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Tell Us How You Keep Your Marriages For Long – Damilola Adegbite Asks

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Tell Us How You Keep Your Marriages For Long – Damilola Adegbite Asks

 

Nollywood actress, Damilola Adegbite has taken to her page to ask married couples married for long to share their secrets.

The mum of one who is divorced from her ex-husband, Chris Attoh, wrote

”I don’t think we hear enough about happy marriages. Marriages that continue to pass the tests of time. All we hear about are the ones that didn’t work.

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Please if you have been happily married for at least 5 years and you see this message on your time line, please brag to me. Tell us what has kept you and your partner together this far. If you know any happily married couples (emphasis on HAPPILY), please tag them too. Tell us how you and your partner keep the flame burning

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I met a couple who have been married for 9 years and it was as if I should join the union. They couldn’t keep their eyes and hands off each other! It was too sweet to watch! Please share your secrets! ”

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2 COMMENTS

  1. If you don’t see your spouse as your best friend, it will never work. Things you do with your best friend.

    1. Goof around (if you can’t fart Infront of your best friend, you never start)
    2. Fight and make up (For couple, nothing beats make up SEX)
    3. Talking about sex. Keep fucking like y’all are still dating. Old age creeps in, IMPROVISE.
    4. Go out on dates
    5. Put your spouse before ANY & EVERYONE ELSE (Including your mother, father, siblings and even your kids. Your kids will end up leaving y’all eventually). The only person supposed to have your back is your “BEST FRIEND”
    6. Talk about Everything, even your deepest secrets.
    7. Absolutely care about each other. I’m talking health, feelings, emotions. EVERYTHANG (Nothing is (It’s a man job or woman’s job)
    8. Yep there are times y’all are going to have some crazy fights, disagreements and all (But remember even siblings end up getting back together, also best friends. So why not your SPOUSE)
    9. I always say most social media love is fake love. I am not on any social and I always tell people if you wanna catch up with what’s going on with me go get on my wife’s social media. Real Love is what happens behind closed doors.
    10. PLAY PLAY PLAY.
    11. Most IMPORTANT of all. You both must decide on making this work. One person trying to make it work will NEVER work. Remember when I mentioned talking about EVERYTHING. This marriage thing is no joke, it’s some real shit. Deciding to live out the rest of your life with ONE person is a real BIG Deal. THINK IT THROUGH. REMEMBER you are not really doing this for yourself but for your kids. Kids that grow up seeing their parents loving on each other, will end up wanting to emulate their parents by loving some else ONE DAY.
    Hope this ends up helping someone someday. Not like I have the answers to marriage. I’m 7yrs deep and it’s been smooth sailing, rough seas and all, but like I told my wife we both in this ship together. It’s SINK or SWIM. Marriage is a MARATHON, not a SPRINT. I’m still learning and adapting every day.

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