Thursday, October 16, 2014

Alleged Kidnapped Child: How I Met Ronke, My Baby Mama + How It All Started

Izuchukwu Ehiemere the father of Liya a 2-year old who was allegedly kidnapped to Nigeria from UK without her mother’s consent has finally spoken. Izu sent me a mail this evening and begged that his said of his story be published too. Here is what he said;  

My name is Izuchukwu Ehiemere and I am the biological father of Ms Liya Tinuke Temidun Ehiemere.To be frank, I met Ms Moronke Fadoju(Liya’s mother) at the University of Hertfordshire, United Kingdom and we began a casual friendship at the time. We were not in a “binding” relationship, it was purely casual.

This relationship/friendship did not last up to three months of which I was informed by her that she was pregnant with my child.Naturally,I was surprised and in doubt but before I could make proper verifications, she had already informed everybody both domestically and internationally that myself and her were having a baby together.

Furious at the time, admittedly I must have said some harsh things with which I regret till date but I accepted my responsibility and worked towards welcoming Liya into the world. I went as far as accommodating Moronke for some months as she had been evicted from her house. This idea didn’t go down well with my friends at the time but it was the right thing to do, up until my landlord discovered.

To cut that story short, I remained actively involved even when she got a new place because the baby was fast approaching, helped with the baby shower party, purchasing the baby cot, baby essentials etc. as well as transporting her to the hospital to give birth, and thankfully I witnessed the birth of Liya. I remained a key figure from Day1 helping Moronke run errands since she was so weak after birth. I could go on and on about how actively involved I was but the point drew near when I had to return back to Nigeria for my NYSC some months after Liyas 1st birthday.

I am sorry if going to serve my country portrayed me as an absent father. It does hurt a lot when Moronke says I never wanted Liya and I have never been there for her. If I was never there for Liya, she had the right to name Liya whatever she deemed fit and deny me parental responsibility. There is a reason why her surname is Ehiemere.

Given that I have PR to Liya, I share equal responsibility over Liya unless Moronke has a court order stating otherwise. During the period of my return back to Nigeria, we had an agreement that the best way to help Moronke as a new mother, was by both mothers from the maternal and paternal side taking intervals to travel to the UK to babysit Liya and enable Moronke go back to the University. An agreement both families as well as Moronke was very receptive to. Labelling my mother as a squatter who relied on her assistance was very wrong.

My mother handled every expenditure in Moronke’s household within her stay there and assisted to the best of her ability. (Bank Statements available as proof to that effect)My mother did not have to come to the UK but she did purely out of love, twice as a matter of fact.

During her stay, things did not pan out well as my mother observed a lot of traits and behavioural patterns that could be of potential harm to the proper development of Liya.For good reasons, confidential information would not be disclosed here, but there is adequate evidence to prove our genuine concern for Liya’s welfare and wellbeing in the UK.

Social Services were also involved and would know best. As a result of the potential risks to Liya’s welfare and wellbeing discovered, I granted my mother Power of Attorney to act on my behalf with matters regarding the welfare of Liya as I was not happy with the situation at hand and the best outcome was for Liya to be brought to Nigeria. Ronke’s family was informed that same day Liya arrived Nigeria including our exact location. Putting up that blog on missing child was not called for, as they were duly informed.

It seemed like a deliberate act to sabotage the good name of my family and indirectly hurt my mother. Kidnap is a harsh allegation and it was uncalled for in this regards. The blogs and messages were put up to generate undue sympathy and rage. They were too erratic. She remained in contact with Liya too, therefore I do not understand her claims of not being allowed to speak with Liya.

Every decision that was taken was in the best interest of my daughter, Liya. She knows her father just as well as her mother, and I am not a stranger to her. Liya was never traumatized during her stay here, as a matter of fact, she was extremely happy to be reunited with her father in a cleaner and stable environment.


There have never been issues between both families and the stories portrayed do not justify that. We remain as diplomatic as possible and would not result to name calling or war of words because we want peace to exist. I have no doubt with the events that have taken place and the publicity generated, more watchful eyes would be placed on Liya and her welfare going forward. This is all, we as a family have always wanted.

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  1. I knew there was more to this

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    1. Lagos is my home17 October, 2014 03:11

      These are just excuses....
      If you take a child abroad without the mothers knowledge that is kidnapping PERIOD.

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    2. Child kidnapper! You have mouth and hands to talk? You weren't raised well. Shame on YOU. Your mom is just an innocent bystander that got involved in your mess.

