Tuesday, July 21, 2015

Just In! Lady Who Got Infected With HIV At 20 Feels Lonely, Needs A Lover

I just received this mail and it’s so heartbreaking and pathetic how some ignorant men can ruin almost an entire family just because they want to have fun- s3x. If only these men know what they destroyed in the process… if only they knew… Lord have mercy. Her mail after the cut.

Dear Ladi,

I am HIV Positive but want to settle down.
I would tell you a bit of my story.

In 2004, I was 20 yrs. and in my first year at the university.
I was out of cash so borrowed money from my friend to take a bus to town to my bank. I did, not know that day would change my entire life. You see,  I am from a strict moral upbringing, and a  virgin at that time.

After withdrawing the money I got to the park, someone accosted me, telling me he was stranded, if I can help. I took some money and gave him that was the last thing I recalled. I followed him and was gang-raped.

Honestly ,I can’t remember most of the details, I don’t know if I was drugged or jazzed(please be careful who you help, or don’t help at all) I only remembered when I felt pain in my private, but where they took me to? How many they were? Faces? I can’t remember anything, I was so ashamed of telling anyone or even going to the hospital.(please go to the hospital if you were raped you can be saved from this life of torture)

Prior to this event, I had a fiancée in the US, I only found out about my status when I went to the American embassy, and was asked to do a comprehensive test. Eventually I told him, he left me.

This event took a toll on my family. My father who was Hypertensive was so depressed it took his life and my Mum? As my father died she never recovered from it. There was no support. I put myself through school and is now a graduate. If I said it was easy I am a liar. I did menial jobs, served as a waiter in hotels; I even worked in construction site.

Why am I putting this up? Well firstly I have searched for a soul mate, most of this dating sites and agents just rip you off the little money you have and secondly,  I  know I deserve to be happy.

I am appealing to you to use your kind platform to help people like myself, put this up so I can find love again.

What I am looking for is a good man who takes God seriously and also can take care of his own. I don’t mind location or race, He can either be positive or negative, If he is positive he should be sm1 who takes his health seriously. Even after 11years of living with the disease my CD4 count is always above 800. That is because I take my health seriously.

How does she look? I can describe myself as pretty, 5’9, good morals, also loves God, hardworking and an amazing cook. Please mail chisom.agha@yahoo.com. Please serious people.


53 comments:

  1. Wow. How possible can a person living with hiv cope with a person not having d disease

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  2. I think she should go to one of the government hospitals to talk to people caring for HIV victims. They can hook her up

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  3. Ladun, is dis post for real?

    Fibonnachi omogbai

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  4. Wat a sorry story

    Fibonnachi Omogbai

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  5. I really feel for her, eligible bachelor's plz apply oo
    Fibonnachi omogbai

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    1. What do you mean by eligible bachelor should apply? Is there anything wrong in you applying? Even if you are married, she wouldn't mind being a second wife. At least, you feel for her.

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  6. May those idots die before their death!it a hrt breaking on e

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  7. None of my customers shd contact dis lady o!Battling with anal haemorrhoids dey bad enough 4 business

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    1. Business kwa,how'r u sure ur not hiv positive with ur high body count?

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  8. This is serious

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  9. May d Lord connect u,wit ur soul mate...it's well

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  10. MR EDDY said this heat wan kill person


    I feel for u my dear. I pray ur soul mate finds his way to ur doorstep ijn. Amen!
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    ^™THAT EDO BOY.COM~

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  11. God!. This broke me down completely. May God be with you dear, and grant you ur heart desires. Amen!

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  12. MR EDDY said this heat wan kill person


    I feel for u my dear. I pray ur soul mate finds his way to ur doorstep ijn. Amen!
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    ^™THAT EDO BOY.COM~

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  13. MR EDDY said this heat wan kill person


    I feel for u my dear. I pray ur soul mate finds his way to ur doorstep ijn. Amen!
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    ^™THAT EDO BOY.COM~

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  14. pathetic and touching indeed

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  15. I wish u all the best dear// It is well

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  16. Her story is so touching. I really hope she can find someone

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  17. It will never be well with those people that gang raped you

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  18. Sorry dear. I will send you a mail now

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  19. I am sorry to disappoint you dearie. You will not see anyone because nobody wants to be infected with the deadly virus

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    1. There are people living with hiv who are married to non carriers of the virus. So Juliet, if you have nothing else to say, how about you shut up and keep it moving? She didn't ask for your advice after all.

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    2. Shut the fuck up u fool!!! Rather than encourage and motivate her, u choose to throw a dart right thru her heart. I hate 2 insult people but u have just pushed me. Evaluate your words before you dish them out cz words sometimes are sharper than two edged swords.

      And I called u a fool with no remorse in my heart because your words to this young lady depicts you as one.

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    3. Your post just show how stupid u r

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    4. Come on Juliet

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  20. OMG. People are desperately wicked they ruined her life

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  21. Too bad for you but good luck to you on your search for a lover

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  22. What is the probability that the person will not be infected?

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  23. There is always a reason for everything. I believe God has a big plan for you with all that have happened to you

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  24. May God rest your father’s soul

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  25. Shedding tears after reading this

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  26. This is really serious. I pray her prayers r answered.

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  28. God bless you dr!! I sincerely wish you true love. Cheers!

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  29. i hope you find love, you've been through hell

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  30. My dear, get someone that has the disease too and your specific strain. Goodluck to you and you will find the one for you. Life happens to us all and it is just by his grace that some of us are clean. As no body holy pass, so cant judge you. I commend you for not spreading it in revenge. Anyone who is raped, please run to your nearest hospital, there are drugs you can be given to reduce the likelihood of getting HIV within a reasonable time.

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  31. Why not dash her to your brother free of charge no bride pride is freely.
    #sad indeed#

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  32. Commenter Number 6 please we choose you, u wil be conpensate wit sometin

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  33. Wow such a story

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  34. I pray you find love dear

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  35. Writer your best bet is to locate big government hospitals, join network of persons living with HIV, there are lots of adventures there. best of luck dear.

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  36. At poster. It is well with your soul.

    Remember God loves you

    Matt 11:28

    Shalom

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  37. Let her visit TB Joshua for the cure. It's going to open more doors in her life easily and cool. Take it serious ok

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    1. Please lady ignore this comment. Do not try it. Dont add to your sorrows

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  38. This is really disheartening! May God heal her and grant her all that her heart desires....

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  39. O ma she o! May God help her find peace and answer her prayers.

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  40. May love locate you

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  41. Go to LUTH, ask of APIN and register. They run a programme that links people up.

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