For Men & Women! The 12 Kinds Of People You Must Never Marry

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This piece was written by Azuka Onwuka, lol… please read.
The easiest time to prevent a divorce or an unhappy marriage
is before marriage, not after. There is no gainsaying that love can have such a
drunken effect on the about-to-wed that clear danger signals become unimportant
to them, while hope becomes the only commodity. After all, is it not said that
love conquers all? Great! But what type of love is meant there?
There are traits that some people cannot drop. It is like
hoping that a right-handed spouse will one day become left-handed: a classical
case of waiting for Godot! If you are looking for a wife or a husband, please
be wary of these groups of people. Continue below…

Those who can never say, “sorry”
They would hurt you, annoy you, disappoint you, but would
never apologise, because they believe that it would belittle and demean them.
When you are wrong, you apologise to them, and when you are right, you still
apologise to them, hoping that that they would change. But they never do. You
start to feel irritated and agitated. The love and respect you felt for them
start to wear away.
Those who can never say, “Thank you”
Whatever you do for them, they are never grateful. “Why
should I say, ‘Thank you’ when you are just doing your duty?” Some would say
that their gratitude is in their heart. Do you have to open a heart to see the
gratitude and get it? Such an attitude causes irritation and frustration and
unhappiness. Such people also believe the world owes them a lot. They go around
their activities with an entitlement mentality. They are difficult to please.
Those who have excessive libido or inadequate libido
S*xual intercourse is a very important factor in marriage,
but when you have a spouse that needs it for breakfast, lunch and supper, it is
difficult to have any peace in the family. Infidelity also knocks on door. On
the other hand, when you have a spouse that hates s*x or thinks that s*x should
only be had once a year during the wedding anniversary or birthday celebration,
there is also trouble in the house, and infidelity is usually a challenge.
Men who think women are to be seen but not heard
Some men still live in the 18th century, in spite of the
depth of education they profess. It is true that marriage is not a zone for
feminist crusade, but if a man has archaic views about women, then, please
avoid him like an Ebola patient. Watch out for statements like: “How can an
ordinary woman want to be the CEO?” “How can a woman chat with men?”
Women who believe they don’t need men in their lives
Such women believe that they are self-sufficient in all
things. They have the I-don’t-give-a-damn attitude. Men feel ill at ease when
they are with women who don’t allow a room in their lives for a man to fill.
Such women find it difficult to express love. They fly into quarrels easily.
This creates frustration and conflicts.
Men who are looking for housemaids, not wives
These are men who still live in the 15th century. They have
an archaic idea of what the role of wives is. They believe that women are only
meant to cook, clean the house, bear children, and serve the men.
They believe that when the men talk, women must just obey.
The man can keep mistresses, but the woman should keep quiet and not even be
seen greeting a man. A woman should not work, should not step out of the house,
and should not complain whatever the man doles out to her.
Those who can never trust anybody
These are those who believe that everybody is a dangerous
enemy that has evil designs against them. They have an obsession with fear of
people, including their spouse, that it is irritating. Once a spouse cannot be
trusted, there can never be joy in the family.
Those who have no respect for others
People can mouth love, but without respect, a marriage can
never be happy. Women who love to prove a point by insulting their husbands, or
men who believe in treating their wives without dignity in the name of cutting
their wives to size: such people make terrible marriage partners.
Women who see all men as competition that must not be given
an inch
Marriage is not a place for activism. A woman who sees a man
as a competitor rather than a complement is a dangerous person to marry. When a
man has to contend with a woman every minute, when a man is always too
conscious of what to say or do to his wife, then there is a problem.
Those who can’t control their temper
Hot-tempered people are dangerous. They can utter anything
in anger. They can do things that they will regret for life. They can be violent.
Their words can be venomous. They can put you in trouble.
Those who cannot forgive
Forgiveness makes us look superhuman. But there are those
who cannot forgive, no matter the circumstances. Not only can they not forgive,
they can also not forget. Because they can’t forgive, they usually think of how
to get revenge.
Those who have not been weaned by their parents
Age has little to do with maturity in marriage. Those who
have not been “weaned” by their parents make poor marriage partners. They are
full of “Mummy said”, “Daddy said”. They take every family discussion to their
parents. They cannot do anything unless their parents approve. They allow their
parents to run their homes in the name of showing respect to the mother-in-law
or father-in-law.
Those who are tied to the apron strings of their parents
make marriage tasteless. Such spouses are as a constant source of frustration
and sadness. You will always be wrong. You will always be vilified.
In summary, marriage is not a bed of roses. There is nobody
without some faults or idiosyncrasies. But it is foolhardy to walk into a
landmine with one’s eyes open, praying and hoping that the explosive would not
go off.

To avoid heartache, neither blind love nor desperation to
get a married should push a bachelor or spinster to jump into a marriage with
someone that will cause nothing but pain, sadness, and sorrow. 

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