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    3. Stupid boy! U are not even happy she allowed the baby to carry ur surname, only me nah my name the baby will carry!ur mumu "story" which was uncalled for has just exposed u! So u just want to defend ur mother abi? Mtcheeeew, go and shut up ur mouth jor! Ronke shd not allow u or ur kidnapping mother come near her child ever again...small pikin mentality dey worry u!
      All these gals that will sleep with "anything", I hope u can see the kind stupid consequence that can result!!!

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    4. Mister, under any guise, you can't take that little girl to Nigeria without her mother's consent. Your mother is now a confirmed kidnapper, while you are an accomplice. I thought as an elderly person, your mother should have advised you better, rather than perpetrating this evil act on your behalf, in a foreign land. You must learn how to operate within the ambit of the law rather than resorting to self help. You and your mother are in a very big trouble now, both at home and abroad. It is time for the security agents to start interrogating you and you mother on other missing children in your neighborhood. Your mother acted perfectly well like a career kidnapper. You people have a lot of questions to answer.

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    5. Eh eh still on this matter? Mr baby daddy ur foolishness is fundamental. It's appalling that u want to sound intelligent and on the right track, but in the process uv committed an unlawful blunder.
      What do u mean by u got a power of attorney for ur mom to bring the baby to Nigeria? Which power of attorney gets granted without presiding over a case, and without the knowledge of the girls mom? Are u kidding me? It's like saying u are divorced legally without the other person knowing that u divorced them. Who granted u the POA? Both of u should be arrested for abduction. Oh u think that because u fathered the child, hence u have superior rights over her against her mom? U sound like u never even dated the girl and she got pregnant after a few night stands. Well, bad enough, but ur relationship with her isn't what is up for scrutiny, the child is. Unless u seek the court's intervention on possible shared custody, u have no rights to take that child without her mother's consent. Balderdash.

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    6. I stand corrected but no parent whether mother or father can take a child out of the country without the others written and notarized consent. the letter of which is normally demanded bu the airline or other carrier during check in. At least that is the way it is stateside.

      Oba of Lake Forest.

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  2. Basket mouth! How can you say your friends frowned when they knew she was pregnant and moved in with you? Are you dumb? Did she impregnate herself. These are stories that gets to me. Irritant!

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    1. Motherfucker, you gave your mother power of attorney ko... power of Oshodi Oke ni... Did you give her the power of attorney when you were sleeping with your baby mama raw even though there was nothing serious between you guys? Oniranu, olujo wonko wonko, ashewo okunrin...Ko are e da spun jo! Kidnapper iranu yiiiii... lol


      Mayowa

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    2. HE DID NOT HAVE TO GIVE HER A HOUSE. What is wrong with what he said?

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    3. I tire for you guys. He means his friends were probably not happy with the inconvenience of him having a pregnant lady move in with them. This guy has spoken written like an educated and sensible person. They thought they were acting in the child's best interests! I bet she's living in a run down part of town in a one bed council house. He seems to be from a comfortable background so probably wants the child to be in s better environment. For all we know the mother might have been neglecting the little girl.

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    4. So cause he housed her den, he has d power 2 take her child 4rm her abi?

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  3. So what this guy is saying is that he arranged with his mum to take the girl from the woman who gave birth to her.
    All this talk is story. The day this guy and his mum enter UK they will be arrested.

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    1. Seriously does anyone on this blog think? So ukba jst let the mother go without any questions about the child? Like do you think they wouldn't have stopped this woman if something was off? Like he said joint custody and he granted his mum power or attorney. PLS LOOK UP WHAT THAT MEANS

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    2. ASAMPOKOTO,

      Nobody gave this guy joint custody. He was just throwing the words around because in his own mind, providing the sperm as a sperm donor is same as having joint custody.

      I doubt if this guy is even aware that just providing the sperm, being there at the time of birth and driving a mother around as if you are a taxi cab driver does not make you the father.

      Your parental rights can be revoked if necessary even if you provided ten gallons of sperms out of which 1 spermatozoa resulted in fertilizing the ova that produces a child.

      Even if a judge had awarded him joint custody, does that mean he should instruct his mother to abscond with the child out of the UK to another continent?

      Please answer Yes or No?

      I think you need to read and understand what you have read on this blog first, before you can start complaining that nobody on this blog think about what they have read on this blog.
      olu@atlanta.

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    3. UKBA will not stop the woman, if she has d same surname as the child in question, unless her surname is the different from the woman she was travelling with.

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    4. Ukba only gets involves when u r entering uk. In this case they were entering naija so hw can ukba stop anyone

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    5. Foolish boy, tell your mum to return the toddler before she is arrested. Ode!

