Thursday, September 19, 2019

Man who r.a.p.e.d wife every week for 10 years is jailed

A mum-of-five who was repeatedly r.a.p.e.d by her husband has bravely spoken out about the attacks, saying: "I'm relieved that I'm safe from his clutches."

Jane Hanmore, 35, said her ex Brian Hanmore, 40, r.a.p.e.d her weekly for a decade and even s-xually and physically assaulted her in front of their children.

She said he began mentally abusing her less than a year after they met and started dating, calling her "fat" and "lazy".

The relationship turned violent and one day the couple's young children walked into the kitchen while Brian was r-ping Jane and asked why she was crying.

 In January 2018, Brian admitted five counts of r.a.p.e and jailed for 10 years.

Jane, a health care assistant from Poole, Dorset, said she wishes he had been jailed longer.

She added: "I'm speaking out to show others that you can rebuild your life after abuse.

"It's never too late to escape and get justice."

As she continued to rebuild her life, she has encouraged other women to speak out if they are being abused to expose the men "for the monsters they truly are".

Jane met Hanmore in 2001, but within a year he was mentally abusing her.

The mum, who has waived her right to anonymity, said: "When our son was five months old, he raped me for the first time when I refused to have s.e.x with him.

"Afterwards, I felt ashamed and disgusting."

For 10 years, her husband r-ped her weekly, she said.

116 comments:

  1. Some men are scum

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  2. You married him, your pussy ownership was revoked

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    1. Shame on you!

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    2. So since then their two Man sleeping on the same bed, solution is to approach the Court of Law to request the full custody of the children in order to get a Wife.

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    3. Rubbish nonsense how can your husband rape you?

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  3. It's her duty to serve her husband well..

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    1. You are an idiot to give this shitty comment

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  4. Enter your comment... stupid talk !

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  5. Enter your comment...very bad

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  6. He should enjoy his stay behind the bars

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  7. He should enjoy his stay behind the bars

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  8. How can your husband rape u, ai this laws sucks shen

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  9. Enter your comment...wonders shall never end

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  10. His a husband why not do it to enjoy his marriage,, forcing a partner for sex when he or she is not in the mood is a bad one.

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    1. If she has mood for 10 years,means she's mentally very sick.she must be lesbian.

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  11. You should be ashamed to say that your husband raped you.

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    1. Stop being to forward she is hurting go to hell man the country does not need people like u

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    2. Let the same happen to you and see if you'll feel the same

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  12. Mncm thats bullshit how can a man who married you rape, she is just sicking attention

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    1. Don't be anonymous comment with your name so I can tell you how stupid n childish you are

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    2. She must be mentally sick, can she make a definition of RAPE?

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    3. How can a man who married your stupid ass rape you? This bitch is retarded.

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  13. is it not ur husband, how could your husband raped you,u didn't submit yourself to him

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    1. Enter your reply...dat's a bullshit story.women are very wicked avoid them

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  14. Husband raping wife no comment...bt assaulting her physically, jail is what he deserves

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  15. Enter your comment...the pussy belongs to the man na i didn't see anything bad with it

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    1. You mad if I don't want to fcvk with him then he can't enforce himself on me

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  16. Seriously he raped u 4 how many years, come-on are u kidding me just tell me "ARE YOU ALSO FULFILLING YUR DUTY ALSO" cus if u are how can he harass u, just tell the world u want a divorce and u will have it.What a dungshit

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  17. and she stayed for 10 years ..😕

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  18. Enter your comment...In the African traditional set up a wife does not deny her husband sex. To us it's not rape.

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    1. Please speak for yourself do not bring our African traditions into such abuse. Is it right for him to physically and sexually abuse her in front of their kids? No. She might not have been well when she denied him at first. And I'm sure the love died after that first abuse. I pity all those who can justify such barbaric acts. Shame on you

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    2. Enter your reply... that's not true, you can't speak for Africans like that, we do not condone rape even between married couples and physical assault is always wrong even against your spouse.pls don't speak for us all.

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    3. Don't say "us" kindly say "to me"

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    4. This anonymous that's so obsess to answer and ask question could be his brother maybe u and him share private conversation

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  19. Rubbish!nonsense!!! take out the word rape today some immoral women will have sleepless night searching for another stupid word to replace rape.
    why using the word "MY" Husband instead of: a man raped me?
    what a human quest for total freedom that doesn't develop our morality instead a destruction to ur moral standard...
    generation with poor sense of moral, what is my right to have is now an offense before the positive law.


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  20. Enter your comment...she haven't said what was really causing. catastrophe between she and her husband, rapping !!!!!

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  21. Laws and the lady are both lying..the man never raped her in his own house. He had sex with his with wife wether she refuses or not it not rape get over it ...why she didnt report same day of the abuse?..Why she took So long to report her lies ?

