I Will Take Having A Child Out Of Wedlock Than Abortion! Damilola Attoh Addresses Having A Child Before Marriage

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A lot of people have criticized actress Damilola Adegbite,
now Attoh for having a child before wedlock. Some said she is a role model that
a lot of people look up to her and she should have known better by getting
married before having a baby. But in an interview with Blanck Magazine, Damilola
spoke about the issue and said she would pick having a child out of wedlock
over having an abortion, and thankfully those that mattered in her life never
criticized her, but were happy for her when she got pregnant, she said. Continue…


”We love our fans and supporters, without whom
we won’t be called celebrities. But here’s the truth; our work is our work and
our personal lives are ours to deal with, hopefully none of the people who love
our work are completely emulating our lives, so I’m hoping that they can accept
and respect what our choices and decisions are. Without letting that get in the
way of how much they appreciate our work.

The truth is I have my personal
life to live. My partner and I have made decisions based on how we deem fit and
I will totally take having a baby out of wedlock than having an abortion. The
baby came at the best time he was meant to come. We love each other and already
had plans of being together so why not. Thankfully our families and those who
their opinions really mattered were okay with our decisions. 
I recall in a recent article,
where the same question was thrown at the musician Brymo and he said that –
children were a product of love and not marriage and I completely agree. I’m
not one to live my life based on other people’s standards. Fortunately for me,
I didn’t get a lot of heat from people; in fact most people who knew about us
were very happy about everything. The people who knew the journey that we
passed through called it a miracle that we could come this far”, she said.
And then she reflected on when
she first found out she was pregnant…

“I remember when I told Chris I
was pregnant, he laughed uncontrollably… I was shocked. He was so happy and
that was all that mattered to me at the time. My family is doing great and I
hope that everyone can respect that. Like the saying goes – whoever wears the
shoe, knows where the shoe pinches (laughing). Bryan is a miracle and was given
to us for a reason we both know. He came at the time we didn’t expect but it
was such a beautiful timing. I wouldn’t trade that feeling for a million fans.
Some people have asked me if
having a child obligated Chris to marry me and here’s my answer, there are a
lot of baby mamas out there who their baby daddies didn’t marry, so having a
kid for a guy doesn’t guarantee anything. To us, Bryan sealed the deal for us –
his coming made us know that God was leading us to the path we had always
wanted and it would have been foolish for us not to jump on it. And Bryan
brought a lot of change, redirection, focus, organisation and unity.”

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