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    6. Thanks for explaining to Asampokoto the wise who thinks. I travel with my brothers kids and no wahala.

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  4. Stupid boy.., was these really necessary.. U granted power of attorney with ur mother.. Such a stupid boy.. So obvious he is a mummy's boy

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    1. You clearly are an illiterate. Even from your right up. Or your education is half - baked.

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    2. Exactly! people like him won't do anything if his mother doesn't say so. His mother occurs to me as a dictator mother. Nonsense.

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  5. You should have kept quiet. You have just exposed yourself the more

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  6. That is not enough reason to take the child without her knowledge.

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  7. Story story. Your mom shouldn't have taken the child away from her mother. Admit your family was wrong

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  8. Again do you mean she is a slut? Hian na wa for some men ooo

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  9. You did the right thing

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  10. Izu definitely seems like a more responsible parent in this squabble. Listen deeply to his side of the story and any responsible person would easily figure out who really has the child's interest at heart.

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    1. Wow. The father who didn't want the child initially is suddenly more responsible than the mother who bore and nurtured the child? The father who was 'surprised' when a girl he'd been having unprotected sex with told him she was pregnant and whose friends were upset, suddenly has the child's interest at heart and the mother doesn't? Wow. Clap for yourself. Dumb people like you are the reason Izu put out this dumbass story. He knew there'd be people foolish enough to take sides with him. Congratulations.

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    2. Exactly .... It is obvious he wants the best for the child . I went on the girl in question's Twitter page and you can tell she wasn't well brought up , she is a mannerless girl . She's just using the baby to exploit the uk government . There are loads of them in this country . Temmy is a thief and a mannerless girl . Temmy you know you won't be able to take money from the government without your so called daughter , hence why you are agitating . Get a life , Get a job .

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    3. Izu welcome o...kidnapper,omo ale

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    4. GOD BLESS THIS COMMENTER. I can't believe the people on here criticising a good father wow!

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    5. Anonymous 06.02, he dey pain you???

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    6. If as a woman, I born and anybody near my pikin... Ewu people! He should have carried the pregnancy Na!

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    7. @anon 20:24. You seem to be very intelligent. Which school did you attend

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  11. Cute little girl

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  12. Well said Izu...child abduction is still child abduction regardless of how you put it. In your mind Ronke is not a fit mother but that doesn't justify what you did. Two wrongs don't make a right. The best course could gave done for Liya is to agree on a joint custody and teach her the right ways. I doubt if that is possible after all.

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      Make sense mate. THEY HAVE JOINT CUSTODY TILL THE MOTHER APPLIES AT THE COURT FOR OTHERWISE

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    2. Anon 7:53. You sound so dum! There was no mention of a joint custody agreement where the child would be taken out of the uk shores. The only sort of agreement Uzi mentioned was for his mother and the babymother's mother to come and be with their granddaughter at different times. Taking a uk citizen out of the country for whatever reason entails other arrangements. There was no previous agreement to take the child to Nigeria to start with, her passport was stolen. A Joint custody agreement would state when the mother is to have the child and vice versa for the father. This grandmother took the child without her mother's consent, despite the mother had full custody of the child at this point because (according to Uzi, he was in Nigeria for his Nysc, so couldn't be with the child), not only that, the child was taken outside the borders of the uk to Africa where she's never been before; to go be with a father who she hasn't seen in a long time (the child at that age would not remember the father! It's like taking her to meet a stranger in a strange country without her mother who she's used to) that right there is kidnap and unfair and insensitive to the child!! No other way to describe it. Or you want to tell me her planned to return her to uk in a few days? Of course not! If there was a custody agreement for both parents to keep the child for 1week at intervals and the mother goes to take the child before the father's 1week is up without his consent, then that would be kidnap too. Let's call it what it is, they stole the child and took her to Nigeria because they know the law there wouldn't require them to go about things things the civil way and because women don't really have a say in things like this in Nigeria, all they have to do is paint the mother as a wayward person etc and say the child belongs to the father's family. If not, they would have gone about this the right way and got the uk child service system involved. But let's face it, the father himself sounds like a useless, unserious, mummy's boy type of guy; if he tried to get custody in England, he most likely would have been unsuccessful, so instead he tried to do it the unfair Naija way. Nonesense!! Thank God for the internet and thank God their evil unfair plans were foiled and the child has been found!

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    3. That she was born in the UK doesn't make her a UK citizen, or did I miss something? Didn't read your whole comment sha.Too long.

