Wednesday, December 30, 2020

Best friends form throuple after 'falling in love' with same woman on holiday

Two men who were best pals have formed a throuple after meeting a woman on holiday, and falling in love with her at the same time.

The threesome say they even want to have children together as they start building a life.

Dino De Souza and Saulo Gomes, 30, both from Brazil, first met Olga, 27, from BĂ©larus, at a bar during a holiday in Barcelona on August 19, last year.

The friends were both captivated by Olga, who was hanging out at the venue with a group of friends, and each wanted to ask her out.

Torn on how to resolve the situation without causing issues with their friendship, both men approached the young woman – and eventually, the trio began going on dates together.

Dino and Saulo both fell head over heels with Olga, but they had never planned to become a throuple.

Dino, 40 said: “Saulo and I arrived in Barcelona and went directly to a bar to see the Champions League game which was showing that night.

“We entered the bar and Olga was there with a group of friends.

“We approached her and we invited her to go and get a drink with us, and that was where our beautiful story began.

“For us, it is not a question of being in a relationship with three people.

“It's a question of chemistry, we happened to be connected. The chemistry was so strong that we are impressed to know what the other is thinking or feeling.

“I would like to be able to describe what we feel, but we do not have adjectives to describe this feeling.”

Having dated for nearly a year and a half, Dino, Saulo and Olga travel, go to restaurants and go on dates just like a typical couple would, but as a trio.

At first, the throuple received shocked reactions from friends and family about their relationship, as their loved ones struggled to understand it.

Despite the initial backlash, the trio did their best to explain their situation calmly and their friends and family are now supportive.

They still get confused looks and negative comments from people in public – but choose to ignore these and focus on their relationship instead.

Dino said: “In the beginning, we received many shocking messages from friends and family trying to understand what was happening.

“We have been calm, explaining to them what we feel for Olga and that we have not changed as people, but instead have grown from this relationship.

“We don't get a lot of comments but we get a lot of confused looks from people.

“When they have an opportunity to get to know us and talk, they completely change the way they were thinking about our relationship.

“They get surprised and change negative opinions that they had before.

“We are very mature and philosophical about life. We always try to stay positive and do not waste our energy with negative things.

“We also don't give a f**k what people think about us!”

Describing their roles in the unusual grouping, Dino said: “I’m the child of the relationship and I bring the positivity.

“Saulo is the serious and organised one, while Olga is the distracted and disorganised person, but brings unconditional and pure love to the relationship.”

The trio, who currently live in Toulouse, France, also plan to have children together in the future.


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