Why I Won’t Marry The Man I’m Dating Or Any Other Man- Yeni Kuti

Professional dancer and daughter of late Afrobeat musician, Fela
Anikulapo Kuti has explained why she will not be getting married to the man she has
been dating for 7 years or any other man at that, because she believes a loose arrangement between a man and woman works more than being married.

“I am not single”. “I have somebody in my life. We have been
together for like 7 years. We respect each other. But we are not married. I
believe that if we ever marry, our relationship will lose the dynamics that we
have. I have my house. He has his house. He stays at mine when he wants, I
stays at his when I want. It’s a kind of loose arrangement. We go on holiday
together. We love each other. But the day we marry, we would now start fighting
for space. By the time I bring all my clothes and shoes where would he keep
them. This way I think it works. He respects the fact that I don’t want to get
married.” Continue below.

“I know a guy who advised me to marry the man I am dating
right now, but most people don’t seem to get the point. I don’t want to get
married. I am happy the way I am. I am proud of who I am. I don’t need a man to
say I am somebody. I can be who I am without a man. I don’t need a man as a
prop to survive. If I am with a man I am with him because I love him, because
of who he is.”

“Not because I can’t go to an event alone, or go without a
man. I can go to an event alone and enjoy myself, I will sit by myself, carry
my Ipad and start checking my mails, I don’t need any props. I guess thats why
I have been able to stay single.”

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