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    4. Sorry, I was confusing US for UK.... But still, he cannot have his mother kidnap the child from her mother and expect everything to be fine with that. Everything else I said still stands. And you too, try and read sometimes, eh? You'll get a better picture, anon 08:40

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  13. Eyah.... Now I feel bad that I insulted the guy and his mum too. May God be the judge and jury of this one.

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    1. Flakkie, carry belle for 9 months and let one rif raf and his mother come and kidnap your kid, then you will understand. Dirty ko, unstable ni!!!

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  14. Shut up your mouth u kidnapper, u take a child witout the consent of the child's mother it is pure kidnap! U tld her family, is her family the mother? U and your Mum shld repent!

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  15. Who we wan believe ?Na wa ooo

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  16. That still doesn't excuse the crime of taking a child away from the mother without the mother's consent

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  17. i like his explanation until he got to the part of 'Ronke’s family was informed that same day Liya arrived Nigeria including our exact location', you and your mother did not acknowledge the mother about liya movement until she got to nigeria, abeg park well you and your mama na typical kidnapper. I hate guys that have relationship with girls they cant marry without using condom....this guy is a baby , please go back to your mummy and grow up....oloshi

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    1. You fully sound like a juvenile delinquent. Don't let your emotions cloud your judgement (not that he cares) but this sounds personal to you. Like did he rape the babe? They were two consenting adults, therefore whatever went down is none of your business

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    2. @anon 07:56, you are the foolish bastard cos you sound so retarded, if it's a mutual relationship, he shouldn't have painted her character as if she's a slut, matured men , not mommy boy, don't kiss and tell. You should come and let me teach you how to talk, oloribu

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  18. Na lie. A 3yr old who hasn't seen her dad in over year will no recognise him. No one has the right to take a child from her mother-the primary care giver. If the child wasnt raised well, you should have involved the law. IT WAS STILL KIDNAP

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    1. May God bless you! Power of attorney my butt! There are laws to follow. He could have gone to court if he believed her environment is unstable. Some crazy lawyers must be advising them to lie.

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  19. This guy dey lie. Abeg park well... U n ur mum r evil

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  20. The guy dey lie. Abeg park well. Idiots

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  21. This guy has written as a gentleman. Oya hasty commentators the floor is open. There's always two sides to a coin. May God help both parties resolve the issue amicably.

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    1. there nothing gentlemanly about a guy that sleeps with a lady without protection and with a promise of love when he know deep down that he will not marry her. His story is irritating abeg!

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    2. Ignorant gentleman! He should go back to school and take a law course.

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    3. He's truly a gentleman. I don't see what all the grouse is for. Ronke is young and should continue with her life. If I were her I would be truly grateful to the Ehinwere family. I don't see why you all her so sentimental, why can't Izu and family take care of Liya. An intelligent person should tell me why, now can she let Liya just be with her father and have a stable life.
      Yes am a single mum living in diaspora and I wish my baby daddy family were one tenth as responsible as this boys. No sentiments attached and I either know Ronke or Izu

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  22. U still have no right to take d child from her mother! U weren't even married. Let d child welfare office decide if she's an unfit mother not u! Not @ dis age @ least. There r proper ways to do things, not to traumatise d poor mother. Responsible dad indeed.

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  23. Dude do anythn u can to get ur baby girl to either stay with ur parents in nigeria or stay with her parents cos two of u seem to young to handle this. Let her stay with either of ur parents till u guys mature or sort urselves out.

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  24. Ogbeni! Taking the child without the mothers consent is kidnapping

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  25. I believe his story...I hope they will resolve this as soon as possible because of the child involved.

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  26. when i said lets hear full story i was cussed out.....but bros giving your mum power of attorney when you a not a judge and the mother of liya is not mentally disabled get as e be...u for come uk yaself abi..as a woman she may hv been vexing for u cus maybe the relationship didn't continue after pregnancy..next time protect urself or abstain u hear

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  27. handsome guy

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  28. Something in me believes this man! Please they should sort this out for the lil girls sake,she needs both mom and dad to have a normal life .

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    1. His story is not hard to believe, except that it's a stupid story. And the boy is stupid as well!

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  29. Wowwwwww. And someone said it. What If the grandma had reasons. And the girl over hyped the situation

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    1. What kinda of stupid reasons to kidnap a child. I hope all the voltrons Nigerian mothers that think they can do anything and get away with this learn from this

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  30. Make una settle the matter amicably....we sef get our own ish to attend to.shikena.

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  31. Story for the gods,ur mother was wrong end of discussion...justify the matter is an epic fail...

