Wednesday, December 12, 2018

Not All Women Will Be Mothers, Nse Etim Writes

Nollywood actress, Nse Ikpe Etim has taken to her instagram page to warn people to respect the privacy of women who are battling with infertility or the ones that have chosen not to have children. She wrote;

A woman is a person. A person who can decide what she wants to do with her body or her time. So, it is extremely ignorant to expect all women to eventually be mothers.

There are many reasons why a woman may not have children. Infertility is more common than we know and to immediately ask a woman why she doesn't have a child is extremely insensitive.

There are also women who have chosen to not have children simply because they will not put their bodies through pregnancy. They simply do not want to have kids and this is perfectly okay.

Whatever a woman decides to do - to have babies or to not; or whether they are battling infertility is no one’s business.

Happiness is all that matters. Gratefully, it is absolutely free.

My prayer and hope is that one day we will not judge unfairly unmarried or childless women.

That being said, if children will make you happy, I pray that you have loads of them.

If you do not want or cannot have kids, remember that you can still find joy and do not allow anybody make you feel less.

Enjoy life. Breathe freely and enjoy all the beauty in the world.

For me, love and light are the truth and all I ever want is to live in happiness and pure truth.


  1. Infertility is really a bg ish in this country

  2. Does it mean she has been childless since her marriage

  3. God should not let us experience delay

  4. This lady is telling the story of her life

  5. The you dont need to be in mans house,every man or a woman in a marriage do so cos of a children.