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  22. Enter your comment...This happened because you refused him sex.

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  23. 😭😭😭😭😭 poor man

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  24. Enter your comment..at this era and moment ,this should be condemned

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  25. 10years your husband raped you?something is fishy about this story

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  26. 10years your husband raped you?something is fishy about this story

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  27. You deny him sex, you said he raped you ;i think it was better for him to cheat :he was going to be wrong also

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  28. Stupid woman how can you deny your husband sex? When you where denying him where did you wanted him to get it from?

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    1. She has the right to say no you dumb fuck, and to answer your question... He could've fucked himself with a candle.... You're a disgrace for even commenting this

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  29. Enter your comment...you should be submissive to your husband.

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  30. Enter your comment...As his wife you shouldn't have denied his request for sex. He also shouldn't have raped you.

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  31. any man that raped woman deserve to be kill

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  32. Rape? Do you want him to get court order before he could have sex with you as his wife?

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  33. Enter your comment... why did you marry him in the first place if he has started abusing you when the two of you were dating.

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  34. I don't even understand this, I mean how can your husband rape you?

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  35. I don't even understand this, I mean how can your husband rape you?

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  36. Enter your comment...nawooo rape in the marriage I fearoooo

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  37. every week you say, then you starve him with sex because you don't give him his right so he takes it by force

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  38. I wonder if other people are right in their head. Being unsympathetic is evil no matter your view regarding sexual refusal differ.

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    1. You can say that again, seems like ppl this days they enjoy the evil act. Whether married or not you can't force someone to sleep with you

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    2. Thank you Nate. If your wife refuses to sleep with you divorce her don't force her period.

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  39. Eish is bad news but for a decade?

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  40. This dusty and kind of bull shit. U r his wife u said and having sxx with ur man has become rape? I feel deny him the sex is also a big harassment, u r to served ur husband if really u r married. Ur action push him for sex monger

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    1. He should have divorced her and married someone else instead of forcing her instead of abusing her both physically and sexually. Do not justify domestic violence. Remember karma is a nasty bitch

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  41. Am shocked at some of your comments, are you aware a woman needs to be well lubricated before sex,sleeping with her without her consent means she is not prepared for the act,any attempt hurts her physically and emotionally, stop saying it's her duty what nonsense, she be wood

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    1. You may be right in assertion however bear in mind that her denying her husband sex also amounts to emotional and psychological torture, or do you think that men doesn't have emotions

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  42. This is Bullshit! These laws are just too much; if women have their rights, Men too has the right to SEX from their wives. Just imagine a girl will tell you she's 19, after DOING IT the next thing is police arresting you because you had SEX with an underage girl, and only the Man gets punished. This world is getting more FUCKED UP.
    And now, even your wife will say you raped her. This Brian is even stupid; I'll divorce you right away without hesitation. #STUPID_ASS_LAWS

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  43. You should have discussed this issue with the husband and arrive into the modality of having sex,it is wrong to rape your partner

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  44. Hehehehehe.....ten years of marriage, no, i mean ten years of rape, yhooo!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

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  45. Hehehehehe.....ten years of marriage, no, i mean ten years of rape, yhooo!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

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  46. It's really sad that 1 gets married then refuses to give the right to love the husband sexually. Im against physical abuse but you are painting a wrong picture. 10 years of rape 52 weeks times 10=520 times. So he was not allowed to have sex with you basically as your husband. Our sisters please let's be honest & understand that marriage has its own terms & conditions that we must accept before getting married. The lady hear is selling rape in a bad way, rape is destroying the nation but let's not lie just to get our way against our partners.

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  47. your husband didnot rape u coz you belong to him and you suppose to make him happy

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  48. he should also be raped in the jail daily for ten years

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  49. there's alot more to this story,sadly we'll never get to hear the man's side

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  50. Every week your husband raped you for 10 years! When then did you have a consensual sex? It appears there was never a time. So what are you trying to convince us of? Should your children be regarded as illegitimate since they are products of rape, or are they being fathered by some other man?

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  51. Every week he raped you for 10years! When then was there a consensual sex between the two of you? Should your children be regarded as illegitimate since they are products of rape? Or are they being fathered by some other man or men?

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  52. Enter your comment...any law that claims a husband can rape his wife is evil and unjust. why did she marry him if she doesn't want to have sex with him. this is feminism that's destroying the ethics and morals of the so called developed countries.

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  53. Oh! me I will sideline you and have pleasure outside and we will share the sin as you caused me to do sin outside wedlock

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  54. before pointing finger to a man or woman we have to found the problem where it's start , i only hear man this man thas... why yr husband rape you and how? which finger he use to start with? that woman was the problem to that man first is the father of yr child, the point is you didn't love yr man and you didn't show respect to him i don't believe a husband can rape her wife submit to yr husband

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  55. Shiiiit...How can your husband rape you shithead.