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  32. Sentiments apart, Liya was KIDNAPPED. Izu, how would your mother have felt if you were kidnapped by a relative? She would have lost her mind and gone bonkers. Liyas granny did not seek her mother's consent before she perpetrated her act. It's really unfair. Mind you, the UK Social Services will never advice that a child should be kidnapped, let alone taking out of the country without the mother's consent. There''re procedures. Kindly do the needful.

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  33. I just Knew there was more to this story than Liya's mom revealed

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  34. story story ,your mum did the wrong thing, just accept and bury your heads in shame, put your elder sister or younger sister in ronke’s shoes and see the way you idiot uzi would react ,the question is go about it the proper way, she said she doesn’t mind you going through custody battle but stealing without her consent is NOT ACCEPTABLE, infact all you just goofed the more, instead of justifying this criminal act, you should have just tendered apology and accept to go through custody battle the right way,shikena

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  35. Pls shut up izu..I hope u Nd ur mother rots in jail..

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  36. I mentioned this o...... Things just happen like that fa... kai gullible naija peeps,well I ain't surprised 2face is an illitrate

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  37. Shut up fool! Ibo people are too foolish.

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    1. Your father is foolish, that's the irony of this statement. I mean to raise a child who makes statements like this, both your parents are probably foolish.

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    2. Tribe has got nothing to do with this pls! Stop shwoing how stupid and follish you are.

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  38. I no there's more to dis than are ranting on social media,dis is family issue dat needs to sorted out amicably out of social media.

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  39. This guy is lying abeg. He's talking now. When the was screaming online that her child was kidnapped why didn't he come out immediately? It's now that they have been caught that he's coming to give us stories that touches the heart and tickles the bum bum. Those pictures up there were taken while she was kidnapped I'm sure. If moronike knew that the child was to be taken to Nigeria, why didn't she see your mother off to the airport? She clearly loves her child and she would have done that. Its a clear case of kidnap because the mother of the child didn't give her consent. Put a sock in it mister! You guys will say anything to appeal to public sentiment because you are clearly in deep sh*t. Mschew.

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  40. Go and marry the lady ..... you love your daughter, but you don't like the womb that carry her. What about the time you asked her to open and raise her leg wider? tell me if you did not enjoy it?

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    1. Dayo, Kilode? Ah, ah, should we ask for the video too? Lol. Of course the yeye boy enjoyed it so much he kept on "digging" till he beh Omo yen loyun. Now he is acting as if the child's mother should be removed from the whole picture. This guy is a motherf.... otan.

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    2. Lord, why soooo many dullards on this blog!? Like how is this relevant?

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    3. Hahaha @ What about the time you asked her to open and raise her leg wider?... sincerely, this guy should take several stools (joko) and sit down. Who is he trying to fool? His mother probably drafted this letter.

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  41. That child didn't look so happy with you in the first photo. So much for neater and stable environment. Keep allowing your mother to control you. You are not even a responsible person "casual relationship" I guess the lady fell for you but didn't know that it was just a "casual relationship " that's why she was happy that she was having your baby until you showed her your true colour. Just run off!

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    1. And you know all of this how? Sooooo bloody judgmental and this is why Nigeria is forever at a stand still. You just have people judging, and assuming they know IT all

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  42. "Ronke’s family was informed that same day Liya arrived Nigeria including our exact location". Meaning Ronke didn't know her daughter was taken to Nigeria in the first place. If that's the case, it can only mean the little girl was kidnapped. Before your mum took that journey, did she tell Ronke about it? And did Ronke agree for her child to be taken to Nigeria?

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  43. take her away without her mother's consent is very wrong one. anyway i dont know what to say between two stories.

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  44. This youngster is out of his rockers!!! ur saying this to Nigerian folk cause some don't understand the system in the UK. I can sifter the abundance of lies in ur statement. Your mother kidnapped your daughter away from her mother. What your mum did was very wrong!! simple!!

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  45. If i were you i will just marry her instead of your long sermon

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    1. Why should he? we are in 2014 not your ancestral days. Grow up

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  46. TRUTH BE TOLD YOUR MOTHER SHOULDNT HAVE TAKEN HER AWAY

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    1. I'm sure the 'power of attorney' was granted even before your mum left Nigeria for the UK ( premeditated). You've successfully told us that your initial plan was to take the girl by hook or crook. The mothers behaviour is an excuse you're making up.

      I pity you. Men like you get manipulated by their mum's until their children start to hate them. Use your head sometimes you hear? What you did was a crime. Be a man and render an open and honest apology.

