U namesake. God is ur fortress. Bé strong
ReplyDeleteWait, didnt she just get married?
ReplyDeleteI thought u read the short interview? Or was it written in hebrew?
DeleteHonestly this exact thing happened to me. I don't know why people always think it's the guy that doesn't want the marriage anymore. I'm happy I found someone whois going through the exact thing I went through! Be positive Uche.. I love you already! My partner in bliss..
ReplyDeleteUche dear, I love u darling, jst be happy for ur baby ok, I respect ur decision thank God u found ur track earlier enough, I wish u safe delivery
ReplyDeleteD joy of bn a mother soon is ur strength darl,
ReplyDeleteThis actress they always think they r wise while they r not .Their marriage story don tired me
ReplyDeleteSharap biko make we read better comment. Talking like u excreted your senses like it cant happen to anyone.
DeleteNa wa oh!
ReplyDeleteWonder what these celebrities think marriage is
ReplyDeleteCouncillor oya talk na
DeletePartner in bliss? What kinda bliss? Journey to 'single mom'? Or failed engagement. Anyways, God will make u two happy and give u peace of mind.
ReplyDeleteVery sad. I thought her's will be different
ReplyDeleteFor such a beautiful girl the ex husband is sooooo ugly. What was she looking for in him- he looks scary.
ReplyDeleteMoney
DeleteSo no reason? Una just pack up
ReplyDeleteIt is unfortunate that the marriage packed up. It is equally unfortunate that people are quick to pass judgment on the man as if he is responsible for the failure of the marriage. This is because either or both couple could be responsible for the failure of the marriage. What if the lady was responsible for the marriage break up. I said this because there are many ladies, they are beautiful and celebrated yet they are not marriageable.
ReplyDeleteOf a truth, there are many ladies not marriageable even though they are beautiful to behold. In my website, i posted an article titled "TOP REASONS WHY SOME MARRIAGES MAY FAIL" In other words, there are many things that may surely cause a marriage to fail. So before you crucify the man, try to hear his own side of the story why the marriage collapsed in less than one year.
Maybe she found out the guy is not that loaded
ReplyDeleteShut up and dont be stupid for once. U dont have to be stupid all the time now
DeleteAs if I knew it won't last
ReplyDeletethe same way all the females in ur family never stayed with their husbands abi? I can relate to what u r saying. But pray for her ok.
DeleteWhen some are desperately looking for man. Uche wants to kick her man out
ReplyDeleteShe has released the guy go ahead and marry him
DeleteIt's a pity
ReplyDeleteEni to lori ko ni fila.
ReplyDeleteWhatever!!!!
ReplyDeleteNot new
ReplyDeletewe just commented on the picture on the right not quite long,comments rolled in on how she was shining and her husband taking care of her,blah blah blah.moral of the story,he who wears the shoe knows where its hurting.
ReplyDeleteYou are very RIGHT my dear. We cant just jump into conclusion for her. She saw him, fell in love. And the same person who said she's done. Shebi na her own we see, do we know what is happening in the lives of others too?
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