Ten years after her separation from 9ice, just slightly after one year of marriage, Toni Payne is again speaking about her union and how indeed, she and singer 9ice were never meant for each other.
She says they grew up and knew they weren’t meant for each other and indeed the singer remains the only man who broke her heart.
“I’ve only had my heart broken only once… nothing to tell really because I got a wonderful and amazing son out of it and I’d get my heart broken a million times just for him. My disappointment was a blessing in disguise,” Payne tweeted.
“Well, no one ever prays to be heartbroken but I believe everything worked out for the best. We were not designed for each other and it took maturing and growth to figure that out. No one that is for you will ever put you through what I went through.
“I’m a lover and an avid communicator. I don’t break hearts, they break themselves.”
“There would be less heartbreak if people are just honest with themselves and each other. That thing you are trying to avoid by lying is what usually hurts most. Deception is a hard pill to swallow, especially if you didn’t expect it. Honesty through it all softens the blow,” she tweeted.
In 2010, 9ice and Payne officially parted ways after being married for a year. The relationship produced a son, named, Zion.