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    2. DO YOU KNOW WHAT Power or attorney means? And no way immigration in the U.K. wouldn't have questioned tbat child if his mum had no rights at all. Her story was always sketchy

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    3. They wouldn't have questioned since the child has same surname as her or if they were dubious enough to draft fake letters from both parents giving the grandma rights to travel with the girl. XxxbarbieXxx

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  47. Both of them are loosey gooseys who had a fling which resulted in an unwanted pregnancy on the guys side anyway. The baby was born, dude felt he wanted to cut ties completely and arranged for his momma to "kidnap" the child. All that Bollocks talk about ' harmful behavior ' and other crap on the baby's mothers side is crap. She probably started dating someone else just like I am sure the baby daddy has started to do as well. A child needs it's mother no matter what. Let this be a lesson to all Naija students abroad. If you are planning to study abroad and return to Naija, stay away from getting into casual relationships, without CONDOMS. A £2 invest in a pack of condoms could have prevented this headache. Liya needs her mother and with all this bad blood, I doubt if baby daddy of the month will be seeing much of her till she is either 16 or so. My advise is for both families to take it easy. Liya is in good hands with her mother in England. Baby daddy, if you are reading, it's obvious you were banging free arse and was angry at first about the end result. You even shaved your story to suit you but at the end of the day, what your mother did is wrong. Go and make another baby and leave Liya alone, for now.

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  48. Hmmm... After reading this story, some girls will still fall for Mr casual-relationship-donor! This guy must really be a joke himself for trying to justify a kidnap gone bad.

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  49. Izu the sperm belongs to you but the moment it turns into a baby 2 parties and the law are involved. i feel your pain but pls don't let your mom return to UK again. she will be arrested and criminal proceeding filed. child kidnapping is a very serious offence in the western world and you know.

    Secondly who told you, you have any right to grant your mum POWER OF ATTORNEY? you dont have the right to travel with your child to Nigeria without her mothers consent talkless of granting your mom the right to act on your behalf.

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  50. This guy named Izuchukwu Ehiemere is a living example of why they have Miranda rights given and read to people before they are interrogated.

    Before questioning you, the interrogator will usually tell you:

    “You have the right to remain silent because anything you say or write down, can and will be used against you in a court of law or public opinion.You have the right to an attorney. If you cannot afford an attorney, one will be provided for you. Do you understand the rights I have just read to you? With these rights in mind, do you wish to speak to me or write down what happened?”

    Obviously this wanna be kidnapper never heard of Miranda rights and nobody is even interrogating him while he is singing like one brown African Kennery.

    It is very difficult to believe that a graduate will write this kind of letter without realizing all the implications in this letter.
    All the guilt he has unknowingly accepted through this letter are just too many.

    Not only did this letter proved that this guy actually directed his own mum to kidnap his daughter, it also proved that this guy never wanted this child in the first place. This letter also proved that this guy is one horrible person.

    Now the question is, since he never wanted this child why all the drama over a child he explicitly stated in his own words that he never wanted?

    Could all the claims that the mother of the child had been a bad influence on the child be false and the main purpose of the grandmother going to UK was just to kidnap her own granddaughter?

    Some questions running through my head like hurricane.

    My own advice to this guy is to find a way to make peace with his baby mama and never again to be involved in Intercontinental child trafficking and kidnapping. The child need to be returned back to the mother.

    The way he used the power of attorney to illegally move his own daughter is wrong.

    Here, we have a child that will always connect the two families together no matter how anybody is feeling and so this guy need to sit his ass up and do the right thing.

    Nobody can force this guy to marry a girl he only wanted for her hips but he surely need to be a man and start doing what is right so that his little adorable girl wouldn't come out scarred for life.

    olu@atlanta Scatterpot.

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    1. Well said!

      #madamnoregret#

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    2. excellent olu@atlanta

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    3. This Olu dude makes my head swell lol he's so intelligent

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  51. blog alert:
    ayodejibolaji.blogspot.com

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  52. If it was Ife Esan you tired this with, she would have killed all of you. That girl show me pepper Biko

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    1. OMG LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Wow! David perhaps?

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  53. Why would u give ur mother POA without consulting d lady nd her family.. Truth be told u have no right to take d child away, mother in laws are so self centered.

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  54. Your mum does not hve any right to take the child to Nigeria without her mum s consent. Your mum had better stayed in Nigeria cos next time she comes here ,hmmnnnn! She s going to be arrested , then she will get a criminal record. Nd with that she won't even be able to go to other countries like the Us.