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  56. If he is your husband , he did not rape you because you are one flesh and God knows that.1 Corinthians 7v3-5.There is no such a thing,that is a rubbish woman who just got married just to be called Mrs but she doesn't know what a woman is.

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  57. oya hit me ..... u mean ur husband has been raping u fr 10 years ....😂😂😂.... do u even calculated how many weeks are they in 10 years before saying dis .....father lord dis 1 is ur case 2 judge.

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  58. this is absurd some go around cheating on their husbands with other men while refusing to have it with their husbands claiming to be tired or not in the mood every time when them Shem on women,what if the man decides to start sleeping around because he is not getting it inside the house..

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  59. Anybody can get raped but we choose the company we keep. I read the part were he started being abusive after they started dating, why did she not leave? Its complicated, you can't judge in an armchair but truthfully speaking... She made a choice to stay. The law is on her side. Shes married his abusive, get a protection order have him removed from his own house while forced to pay for it every month even divorce and take half and spousal maintenance. What about the child who grew up witnessing the choice her mother made and probably affecting that child mind forever. I feel for a rape victim preyed upon by these heartless animals. I feel less for one who had all the opportunities and choices to go another path n continuously chose the wrong one and then points a finger. Women choose to use men and then get killed by them. Prostitutes have pimps knowing there is a hazardous working condition. If i walk in the dark i can't blame a criminal for seein an opportunity. Life is not fair we never get what we deserve! All we can control is our choices. What we choose we have to accept its consequences. So why not teach others our children sisters and brothers to make the right choices to not walk around like they deserve something and while life is cruel, to simply try their best to live it well. Im tired of some woman who looked at a nice guy and laughed at him and called him boring then went out to cool guy rich guy angry guy who later kills or rapes her... I really dont care to see your face whether your pretty or ugly

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  60. Actually I have nothing to say but let me assure you that I have read all the comments here and I am happy they were written English. So haven analysed all the points raised, like I said at the beginning of my comment, I have nothing to say.

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  61. Bull Shit....confusion of the highest form.

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  62. I am afraid men are now the endangered species if a woman can at the slightest provocation lie against the husband that she was raped and the man in question is jailed without giving him the benefit of doubt. This is out rageous.

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  63. so its now you just realized

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  64. Rape is a serious case...it doesn't matter whether you're married or not

    That man deserves to be locked for years in jail 💔

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  65. Yet you spent this rapist’s money and cooked for him and for 10years? You are a grown woman do you know how traumatizing rape is? You never forget any moment and I’m sure you forgot some. Why did you mislead him? Maybe he thought you like it rough since you still cooked for him and spent his money. I think the right word is you were a prostitute all your life because it is not fun to have sex with a man you’re emotionally not connect to, that’s why you felt disgusted. You should have left him instead of misleading him. Why didn’t you think for your kids then. It happens sometimes when kids catch parents having sex. As for domestic violence he was wrong and I hate that women bare this and you did for too long why?

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  66. how can your own husband rape... where is that one done, sound like u are a wicked woman... someone you married to dedicate your sexual life to now rape you..

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  67. Enter your comment...let's be straight forward. This nonsense is not done at all in Nigeria. How could u abuse your husband of rape.
    Divorce him if u not reliable with the marriage.
    Never repeat again.

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  68. Women should understand man got needs too but m not saying what the guy did was right but she should give him and cant be tired all the time unless she gets it elsewhere.

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  69. Enter your comment... This can't be "rape". Starving a husband of sex for ten years is "criminal" sexual immorality!
    Get a divorce and free the unfortunate man as you cannot make him suit you by denying him sex.
    RAPE, my foot!!!

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  70. So since then their two Man sleeping on the same bed, solution is to approach the Court of Law to request the full custody of the children in order to get a Wife.

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  71. Very interesting you r all missing the point she said he raped her for 10yrs...she regrets not speaking about it earlier right... Q... If it was as emotional as she claims how many kids do they share was the"kids"also a grey area as result of the so called rape if so she must regret having them very much... Bcoz every look at them will bring back a rape memory poor her i really do feel bad for her part what a big mess...

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  72. Very interesting you r all missing the point she said he raped her for 10yrs...she regrets not speaking about it earlier right... Q... If it was as emotional as she claims how many kids do they share was the"kids"also a grey area as result of the so called rape if so she must regret having them very much... Bcoz every look at them will bring back a rape memory poor her i really do feel bad for her part what a big mess...

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  73. Enter your comment...husband does not rape wife .husband is the owner if the wife's pussy

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  74. Mybe thts only for whites and dnt thnk in blacks there is such a thing how can i rape my wife for 5yrs?