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  55. Woow! I understand all he said! U all are just reading without understanding.,,,just ranting about that the guy is stupid, shutup nd all! That's totally wrong! U guys should stop it. Mr izu that was a very good responsibility u took. Moronke should go nd hide her face, cos the truth is out. Woow this part of the story made me laugh, liya is in a cleaner and stable environment, meaning when she was with her mom, the environment was dirty nd wasn't stable. Lol moronke moronke please get clean ok! Well thank God the two sides of the story is said now!

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    1. You are taking sides, how do you know that he's not lying? If he can arrange a kidnap then he would surely lie to cover his ass. This guy should have just kept quiet and said all this in court. Now he's got evidence against him. Ladun, please don't delete that email from your inbox.

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    2. Me, I think you need to go back to sleep and let the effect of the crack you smoked wear off.
      olu@atlanta scatterpot.

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  56. Izu shameless kidnapper! Stop commenting on this blog... idiot wicked jew man. I applaud liya 's mum 4 keeping the baby even when u didn't want it. That girl has gone thru hell and all u can come up with is dirty environment. Pls bow down ur face in shame. I hope you and ur useless mother rut in jail. Ezi ofia; Ndi ara... Izu come and reply my comment.. mumu

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    1. Y u dey carry panadol for another person headache nau??? Y you insulting the old woman who only did her son a favour. You are obviously a kid too and very immatured just as ronke, I dont know Izu, but i have read through his comments and read with understanding...Y'all obviously dont understand what the meaning of kidnap is...KMT*** Ode didnt u read where he mentioned he did witness Liya's birth??? She hasnt bin through hell yet o, she's just about getting started because she wud rot in the deepest part of it. Oloshi shoboleyoke oniranu...ode

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  57. Izu first u make a mistake by taking the girl away without her mother's approval, let me ask u something, was there any problem between both of u before? becos u said u have been with her right from the pregnant till the delivering of the baby before u travel for ur NYSC, if there is no problem between both of u i see no reason why u and ur mother will make such decision, with the look of things is as if u guys have been having issue u decided to take the decision, ur daughter is still ur daughter no matter what, u are an igbo man in igbo land women doesn't own a baby except the father of the baby is not interested on the baby. u shld have allow her to stay with ur baby than later u pple will make arrangement on hw the baby will visit Nigeria or come back to Nigeria, and mind u, u must be taking care of her welfare while all dis things is going on becos u can't abandon a woman with her baby and later run u will come to claim ur child in that case she will not allowed u take her away. pls u pple shld settle dis amicably, the way u go about it in the first place is very wrong. becos that baby is still small to stay without her mother.

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    1. ...and you have just murdered English language. Thank you!

      #Madamnoregret#

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    2. Madam please let me ask you this question.....Is the Babymama ibo? The answer is NO. Therefore your ibo law or whatever that makes the man the "Owner" of the child doesn't apply in this case. He should have slept with and impregnated an ibo babe if he wanted that law to stick.

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    3. RIP, Queen's English. I am in mourning mood now.

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  58. This is serious. There is more to this write-up. Let's keep our fingers crossed.

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  59. Reading through this story and your various comments, Its just brings to mind what happened to actress Doris Simon recently. Where her husband took her son out of the country to live with his concubine without the mother's knowledge. I think this is becoming a trend and its should not be encouraged. Daniel, Doris's ex-husband when away with it free cos when dont have good govt in this country that can enforce the law. It is bad enof that you did not want the woman but only the child but sorry the two comes together. If you want that girl, you better amend your ways with her mum. You mum is not her mum, she is her grand mum so she cant play that part except the mother wants her to. You story shows the kind of family you are from and that there is not good name to protect if not, you and your mother will not take that kind of decision without considering the mental and emotional effect it will have on the mother. She has been with the child since 3 years and now you see her not fit to be Liya abi? Go and do a reevaluation of this situation and seek legal and godly advice before you destroy another person's life with your carelessness and greediness.

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  60. Izu firstly you owe no one any explanation and as such the wrongest of all moves you have made is sending this story to Ladun.
    Secondly keep your shit to yourself and immediate family so you can save yourself comments from millions of hateful Nigerians who are always ready to throw abuses at every opportunity.
    Lastly, as a typical Naija boy who went to school in the UK, you got involved and a baby has come of it, I dont blame you much, the cold in that town na die during winter, anyways you probably have learnt a whole lot and like they say its always the best teacher.
    I wish you all the best going forward,your baby mama as well and Liya too.

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  61. Ronke is obviously still a kid and very immature!!! Exposing innocent little liya to the world was totally uncalled for. How could you have accused an old woman who meant well for your baby of kidnap??? no matured mother in her sane mind wud do what you did if not for anything for the sake of your baby. I still believe there’s even more to this story that we dont know. Mbok, y’all should stop washing your dirty laundries outside, these are private matters and should be treated privately. For christ sakes, this is a family matter and should be treated accordingly. There was no point putting this up on any social media in the first place. If the matter to pain you, you for just go cry for police and all other authorities.

    Izu you have done well telling us your own side of the story, and thankfully you also admitted the way liya was returned to naija wasnt the best of decision.

    Please learn from this.

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    1. Yea yea yea, not everyone will be like Doris Simon, mumu irresponsible Izu should go to court and let the court decide that Liyas mum is not fit and proper to take care of her, bunch of jokers, you know what it is for a woman to carry a baby for 9 months ? So you think you and your mum love Liya more than the biological mum? Taaaaaa, bloody criminals. Liyas mum is irresponsible but you were fucking her? Story for the Gods!

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    2. Anon 15:02, Her best decision in all of this was to put the story on social media, otherwise that child might still be missing today. So what you're saying makes no sense at all! They kidnapped the child while the mother was in school and took her to Nigeria, your best advise is to chastise the mother for bringing it to social media, when it is blatantly obvious that that was what helped in putting pressure on the kidnapper father/grandmother to release the child. You were advising that she should have reported to police instead.... Which police? Uk police that has no jurisdiction in Nigeria or the Nigerian police who are also crooks themselves? From this your backward comment, you're sounding very much like an enemy of progress!

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    3. mannnn you should have just shut your mouth up. so you send your mom to the uk to kidnap a lil gal and you did not justify it with child life was in danger so we can pity you. pathetic story.

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  62. This boy should have kept his mouth shut. He has shown the world that he is ignorant. For your own sake try not to say anything again

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  63. I hardly comment but now i have to. You are crazy. You gave your mum power of attorney to do what? Mschew. Rubbish. A child you have abandoned for years, all of a sudden, the mother who has brought her up and nutured her now becomes dangerous for her upbringing? Rubbish. Whether you like it or not you are a kidnapper. you and your mum are child kidnappers. Nonsense. Please park well. you should honestly have just shur your mouth.

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  64. It was a casual friendship yet you slept with her for three months without protection.

    You moved her into your house even though your friends were angry, what a favour you did for the poor girl you impregnated.

    Then your mama came and noticed some traits...typical of a mama's boy.

    You and your mother orchestrated it all.
    You wanted the baby but not the babymama but you weren't man enough to do that upfront so you sent mama bear to help kidnap the baby to lawless Nigeria.

    Stop trying to whip up sympathy
    We don't care if she is slutty or ill mannered
    Why did you send your mama to steal that baby? Couldn't you have gone to court to air your grievances and be granted sole custody. Of course you know the court of law isn't interested in the sentiments you are obviously stating here.

    DIM



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  65. Give your daughter the best upbringing you can. You did the right thing as a father. All the idiots commenting are irrelevant to the welfare of your daughter and would be the very same ones condemning the lifestyle of a 'lost' Nigerian were she to grow up towing the path that would have been determined by an unprepared mother. Her problem beyond the fact that her daughter is not with her now is that the benefits that Liya represented would no longer come from the council and HMRC.
    Na you be her papa abeg. If I am ever in that kind of irresponsible situation let my husband do the same that you have done.
    May God help and guide you through the propaganda that she is trying to generate in her undeserved favour.

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  66. All these idiots speaking idiocy are just plain fools! The guy did the best thing for his daughter. Any man condemning him is just a plain wussy! Women asslicker. Do you think his mother would have acted without seeing how irresponsible the baby mama is? It is unfortunte, a lot of men here have lost their balls and have become mere appendages to women. FOOLS!

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    1. So all of a sudden, after 3 years, liya's mother is now an unfit mother? the mother should have carried the pregnancy for her too na yeye man abi men.
      This is not a balls matter. your guy letting his mom carry out criminal activities for him is the irresponsible ass licker.
      mscheew!

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  67. You and your mother are so insensitive, taking a two year child from the mother is the most heartless thing to do. Did he just say Welfare. Please tell that to the birds. Rubbish!!!! Guess Ronke should have learn t now. Thank God is not beyond remedy. Who knows what they wanted to do with the innocent girl. Hissinnnnnnggggg

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  68. this guy is clearly a MUMMY'S BOY and no woman wants dt....... take responsibility for your actions and your mum shld have thought better and adviced u dan actually going all d way to the uk to embarrass herself.....

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