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  75. Thts for whites only i don't think blacks do that how can i i rape my own wife for 5yrs?

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  76. It was best you had advised you Husband to get a second WIFE as you can not handle it alone, even in the kitchen and anytime come on.

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  77. She's not ok, there is a difference between rape and he fucked u very hard like he is performing Fgm on You.

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  78. How do u marry a guy who abuses u within a year of dating in the 1st place? How do u stay for 10 years being raped every week? I agree this story doesn't make any sense but let's also face the facts, some men are just sick. Like those men who think as a wife a woman must give sex all the time. Y'all should be ashamed of yourselves! Men who rape do not have a solid reason to do so. They rape for the thrill. Married men can be serial rapists as well bcoz it gets them off. Don't condone shit! This woman needs serious psychiatric evaluation. No one in their right mind can stay so long enduring rape every week! We talking a grown ass woman here. If not for yourself u could have left for the sake of your kids. You shouldn't have stayed for so long, now u just look like an attention seeker! Rapists shouldn't be killed, they shouldn't be jailed, they should just be castrated. Live with knowing how much u could enjoy sex but u can't bcoz u couldn't keep it in ur pants.

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  79. How do u marry a guy who abuses u within a year of dating in the 1st place? How do u stay for 10 years being raped every week? I agree this story doesn't make any sense but let's also face the facts, some men are just sick. Like those men who think as a wife a woman must give sex all the time. Y'all should be ashamed of yourselves! Men who rape do not have a solid reason to do so. They rape for the thrill. Married men can be serial rapists as well bcoz it gets them off. Don't condone shit! This woman needs serious psychiatric evaluation. No one in their right mind can stay so long enduring rape every week! We talking a grown ass woman here. If not for yourself u could have left for the sake of your kids. You shouldn't have stayed for so long, now u just look like an attention seeker! Rapists shouldn't be killed, they shouldn't be jailed, they should just be castrated. Live with knowing how much u could enjoy sex but u can't bcoz u couldn't keep it in ur pants.

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  80. How do u marry a guy who abuses u within a year of dating in the 1st place? How do u stay for 10 years being raped every week? I agree this story doesn't make any sense but let's also face the facts, some men are just sick. Like those men who think as a wife a woman must give sex all the time. Y'all should be ashamed of yourselves! Men who rape do not have a solid reason to do so. They rape for the thrill. Married men can be serial rapists as well bcoz it gets them off. Don't condone shit! This woman needs serious psychiatric evaluation. No one in their right mind can stay so long enduring rape every week! We talking a grown ass woman here. If not for yourself u could have left for the sake of your kids. You shouldn't have stayed for so long, now u just look like an attention seeker! Rapists shouldn't be killed, they shouldn't be jailed, they should just be castrated. Live with knowing how much u could enjoy sex but u can't bcoz u couldn't keep it in ur pants.

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  81. Wtf, hw can yo husband rape u.. Mxm this doesn't make sense

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  82. Enter your comment...rape in marriage I fear oooh

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  83. Enter your comment..so,if awoman just wakes up and says,"my husband has been raping for 4yrs we should all believe she's telling the truth!"With rape you can't last 3mnths.it is mind torture.how did they find him guilty? because the wife said so?530wks! bullshit

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  84. Enter your comment...if she says no, respect her feelings and work it out together, but when a man forces even his wife, he's not only selfish but an idiot

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  85. There should be laws that protects husbands in marriage. Like when the wife refuses to have sex with her husband he can just send her packing and get himself another wife...

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  86. Quite sad though, so many people with so many things to comment. I just pray for the REASONABLE and RESPONSIBLE men out there that we don't fall victim of things like this, yeah, some men could be stupid but should this kinda thing now be generalized? Because RAPE is trending and u want to break free from your marriage, rather than taking the fall you decide to say he raped you, damn! If truly he physically assaulted her, then he was wrong but RAPE in MARRIAGE???? How possible is that???? It's just sad though. Can't imagine myself having a wife that refuses to have sex with me on a regular basis, would be so killing, definitely I can't force her but she'll only push me to the wall and I'll end up getting that service else where. Ladies please learn to respect men, most of us do respect you but with the fact that 90% of you don't know what you want you tend to make a fuss about almost everything #StopEndangeringMen... I'm Blaq✌

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  87. Is that the way u think

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  88. We all have different comments I see.The state of law says no one has a right to touch you without your permission so whether you are married or not it us still your body.You are not obligated to have sex with your spouse whenever they please.I would like for all of your'll to get that through your heads.May your'll understand her pain,I doubt she'll lie about this hurtful matter.This right here is a fact,not an opinion.If you disagree you have alot of learning to do.Go read a book.

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